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miss.a.p1600
07-23-2022, 09:01 AM
Anyways. I’m going to bore the shit out of him and make him read and tag along on my errands.
He will wish he’d stayed at his moms or found a friends house.
Really sad this kid has no friends and Berthas dumb ass acting like he can’t go to his family’s house. Bitch where is YOUR Mom, aunt, sister, uncles, whoever?!?
Rant is over I gotta go call my sugar daddy
carmen_b
07-23-2022, 09:46 AM
What ? ! ?
Like ..... she just saw your car and rolled out ? What if a friend had picked you up and you were not even there lol ?
His kid is here now. Bertha dropped him off and sped off.
carmen_b
07-23-2022, 09:47 AM
^ I would call all of Berthas family and say :
" Bertha made a mistake and didn't ask me to take him so I need you to get him ".
^ Embarrass the hell out of her and let everyone she knows she literally dropped him with no plan.
miss.a.p1600
07-23-2022, 12:55 PM
The problem is They let these damn kids run the show.
He admitted his son changed his mind last minute that he didn’t want to go to the friends house anymore. I think it’s wrong to let his son set the schedule and keep flip flopping.
Im not going to keep stressing myself over it.
Im just going to make a note and use it for ammunition to throw in his face once I leave.
Im definitely going to bring it up to therapist but at this point I feel like a broken record and L and Bertha are going to continue to use these kids to be an inconvenience
miss.a.p1600
07-23-2022, 01:00 PM
What ? ! ?
Like ..... she just saw your car and rolled out ? What if a friend had picked you up and you were not even there lol ?
No i don’t want that hag seeing my car. My car was in garage. L must have told her I was there and it was okay to drop him off.
Yes I said that was okay on Friday afternoon BEFORE I knew Bertha/he changed their mind and said he was instead going to his friends house.
I was NOT expecting them to change their minds, skip the friends, and show up at my doorstep and I don’t think we should be responsible for him (or let him hang out unsupervised at our house) when it’s not L’s parenting time.
miss.a.p1600
07-23-2022, 05:50 PM
^im irritated af.
Now his damn relatives have popped up unannounced and his son ran up the stairs to tell me (while I was in the process of taking my clothes off and half naked and didn’t have time to put my clothes on)
God I hope this detox drink works, I get this new job and upgrade/bankroll my way up out this bitch.
kimbe
07-24-2022, 12:49 AM
T took me out for dinner last night and used the opportunity to launch the idea of me taking his daughter on a weekend holiday... He's pretty much busy with work for a while now and she hasn't had any real vacation this summer.
Since I so abruptly turned his suggestion down when he asked if she could go with us to Miami, I have a feeling T probably have this in mind.. I guess I shouldn't be so negative this time.
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 07:02 AM
^ A weekend would probably just fine and easy.
Is she pretty self guided during the day ?
Like .... could you just zone out at a spa for a few hours and she can do her own things in that time ?
How do you feel about it though ? Do you feel like that longer duration is just too much together time ?
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 07:06 AM
I'm feeling a touch of summer guilt myself.
J's daughters Mom took her to California for 3-4 days in late June which I was really impressed with ( traditionally she doesn't do much at all with her other than putter around our town ) . Then WE didn't do anything overnight really other than a couple nights in Vegas crashing with J's sister. This season WE were ones who didn't put together much as a larger scale.
So .... I'm trying to think of something.
Also ...... omg .... so fucking relieved it's the last two weeks-ish of summer .
School school school. We love school !!
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 07:10 AM
T took me out for dinner last night and used the opportunity to launch the idea of me taking his daughter on a weekend holiday... He's pretty much busy with work for a while now and she hasn't had any real vacation this summer.
Since I so abruptly turned his suggestion down when he asked if she could go with us to Miami, I have a feeling T probably have this in mind.. I guess I shouldn't be so negative this time.
how old is the daughter?
is T going too or just you and the daughter?
Teens are a bit easier to manage vs. little kids
smeca
07-24-2022, 08:47 AM
Bf is bringing daughter over tonight for a week. He says he will try to teach her to cook. I'm working as usual, so here's hoping i won't have to make dinner all week!
kimbe
07-24-2022, 08:57 AM
how old is the daughter?
is T going too or just you and the daughter?
