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bambiblue
01-23-2004, 08:53 PM
I worked at this pastie club for like 2 weeks once. When i was onstage a guy reached up onto stage and twisted my nipple. I slapped his mouth and embarassed him in front of anyone who would listen. I went in the dressing room and told the house mom what he did to me and that I slapped him. She was totally cool about it and then went out and yelled at him herself. The guy you hit totally got what he deserved, and it would be highly unlikely that he would ever call the cops on you because I'm sure he wouldn't want to get himself a sexual harassment charge. Anyway, I went back to my all nude juice bar... I don't have to put up with drunken idiots anymore!

Farrah_Holiday
01-24-2004, 12:27 AM
Not recently..But I have had my share of asses in the past that thought my 5'4, 105 self could be intimidated or abused my them..

Fawn
01-24-2004, 12:53 AM
I've never hit a customer, but I wanted to so badly the other day. Just as a guy was leaving, I had just given him a dance, and he paid me, starts walking towards the door and I happen to be headed near there, he stops me like he's going to tell me something and licks my face. I mean from the bottom of my chin, up over my lips and across one eye. I was shocked, I sood there for a moment not knowing what happened as he just left. I don't know why I froze. It wasn't fear, in any other situation I'd have been the first one throwing punches. It just totally took me by surprise.

VADEN
05-07-2004, 06:55 AM
Oh yeah! >:( I was standing at the bar with a customer and another dancer and this drunk, loud mouth f*ck was carrying on about how all stripper's were sluts and whore's and how he could pick up a cheaper girl on Martin Luther King Blvd. He was going on for awhile and I was staying cool and quite until I lost my cool and said to him "So why are you here?" He looks at me and say's "Stupid Fu**ing Bit**!" I flipped wilson! I reached past my customer who was standing between the F*ck and I and Bit** smacked him. He fell back and spilled his 25th drink of the night on his shirt. At that point 5 or 6 guys stood up and were about to open a can of whoop-ass on him but the bouncer came first and drug him out by the collar. After that I went on stage and everyone in the club came up and tipped me more than normal.

LEIGH_LANDON
05-07-2004, 07:06 AM
Vaden - I LOVE that line: I flipped wilson! LMAO!

Thats a call back to some OLD television programming love! LOLOLOL!!

I hope ya don't mind - I am snitchin that saying - ITS DAMN FUNNY!

Gynger
05-07-2004, 09:45 AM
I've been bitten while on stage, had my bikini top untied while giving a private dance with my back to the guy, I've had my ass cheeks licked, spanked and I've had my hair pulled. I'd like to say that in two of these cases the bouncer just happened to walk in and kick the SOB out, and and the others, I've come back and just slapped the guy clean across the face. (just reflex reaction) I've never gotten in trouble for it and nowadays, I tell all the customers I give dances to, "you see my heels? They are high for a reason, you touch me, and you lose. Capeesh?"

lalalatina
05-07-2004, 10:12 AM
Yeah I slapped a few customers. But one guy stands out in my mind because i didn't slap him. I spit on him. I calmy came over to sit and chat with him and maybe get a dance with him, and he blurted out to me "I like those girls, (blond, skinny) becuase they are quality girls and come from a good home, not scum like you who has the same color as shit!" I couldn't belive it. So I told him, "Fuck you, you fuck!" And i spit on him. Felt soooo good.

Tia_q
05-07-2004, 12:17 PM
Yeah I slapped a few customers. But one guy stands out in my mind because i didn't slap him. I spit on him. I calmy came over to sit and chat with him and maybe get a dance with him, and he blurted out to me "I like those girls, (blond, skinny) becuase they are quality girls and come from a good home, not scum like you who has the same color as shit!" I couldn't belive it. So I told him, "Fuck you, you fuck!" And i spit on him. Felt soooo good.


OMG how horrible:( Glad you did what you did. God what an inferiority complex he must have to say something like that.

