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Rhiannon
02-11-2004, 07:42 PM
Zoey, no one is laughing at HIM.

Anyway, not everything in the paper is legit. Gotta make sure they have a legit fund or place that shows proof of whats going on.
I'd gladly send money if its legit and he gets the money.


Exactly.

Zoey, I don't think anyone's making fun, or anything like that. But, there has to be a designated place to send the money, or a specific person who is proven to handle the donations. No one's saying that this is a scam, but we do know that there are some out there. If you find out who is in charge of getting donations, definitely post their contact information. I'm sure we'll all be very happy to help this little one.

Farrah_Holiday
02-11-2004, 07:43 PM
i dont know what hospital it is its the big burn hospital in texas well know i guess, i will see if there is any way you guys can send the money to a fund or to the parents or somthing.



There is a burn center in Galveston, about an hour outside of Houston

Rayleen
02-11-2004, 07:57 PM
Anyone else seeing a pattern here

Eyes/Robin/Claire/Ryan/Zoey = drama,drama,drama :frown:

lets see first it was she needs $ for a boobjob, then money issues about her truck or whatever all that was about and then in the hospital and now send money to this address to help a kid.

How many times has this :troll: been banned ?

If people want to donate to charity causes there are plenty or reputable organizations. so I sure hope none of the big hearted folks here fall for this; it screams SCAM.

And I swear if I read "ganna" one more time I'm going to :computer:

Madcap
02-11-2004, 08:04 PM
:banghead:

shedevil4260
02-11-2004, 08:15 PM
:umbrella: Please make it all go away!! :banned:

emilybelle
02-11-2004, 08:35 PM
"ganna"?

not a clue what that word was...so i had to reread it in the context it was being used. Should i have to think so hard when reading these posts?

Farrah_Holiday
02-11-2004, 08:37 PM
Anyone else seeing a pattern here

Eyes/Robin/Claire/Ryan/Zoey = drama,drama,drama :frown:

lets see first it was she needs $ for a boobjob, then money issues about her truck or whatever all that was about and then in the hospital and now send money to this address to help a kid.

How many times has this :troll: been banned ?

If people want to donate to charity causes there are plenty or reputable organizations. so I sure hope none of the big hearted folks here fall for this; it screams SCAM.

And I swear if I read "ganna" one more time I'm going to :computer:


Rayanna,
You forgot the how to get a man thread . Don't do this :computer:
do this :beat:

Madcap
02-11-2004, 08:38 PM
LOL farrah!

NVJosh
02-11-2004, 09:35 PM
Ouch! Sorry, it hurts when I bite my tongue that hard.

Gynger
02-11-2004, 10:15 PM
Storm? What storm? It looks like a freaking assed hurricane!!!!!!

Rayleen
02-11-2004, 10:32 PM
Rayanna,
You forgot the how to get a man thread . Don't do this :computer:
do this :beat:


Farrah- your posts with all the smiley's are just great-you are too funny!

Speaking of smileys I wonder if there is one out there that is a side view of a guy laughing and then his butt falls off. Ya know like laughing my ass off!
I think that would be a great one! I'd have used it for sure after reading some of yours post ;D

Lena
02-12-2004, 04:46 PM
Well, for once it's just a hurricane of people using every smiley available and being extremely off-topic. Zoey is behaving herself and ignoring the off-topic posts.

I almost wish someone would remove all the off topic posts....

Zoey, let us know when you find the info.

Lena

zoey
02-12-2004, 05:19 PM
right now i have bigger fish to fry read my post

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 05:31 PM
Like a few of us said Zoey, provide the information about the boy and I will help. By donating money to the hospital or a fund at a bank in the child's name.

I however am upset at the drama, thats been going on. Unlike others I actually beleived your Danielle is in the hospital post. I was so emotionally upset that day. I even called you as you know. Suicide is not something to play with ! I have lost 2 friends because them feeling overwhelmed and taking their own lives. They were not attention grabbers, they were go getters and their deaths left us all in shock.
I am a very caring person and I don't take playing with other people's emotions as lightly as you do. I think every single person on this Earth matters. I also treat people in the same manner I wish to be treated.
Once again if you want EVERYONES HELP NOW. Then post the information that we need to help this child..
Farrah
Farrah

zoey
02-12-2004, 05:34 PM
hi guys, i really could use some of you advice right now.
last night i had had enough of ryan beating on me it was the last straw so i called the cops right on the spot the arrested him and took him to jail, booked him with simple demestic asult. and i was in a horbale mess in the head so i decided i was ganna check my self into the hospital i sayed over night and tryed to think things threw, im the morning i called galen ryans dad and told him ryan was in jail he said he knew and went off one me
. bottom line i have no car to get a job i live by my self .
some one please help me before i go crazy

NVJosh
02-12-2004, 05:41 PM
I have no idea if its real or not. For someone so concerned about it, she's awfully vague about the details, despite pleas from a number of people. And, she's fighting a huge credibility gap.