Teens are a bit easier to manage vs. little kids
No no, the point is that he doesn't have time to go with her, so he wants me to do it.
She turned 17 in March, and I would say she's pretty grown up considering her age.
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 11:25 AM
One teen kid shouldn’t be that bad.
That’s cool your more receptive to the idea this time around.
But if you, for whatever reasons have reservations about it, then he shouldn’t hold it against you because that’s not yours or his daughter’s fault he’s working and not taking off.
He probably wants it as a girls bonding trip.
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 11:36 AM
Y’all I’m about ready to kick L’s ass and his whole family.
His ex wife randomly showed up and dropped her son off on the doorstep then sped off, his other family popped up and was like “oh we’re around the corner and we’re coming over, and today his daughter is like “I want to come over” (only his son is here because supposedly his daughter was having an all girls party - but turns out her male cousins were there too), and this fool was going to rush over and go pick her up.
I said NO!
I’ve had it with the “my kids are coming over in 10 minutes” “my family is around the corner open the door” “my son is on the front porch now open the door”
I can’t tell you how much I am sick of ALL of them.
At this point I need a week in advance notice so I asked him “what is your parenting schedule next weekend? He says Bertha is going on vacation and wants us (aka ME) to host her kids despite the fact he’s going to be at work.
Um NO BITCH! You take a leisure vacation when L is working then send your kids to your moms, aunts, sister, etc or whoever. Or here’s an idea you simple bitch - take your kids with you on vacation.
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 11:37 AM
^im sick and tired of this asshole disturbing My peace of mind because his ass has NO boundaries with his ex wife or his kids.
Here’s how you do it MF …… say this one word - “NO!”
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 12:21 PM
^ Yup. no no no
If he presses take your own spontaneous vacation ha.
I really can't believe he is doing this non-sense. Both the kid drop and roll lol and the guests with no notice ....... in such poor taste ugh !
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 12:23 PM
I'm glad J doesn't do the short notice guests thing either. His sister showed up short notice right as we were leaving for the canoe thing.
He was giving her looks of death and must have said a FEW times " I really wish you would have said you were coming " .
She was standing there so I invited her to go with us !
He was so harsh I almost had to come to her rescue .
Like ..... she get its ...... relax and don't start a war lol .
kimbe
07-24-2022, 01:14 PM
^ A weekend would probably just fine and easy.
Is she pretty self guided during the day ?
Like .... could you just zone out at a spa for a few hours and she can do her own things in that time ?
How do you feel about it though ? Do you feel like that longer duration is just too much together time ?
Yeah, I guess we're talking 3-4 nights, more likely 4 than 3. I haven't spent that much time with her on my own, but I think it should be OK. She likes exercising as well, and if we end up somewhere with a good gym and a beach and/or a nice pool we'll be fine I guess.
I also think T feels guilty since he doesn't have time to go himself, and that he probably will dig deep in his pockets go give her (us) a good time ;)
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 01:43 PM
I'm glad J doesn't do the short notice guests thing either. His sister showed up short notice right as we were leaving for the canoe thing.
He was giving her looks of death and must have said a FEW times " I really wish you would have said you were coming " .
It was so harsh I almost had to come to her rescue . Like ..... she get its ...... relax now and don't start a war lol .
Girl I had several conversations with him already. I did like you do when and have MULTIPLE conversations so they get the point. Plus I flat out said “if ANYONE does any pop ups in the future, it’s not going to be good”
His dumb ass is probably going to keep pressing my boundaries so I’m going to keep pressing back/asserting my boundaries while simply lining up my exit.
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 01:47 PM
^ Yup. no no no
If he presses take your own spontaneous vacation ha.
I really can't believe he is doing this non-sense. Both the kid drop and roll lol and the guests with no notice ....... in such poor taste ugh !
Good idea. I will up and leave his ass AND his kids on my own spontaneous vacay.
I just don’t want them thinking these kids can enjoy this house with no parents for hours on end. They don’t pay any bills and don’t deserve that privilege.
i also want Bertha to get the picture that when it’s not L’s parenting time SHE is responsible for finding childcare arrangements.
But if he doesn’t listen …. I WILL up n leave.
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 01:54 PM
I was reading " guilt " when you posted it . haha
Like .... he knows he should have already taken a weekend away but now summer is on its last legs so he's scrambling.