Lena
05-07-2004, 03:52 PM
I slapped a guy the other day in the champagne room. He kept trying to lick me, and I told him a couple times to knock it off, then I told him if he did it again I'd slap him. He did it again and I meant to just do a little girly slap and shreik but somewhere between my shoulder and his face my hand picked up a little momentum... LOL

He behaved for the rest of the hour and then he tried to complain to a bouncer and the bouncer kicked him out, then comes running in the dressing room to ask me if I'm okay. I was like, dude, I'm the one that hit him, he's the one that's gonna not be okay LOL

Lena

Bridgette
05-07-2004, 04:42 PM
Lalalatina I am glad to hear you spit on that guy. That is exactly what he deserved!

Best story I've got about a dancer hitting a customer didn't involve me. I'm sure I told this story somewhere on this board before, but it was damn funny so what the hell!

Dancing in New Orleans where you have to stand on a 18" pedestal to do table dances. Worked with a girl who was a 4'10" fitness freak. She was on a pedestal doing a dance, and this drunk schmuck walked by going to the bathroom and pulled her ponytail. He came out of the bathroom and did it again, and I guess in that case it was two strikes you're out cuz she turned around and, being on the pedestal, was just high enough to punch him square in the face, closed-fist. Knocked him back on his ass and sent his drink flying. He was grappling on the floor and she was standing over him on that box looking like Mighty Mouse, yelling at him. LOL that was just priceless.

oceanblue
05-12-2004, 02:24 PM
I had a customer try to shove his fingers up my ass while i was turned around so i grabbed his hand , gave him my flirtiest smile, brought his hand to my motuh as if i was gonna suck his fingers then chomped down on the webbing in between his thumb and forefinger. He is still a regular customer of mine but now he knows better than to stuff things where they dont belong. I dont believe in physically hurting others unless they really deserve it and touching my no no areas is definetly a good reason to hurt someone in my oppinion. I dont care who thinks its wrong or a double standard, I will continue to defend myself. Does anyone like being molested? I didnt think so!

madmaxine
05-18-2004, 08:49 PM
Yeah, a few. No regrets.

Isis
05-18-2004, 09:23 PM
I've also had to smack a few guys who have got out of hand. I agree with what Leigh said a few pages back. Guys will try the odds and see if they can get away with stuff and often they don't take no for an answer. Those kind leave a dancer little choiced but to defend herself if there's not a bouncer in the imediate area.

Lexi
05-18-2004, 09:59 PM
I havent actually hit anyone in my club, but I did pinch the shit out of his wrists. I was doinga dance with my ass facing him and he grabbed my hips. (fine by me) but then he tried to slide down into my gstring and I pushed his hands away. After he attempted this a few more times, I finally pinched him HARD and looked back and gave him a nasty smirk. He stopped then. (That shit hurt) ;)

jessiendav
06-06-2004, 11:55 PM
They call me Jessie the Body where I work and its not because of the body(pic left). I used to work in a biker bar and the guys called me psycho and stomach of steel. I have had many, many episodes where I took my agression out on men at work. Once I put my cigarette out on a guys face. Once I bit a guys face and made him bleed. Numerous smacks and punches. One time my customers friend was annoying me and I warned him he was about to get his ass kicked. Guys always think that's funny, like oh yeah right by you? Anyway I reached across the table and clocked him in the nose and mouth with one swing. He jumped up with his hands to his face and when he pulled his hands away blood gushed everywhere. My manager was upset with me but couldn't help laughing because I'm so small. He asked me to please never make a guy spit blood at him(while speaking) again.

onlythebest
06-07-2004, 12:26 AM
No I haven't.Instead,I would interlace my fingers with his and twist under very sharply so it would sprain his wrist.Kinda like the game "mercy" we all used to play as kids.This way no one hears the slap and it's just his word against yours.

CrescentLuna
06-07-2004, 01:55 AM
I'm like onlythebest, I've yet to hit a customer but I have done the interlaced fingers bit - to date this has always worked, though I usually only do when it is end of shift and I'm tired. Though I have got to be more aggressive about telling the guy that if he does X action again he'll have to sit on his hands, more than likely I push them away, but he starts again.

