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Yea
04-10-2005, 09:57 PM
I only mind when it pops out and spits on me...rude; ungood on all levels. *shivers*


Please come back and tell me your being sarcastic! *Shivers* is right! Might I also add *tent goes down with my stiletto*!!!!!!!

Super Cecil
04-11-2005, 12:16 AM
only 2 dancers have ever gotten me to phase 2. one is my atf and the other just sliped and landed in the wrong spot.

I go for the mental stimulation more than anything. for those few moments when I'm with her the world seems to disappear. That's the part I enjoy.

shortlee
04-11-2005, 12:43 AM
Of course I'm not surprised that it happens...... it's normal
I wouldn't say if it didn't pop up I'd be offended

I've actually surprised the clients with my ability to put up a tent....no hands
What can I say I'm good @ camping!!!

shortlee
04-11-2005, 12:46 AM
And under 3 minutes!!!

Madcap
04-11-2005, 01:11 AM
You mean there is such a thing as NOT getting a hard on during a lapdance?






:Mystified:

shortlee
04-11-2005, 01:20 AM
I've noticed it once last year
I was having a bad "dance" day

A_Guy
04-11-2005, 05:11 AM
You mean there is such a thing as NOT getting a hard on during a lapdance?






:Mystified:

:rotfl::rotfl:

I was going to ask the same thing :P

Prester_John
04-11-2005, 06:36 AM
Hi there,
I have never been to a strip club but I am going soon. Anyways my question is when you get a lap dance how does the dancer respond to if you get a hard on or what does she do...meaning is she putting you in embarassment or what

Popping a woody during a Lapdance - good.

Popping a woody at Church - bad.

Any questions?

TigersMilk
04-11-2005, 10:33 AM
Please come back and tell me your being sarcastic! *Shivers* is right! Might I also add *tent goes down with my stiletto*!!!!!!!

LOL;D;D I have never had someone actually ejaculate on me...but sometimes it does have to spit up but always is his pants. I feel bad for the guy too cuz now they have a giant wetspot on him :-\...how embarassing.

Madcap
04-11-2005, 10:36 AM
Precum, too. And there's no way to control that.

toxicgirl
04-11-2005, 11:36 AM
it doesnt bother me. it happens. if it doesnt, i dont worry either- if they seem to enjoy themselves it's all good. it's blood rushing to your dick. just like women get wet when they get aroused. sometimes the guy will blush and be embarrased about it (esp if he's new to sc's). sometimes, they even apologize. if this happens, i'm just light-hearted about it and whisper stuff like:
' so i guess i'm not THAT ugly, huh?'
'oh good, for a minute there i was getting worried i'd have to send you to the gay bar across the street'

hyzenthflay
04-11-2005, 12:29 PM
For me, it depends on the customer. I had a young guy who got embarrassed about it, so I made him feel more comfortable and gave him a better dance. If someone gets one and doesn't have on underwear and is wearing loose pants--sometimes I will tell them to get a dance from me when they come in with jeans on (this is usually only because the customer has made himself out to be an ASS already). It depends on the customer for me, but it never offends me because it is expected. It's how they handle it, that depends on my mood and the quality of the dance.

Sunshine73
04-15-2005, 11:36 PM
I agree with Kobi who said "Honestly, I expect it, and if I can't tell that he has a hard on, then I feel like I'm doing something wrong. Sometimes you just can't tell though because of what they are wearing or their body type (okay, I'll just say it, extremely overweight men are hard to tell). And if its a no contact club, then you probably can't tell. When I'm not sure if he's aroused then I feel like something is wrong with me. I think most dancers expect to turn you on."

And it is nice that you are concerned enough to ask.

Jayln
04-16-2005, 12:32 AM
I don't really mind. Most guys I dance for get hard. I'm sexy, what can I say, lol? But I do take offense when the guy makes stimulation of his hard on the priority. For example, when the customer grabs my hips and tries to make me grind harder or tries to not let me get up and move around. And I think we all agree that splooging during a dance is a no-no. I had a guy do that to me the other day. Gross. In half a song no less! And I had barely sat on his lap yet, incredible. No wonder he can't get any action other than in a strip club. ::)

Sunshine73
04-16-2005, 10:47 AM
Yes. Please do not cum on us. That sorta takes it to a level we don't want to venture into.