Yeah, I guess we're talking 3-4 nights, more likely 4 than 3. I haven't spent that much time with her on my own, but I think it should be OK. She likes exercising as well, and if we end up somewhere with a good gym and a beach and/or a nice pool we'll be fine I guess.
I also think T feels guilty since he doesn't have time to go himself, and that he probably will dig deep in his pockets go give her (us) a good time ;)
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 01:56 PM
I need to start working with a therapist again .
I had such a GREAT day yesterday omg .
Now I have found myself feeling salty today .
J and I didn't do anything out of house together this week ( other than my little gig we both went on and the lunch after ).
We did do dinner last night which is nice. I guess I am just craving more active things for us out of the house and should probably mention to him it's something I'm expecting soon. I'm a little irritated we have only left the house to eat ( more like two weeks but how far can you dig back in complaining you know ).
I'm starting to get *some* schedule anxiety again.
He is going on this solo trip Aug. 4-8 which admittedly didn't feel " real " until now.
It is to go see this band and involved a LONG cross country plane ride.
I wasn't entirely sure he would do it. I kind of brushed it off thinking about it.
It's basically 10 hours of travel each way for 3 days of this band ( takes 5 days total ).
So now I have myself a little worked up over the schedule which is :
last night of 4 nights with just us is tonight
Then July 25-27 his daughter will be here
July 28-29 is just us .
July 30-Aug.3 ( all 5 nights ) his daughter will be here.
Then he travels Aug. 4,5,6,7,8 ( return )
^ I would probably just throw down some $ and travel too but I have client on the 6th of Aug.
I could potentially hire out " my part " of the job ....... but I am not even that drawn to the destination.
To break it down to numbers I'm not drawn enough for that much flying time , a $400 payout to replace myself on a job , and a $400-$450 plane ticket. :/
I struggle on the longer visits. I think I'll go to my cabin up north July 30 morning - Aug. 2 evening to shorten that time frame a little. I need to begin mentally preparing myself for getting very little time together.
I guess a good way to look at it is " I will get 6 nights with my partner July 24-29 and his daughter will be around for 3 of them ".
Then I'll try to put a positive spin on the July 30 - Aug. 7 range when it gets closer.
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 02:05 PM
^ I think what it is ( in part ) that I just feel somewhat trapped after tomorrow not wanting to lost those meager two " just us " days on the 28th and 29th. Then I'll try to at least get *some* time with him Aug. 3 before he goes .
I just wonder if I should even worry about those little batches of time or just kind of roll around in higher elevations until I come back for just my client on August 6.
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 02:21 PM
I need to start working with a therapist again .
I had such a GREAT day yesterday omg .
Now I have found myself feeling salty today that J and I didn't do anything out of house together ( other than my little gig we both went on and the lunch after ).
We did do dinner last night which is nice. I guess I am just craving more active things for us out of the house and should probably mention to him it's something I'm expecting soon. I'm a little irritated we have only left the house to eat and not do anything else in the last week ( more like two weeks but how far can you dig back in complaining you know ).
I'm starting to get *some* schedule anxiety again.
He is going on this solo trip Aug. 4-8 which admittedly didn't feel " real " until now.
It is to go see this band and involved a LONG cross country plane ride.
I wasn't entirely sure he would do it so I kind of brushed it off thinking about it.
It's basically 10 hours of travel each way for 3 days of this band ( takes 5 days total ).
So now I have myself a little worked up over the schedule which is :
last night of 4 nights with just us is tonight
Then July 25-27 his daughter will be here
July 28-29 is just us .
July 30-Aug.3 ( all 5 nights ) his daughter will be here.
Then he travels Aug. 4,5,6,7,8 ( return )
^ I would probably just throw down some $ and travel too but I have client on the 6th of Aug.
I could potentially hire out " my part " of the job ....... but I am not even that drawn to the destination.
To break it down to numbers I'm not drawn enough for that much flying time , a $400 payout to replace myself on a job , and a $400-$450 plane ticket. :/
I just notice that I really seem to struggle on the longer visits so I think I'll go to my cabin up north July 30 morning - Aug. 2 evening to shorten that time frame a little.
Cabin seems like the easiest solution.
Maybe he will squeeze in some couples only time during the long stretches.