Oh, and the whining really gets me, I hate that so much! And the kind-of-compliment "but your breasts so pretty I just can't help touching them!" or "how can you expect me not to want to lick/suck that?" techniques, like I'll be flattered into prostitution?? grrrrg. >:(

Muyaha
06-07-2004, 01:46 PM
One time... this is when I first started dancing, this guy tried to finger me and I grab his neck as hard as I could. Another time while I was doing a lap dance this guy pulled out his dick and sac after telling him numerous times not to so I kicked him as hard as I could with my heels.

Bridgette
06-07-2004, 02:58 PM
I've also had to smack a few guys who have got out of hand. I agree with what Leigh said a few pages back. Guys will try the odds and see if they can get away with stuff and often they don't take no for an answer. Those kind leave a dancer little choiced but to defend herself if there's not a bouncer in the imediate area.


You bet. And often even if there IS a bouncer in the area, we are STILL left to fend for ourselves. When some asshole bit my nipple I damn well hit the f*cker. When some racist pig kicked my shin *because I had just done a dance for a black guy* and then approached him, I kicked him back in the groin with my 6" heels. When some creep kept trying to poke me with his fingers *in front of the manager* I grabbed both his hands and slammed them as hard as I could into the arms of his chair. And anytime some pathetic piece of crap continually tries to molest me when I am clearly telling him no, I will hit him in the face.

These guys do NOT take no for an answer and will see how far they can push us. We are often and regularly left alone to defend ourselves from these apes and under those conditions I see absolutely nothing wrong with getting physical, since they get physical first and they do NOT listen to anything we say. This is the type of guy that thinks going into a SC where no one in his normal life knows him and paying for a girl's attention gives him license to treat her like so much horseshit. I will defend myself every time and not feel the least bit sorry. In fact I usually feel they deserved *more* than what I gave them.

LoveSexMoney
06-07-2004, 04:18 PM
Once I put my cigarette out on a guys face.


OMG! :shocking: I know that sounds so mean then why did I almost pee my pants laughing?

shift_6x
06-07-2004, 05:00 PM
One night this guy was calling me a whore for not dancing for his $3-4 .(it was closing time and i didint have the time as i did thank him but he still got mad) I yelled back at him calling him a cheap ass bastard he didnt stop running his mouth so i ran off the runway, and ran towards his punk ass and before i knew it i was being pushed back to safety for a huge fight broke out. I thought it was funny-- piece of shit bastard, looking back at it. Stupid fuck. I didnt get to bust him in the face with a beer bottle or anything which sucked. It didint help that the guy was 4 times bigger then me either, but I wasnt going to take his shit.

06-08-2004, 03:32 AM
Not yet, but then, I have not been working in clubs long. So far it has been sufficient to say on the FIRST offense, "DO NOT touch me, and if it happens again, this dance is over"
I keep waiting for the stupid fuck who does go too far just so I can take out my aggression on him full force, and yes, I know that is bad... bad, bad, bad. I need a punching bag.

toxicgirl
07-05-2004, 10:54 PM
i've hit customers, broke beer bottles on their heads, swatted them on the ass with a leather belt (hard). but i do think my favorite was the time i pissed in a guy's drink. i was in vip and this guy was too grabby. so when he wasnt looking (he was on his cell), i pissed in his drink. we were sitting on the couch and when he was done, i got the satisfaction of watching him gulp the drink down!

kitana
07-11-2004, 05:20 AM
Damn, now I know where you got your name from Toxic!


LOL, I have punched, kicked, slapped, pinched, & bitten guys who think they can get away with that crap. I smacked the shit outta a guy Wed. night for mistaking me for a salt-lick; not once, but twice. First time, I told him, do it again and you'll get slapped. I guess he thought I was kidding, so he tried it again. *SMACK*, poor guy. I made his head roll sideways. All the guys sitting on the stage by him were like Damn! Then each one of them (5), tipped me a $20 each.

