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gypsy_girlchild
02-19-2005, 03:47 PM
P.S. to anyone who hasn't read "secret garden" you MUST!!!!!!!!! It is oneof the only sex books I have read that was written by women for women and you will love every minue of it! It was my frist sex book at 14 (lost virginity at 19, but hey..)
Pamela is the other book you mentioned the same styling?
I don't know how popular phone sex is here in Richmond, VA, but I have a house line I never use, but pay for (for internet) so I wouldn't mind it coming in handy... I'd love any other advice or info you could give...
thanks!

Pamela
02-20-2005, 08:11 AM
Yes The other book Nancy Friday wrote was written by men (or she actually talked to them about their sex lives) for men. The book covers many many taboo and vanilla sexual lives of men. It's really all (the two books) a newbie PSO would need to start. Not as a "script" but to get familiar with people and different types of sex.

So, when a customer calls and she is kinda stuck with "i don't know what to say," she will remember one of the topics in the book.

It's funny, i think i remember sooo many women and men's writings in these 2 books, and use them often during phone when i get a caller who has no clue what he wants, he just knows he wants to get off. The blow job reading comes to mind then! :)

Her other book is called "Men in Love."

Doing phone depends on ALOT. Companies that pay well today demand hours first. Second it's all about going to phone sex sites through Google, or and
Figure out what hours you can do, what you would like to get paid, if you don't mind trolling, etc.

Pamela

Pamela

whirlerz
02-20-2005, 09:21 AM
I still haven't done it yet...

julzgulz
03-17-2005, 03:01 PM
I have skimmed through this thread for the past couple days. I know a guy who just started phone sex and right away he started making $1500 a week. He hasn't told me what company he works for, but I know I am seriously considering switching to PS. I dance and do webcam, but because of my schedual I can only dance once a week or once every other week, and camming works on some days, but other days I can flirt and attempt to get privates, but I'll only make $10. It's really not paying the bills.

So I think PS sounds good because if I can create my own schedual that doesn't conflict with my personal schedual AND I don't have to BS in a chat room or with guys at a club to get money that would be great. I really need a job that will pay bills and support me while I'm in school and doing my extra activities.

So I'm not interesting in trolling, i'd rather work for a company that is going to keep me busy during my working hours. So far I havn't found any of the pay by hour companys. And as far as how much I'll make per min, I havn't found info on that either, just how to apply.

If anyone could suggest to me any good companys, and ones that keep the calls coming in that would be great.

Also, I know some say that you have to work 30-40 hours a week. What about vacation times?

Pamela
03-18-2005, 08:56 AM
Hun, what you have to do is apply! There are many companies out there who will email you a "packet" with everything you need to know and do to work for that company, including pay.

is a company that bought out a former Owner who i can't stand, personal reasons. They may be hiring, some trolling, lots of dispatch, pay starts at .50 a minute. One example of a different type of company.

Total dispatch wiht MANY calls KT. Sit back and be damn good on the phone.

Another who hires as an employee as well as IC, is i would guess as an employee you will get some benefits after being employed for a time. See you can get paid by the hour, and some $ for a call, but you're hooked to a phone you can't hang up the entire shift. Some co's make this easier now by breaking you're shifts down, you are an employee with these companies, most start $8 per hour days. More nights. I can't have a headset on 4 hours and not hang up, pluss they hear you, so you better have a mute button if you go to the bathroom. :O

Another who pays kick ass is Circe! Tons of hours required, and no BS.

Another i know, (and i know these people they are great) Lipservice, Stephen, some say he's too tough...But calls come in you build that clientel, you have to, and he pays very very well!

The thing about phone sex is you have to start at the bottom. You have to build a cliente base (most co's, some just do roll-over calls) and hang in there. Phone sex is not an average job....it's tough climbing the ladder.

USlove1 is hiring....You have to compete with ladies who live on the phones....They saet you up a page on probably 2 or 3 of their sites and you wait untill a caller likes you're look (because you have to walk him through the pictures to nudes at the end) and bio.