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 02:41 PM
^ Yeah, I don't think it is worth mentioning creating "couples time" window for a three day visit .
Well ..... to rephrase ...... my heavy disagreement of not having a 4-5 hour activity already booked for her M - F is still there *but* I'm not going to make a fight of it. Making a fight of it when that whole issue will be solved ( school SCHOOL school yes yes yes CAN NOT WAIT ) in two weeks would be stupid. If that stuff was booked like it should have been this whole time ...... the windows would automatically be there. That is the more accurate answer. :)
The 5 day one I'll just suggest to create a window for us ( I'm sure he will think of this himself ) on Aug. 3 since we won't see each other for 5 days after ( duh ). 5 days is a very long visit so I will lean towards doing my own little trip.
miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 03:31 PM
^well you already know my stance. I’m pro-summer camps for kids.
Im DEFINITELY going to say something IF I am still with L next summer.
Im not going to be stressed out again with last minute “oh my kids need to come over today (aka a weekday L isn’t off work) because my ex-wife is going out of town/needs a break/haven’t seen the kids in a week/etc.
This for me is something I will expect.
But yeah don’t press if you don’t think the result will be good.
carmen_b
07-24-2022, 03:56 PM
^ Same.
I plan to “ gift “ her with summer signs ups in March ! :)
Go once or three times a week I don’t care but let’s at least have an option reserved for next time.
It really throws the schedule when he travels solo because it's so kid heavy before AND after the trip.
The being away part is easy ( I'm pretty independent ).
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 04:36 AM
Im about to rage at L
He said he asked his ex wife if she can send her kids to her sisters house for a day while she’s on vacation next weekend.
He claims she said she will check on it. Then he was like “well my son said he wants to stay at this house with you. He doesn’t want to go over his aunts house with all those damn kids”
Um no shit! Of course he did because he will have a large house to himself to play video games all day. And why tf is he involved in this decision?!?!? I’m not letting those kids guilt trip me or agreeing to take kids I don’t have time for.
Im tired of these people springing these kids up over here without my consent.
I swear to god if those kids don’t go to their aunts house and end up over here.
Im leaving on my own vacation …… and never coming back.
He can take care of those kids himself and stop agreeing to host them when he’s at work, stop using this house as a holding cell and stop trying to use me as a free nanny.
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 06:06 AM
Yesterday L started showing videos and pictures of his kids.
I guess to try to guilt trip me into taking care of them while he’s at work and while his ex wife is on vacation.
Look asshole! I have no feelings except rage for people who constantly use manipulative tactics to force their agenda. I don’t have any feelings except mainly annoyance for kids that aren’t mine, don’t abide by my rules, and are manipulative af like their parents.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 06:26 AM
^ Sorry to hear these updates.
I think he is being super nasty.
You seem to give them a couple days a week ( the amount he said he had told you you initially after his ex moved back) so I wouldn't do more either.
All L has to say is " Miss P is working a lot and you can't go there so lets think of something else ".
In his mind he is probably like " well my son keeps to himself " but it still creates noise and impact having someone else in the house.
kimbe
07-25-2022, 08:26 AM
^^Sorry you have to experience all this shit from him >:(
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 09:10 AM
Thanks for the emotional support! I need it.
To add insult to injury - he is paying the ex wife child support because she allegedly has “more custody”.
Um HELLO! If they’re pressing to come over here 3-4 days a week then you have half custody dumbass so wtf are you paying her for?
I feel like just leaving on my own spontaneous trip regardless. I’m beyond livid and y’all are right L is being forceful, manipulative, and annoying to the point I don’t want to even be in this house or deal with him n his endless baggage anymore.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 09:26 AM
^ I would probably just outright say ( if he sees you packing up ) " I'm prepping in case the house isn't quiet so I can leave a few days ".
He is just asking too much. Maybe if it's a school day and his kid is only there 3-5 p.m. during your work hours it would be different.
I could see that ask being a little easier to deal with.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 09:31 AM
I definitely need to make a therapy appointment .
I need to talk to someone about how " low quality " life feels during the visits and just see what is normal or if a trained professional has any ideas.
I have found myself just dreading the visit this time ( he goes to get her in 30 minutes for 3 days ). I usually do pretty well with the three day visits so I'll try to keep a good attitude. I also have the AirBnB open but I feel weird going there since I'm traveling in like 5 days already.