Right now, I'm considering her the girl who cried wolf.

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 05:43 PM
I am with you on this one ! Now she has even started yet another drama thread..I think its time to just ignore this attention grabber !
AGHHHHHH

zoey
02-12-2004, 05:47 PM
evedence #1 my hospital braclet from the phyc ward

[attachment deleted by admin]

She did prove herself, she posted her medical bracelet and police report. But for her own safety we took it down.

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 05:49 PM
Heres what you should do.. call a shelter and leave..Go to the doctor and get some medications for your disorder.
Stop posting non-sense on the forum. Get up everyday and excercise..set goals for yourself and achieve them. Then start doing things for others.

blondhottie
02-12-2004, 05:55 PM
That's real smart, posting your first and last name on an Internet message board so that anyone can find out your address, phone number, and other information about you. ::)

zoey
02-12-2004, 05:56 PM
look at the big pritty restraining order, so to all of thos who think i lie and try to get attention this proves im telling the truth. so would some one please help me with some advise
please?

zoey
02-12-2004, 05:57 PM
i really dont care cause im mvoing any ways

Rhiannon
02-12-2004, 06:05 PM
Zoey,

Sorry about everything that's going on with you. But you do have to understand where everyone on here is coming from. It's been one drama after another with you. It's also not wise to post anything with your real name and Ryan's real name. I'm not saying that anyone here would use the information maliciously, but you do have to be careful online.

I'm really reluctant to give you advice, because you do always find a reason not to take any that anyone offers. So why ask? Everyone here has given you very good advice, and I agree with it all. See a doctor. I know you said you're on medication, but it seems as if you need something stronger.

Your relationship with Ryan is obviously not a good one. You should have thought about this BEFORE you moved in with him. A week is hardly enough time to really KNOW someone.

I would tell you that I mean no harm in this response, but I know you'll take offense to it anyway. Seriously, see a doctor. We all are pretty tired of the drama. If I want drama, I can easily sign off. I have enough of my own, as I'm sure everyone else on here does.

NVJosh
02-12-2004, 06:07 PM
This may prove that you're telling the truth about this. Quite frankly, you could be making a baseless complaint. That being said, I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.. It does not change the fact that you post for attention (IMO, some may disagree). And Farrah already gave you good advice. Find a battered women's shelter and check in there. They are trained to deal with this sort of thing. They may even be able to help you with re-establishing yourself elsewhere (that's pure speculation on my part). Bottom line is that they are much more likely to be able to give you good advice than people on this board.

And since you have the time to surf the net, why not check it for resources for battered women. Again, they are the experts on this sort of thing much more so than the collective community of StripperWeb.

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 06:10 PM
Heres what you should do.. call a shelter and leave..Go to the doctor and get some medications for your disorder.
Stop posting non-sense on the forum. Get up everyday and excercise..set goals for yourself and achieve them. Then start doing things for others.


I forgot to add stop throwing temper tantrums and remove that damn picture !

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 06:22 PM
www.ndvh.org www.s-t.com/projects/DomVio/domviohome.HTML
www.silcom.com/~paladin/madv www.cybergrrl.com/planet/dv/ - 19k

kryssy
02-12-2004, 06:30 PM
When is Ryan getting out of jail? Everyone else was right a battered woman's shelter will help you out, but only if you are willing to help yourself. Start off with loving and respecting yourself and others will do the same. DO NOT jump into a relationship. The therapists at the shelter will help you out with your feelings, will help you to start working, and most shelters have programs set up with apartments. I really hope that you seek help.

p.s. Dont you know how very dangerous it is to give out your last name on the internet?

tranquil_waters
02-12-2004, 06:57 PM
Hi I want all of your money because I am broke :ashamed:Just give me your account numbers and I will gladly spend your money. No I can not tell you why I am broke , no I cannnot give you any info . But I must have your money. :crackup: :wide-eyed:Thank You in advance. :thanx: :beer:

Lena
02-12-2004, 07:43 PM
Hi Zoey,

First, get your stuff together. Get your ID, Passport, all the papers with your financial info, your truck title, and anything valuable. Put it all together in a bag where you can get to it.

Second, look in the front of your phone book for the number to the womens shelter. Call them. Tell them that your bf is in jail and your alone with no job and no transportation and no way to pay your bills and you need help.

Third, come back here and tell me what they say.

