View Full Version : Should I say I'm single???
onlythebest
08-02-2004, 07:27 PM
Oh no,FBR.You're too cute!!
LMAO OTB Thats not fair :o Youre calling me cute and its giving me wood LOL
FBR
onlythebest
08-02-2004, 07:57 PM
Hey,what's wrong with that!
Hey,what's wrong with that!
Not a damn thing ;D
FBR
onlythebest
08-02-2004, 08:35 PM
This is so much fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MickB
08-03-2004, 08:46 AM
My ATF has told she is single. She doesn't know it but I know she's married. Personally I don't care as I am there to play just like she is and we have a great time together.
Hahaha Smell of the leather-sting of the whip! :mischievous:
Hahaha Smell of the leather-sting of the whip! :mischievous:
::) Sounds tempting
FBR
PoleKitten21
08-28-2004, 03:52 PM
Im sorry but I feel that Im selling a fantasy. So I tell anyone who asks Im single. My boyfriend and I have gone together to clubs and you can always see the disappointment in his face when he finds out that his ATF have boyfriends/husbands. So I can only imagine telling a customer, that I have someone.
Oh well to each their own.
sgtjohnny
08-29-2004, 07:07 AM
To me it does not make any difference. But, I do not like being lied to by a Dancer. If she says she is Single, I expect her to be Single, Married likewise. I disagree with Paris Love with the fantasy idea. But, I am perfectly happy with a Single, Married, attached or unattached Dancer. As long as she is willing to provide me with herself, enjoys her work and intend to keep me happy then I am happy.
As for me, I would love to have a Dancer GF or Wife. To me that is exciting knowing she Dances and come home to me after her work for the day is done. That will probably never happen but it is o.k with me. That is just a dream of mine.
whirlerz
08-29-2004, 08:14 AM
Hahaha Smell of the leather-sting of the whip! :mischievous:
::) Sounds tempting
FBR
Somebody say whip? :bullwhip: & for good meas. = :biting:
whirlerz
08-29-2004, 08:16 AM
Luf to give Mens $.
w1ldcard
08-30-2004, 06:00 AM
Assumption : by single you mean not dating rather than not married .
I have been in enough strip clubs to know how Dancers are just so fed up of being asked this line ( together with the other old favourites - "what are you doing after work" and "do you do extra's" ) that I never ask it . And likewise I never volunteer the same information about myself unless asked or need to correct a misleading impression (eg asked whether I have kids or not ) .
It amuses me sometimes to see a dancer trying to guess my status.
older but well dressed & clean shirt - married , his wife buys his clothes
smells good , expensive aftershave , cleaned his teeth - either gay or single & fancies his chances
Polite and I dont have to worry where his hands get to - married and I had better watch my language - no effing here.
5 minutes gone and he still hasn't asked for a date - He doesn't like me, I just knew this dress would make me look fat. That's the last time I'll ask her, Some friend of mine I don't think- I can hear her laughing right now.
Doesn't bore me with his ( largly ficticious ) life story and is interested in my thoughts and opinions - a sensitive, intuitive new man , they do exist after all or some shy geek who hasn't got out much and still lives with his parents.
spends well and stays late - lonely single or did well out the divorce settlement. I wonder if he has an apartment in town.
drinks but handles it well - hard to tell but I like this.
offers to buy me a drink and doesn't get upset when I ask for bottled water - a sure thing for a private dance but put this guy on hold , walk the floor for 15 , come back for payday later .
no problem with lipstick on his collar , my perfume in his hair and bodyglitter on his suit - either single or knows a good dry cleaner
If a dancer volunteers she is single, I treat this as a sign of trust , a sharing of personal information,not neccesarily a invitation for me to ask for a date ( to be honest its easy for me to tell as I am twice their age). I would be annoyed if I found out later she was lying.
It is in the nature of things that pretty girls have boyfriends , if not now - at least by the end of the night - so I usually go with this premise.
wildcard
kateD
08-30-2004, 10:54 AM
I would always answer "yeah..(sweet smile) I have many boyfriends. because Im enjoyng my life" with innocent smile. (innocent is the point)
Its strange but when I answer like this, customers buy me dances afterwards in most of cases (especially if he is really stoooopid). I think they expect to be on my boyfriends list one day!
x
customers are deserve to be teased by us!!
GoldCoastGirl
09-04-2004, 04:06 AM
Don't know if I already have said this as I try to put a little humour into the situation and it usually works.
When asked my martial status I will say
"Yeah.. he's black, fat and furry.. plus he sure loves his meat!" If they look at me puzzled (which they usually do) I will continue with "He also meows alot" to which they usually clue on that I'm talking about a cat... when asked why.. I say "He's my little man" as he's a male cat. ;D
Otherwise, I will just say I am single and bring the conversation back to another topic or work or him buying a dance.
big_daddy
09-04-2004, 10:47 AM
Don't ask, don't tell!
CharlotteInTN
09-13-2004, 05:17 AM
I wear my wedding ring and and answer honestly if asked about being single. ?99% of the time, it hasn't hurt me. ?The couple of customers that don't want dances from married women do not bother me. ?I think many guys appreciate the honesty factor. ?I'm not trying to lead them on. ?If they want me to get naked and dance for them, I'll do a good job. ?If they're looking for anything else, they're in the wrong place. ?I don't think badly of other girls who personify themselves as single at work. ?This is a job of providing fantasies. ?But I'm more comfortable being the married me and have found that enough guys are fascinated by that/ and or just respect that, that it is not even a dilemma for me.
I agree wholeheartedly. I wear my ring and don't lie. And almost always it works to my advantage. I've actually had guys thank me for being honest and spent more on me because of it.
When they ask about it I tell them I do this job because I love to dance and it makes me feel sexy.
They usually ask "what does he think of this" and I tell them he loves it because when I come home I'm so turned on that we have great sex. That usually gets me a dance.
Every now and then I get a guy who gets sad to know I'm taken and tries to tell me how I'm ruining a fantasy and that's what it's all about and I just tell him that I'm a terrible liar, but I'd be glad to bring over a girl who can fullfill his fantasy.
I think the key is to find out what you're comfortable with and able to sell.