This summer has really brought the bad vibes out I would say. Last summer was so well organized compared to this one ( she typically had two three hour each activities any M- F day we had ). I drove at least 20-45 min. a day to make that stuff happen . I'd highly prefer that driving time again to what has gone on this year.
We are down to about 4 business hour days where she is lingering in the house ( today through Wed. and a day next week ) . I know logically I don't want to throw the relationship in the toilet over " what he should have done this summer " but I need to talk these thoughts out with a professional. It's sometimes hard to see " the good stuff " ( a successful partner I have a ton in common with ) when there is this big thing bothering me.
I don't *think* I'd dread this visit for example if J was picking her up at 3:15 after school v.s. bringing her here at 11a.m.!
It's hard to tell if school is going to solve this or not .
At times I find myself just questioning the lifestyle compromise *even though* my partner is amazing.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 09:41 AM
^ Made the appointment ! No more procrastination !
NEW therapist attempt ( not the one who started at me in silence omg ).
15 minute intro today and then appointment tomorrow !!
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 09:59 AM
Another solution ( admittedly ) is me working outside the house.
I probably need to look at that more.
It's funny. About a year ago ( before I put renters in my townhome up North again ) my dad had suggested that I sell that one and buy down here ( something more upgraded ) and put a couple roommates in. Now I kind of wish I had.
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 10:46 AM
^ I would probably just outright say ( if he sees you packing up ) " I'm prepping in case the house isn't quiet so I can leave a few days ".
He is just asking too much. Maybe if it's a school day and his kid is only there 3-5 p.m. during your work hours it would be different.
I could see that ask being a little easier to deal with.
It’s the weekend. I guess hes assuming I’m off and available.
Doesn’t matter whether or not I’m off. What matters is HE is not off and I don’t want the extra responsibility of more than 1-2 days.
His son, his ex wife, and him are CONSTANTLY (I mean every weekend, every holiday) pushing for more and more. Usually last minute (ex oh my son wants to stay an extra day I told him yes). And I’m sick of their shit.
This is not what I signed up for and it’s way beyond my pay grade
My therapist appointment is today so I’ll see if she has any helpful suggestions also.
Thanks for listening to me ranting.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 10:57 AM
^ yes just because you are not working doesn’t mean free nanny .
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 11:39 AM
^ I also tend to “ not do “ more than two days a week.
J has 3-4 days a week but it doesn’t mean that *I* do.
I think the mistake I made is that we didn’t really say “ this is our plan “ regarding me at roughly two days a week. I kind of would just schedule my own outings to average out to that. We should probably talk more directly.
Today for example I’ll join them 4-5:15 for dinner but might not see them much beyond that.
I think “ I’m out doing my hobbies “ just sounds nicer .
How else do you really say things that isn’t offensive ?
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 12:27 PM
^thats the thing for me Carmen is that I feel like I’m walking on eggshells asserting my boundaries because this mf interprets what I say to be offensive to him.
Maybe I am offensive but hell, mf constantly being pushy/manipulative/controlling then i really have no filter or patience. I also can’t help this asshole is so fucking sensitive with any suggestions regarding those kids that his feelings are so easily hurt. MAN tf up!!!
Him thinking those kids are innocent angels who are productive contributors of society is like having delusions of grandeur for his kids. They’re lazy, loud, needy, messy, and annoying especially if I see them here outside of his parenting time.
I honestly feel like as long as it sounds like suggestions made are beneficial to the kids (even if it’s something beneficial to you) then they can’t be offended and if they are offended then that shows something about THEM not you.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 12:57 PM
^ I could be biased but I feel like he should just stick to his two days.
I would love it if J had two days instead of 3-4 a week.
If he wants an additional few hours then take them somewhere after his work day.
It just seems like he constantly tries to push.
It seems like he works 5 days a week. Seems easiest to just take them in the days off.
J basically admitted it was stupid the other week and I was right about it ( lack of activity sign ups ).
The admission cracked my anger at least. He admitted he had back slid getting appointments and things done.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 12:58 PM
I think J knows I’m short on patience .
He set a dinner time and place and invited me .
Great. That sounds nice!
