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Phedre
08-31-2005, 12:22 PM
MADCAP
Where did you get the HILARIOUS Paris phone convo.?

amity
08-31-2005, 05:14 PM
I completely agree with Phedre. The dance turns into the customer paying you to practically be his significant other since he can touch you with the "intimate caress" that only your real significant other can do! That's not how I want to get paid, because my body is not on sale for that kind of initimacy!!!

xxernestoxx
10-17-2006, 12:42 AM
its always comes down to the girl, not the club or the law.
Ive been to tropical lei a few times
imm addicted ill admit,
i was there saturday(10-14-06)
and two weeks earlier lol
anyway...
some girls let you touch the breasts and most anything everything else, except for the "beaver" and the area where her g string would bee, in the case its full nude.
the vip room is another domain, most everything can be touched their,
but of course it depense on the girl
someprovide extras some dont.

some girls touch you a little, but you cant touch them at all.

some dont allow any touching either way.

some clubs have bouncers on the look out,
and you might get rolled by the bouncer even if she
let you touch her breasts

for the most part bouncers
only interviene if the girl calls him
over.

good luck on your indevoure

cheers
-Ernesto

AkashaM
10-17-2006, 02:29 PM
I got repremanded for boob touching, I feel if you have a bunch of drunk males, and half naked girls, there will be boob touching. What I don't understand is by law any contact is an illegal lap dance, so why so I can rub my ass on a guys lap, but God forbid a little touch on the breast.
I dont think you are a dancer...you sound too much like a slimy customer. Not all people want to be touched. I personally dont like people touching me at all--in or out of the club, as I didnt come from a very touchy-feely family (my family is from spain). I dont think that makes me a "low-life cunt, I just want ppl to respect my space if tell them. I only put up with touching in the CR--even then, if the customer gets out of hand, i will leave. If you give ppl an inch, they take a mile. thats why touching is generally frowned upon in US clubs.

I think most ppl know that you should not touch another person without asking first-- period.

As a customer, you should ask what the rules are. As dancer, its your responsiblity to lay the ground rules for the customer to prevent any ugliness later on.

In NY, its considered and act of prostitution to let the customers touch boobs, butts & thighs. So if a dancer tells you "no you cant touch"--just respect the rules. That dancer could get a ticket or arrested.

cristo58
10-17-2006, 02:49 PM
I think most ppl know that you should not touch another person without asking first-- period.

As a customer, you should ask what the rules are. As dancer, its your responsiblity to lay the ground rules for the customer to prevent any ugliness later on.


RIGHT ON! I can't count the number of times I have gone for a private lap/couch dance and have the dancer ask "Now honey, do you know the rules?" That way there is no issue of what is allowed or not allowed.........I'm glad they ask and since every city, county, and state is diffrent it always goood to get a refresher on what is acceptable......... ;)

xxernestoxx
10-17-2006, 10:08 PM
RIGHT ON! I can't count the number of times I have gone for a private lap/couch dance and have the dancer ask "Now honey, do you know the rules?" That way there is no issue of what is allowed or not allowed.........I'm glad they ask and since every city, county, and state is diffrent it always goood to get a refresher on what is acceptable......... ;)

very good
thats why i always ask a dancer
if shes okay with touching or not
but i found a few good dancers and im a repeat customer lol
<3 you chanel and bella lol

to bad i can never meet astripper outside of the club to take out to dinner

cheers
-Ernesto

The_Oceans
10-18-2006, 02:50 PM
....This is an old thread that was recently refereshed....

Hey, it's historic for one thing...I made my first StripperWeb post in this thread :D

AkashaM
10-20-2006, 02:58 AM
lol, blame xxernestoxx! lol, I didnt do it!! ;D

xxernestoxx
10-20-2006, 10:44 PM
lol, blame xxernestoxx! lol, I didnt do it!! ;D

hey hey hey
HOLD THE PHONE lol
it was my fault
but ive said I was sorry
do i have to go back to being a
closet stripperholic?

Cheers
-Ernesto

AkashaM
10-20-2006, 10:54 PM
LOL, you know i have to blame someone, ;D it takes the attention off of me! }:D Oh well, this thread may be old, but it still applies.

Madcap
10-21-2006, 12:08 AM
AkashaM, can i touch the kitty? Can i blow on it?


}:D

Like, for a dollar and stuff?

xxernestoxx
10-24-2006, 08:42 PM
LOL, you know i have to blame someone, ;D it takes the attention off of me! }:D Oh well, this thread may be old, but it still applies.
HAHAHAHA
we all know who your refering to....me
and you know what else
everyone keeps complaining
but everyone keeps the thread going hmmm?
including me

cheers
-Ernesto

xfatrabbitx
12-08-2006, 07:21 AM
i can't imagine dancing at a club where touching of the breasts or ass is okay.
my club is strict on it... whenever someone "accidently" brushes their hand against my boob i feel so disgusting and dirty and violated...
one time someone licked my nipple and i cried =X lol

xfatrabbitx
12-09-2006, 10:55 AM
i just dont understand...
i mean, its not that any touching scares me..
we have full contact heavy grindage dancing, but their hands can't touch those places... so the places that that is allowed, a customer can just like rub your tits or carress your ass? like, they can touching and squeeze your nipples> what the fuck> is this the norm?

Everyman
12-12-2006, 03:02 PM
i just dont understand...
i mean, its not that any touching scares me..
we have full contact heavy grindage dancing, but their hands can't touch those places... so the places that that is allowed, a customer can just like rub your tits or carress your ass? like, they can touching and squeeze your nipples> what the fuck> is this the norm?


Variable by (1) club and (2) girl.

East Side of St. Louis... heaviest contact I've seen anywhere. On stage, the girls grab your hands and run them over their entire body, missing only the crotch, squeezing their boobs with your hands. Yes, this is the norm.

In a private, it's basically a free-for-all, and about 1/2 the girls give you that last 3 inches, 1/2 don't. Certainly the official "rule" is that you don't get it.

Eve21
12-18-2006, 01:28 PM
My club is no touching - but most guys want to touch. DON'T FUCKING TOUCH ME!!! I don't want hands on my fucking sock! Only I can touch them. And if I get touched I will either stop the dance, punch or both!
The other day a dancer was almost in tears in the dressing room because this creepy jerk kept trying to grope her boobs. Then, the ass hole asks me for a dance, so as soon as he sits down I tell him, "Hands at your side at all times." He tries to touch my ankle and I go, "No! Don't!!!" After the dance the freak actually says, "You have so much more class than the other girls. It's very refined that you don't allow touching." I almost kicked him, or threw a drink in his face or something. What kind of an ego do some freaks have were they think we WANT to be grabbed at??? Do they think they're super hot or something??? Even if they were, I don't love them or anything so I don't want them touching me!
Even if the club allows touching, it's only proper manners not to touch.

threlayer
12-18-2006, 04:18 PM
If _no touching at all_ is what the girl wants, and she is not in a "no touching" club, that's OK as long as you know pre-embarassment. But I wonder if she really belongs in that club, but of course that choice is hers, presuming she makes money there.

For my part I think the_no touching at all_ thing is too unfriendly for a dance and I wouldn't bother worrying about whether anything could be perceived as a touch. I doubt I would even be able to relax under those threatening circumstances. And why would I want a "close" dance with no touching on my part or even hers? I see no point in it, not being an aggressive customer at all. This is not like just strangers in an elevator. Of course that is just my feeling, but I am most likely not alone in feeling this way.