There is ALOT of competetion out there, and this does not mean they are better, just working the phones 24/7. So when a man gets a hard-on, she's there.

Like i said apply, apply, and aply to many companies. I will help you, but you have to pick a company that suits you. Companies that pay well expect hours, at times 20 to 40 a week.

If you want to come and go as you please and put in 15 hours a week, it's not worth the time, unless you want gas money...Really.

As for the male you know who just started and made over 1,000 the first pay, this is do-able, and i will tell you why, he is new on the menue, and i bet you anything he works gay lines. Why wouldn't he tell you what company? Men pay BIG $$$$$ to talk to other men, problem is most men can't or wont play gay. But women are not going to pay out like the men, this i know. Unless he gets paid once a month.

I say apply wiht the big dogs! Dedicate you're hours, be on time, a team player, and find a service that allows requests! That is how i started, and keep it going.

My last check was very high, and i did not do near 30 hours...I count on my regulars, they tip, they send you presents (to the company) and they know when you are around.

I am sick now and off the phones...Lol But will have my job when i go back on. Kinda voice thing i have.

Just hunt and post, i can't tell you what co. will work for you. You have to jump in. And NEVER burn you're bridges, you may need them again, be honest.

Good luck, And call volume will be up to you...Really. Vacation time, that's kinda putting the cart before the horse. You need to be there a while, then ask the company for some time off, dedication and hard work will get you it, i know you get out what you put in. I can check ALL companies you apply to. Tell you what to expect, but a bitchy dispatcher does not matter....Seems to most on phone boards every little gripe is a huge drama....I don't read them. PSO's are catty people, and i feel confident in saying this. IT's the companies you want to bond with, not the op's. ;)
Pamela

Probably spelling errors...in a rush. sorry.

whirlerz
05-14-2005, 07:22 PM
Wow, whatta ph sx post, Pammie! Let's keep it goin' girls! Anyone done anything lately w/this? I definately need to get into it, since it seems I can't do my other job...

lala
06-19-2005, 07:20 PM
okay i am a newbie all the way around!!! i am curious about dancing but really interested in being a PSO, i have always worked the phones (customer servide) and haev always been told, Girl you should Phone, but i dont know i have a lot of fun doing it with my BF just for the fun of it and with some frineds just becuse but have neevr been paid and since i got hurt at woork i can no longer do a reg 9-5 so i really amn intersted. i will go get that book ASAP!! but we have n libaries here so i have to buy. i really want to learn this and get some MORE tips anythinga nd everything would help, hey Pamela did you ever find those site copies on dom? thanks all i love this site!!!!! by the way how do fill those first step apps out before they chose to hire, how do you find your inner charaters?

lala
06-19-2005, 07:44 PM
heres yet another question no where can i find a place that allows you to use a cell phone does anyone know a particular place i went to the adult staffer but could not find it thanks for your help!

Pamela
06-20-2005, 08:05 AM
Lala check out they had a few companies that allowed a cell. Pretty much all companies are stopping this now, cells go dead!

Pamela

Pamela
06-20-2005, 08:11 AM
okay i am a newbie all the way around!!! i am curious about dancing but really interested in being a PSO, i have always worked the phones (customer servide) and haev always been told, Girl you should Phone, but i dont know i have a lot of fun doing it with my BF just for the fun of it and with some frineds just becuse but have neevr been paid and since i got hurt at woork i can no longer do a reg 9-5 so i really amn intersted. i will go get that book ASAP!! but we have n libaries here so i have to buy. i really want to learn this and get some MORE tips anythinga nd everything would help, hey Pamela did you ever find those site copies on dom? thanks all i love this site!!!!! by the way how do fill those first step apps out before they chose to hire, how do you find your inner charaters?

Here hun check this out!

Pamela

lala
06-20-2005, 04:30 PM
Pamela did you know how amazing you are?? thank you so much i really appreacitae it!!!!

lala
06-20-2005, 07:34 PM
doe anybody know if you can make decent pocket change doing dispacth or is the only way to go PSO? also does any one have nfo on siren and fantasy secerets? tahnks so much have a good one!

