View Full Version : at what age was your 1st orgasm????
quaid
04-10-2005, 07:12 PM
18with my boyfriend and bymyself shortly thereafter
candy_parfeum_gurl
04-11-2005, 07:07 AM
OMG- seriously? Mine was when I was like with one of my old girls best friends when I was in the 4th/5th grade! I feel like such a little "skank"... LoL =)
Gynger
04-11-2005, 02:36 PM
Old thread and I didn't respond either!
I've been a sex kitten since age 8!!! I remember wanting to be spanked if that isn't a shocker or what??? So, I would find things to play with- carrots LOL... had my first O when I was almost 9.. I was around 15 when I lost my virginity and my boyfriend was 18- he hit a spot that made me squirt.. and he said, "there is something way wrong with you" (he didn't know that it was ok, and neither did I) so I go to the doctor and tell my doctor what happened and he's sitting there with this stupid look on his face and gives me a birth control prescription.
I get headaches from cumming too much.. I have never had a problem, and it is not uncommon for me to have several until I squirt everywhere.. once I squirt, my mouth is dry, my kitty is dry and I can't go on anymore... I"m done.
I love sex!!!
Strawberry Fields
04-11-2005, 05:14 PM
I've been 'touching myself' since I was 4 or so. But my first orgasm with someone else? 16. My bf at the time had good hands.
tootsie
04-11-2005, 06:52 PM
19, it was during a threesome.
ivy44
04-26-2005, 04:42 PM
I was about 4yrs old.. I figured myself out pretty early... Mmmm
jennee
04-27-2005, 08:03 PM
Great thread! Leigh Landon told my story word for word... I was too young to remember it... my parents say that couldn't even walk yet but was going at it full force. I can't remember a time a couldn't orgasm.
But I could only orgasm one way forever... I had to be on my stomach... sort of humping a blanket or my hands or whatever. I didn't learn to come on my back until recently. Anyone else have a similar experience? It's still much much easier for me to come that old way on my stomach.
Um... Tootsie, could you please tell us that threesome story... in detail... nice and slow? ;)
fancygirl
04-27-2005, 11:50 PM
: ( Man, I'm so jealous that ya'all are finding it so easy -sniff!-
azamber
04-28-2005, 12:33 AM
Jennee, wow, I did it on my stomach too, still prefer it that way. I thought I was a total weirdo. And like you, I don't recall ever not doing it.
LittleLina
04-28-2005, 09:38 AM
Manually: 22
Straight up Sex: 22 (a little bit after the first)
Orally: Never :(
hyzenthflay
04-28-2005, 11:29 AM
I believe I was around 14 years old...about the same time I started my period. I've always been able to have orgasms from certain sexual positions, but never from oral:-\ I had my first multiple with my amazing new man. ;D
I also have trouble "getting off" if I don't dream up some sort of mental stimulation.......except when I'm drunk (rare), lol!
Wannabeastripper
04-28-2005, 06:03 PM
Mmm.......23. And I know what it was - I just hadn't been with the right guy until then. 1st it was by oral stimulation, and then later on penetration. Had incredible sex almost 3 wks ago with a really good friend of mine and he caused me to orgasm that time too. So that's 2 men I've been able to come with - Mmmm. He caused my chest and shoulders to burn on the inside too. Totally erotic encounter with him - man oh man. Never knew the shower could be a place of fun, let alone very sensual. :)
jennee
04-28-2005, 09:11 PM
azamber -- yeah, i was finally able to do it on my back by pressing really freakin' hard with both hands... gradually i got used to it and was able to let up. but that made sense because i'd have my whole body weight on my hands on my stomach.
cinammonkisses
04-29-2005, 03:14 AM
17 and it was one day after I got my horizontal hood pierced! It was shi...Universe SHATTERING!!!! LOL
ivy44
04-29-2005, 11:00 AM
Myself: as long as I can remember....}:D oral:15yrs
sex:16yrs
DarlingDiva
05-06-2005, 08:42 AM
I feel kinda weird because I was so young...I was 9 when I first brought myself to orgasm...19 when my partner did it for me. It was like 3 months ago...I feel like a virgin . lol
FemtasticEssence
05-07-2005, 04:48 PM
The first time I had sex w/ a girl...17
x_Lacey_x
05-10-2005, 05:11 AM
i had mine not all the long ago.
with my bf now.
but iv noticed i only get one when im on top
misstressdj
05-10-2005, 06:43 PM
I had my first O when I was 22 yrs old, lol I was a late bloomer. I never really masterbated before I had sex and the fist time I had sex was when I was 20. I finally had my first orgasim when I was 22 and it was with a guy how liked using toys on girls and watching them squrm I came so hard that I squirted and got the nick name oceans of fun. God I miss him I wish he wouldn't have moved away, and I havent had a orgasim with another guy, but I can give myself one hell of an orgasim. maybe that was tmi
XoStellaOx
05-24-2005, 12:56 PM
First orgasm I had I was either 9 or 10 rubbing on my pillow........with a guy I was 15..from penetration....18
242_fair
05-24-2005, 01:46 PM
I had my first real O at 18. I only have been able to cum thru penetration a couple times EVER :-(
SthnrnGrl77
05-24-2005, 04:47 PM
probably 14-15 with the water jets i didn't know wth happened but i sure liked it.
