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blackbeauty
12-15-2003, 11:31 AM
YEah I suspected this too about all the exes. Thanx for the support ladies! I'm never going back!









Yes ladies we were friends after we broke up, ....[snip].... He told me that she was always insecure about me even though I was living in another state and we had little communication....[snip]....He does talk to most of his exes and they are friends. About a month ago he invited e to his friends b-day dinner, a girl he used to date in h.s....[snip]....Well while me and hs friend were chatting it up I found out they slept togethr this year before I came back into town.

This is what I suspected. Sweetie this guy is a total shithead. He likes to keep his "Exes" around as friends because that way he's always got someone to fuck or date or whatever, no matter what happens. He never REALLY has any Exes, only takes breaks to jump around from one to another. You definitely don't need that crap in your life and I think you should get far far away from this shithead asap. Don't even think about forgiving him or sleeping with him no matter how much he does or says to get you back. :bullwhip: Believe me that the troubles with this one won't ever end. For your own sanity's sake start looking for your own apt right now and get the hell outta there! :moped:

We are all behind you. :goodvibes: :grouphug:

cinammonkisses
12-15-2003, 10:13 PM
I'm glad you decided to play the song BB! You know that through it all, we all have your back, especially me! :grouphug:

blondhottie
12-16-2003, 07:26 AM
I'm sorry that happened to you. It sounds like you did the right thing by breaking up with him though. It seems like he had something to hide because he would not tell his ex to stop calling in front of you. You deserve better; when you are ready you will find a guy who deserves you. In the meantime hang out with your friends a lot and make a ton of money! I know breakups are really tough; I hope you feel better soon. :hug:

blackbeauty
12-16-2003, 09:09 AM
well ladies he finally told her in front of me and she and I even had a civilized chat. She was highly pissed about the situation and decided that she will not be calling. Whatever! I told her I had no problem with her and she flipped the whole situation around and made it seem like we were adding drama to her life. She is such an actress, literally! She was so melodramatic! However, we resolved things and got back together.

seraya
12-16-2003, 09:20 AM
I said he might change his mind after all this and tell her...

Well i hope that this WILL be the last of the bs and that he will start putting you first from now on.

As long as your happy honey, it's all good!

Seraya~

blackbeauty
12-16-2003, 09:47 AM
Thanx babe!





I said he might change his mind after all this and tell her...

Well i hope that this WILL be the last of the bs and that he will start putting you first from now on.

As long as your happy honey, it's all good!

Seraya~

cash
12-16-2003, 09:53 AM
good to hear that things turned around ...lets hope he's sincee this time.....to hell with her ..she knew it was over between them she just did'nt want to accept it

scorpio
12-16-2003, 10:30 AM
I'm glad to hear that everything worked out for you. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself, too!!!

Big hug,
Venus

VenusGoddess
12-16-2003, 10:34 AM
Oooopsy!! heehee

Didn't realize I wasn't logged in on my SN! Heh heh....duuuuh.

:withstupid:

blondhottie
12-16-2003, 10:54 AM
Well, that's good he finally told her in front of you. Sounds like she finally got the message. Hope everything goes well for you.

cinammonkisses
12-16-2003, 11:31 PM
Hmm Ya'll are back together huh? Well I hope this time he is sincere with his love for you. Hopefully this small hill will be the last hurdle you and him have to jump for any time soon. Good job on fightin for what's yours.