My all time best one thought was when a guy was trying to get all frisky in the VIP one night. I told him you better be good; I might look like an angel, but I'm more like the devil. He thoguht I was kidding too I guess. He tried to flip me over on my back and pin me on the couch. Big mistake! I fight better on my back. I threw my legs up over his head and around his throat, and swung him on the floor, sat over top of him till he regained consienceness. I told him, see? I told ya. After he got back up, he gave me $200, and said I'm so sorry. The funny part was he only owed me $20 for the dance!

I have never, and never will put up with assholes who think because I don't have a penis, that they can get over on me. Will not happen. It still amazes me though how many of them see the big USMC tat on my leg and can't put 2 and 2 together.

Do not push me, you will not be happy if I push back! ;) I do know how to rip your throat out, and I might if I'm in a bad mood!

Kitana

WARNING! Beware of pussy!

KittenCaboodle
08-10-2006, 07:43 PM
Hell yes!

I once smacked a drunk customer in the face with my horse whip prop after telling him 3 times not to touch my f**king ass every time he walks past me, he thought it was a fun game and tried to go for a 4th grope so wacked him (hard) in the face (much to the shock of his mates) who complained to the bouncer and owner who only said "If we caught you touching the ladies we'd do ALOT worse" then they called the cops (who of course didnt show up) then threatened to sue me as they were leaving. That was 2yrs ago!

Fathom7
08-12-2006, 01:29 AM
Not on purpose, but *accidents* do happen :)

MishaBliss
08-12-2006, 03:56 AM
Yep...many times. I've smashed a few cameras too.

ga peach
08-13-2006, 05:43 PM
i stepped on a guys hand with stilletos on because he tried to slide his hand up in personal areas >:(
and i hit a guy with an ashtray for grabbing my boob and the law was called but they told him he read the rules no touching the dancers and they asked me did iwant to press charges fro assault because where he grabbed me i said no the ashtray was enough and if i still danced iwould hit another one if they touched me iinappropiatly and i wouldnt feel bad and neither should you you are there to dance not be gropped

blondi553
08-13-2006, 07:32 PM
not HIT but i have smacked some hands off

stripperMBA
08-13-2006, 09:26 PM
Yes, I have hit customers. I have been a dancer for four years, and have had to do my fair share to defend myself or make a point. I have also had customer experiences like the following: pushing me into a table, throwing a beer bottle at me, bite me, twist my arm, and go ape shit cursing at me. Customers must be put in their place and shown boundaries by the dancer,the bouncers, and the management. If no boudraries are set for them then the customers who do know how to behave would probably not come into the club (thereby causing everyone to lose money) or they would go crazy just like the rest.
Often you have to command respect to get it. That is just the way it is.

keira
08-13-2006, 10:00 PM
I think it's disgusting that guys think it's ok to do this stuff, it's sexual assult, the law should be taken more seriously, they should be the one charged. It's not just strip clubs or strippers either, it happens in bars and clubs to off duty and civillians too.
At shows we used to handcuff grabby customers to the poles and leave them there until their howling got anoying, or someone found the key, whichever was the later. Still I've kicked a few, it's a reflex.

Rockette
08-14-2006, 04:12 PM
I have also hit a a customer before. I was dancing for him on stage and he was more than a little drunk. I was full nude and as I squatted down to do a move, he started to put a few dollars in my garter. That's not a problem as customers do this all the time. The problem arose when he "accidentily" brushed his hand up against my pussy. Let me re-phrase that, he didn't brush his hand up against it, he smooshed his hand up against it then turned his hand over and felt it with his palm. I punched him dead in this face and he fell to the floor. Security came and hauled his ass away and then a bunch of guys came to the stage to tip me. They were like, "Don't hit me okay?" Even his buddies came and apologized and gave me like 5 bucks each. It was funny but disgusting. I wiped myself for like 10 minutes straight with feminine wipes after that .