Lena

JimLovesJazz
02-12-2004, 07:54 PM
Though I have not done any searches on the validity of this in my gut I also feel Zoey was setting up a scam- which might just be prosecutable. Any lawyers or law enforcement in the house ?
If there is no small boy suffering then I find it to be completly disgusting and reprehensible behavior. If this boy does exist well then I would like to donate to his care however through the proper channels ofcourse.

zoey
02-12-2004, 08:02 PM
they gve me a bunch of papers about the shelter that i have been looking over. i have not made any decisounse yet. he is not alound back in thoe house so i am ok here, im just verry confused right now, and as far as medical help that is where i was at last night was the atlantic phyc ward. where they popped me full of meds and pushed me out the door. nice hun?so please stop saying i need to be seen wheni already have ben.

JimLovesJazz
02-12-2004, 08:03 PM
Excellent advice from Lena and others for a battered woman.
If this is real (which considering your past behavior I have doubts similar to NVJosh's) please seek further education after help from a shelter so that you will be able to support yourself someday.

Gynger
02-12-2004, 08:06 PM
OH I am very sad about this... I too Farrah, did a search late last night (could not sleep) As a mother of a child and because I believe in helping children who need it I gave this post the benefit of the doubt, and could also not find a damn thing that matched this story. It reminds me of the woman who shaved her daughter's head and told everyone she was sick with Cancer. All I have to say, is that people who decide to deceive others by scamming deserve to burn in hell.

Gynger
02-12-2004, 08:29 PM
Zoey: You can go to any emergency room and tell any emergency room doctor or nurse what has taken place with you. There are programs in place to help you. If you truly want to get yourself out of your situation, I suggest (and this is my two cents for what it is worth, I have not yet given you any) that you take a couple of these other posts seriously. You have to want to help yourself, you can't keep posting all of this on the forum, we are here to help, but we are also in cyberland. I'm sorry that this has happened to you, but, you need to get up and dust yourself off, and get out of your situation and move FORWARD. Do not ignore the paperwork you were given, follow through and get out. Although I don't agree with some of the things you've posted, and am skeptical about one post particuliarly, no one deserves to be beat up by anyone and I would hope that you have enough love and respect for yourself to change your situation. But remember, you can either make this the biggest soap opera of your life, or get up, dust yourself off and change your situation and turn it around. I wish you luck, let us know what you decide.

bloodydewdrop
02-12-2004, 08:46 PM
good grief ::)

ok, the person on SW who lives closet to Atlantic, Iowa should go to the bars and hunt down Zoey's former bartender quarry. He'll direct all possible monetary contributions to a beer pitcher.

if anyone does find that a little boy in serious condition does exist, lemme know...

but after Gynger's post, i'm seriously doubting this stuff.

*sigh*

Lena
02-12-2004, 08:50 PM
Zoey,

You can't stay in the house if you can't pay the rent. You can't get a job if you live in the middle of nowhere with no car. You need to talk to someone in your area who knows what programs are available (like a counselor at the women's shelter).

What papers did they give you? And how old are you now, hon?

Also, you're not going to get a competent med adjustment at the hospital. If your meds need adjusted, you need to see a real psychiatrist (ie, one that sits down and talks to you for an hour, diagnoses you, and gives you meds).

Let me know what the papers you have from the shelter are, okay?

Lena

Pamela
02-12-2004, 08:51 PM
The hospital i work at has very advanced technology. We can look up Hospitals all over the country that specialise in every dept. The best for children who are burn victims is " Memorial Hermann Hospital" in Houston.

All we need is the childs first and last name, to donate. No fund required, the hospital will gladly take monies donated to the child and family.

If this is the correct hospital.??? It's the best there for burn victims who are children. Trauma level...1.

Let us know, PS Zoey it will be in the papers, i can find that out too. Please don't try a scam.

Pamela

Rhiannon
02-12-2004, 09:02 PM
The hospital i work at has very advanced technology. We can look up Hospitals all over the country that specialise in every dept. The best for children who are burn victims is " Memorial Hermann Hospital" in Houston.

All we need is the childs first and last name, to donate. No fund required, the hospital will gladly take monies donated to the child and family.

If this is the correct hospital.??? It's the best there for burn victims who are children. Trauma level...1.

Let us know, PS Zoey it will be in the papers, i can find that out too. Please don't try a scam.

Pamela


Hehe.. Pamela, I totally forgot that you also work at a hospital. So you could definitely find out for us. As for me, though, I'd be hesitant on sending money to the hospital directly. I'd want to be assured that it would reach the person it was intended for.

If this is true, and the family is seeking donations, chances are they have someone designated for it. But, it's quite possible that they're accepting the donations through the hospital also.

At any rate, I think I'd want some kind of proof that this is legit. I can tolerate a lot in this world, but a child's suffering is not one of those things, neither is a scam. Been there once, and learned from it.