Meadow
06-06-2005, 11:23 AM
I was 11 and I also had no idea what was happening!!!
:cloud9: :cupid: :flirt: :female: :faint: :heartbeat :lovestruc :thumbsup:
Jasmyn
06-16-2005, 12:44 PM
Discovered the joys of self love quite accidentally around 4 or 5 years old.
So here I was, going to be a "BIG GIRL" and take a bath by myself. I washed myself and then remembered that you were supposed to wash your private parts real good. So innocent me decided that I would get real clean if I positioned myself under the faucet. OMG was hooked from day one!
I got my first from a partner with oral sex at about 17 and from actual intercourse at 19. My experiance was almost exactly the same! I think I was 6 or 7 though. And while in the bath, I discoverd the "magical faucet" lol. I did it ALL the time after that. My grandmother walked in on me on time at her house....I told her I was washing it. lol I didn't have one with a partner untill I was 17 and it was with another woman. Since then, my husband has been the only other person who can make me cum, and that's only through oral. I can't seem to manage one through intercourse. Any tips???
polekatt66
06-18-2005, 01:41 PM
by myself...thirteen...from oral sex..16 0r 17...thru intercourse 22..
DSUsb19
06-21-2005, 09:08 PM
Lol, never so far. Tried every which way I can think of. With aides and without. Just cant do it. :-[
TheSexKitten
02-20-2007, 10:46 AM
I was 9. I heard about masturbation from SOMEWHERE (forget), and decided to try it. It was really weird the way I tried at first, but I was hooked. My record was 40 seconds from start to finish with just my hands and my clit.
lexXe
02-20-2007, 10:53 AM
My 1st orgasm was at 18. My first g-spot orgasm was at 20.
aries1
02-20-2007, 03:06 PM
I was about 4. I know that's really young but when I was young my dad used to give me my baths at night and he always used really strong soap like dial or something and he washed me really hard down there so when I went to pee it would burn and i told my mom she started checking me out and she would put vaseline on me down there and it would feel better. So i figured i would start rubbing vaseline on myself everyday so i wouldn't burn down there. Well that was the start of me touching myself i found out it felt really good and I would get this big feeling if I kept doing it. So I did it all day and night and that's really how I became interested in girls. But that's another thread.
TracyCharm
02-20-2007, 05:21 PM
I remember rubbing against stuff as a young child (maybe 6 or so?) and finding out that it felt really good. I was humping everything, (chair and sofa arms, pillows, toys), in sight. I started to masturbate for real when I was 10. I had my first sex orgasm when I was 15. I have to say that my masturbatory orgasms are still better than sex though.}:D Love those toys!
Vyanka
02-20-2007, 05:27 PM
At 22. But I lost my virginity at 21 & I never came with my first exbf. It happened with my 2nd exbf.
Okay, without a guy as in materbating... hhhmm.. I think 12 or 13. I remember rubbing a balled up pair of socks down my crotch and loving it. LOL.
PhillyDancer1982
02-20-2007, 05:31 PM
I didn't orgasm until I started having sex(at age 17). I've never been the type to be able to get myself off or get off from oral. There's only been a rare few times that I've gotten off from oral...for the most part, I kinda think it is annoying and a waste of time that I could be getting banged. I don't think I came during my first time(it was so painful!), but I did during my second time and for the vast majority of times after that. (I'm not difficult to please lol)
21stcenturyfox
02-20-2007, 06:22 PM
i hav absolutely no idea! i started having sex at 16 but i only started masturbating in my early 20s!!!
my best friend she started kitty tickling at age 7!!! but then she does it like twice a day now in her 20s lol even with a boyfriend!
just goes to show we are all made different! :)
Nautilus
02-20-2007, 07:08 PM
the orgasm in my sleep thing must have started around 8, though i had no idea what the hell it was. didn't tell.
orgasm with partner = 17 yo
with myself repeatedly = 24 yo
i was brought up catholic though, so it doesn't surprise me i didn't lay a finger on myself till much older. sheesh!
LilSweetVixen
02-20-2007, 07:09 PM
I started masturbating at 10, and loved it but never came. I didn't even know women could come from anything other than intercourse. My exboyfriend told me I could by masturbating so I tried it and had my first orgasm at 19.
BalletBaby
02-20-2007, 11:33 PM
Mine was at 18. I had never done any kind of sexual activity until that age. My bf was fingering me, I squirted, was just like "huh?", and then I passed out.
chicak8
02-20-2007, 11:35 PM
I was 12. I had a dream that a man was rubbing an egg between my legs and I had an orgasm. I figured out how to make it happen again real fast.
TheSexKitten
02-21-2007, 09:27 AM
I had a dream that a man was rubbing an egg between my legs.
LOL! :D
sxybrat07
02-22-2007, 03:10 PM
Heh, mine was really really young, like 4 maybe. I used to squeeze my legs together real tight when I had to pee, and one day it felt REALLY good. It took me, oh, years to figure out that's what I'd been doing, but I'd lay on the couch clutching my legs together over and over again! :D
With a guy, it was when I was 14 or 15 I think. Woohoo!