Malak
04-17-2005, 05:36 PM
Question for the boner-poppers: Do you WANT to get hard? I think that is the main issue. I personally don't see the point if you can't finish. I worked on an all female hospital ward for awhile and developed a mental "switch" if you will... because going around holding hot women's wrists to take their pulse was driving my single a** crazy without it. LOL

Dancers, please do not make assumptions about what a customer is looking for and it has very little to do with you "doing your job". I go purely for waist-up action on both of our parts as rare as it may be. Yes, I am the dreaded "nice guy". LOL

A_Guy
04-17-2005, 06:16 PM
Please do not cum on us.

LOL... I had to laugh when I read this... Specifically the "please" part. I guess it's just the sad reality of the SC life. Take the good with the bad I guess. I'll remember this next time I'm having a bad day at work and I'll think, "at least I won't have to ask 'Please do not cum on me'".

Crow
04-17-2005, 07:18 PM
Yuck. Cum'ing on a chicks parts is just offensive - I tell the guy if he starts making that face it's an extra C-note.. That usually works. Plus, don't 'hunch' me or hold my hips down and try to wedge it where it's not suppose to go. Okay? I know what I'm doing Thats just gross - makes me feel like a fire hydrant of some dog thats trying to pee on me. Ew!

Rhiannon
Southern gal and sister in the thong brigade.

( cum free )

Mastridonicus
04-17-2006, 05:24 AM
you know what? for 2 seconds I was actually happy for big_daddy because I thought his account was fixxed. but....this was in 2003.

Monolith
04-17-2006, 01:21 PM
It may be a strange way of expressing it, but I take it as a form of flattery. I understand that it's not always something meant to be disgusting-it happens! So I just smile and back off a little and everythig is cool 8)

pipermarau
04-18-2006, 03:52 AM
i happen to think it is cute. it gives my leg something to do when i'm leaning over rubbing my tits on your forehead and i get a smirk when you try to hide it or have to wait a moment after the dance(s) to face the rest of the room. besides, it is my goal to send you home broke and looking for a lotion bottle (or your girl to make mad love to) if one of those two don't happen i haven't done my job right.

Phil-W
04-18-2006, 04:46 AM
I find my physical response to a PD changed when I gradually became OTC friends with several dancers. Knowing what dancers in general think about the job/their customers tends to have a de-eroticising effect - I know that much of a dancer's behaviour is an act designed to allow them to earn a living.

In addition, even before I got to know these dancers, I never took PD's particularly seriously - even less so afterwards. They're escapism, where you can enjoy the sight of a pretty woman naked for a few minutes.

I've long been interested in body language, and can generally get a "read" on how an individual dancer is reacting towards me. This can result in what pyschologists call a "mutually causative loop", in that the dancer reacts to my response/lack of response, causing me to react to the dancer in my turn.

I find that a dancer "going through the motions" because it's her way of earning a living has a relatively small effect on me, wheras a dancer enjoying the response she gets does have the appropriate physical effect. In other words I tend to get aroused when there is a degree of mutuallity about it.

I'm realistic enough to know that the "mutuality" on the part of the dancer is probably more due to her enjoyment of her knowing she's the cause of my arousal, rather than a direct attraction to me.

Interestingly, I've noticed in one or two dancers there is a parallel feminine response - in that you can see a degree of physical excitement in them as well. I'd have to say this is not too common, but tends to occur when the dancer clearly has a strong exhibishionistic streak anyway.

Phil.

scarface03
04-19-2006, 08:24 PM
Most guys are going to be embarassed about getting hard, fearing that the dancer will see them as a sexless loser. That's why it's a good move for the dancer to address it in a positive way to calm the guy down.

My all-time favorite dancer was a master at this. She would do things like grab my boner and jokingly say "What is this?!?!?" Or she would give it a bite, give it a good grind, or shoot me a huge grin and pull my shirt over my crotch.

That's lady that knew how to get into my heart...and my wallet. ::)

Lexa
04-20-2006, 05:42 PM
He better spring wood! Otherwise, I'm not doing something right. The key is to keep him just there, and not spurting.


Said perfectly!! :-*

ga peach
08-17-2006, 02:58 PM
yeah what they sad if it is a good lapdance a man should get a woody never had one that didnt

PaigeDWinter
08-17-2006, 06:27 PM
I personally hope for lack of wood when I dance. No thanks! I rather not see it, feel it, know about it.

Cally
08-17-2006, 06:36 PM
Mmm.. im a bad girl.. i'll grab ahold of it through the guys pants when I feel it and rub it a bit then go back to grinding... }:D