I've had nearly the same happen to me, but I actually brought my elbow down onto his collarbone instead. I knew I got him really good, but that hurt like tell for me for about a week afterwards, left a nasty bruise on my elbow from the hit.

I really don't know why some men they can think they get away with anything. I've had more than a few occaisions where a man tries to remove his pants during a lapdance. No idea what these guys are thinking... :censored:

kandie_kitten
08-14-2006, 05:34 PM
Just an FYI...hitting customers is a bad idea...1) I dont know about you girls...But I'm small...a lot of these customers are big, often drunk, and if they're the kind of guy to grab at you or bite you or shove their dick in you sneakily, they probably have no problem smacking you either...they could seriously hurt you before a bouncer could get there...2) if you're a dancer who makes a scene, even if the guys deserve it, a lot of clubs will fire you to avoid any problems with police or angry customers.
I'm not saying you should do nothing...screaming at the top of your lungs can help...but I really recommend taking martial arts classes, with a instructor who is very proficient in pressure point self defense...I've mentioned it before, that when a customer gets grabby (especially int he VIP) I move in like I'm going to rub his neck...apply a pressure point (it takes no strength whatsoever...if you have the strength to hold a pencil, you can do this too) press the point, and he is so completely in pain that he cannot move his body whatsoever (you can also do this with pressure points in the wrist/hand etc...other pressure points I find more useful in dropping someone to the ground). The bonys? Pressure points leave no marks or bruises...so when he complains that the little girl hurt him, he looks like a real idiot lol

jsmythe23
08-14-2006, 06:58 PM
I agree with Kandie Kitten about not leaving marks or evidence, that's why I like to use a kick or a knee to the balls, hard!. Gives them the maximum amount of pain and no evidence of it afterwards. I've done it on more than a few occasions and can even make it look like an accident.

jordankeywest
09-16-2006, 10:28 AM
absolutley-without hesitation.

Cally
09-16-2006, 10:35 AM
Umm... I beat the living shit out of the guy who ripped my eyebrow ring out cuz I wouldnt let him grab my pussy... the guy tried to sue the club... it was a huge headache... then the lawyers laughed him out and said it was self defence. Thank god.

Minette
09-16-2006, 10:58 AM
Last night some pretty little drunk boy, who clearly thought he was hot shit stuck his hand in my pussy, and I'm still not sure how it happened - next thing I knew I'd twirled around and twisted his hand up and around, all in one smooooooth motion, and snarled in his face about his unacceptable, inappropriate behavior. I realized later that was kind of thing we said to mentally ill clients who were misbehaving (without the snarling), back when I was social worker. I guess you can take the girl out of the social work, but not the social work out of the girl. The twirl and twist thing though - I still don't know where that came from.

TROU8LE~
09-16-2006, 01:01 PM
absolutley-without hesitation.
yup, same here. I was on stage at the time while doing so. It was great. Plus,his drink went all over him. }:D

Yung1
09-16-2006, 01:42 PM
so it goes... 1.Warning 2.warning/club rules speech 3.push him off 4. beat his ass ....... in most cases?

KatGrrl
09-16-2006, 08:09 PM
Just last week I smacked a regular customer. A great customer I thought - I guess he took liberties he shouldn't have and touched me innappropriately and I instinctively just swatted him. It happened so fast, I shocked myself as much as him. He says something beyond lame: "I thought we were cool!" wtf. we are Not cool.

And just have to add (for another thread, I know) it's so much more fun when you get one of the humiliation/pain fetishists who WANT YOU TO HIT THEM AS HARD AS YOU CAN!