The 15 min therapy intro went well. :)
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 01:31 PM
^ I could be biased but I feel like he should just stick to his two days.
I would love it if J had two days instead of 3-4 a week.
If he wants an additional few hours then take them somewhere after his work day.
It just seems like he constantly tries to push.
It seems like he works 5 days a week. Seems easiest to just take them in the days off.
J basically admitted it was stupid the other week and I was right about it ( lack of activity sign ups ).
The admission cracked my anger at least. He admitted he had back slid getting appointments and things done.
Agreed.
And I’d probably be less triggered if L had one kid instead of two.
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 01:33 PM
I think J knows I’m short on patience .
He set a dinner time and place and invited me .
Great. That sounds nice!
The 15 min therapy intro went well. :)
Awesome he’s redeeming himself.
I’ve yet to see L do anything except bombard his kids onto my schedule and into my space at every chance he gets and this will be the breaking point if I don’t see a turn around or a compromise. He can kiss my ass if he keeps going on this forceful path.
carmen_b
07-25-2022, 01:40 PM
^ Well I did tell him straight up I was disappointed last night the he didn't initiate anything with the three of us out of the house ( the last one was the canoe my idea ). He quickly fixed it that is good.
Maybe your therapist will have ideas but I don't think it's unreasonable to tell L that YOU personally can't do more than two days a week ( and THOSE need to be very well planned ). Like ..... if HE is changing the agreement you had months ago ...... then this naturally leads you to evaluate if you want to stay or leave ( he didn't keep the agreement on his end ). I knew J had 3-4 days a week two years ago so while I'm not getting any surprises ........ it's not easy without the school schedule providing natural " out of the house for you " vibes.
I do see what you are saying with just one kid too.
It IS quieter for sure.
That is part of why I don't stay here during any play dates.
miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 07:11 PM
The dude taking video calls (on speaker phone) from his loud ass kids after 9pm while we’re in bed.
Nah bruh.
I turned the lights off made him go in another room.
These people have no class and no boundaries
chanzep
07-25-2022, 10:07 PM
He's taking liberties . I think his dream is for you to have his kids full-time being childcare. I think he's selfish. Don't let him guilt trip you. Put your foot down. If they try and drop the kids off again tell him he has to leave work and look after them. You don't owe him and his ex any days of chikdcare. Your not a lady of leisure so why should you be a housewife plus work and pay for stuff it's not fair. Hopefully you can move out soon with this new job even if you don't stay there forever. You should not have to escape your own home you should have peace. You can't flourish as a person when you don't have peace at home. This guy ain't changing he's getting worse expecting more and more from you. I hope you are able to find peace soon.
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2022, 04:32 AM
Thanks chanzep
Im sitting here searching for airbnbs questioning why *I* have to shoulder the expense for this mf who scared of his ex wife who is using these kids to encroach my boundaries
Im so sick of their shit and so desperate to leave if I need to prove my point and he doesn’t back down.
Technically his older kid *can* stay home alone all day but I just don’t want that. I don’t want to be the “go-to” for Bertha when she has a childcare “crisis” on HER parenting days. His kids are annoying (they’re loud, they’re in my space, and they don’t do chores and I don’t want them over when he’s not there period!) Bitch if he is at work! Hoe Ask your damn family.
Seeing this side of him is turning me all the way off and making me resent tf out of him.
We’re supposed to have couples therapy today. I’d be surprised if comes to his senses.
But I’m preparing to walk because my peace of mind is diminishing and I’m not putting up with their shit because this drama is way beyond my pay grade
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2022, 07:44 AM
He’s slick as shit.
Doesn’t want his kids to go to Berthas family bc they have hella kids and live in the hood. Bitch you knew what kind of hood rat family that bitch came from yet you chose to marry and procreate with ghetto mess. Those kids are used to that.
You and that hoe are going to pay for the luxury if those kids land over here.
Im charging this bitch child support if she does not send her kids to her family or Im going to press tf out of him to take off work. And I will rage if L gets in my way.
Already had 3 conversations with him. He will get unlimited conversations until he sets boundaries with Bertha
carmen_b
07-26-2022, 08:19 AM
^ If he does it just leave for a few days and tell him you'll come back IF he sticks to his two organized days per week .
If he chooses to go back on what he TOLD you was happening then you have the option to end the partnership.