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Madcap
11-10-2004, 09:27 PM
This is a board for us strippers, and i have a question for the customers. I have an important question that i would like to read with any answers you would like to share.
Upon entering a club what catches your eye about a certain dancer?
I mean the very first glance/look/stare...what is it that attracts you to a particular woman? Even before she opens her mouth to speak to you. That "FIRST" impression. And what will make you go back to her again? Thanks guys? Pamela
Honestly, attractiveness. That's the hook. Purely physical. What would keep me going back, though i avoid this, is the coolness factor. How well i click with the girl.

I avoid Dancers i really click with like the plague though. Might visit them once a month, if that. Not looking to be anyone's regular. I'll admit it, i would end up as SUCH a PL. Teddy bear brigade type. I don't need that.

Two ships passing in the night and all... We'll always have Paris...

GnBeret
11-11-2004, 07:02 AM
Whether or not she projects "friendly," for lack of a better word. Don't know how to describe it exactly, but it goes beyond just smiling. If she's in a good mood, smiling, and just, well.... seems to be a happy person, somehow it shows up in her eyes, her body language, everything about her - and it makes me feel like she's at least going to friendly to me if I approach her, and more likely than not the kind of person I'd prefer to be around, i.e., pleasant.

FONDL
11-19-2004, 11:01 AM
For me it's always the smile and appearing to be real rather than phoney. An example: the first time I met my current favorite I was getting up from the bar and about to leave the club when this stunning girl with a super polished routine comes out on the stage. No smile. I immediately think, oh-oh, major attitude problem. But she was such a great dancer and so good looking that I sat back down to watch a little. Then I get up again to leave but have to walk by the stage so on my way I give her a tip. And she gives me a small nervous smile and says "Thank you. I'm so nervous, this is my first day." At that point I'm hooked, I ask her to join me, turns out she's a major sweety college student, and I've been seeing her regularly ever since.

Another example: the first time I met my ATF I walked up to the stage to give her a tip, she stopped dancing, kneeled down in front of me, gave me a smile that lit up the room, put out her hand and said "Hi, my name is (her real name), what's yours?" Eight years later she's my closest friend. Be real, be cute, be friendly, smile and I'm yours.

Pamela
11-19-2004, 01:48 PM
Thanks all,
nothing better than hearing all this info. from customers and dancers who see it all from inside the club. AND...Seeing things we as dancers don't notice we may be doing wrong.

Pamela :)

northy
11-19-2004, 10:26 PM
Well this is how it works for me.....

As i reach the entrance, does the bouncer/door man say" good afternoon/evening sir" and the same with the girl at the cashier desk. I then look at the bar as you usually have to go past this to get to the dance area. I look to see if the bar staff look happy. If i get 2 out of 3 of these i will continue into the club.

As i going to find a seat and if i pass any dancers i will have a look to see if they look happy or not and as i pass will say good afternoon/evening to them.

if i get a hello back i will stay otherwise i will leave the club.

After all of thatwhen a girl approaches me its the smile, the look in her eyes and the way she carries herself.

geez..... i hope this doesnt make me sound like to much of a tosser.