Yekhefah
09-16-2006, 08:23 PM
I hit a guy in the club once in Vegas. He wasn't spending money, so I don't really consider him a customer, but I was trying to hustle him for a VIP and he was drunk. He pulled me against himself and started kissing my neck, and the next thing I knew he was on the ground. I didn't mean to, but I punched him as hard as I could in the windpipe. I didn't feel bad about it, either. On the contrary, it felt great to know that I could defend myself instinctively.

mollyzmoon
09-16-2006, 08:46 PM
As I was walking by a guy pulled the string on my bikini side and pulled the bottoms off. It was just such an assholey insulting fucking thing to do, I turned around and slapped him across the face. The look he got- was scary. He was 'a big deal' kinda guy, one of those who sit in the corner all special and dark-secrety, and I usually have nothing to do with. Yeah, it would have been cooler to just have slapped him and huffed off, but I had to make a big deal of apologizing and sucking up afterward. Hell's Angels guys (which I thought *maybe* just maybe he was a part of...like I said, him and his group had that air about them). Humiliation would be better than being in the trunk of a car.

candygrrl
09-18-2006, 11:51 AM
Ive hit many customers. Do not start shit with me!

Pretty_Penny
09-18-2006, 10:53 PM
about a year ago i gave a customer a black eye and a bloody nose by punching him about 7 times in the face. i also kicked him as hard as possible in the crotch when he tried to stand up and get away.

my hand was black and blue the next day.

ExoticEngineer
09-19-2006, 01:42 PM
We will get in trouble in our club if we hit a customer....unless it is self defense ofcourse....so I have had to resort to OTHER methods.....

Friday night, a very drunk and onwry crowd in the bar...I was fed up and tired. Then a little guy (I am 6', so he was VERY little to me!) came up politely and asked for a dance. he was sober and nice! Yay! Two seconds into the dance he started to grope. I grabbed his hands and told him to behave or the dance was over....he said, sure, sorry, got it. I let go...and sure enough, just as the song was ending he made the move, grabbed my hand and put it on his crotch!
I pulled my hand away and said "What the hell do you think you are doing?" He looked so confused and truly upset that I wouldn't touch him!
Then he hands me a twenty and asks how much he owes for the dance. Our dances are ten dollars, and at our club we can't tell them it's more than that, but we can encourage a tip....heh..... "ten dollars for the dance and a ten dollar a**hole fee" He says What? I repeat myself.
He says I don't understand. I told him that it would be a great thing for him to tip me after behaving so badly and being such a jerk.
He then asks if he tips me will I then touch his dick?!?!?! Oh No! I say no, I will not...duh!
He says, Just bring me my change please............................................ ....
OKAY!
I come back with two five dollar bills, torn into many many little peices. He says What happened to my money!? I say, I don't know, it just came like that, but ya know, you're so good with your hands, I bet you could tape it together in no time!

And walked away.

Yekhefah
09-19-2006, 01:43 PM
about a year ago i gave a customer a black eye and a bloody nose by punching him about 7 times in the face. i also kicked him as hard as possible in the crotch when he tried to stand up and get away.

my hand was black and blue the next day.

Damn! What did he do?

Optimist
09-20-2006, 08:13 AM
I come back with two five dollar bills, torn into many many little peices. He says What happened to my money!? I say, I don't know, it just came like that, but ya know, you're so good with your hands, I bet you could tape it together in no time!

And walked away.

Oh my God, I love you!

Louise
09-21-2006, 03:24 PM
Am I the only one who's ever broken this rule? I didn't even mean to and now I have this silly little unresolved anger/stress over it!

I've hit customers many times. We're not supposed to, and it's discouraged... but screw it, if I guy is going to grab me, bite me, lick me or get in my face, I'm going to defend myself.

I work in a NO contact club... the customers aren't suppost to touch you whatsoever. Mother fo, if you're going to hurt me, I'm going to distract you any way I can so I can get away!

Bellona
09-21-2006, 05:30 PM
I am going to say this again..It is against the law to assault anyone.If you find it that difficult to be a work without attacking someone maybe this is'nt the job for you. This includes assaulting other dancers. My 2 cents , sorry.

TheSexKitten
09-21-2006, 05:38 PM
^^ Sexual assault is also against the law. ::)