ExtacyInDaytona
02-23-2007, 09:34 PM
I thought i was weird for masterbating really young! but apparently not! Gotta love stripper web! i rember humpin on my teddy bears as young as like 4 and my mother telling me before i went to bed STAY OFF YOUR BEARS! dear lord i guess people are born freeky or perhaps this is from being sexually abused although the first memory i have of being repeatedly molested was at 5 years old but thats a whole nother story! lets not go there tonight
any how i remember masterbating and havign orgasms very very young as young as 4 well at least the masterbating part i think i was to young to remember my first orgasm! CRAZY SHIT if you ask me
Andygirl
02-25-2007, 02:16 AM
Heh, I rubbed on teddy bears too, and the weird thing is I had at least two young friends who also rubbed on teddy bears and we'd do it in the same room. We didn't do anything to each other or anything, but I definitely remember conversations about "rubbing." haha.
And I was a compulsive masturbator by age 7. I really credit my early masturbation with keeping my virginity until I was almost 18. I was always very sexually fulfilled, so I never felt like giving it up to any of the losers who were available to me at that time in my life.
Bridgette
02-25-2007, 02:25 AM
3, as far as I remember. I don't know how I figured it out, but somehow I figured out the rubbing down there felt really good so I did it alot. I guess I've always been a horny bitch :guilty:
gingerlee
02-25-2007, 02:42 AM
I think I was 14 or 15, because other girls were talking about it. I still don't masterbate that often though, I'm weird or something.
Rockette
02-27-2007, 08:00 AM
First time that I can recall, I was 12 or 13 years old. I remember basically reading on websites what it was about along with kegel exercises. I've been doing kegels since about that age too...
PrettyCurlieQ
02-28-2007, 01:30 AM
I had my first orgasm and also didn't know what it was all about when I was very young. (younger than 10 or 11) When I first had sex later about 17 years old, I couldn't get orgasms at all so that confused me a bit. I thought there was something wrong with me so I'll try it with a few different people and it still didn't work. It took me a few years to figure it out to have one with a partner. Â*Even now, its much easier to have one by myself than with a partner. Â*I am worried those years of making myself orgasm have made it Â*harder for me to come with a partner. Â*
I was the same. I think my first orgasm I was like 11 or 12 years old. Once I started having sex at 16 tho, it went downhill. I enjoyed sex but didn't orgasm with a partner until a few years later. I didn't understand why, and it was really frustrating. When I finally decided to let the whole idea go, and just relaxed and enjoyed what I was feeling, it all came rushing back to me .. literally. ;)
leogirl876
02-28-2007, 05:23 PM
5 or 6. It happened by accident, I used to love to climb trees and one time when I was climbing up a tree I got this funny feeling down there and I remember thinking to myself, I don't know what that it but I like the way that feels! So from that point on I was climbing trees, rubbing up on the banister rails near the stairs in my house and climbing poles-guess I was always meant to be a stripper LOL!
One time my older cousin who was babysitting me caught me rubbing up against the banister rails near the stairs and asked me what I was doing (she freaking knew!), I told her "nothing, I'm just playing" (I guess I literally was "playing" haha) but I was soooo embarrassed!!!
I have to say I was a horny little kid!!!!
RusCountess
02-28-2007, 07:17 PM
I was 10, I think. I can't remember exactly what I was doing but it absolutely freaked me out. I thought I was having a seizure or something. I stayed quiet about it and about a week later got up the nerve to try again. It took a little bit of experimenting, but I finally got it and realized "This is pretty cool."
I used to babysit a 6-year old girl who would jam her hand up between her legs while lying on the floor watching "Dragon Tales" The first time I saw it, I almost cracked up. She hadn't learned to be discreet about it yet, I guess.
AristtaRoxxx
03-04-2007, 06:08 PM
I was another one that learned on pillows when I was 11 lol. I still can't do it any other way which sucks. It still feels better then any sex I have ever had, oral or intercourse, girl or boy doesnt matter, I am the only one that can do it too myself.
Kaiyla
03-07-2007, 08:06 PM
I was 12 maybe 13 years old. I was making out with a boy and my mind kept telling me to roll over so that I was on top of him and "rub" up against him. I kept stopping myself from doing that because I was hearing my mom's voice in the back of my mind admonishing me not to be a "dirty girl," like she had during our birds and the bees talk.
Then the horniness superceded everything, I rolled that boy over and IMMEDIATLEY had an orgasm. I didn't know what the hell it was and excused myself to go into the bathroom to privately look and see if I had "broken" anything.
Then I went home and tried to duplicate the feeling again everyday for a month until I PERFECTED that shit;D
kaiarose
03-09-2007, 01:04 PM
When I was like 3 or 4 I used to grind. Sit on a chair, legs crossed, and just wiggle my ass around. At that young of age it felt incredible (so wrong I know!) I'd do it ALL the time. My mom would catch me and get so disgusted and yell at me to stop. I'd stop until she left the room then right back to it.....