Pamela
06-20-2005, 08:50 PM
Thanks hun!

Siren is a good company. I know Lilly, just mention my name she is sooo cool! They pay, call volume builds up pretty quick. Shoot her an email!!! Dispatch requires alot more work, less pay imo. You can rake in $800 easy working 30 hours a week for small talk! Just build up that client base, and they will love ya! PS, Fantasy secrets...got me there.

Pamela

lala
06-20-2005, 09:27 PM
thanks Pamela i will surley send her an email and mention you ;) thanks man i am so excited i guess that means i will have to add a land line :) but it is all good i also love that dom site LOVE IT!!!!!! thank you so much! and dispacth it out of a question why do 10 times the work for less cash right? thanks alot!!!!!

lala
06-22-2005, 11:35 PM
do you ladis know anything about Papillon? thanks all!

Pamela
06-23-2005, 08:21 AM
Yep you need to keep a hold time. Meaning you have to average so many hours a pay period of decent talk time, or you drop to a lower scale. Lots of ladies complain about hang up calls that will also bring you're average down, and i hear, (as i know probably a few ladies who have tried just about every company out there) they will let you know about you're calls, i.e. if you are not doing well, they can get pretty rough.

So, at this point i know not one PSO who works there, but have tried.

Give it a try, you never know. But you have to know how to keep guys on the phone, as with any pay by the hourt company does this. And some companies who pay by the minute want an average too.

IF you can dedicate 25 or 30 hours a week i can steer you in the right direction. However, if you want to come and go as you please, have a cute profile with pics. of you, i would start with Siren. They have a good call volume, guys go from 3 minutes to hours on a call. Pay is not the highest, but again speak with Lilly, and she will let you know all about the service. You get alot of freedom, and the girls get paid. THe girls i know who are there get paid.

You are going to hear shit about every company out there, ok. Just weed through or (click on phone sex) and pick the company that fits you. Do you want to sit a few houtrs a day and troll chat rooms for customers? I don't and wont. The pay starts out higher if you troll, but if you get with the right company that allows requests, you beat out that trolling crap imo.

PS she has some pics. of me up and that is cool, i am clothed. I have done work for her, so i know about the company. She may be using me or not. As i am not with the company, due to many personal issues..NOT the company. We are in GREAT company with each other, so i could go back. I had probably about 17 calls in a 4 hour shift at times, and that was not too shabby as these guys wanted to talk. I started at .30 a minute.
try her, she is a very nice lady. Lilly.

I know Stephen at Lipservice...but i don't want you to be intimidated by him...lol, he's all business...Great guy once you get you're feet wet!
Bill at Circe, demands 50+ hours a week. BIg $$$$, no shit, it's just the hours might be a problem for you. Kim, KT communications...again wants good PSO's, willing to help you.
Uslove.com Uslove1.com Usexpert.com Are great guys! THere site is a tad different, you need (should as i knew) be on the phone and comp. at the same time showing you're pics. to the customer while talking.

I know of many more. But these companies i like best, because they pay, and they are HONEST...hard to find in this business, really.

And i know a ton of company owners in this business. No comment. }:D

lala
06-29-2005, 10:45 PM
man have been out of town my cusion got sick and i helped with her kids anyways i am so glad to be back and read this post man Pamela you are sucj a gift to thi site thanks for all your help! i have almost all the time in the world to devote to work. so that is no problem ( i would neber tell a company that though i can imagiane calls during breakfast, lucj, and dinner and never getting to eat again LOL) anyways i will chk them out i did email siren so we will see with that but man i need a landline i guess well thanks again ill be back!!!!oh yeah i do not have any pics i can use i haev no scanner and no digicamerea i know i still live in the middle ages!!!!!! maybe i should get a camerea????

Pamela
06-30-2005, 12:37 PM
Lala phone sex sites buy pictures of you're character for you. No worry. Most companies wont let you use you're own pics. anyway. But if they do let you use you're own, please PLEASE have them sign that these are you're pictures, and when you no longer work for the company THEY COME DOWN ASAP. I would let the company get the pictures of a girl you want to play! There is no cost to you. It's easier.

Pamela

lala
07-04-2005, 11:40 PM
oh Pamela thanks for the tips that is great to hear cuz i am way to stingy for a new camerea LOL but reallly thanks

whirlerz
07-05-2005, 08:14 PM
Pam rocks! I called USLove & left them a msg., waiting to hear from them. ('s been about 10 days). I still have all my paperwork from phoneactress.com, so I may try them. I'ts just been awhile since I signed up, so they may have deleted me out, I have to try to log in first.

Pamela
07-05-2005, 08:41 PM
And give most bigger companies time to reply, or bother them!!! Lol.

This is our slow season, and most will still take you on, but you wont be making enough to pay all the bills at this point.

What i do like about Uslove is they allow PSO's huge tips from customers, Will, who i have dealt with before is a very nice guy, and they allow you to be flexible, of course along with 24/7 support.

They also have usexpert. You may want to try throwing a "trade" up on that site that people will want to pay to know about, or be helped with as well.

They have



Sept. it should start be picking up!!!!!

Good luck,
Pamela

whirlerz
07-08-2005, 07:56 AM
Hey, thanks a LOT for this update, Pam! Appreciate it! Lotsa slowness jobwise in general in the summer time, it seems. :(

colleen
07-11-2005, 04:12 AM
Hey, Pamela!

I jsut wanted to let you kow that I took Honey Hitz advice (aftr she had taken your advice) and signed on with phone actress, and I love it. So now I ma another person you have helped, although indirectly.

Thanks for your help!

Pamela
07-11-2005, 09:32 AM
Cool Colleen!!!

I never worked for them, but hope you enjoy it.

Pamela

samanthashows36
07-20-2005, 05:43 AM
Anything you wish you knew when you first started with this company or phone sex in general? Any tips? Did you work with others around in your home who could hear you or go somewhere else? How did you hide it from your children (if any)?

TIA

Pamela
07-20-2005, 05:47 AM
Are you asking because you are having problems? Problems with Keen? Or just need help in a certain area of phone sex? Are you doing phone sex?

Sorry for all the questions.

Pamela

lala
07-22-2005, 08:41 PM
man Pam you ahve been so great thanks for all your help i will now work for Siren all thanks to you!!!!!!!

Pamela
07-23-2005, 10:51 AM
That's great news Lala! Siren gets alot of long calls! No taboo line. You should do fine. Any questions just ask. I know Lily and She is very nice. She gets alot of emails, so don't freak, she will get back to you!!

Pamela

whirlerz
07-23-2005, 11:13 AM
I went on their site, thanks for link, Pam. Whcih would be best for a beginner, & someone who can't do many hours per week? I still haven't tried it, at all, I guess I'm kinda scared, have "men isuues" too. I still have my paperworkfrom phoneactress, haven't started w/them either. I'm not sure if they "blocked me out" since it's been months since I signed up w/them. The lady there said try to log in, which I haven't. I have to read over everthing, including the phone use w/headset, etc.

Pamela
07-23-2005, 02:10 PM
I understand. The best way to see if phone sex is for you is to take it slow, and feel you're way with each call. Siren would be good for you, as you make a few extra bucks, and log in when you feel like it.

You know they can set up a page for you as say... being a mean bitch for example. ALOT of guys love women to laugh, call names and just mind fuck them over, could be good for you!!! VENT BABY!!!

But when you get that loving young one....Could be hard for you.

Let me know if you need pointers, i will help! It's acting baby!!! All only acting!!! I have fucking FUR and other animal issues now....Damn, but i had to get my mind back into the acting mode!!!!

Pamela

whirlerz
07-24-2005, 10:41 AM
Thanks a lot, Pam.!

danielle1
07-24-2005, 07:38 PM
Hi all, I have a friend who is a pso and she says that she gets her callers from trolling the chat rooms and she makes her own hours? Can anyone explain how to do this?

Thanks!::)

Pamela
07-25-2005, 07:52 AM
You're friend should tell you how she does it and makes her money! :)

I need to know if she trolls for a company or not. Because trolling chat for phone sex with customers should require a toll-free number, and way of payment by credit card for example. Doing it on her own, how does she get paid?

Pamela

Pamela
08-01-2005, 06:21 AM
First hand experience here! Lilly and Mike are fine people. Pay is every two weeks, come and go as you wish, diaries, tips etc.

I have done work for them on and off for 3 years. I have never NOT recieved a check.

Problem seems to be, Siren will fire ladies who are a hassle, and i myself have been in touch with two of the ladies, one of which is on PSO board who said she was let go due to giving out personal info. to SIRENS clients. The other is just not happy that Lilly may be involved with the board. If you read the board close, you will see negative TOPICS about EVERY company out there.....Too much drama. Yes even Siren is listed on the board.

Ladies......You have got to read you're contracts!

If you want on with Siren tell Lilly about me..Pamela, she will NOT burn you!


PS, anyone who gets wrapped up in the phone sex message boards is doing so at their own risk, as ALOT of the former PSO's are fired, or can't hold a job with a company, (i said ALOT not all.) Why do i say this, because i heard it from SO Many of these fired and pissed ladies, Also Trix you must know they only put a handful of ladies on the main site you gave. Siren uses Keen as well as a platform and ALOT of ladies are on their working 24/7!!!!!!!!

MY picture is still up. But i am inactive.....;) another female may use my pictures.....I don't care, i make good extra $$$ with Siren, and i did not go NUDE!!!!!;D Cam shots!!!!

EDIT: on a side note PSO board is a nice board over all. But you will read alot of crap, i am sure you don't want to get involved with, (as with any board) other than that, lists of companies are often talked about...So get a companies name and call or email them, BUT you will most likely hear both sides....Good and bad about the same company....Use you're judgement!!!!!;)

My .02

Pamela

whirlerz
08-01-2005, 07:33 AM
what about phoneactress.com? Are they better for a "newbie to phone sx? I pm'd someone on here that works for them, to ask, but got no answer...

Pamela
08-01-2005, 09:08 AM
You have to meet a quota hun. To low, low pay. You can go with Gemini Audio Text, no quota, Lipservice (Stephen), Siren, USlove and many others!!!!

I had a few friends of friends in the PSO biz who actually was not allowed to sign on. Again, (so they say) due to low hold times. Get a contract and read it!!!! See what you are getting into. If the company has hold times for it's OP's, i don't want to steer anyone in that direction. Contracts, contracts, and more contracts from different companies, it helps ALOT.

Good luck,

Pamela

whirlerz
08-01-2005, 11:57 AM
Yes, they (phoneactress) says you have to keep up an "average". I don't remember what it is, (@ least 7 min. or more a call?)...I still haven't heard back from USLove, I guess I'll try to re-contactthem..

Seductress
08-01-2005, 12:19 PM
There have been more than two people complaining about Siren bouncing checks in the three years they've been in business. Even girls who remained loyal and continued working for them, have recieved NSF checks from them. Anyone who works for them needs to be aware of that.

These are some other PSO resources where you can ask questions of other PSO's or just get information about companies:




may not be accepting new members, unfortunately, but worth a try



Siren can't be discussed there but other companies post want ads and you can ask opinions of other PSO's

Dixiegirl
08-01-2005, 01:39 PM
Pam, what is your opinion about companies that don't have a contract? I recently interviewed with a company that doesn't have a contract.

Pamela
08-01-2005, 02:34 PM
Yes, they (phoneactress) says you have to keep up an "average". I don't remember what it is, (@ least 7 min. or more a call?)...I still haven't heard back from USLove, I guess I'll try to re-contactthem..

I have their number if you need it.

Let me know.

Pamela

Pamela
08-01-2005, 02:36 PM
Pam, what is your opinion about companies that don't have a contract? I recently interviewed with a company that doesn't have a contract.

I would NEVER work for a company that does not send you a contract. You need to know the rules of the company.

Also many argue contracts only protect the company, this is wrong.

Get a contract or don't do any work for them.

Pamela

Dixiegirl
08-01-2005, 02:58 PM
This particular company that doesn't have a contract, did sent me a PSO handbook explaining the rules and procedures. Still, there was nothing to sign. They also didn't require a photocopy of our ID or SS card. They ask for our SS # DOB and address over the phone.

A friend of mine recently started with this company. When she was initially interviewed they told her (as well as myself) that we can log on/off whenever we want, with no minimum hours per week. After two days, the manager emails her saying that she better log in to meet the required 30 hour per week minimum. She told them it was her understanding during her interview that there were no minimum hourly requirements. The manager said that is part of the rules in the handbook. We both read the handbook, and that isn't stated. She even forwarded the handbook she was emailed. The manager started backpeddling. Said that he would make an exception for her, and not to tell anyone else, lol. He told her that if she can't work 30 hours a week to try and put in at least 20. I don't know what to think about all of this?

Pamela
08-01-2005, 03:21 PM
The company did not get a copy of you're AGE? Get out quick!!!!! I can go on forever about the problems that could arise.

Pamela

whirlerz
08-02-2005, 05:46 AM
Is papilon (sp) a good co. ? I went on adultstaffing yesterday, you have to sign up to get job listings, I didn't b/c was having puter probs. They had an ad link I clickd on. As did phone entertainers.com, what about them, do you know? thanks,!

Pamela
08-02-2005, 07:33 AM
Yes with this company you are glued to the phone. You should buy a headset and be comfortable. It becomes tough for alot of people to just sit and wait while having a headset on however. And yes they may say NO to a mute button.....Um i would if i have go to the bathroom. They started out with a great rep. I don't know if they have that anymore, as they changed some.

PS i know only 1 person who works there know. And looking. Yes there toll free is at the top of the page, call it, and see if they (Like you're voice...Give me a break) are for you to try out. Last time i heard they let you on for a few hours and off, back on and off....

I once had a STACK of contracts here! I ended up picking up the companies that met my needs, as well as me meeting theirs. Get contracts from companies, and read them, aot of what is told over the phone may be forgotten, or just not said to you.

Good luck,

Pamela

Dixiegirl
08-05-2005, 07:48 AM
Have you heard anything positive or negative about ZMC? One of their links is www.telefetish.com I heard that they have three different types of calls. Receipt calls, that pay per call, 900 calls that pay per minute, and IC (Internet Chat) calls that also pay per minute. I heard that this company only pays once a month.

whirlerz
08-27-2005, 09:45 AM
Well, I have phoned KT about working for them. They gave me an email to let them know I'm interested, never heard back. (about a mo. ago). Tried to go on another co.'s site, it's up for sale?

Pamela
08-28-2005, 10:45 AM
Kimberly from KT has new pay rates for the OP's. So she may not be looking at this time.

Best bet, email or call again....Keep her interested in you.

Pamela

242_fair
08-28-2005, 08:24 PM
... Say a caller wants to talk about a 4 year old little girl, and doing nasty things to her. ALOT of women wont go there. Can't blame them. I however do go there, it's money and ...

Pamela

I read this earlier thread earlier this morning and I am still thinking about this ^^ stuff you wrote. I still can't get it out of my head.

Now I don't want to start anything, especially on a board you moderate, but this is really disturbing to me.

Money is not everything. Feeding those fantasies is.. well... ok I better leave this one alone or else I'm gonna start talking about God on a strippers web site...

Ok, I just wanted to let you know how I feel.

Pamela
08-29-2005, 09:18 AM
Feeding these fantasies is well.... just feeding a fantasy :) I'm an actress, and can't afford to worry about every "sick" fantasy that comes my way or i would make no money.

We all have fantasies...some just more extreme! Gotta love them!!! As the more extreme a fantasy is.....i'm there!!! The better i am, the more money i will make!!

Sorry you feel this way, maybe that is why you don't do phone sex, and i do. It's not for everyone.

Pamela