So Zoey, if you do know the child's name, give it to Pamela, it's not necessary to post it here for all to see, as the privacy issue has gotten to be more enforced these days. She can find out for us, as she stated.

Pamela
02-12-2004, 09:08 PM
Oh i sooo agree hun. We need a name however. Or... the hospital i work at can pull up burn victims in ALL states within the past week, i simply do a search on that hospital, or surrounding burn centers in Texas. BUT...that won't give me a name. HIPPA rules. Again the newspaper add is do-able too.

Would be easier if Zoey would get a name, or the paper it came out of for us.

Pamela

Pamela

erotictonic
02-12-2004, 09:32 PM
Zoey,

I can tell you exactly what to do. I was in the exact same situation. Believe me when I say I know how you feel. You feel overwhelmed, emotionally out of control, and very confused. You need help before someone really gets hurt or dies. Get your phone book, and look up CASA (Citizens Against Spouse Abuse). Call them, and they will help you. They will come and pick you up, let you live in the house until you get on your feet, and help you find a job and get a car. They will also help you get an Order of Protection against Ryan to keep him away from you for 6 months to a yr. I got one for a yr. and put all my stuff in storage, then sold it all or gave it away, because I just wanted to start over and do it right this time. CASA will also give you free counselling, group and individual. You need to get out of the situation as soon as possible and start controlling your life instead of living it as a victim. Also, after this is accomplished, you may want to call your state mental health center. They will also give you free counselling and meds. The most important thing is to get out of your current situation, then things will look brighter and slowly, you will begin to feel alot better. Trust me, the longer you stay the more you will regret the time you lost. Life is too short to be unhappy. You are worth a lot more than to be beaten. You deserve to be happy and healthy. :cloud9: Good luck.

Jenna
02-12-2004, 09:36 PM
Hey when I was in my sorority, our philanthropy was also CASA, but it stood for Court Appointed Special Advocates in this case. How funny. There was also CAAW - Committee to Aid Abused Women. Perhaps they can help?

Pamela
02-12-2004, 09:47 PM
Here hun use this. They will steer you in the right direction.

Good luck,
pamela



Also i would like to say Zoey, upon seeing the doc. You have the right to a Social Worker, who helps aid you in the right direction with after care, (upon leaving the hospital.) Meds, aid, and clinics.

I am confused, why where you seen at a Psychiatric facility, and not the ED for being beaten up?

Pamela

Madcap
02-12-2004, 10:32 PM
Zoey,

Don't let the guys dad bother you. He probably beats his own wife. Behavior like that is usually leaned somewhere. It doesn't excuse Ryan, though.


P.S.~ Never post your personal info online. It's one thing to do it in a PM but never do it in open forum. There are generally a zillion people lurking here as guests, who knows what they are like.

Rayleen
02-12-2004, 10:34 PM
We need a name however. Or... the hospital i work at can pull up burn victims in ALL states within the past week, i simply do a search on that hospital, or surrounding burn centers in Texas. BUT...that won't give me a name. HIPPA rules. Again the newspaper add is do-able too.

Would be easier if Zoey would get a name, or the paper it came out of for us.


Pamela


She said it happened a month ago in Atlantic Iowa, was 4 or 5 years old
and first name Spencer- 70% burned in Texas. I searched both AOL and Google- found nothing.

If it's real, which Im not holding my breath over; Pamela should be able to find him with her resources and that much info.
I'd help out too- but I'm skepitcal as all hell ::)



about a month ago in atlantic there was a house fire and a little boy about 4 or 5 years old was involved , his body was 70% burned and he is now in the burn center in texas. what i am asking is for donations to help his parents out with the cost of medical care, i found this out threw talking with keith last night, at the bar this sat they are actioning off the bartenders and waitreses to raise money for this little boy. also keith is doing " take a shot for spencer" where a dollar of each shot goes twords spencer (the little boy) im not asking to send the money to me i will find out his grandparents address

Rayleen
02-12-2004, 10:41 PM
OK I removed my previous comments after seeing the order of protection.

I'd like to add the I agree very much with what Mad just said about the dudes father.

Domestic Abuse is taught from generation to generation. There has been alot of useful info posted here that will help victims and that is in itself is a good thing.

Take action~ Get Help

Pamela
02-12-2004, 10:49 PM
This happened in Iowa? And the child was very young and Trauma Hawked to Texas, with 70% burns on his body ??? Wow! I am at a loss.

I found one area burn center in Iowa.

Sioux City, Iowa. # 712 279-3440, seems he had to hit this area hospital first perhaps. Or another nearby hospital with air travel.

Pamela

Rare, to move a child or adult with this much burn to Texas for me. Los of nearby hospitals closer to treat this serious condition.

Zoey....please tell.

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 10:50 PM
Yeah..I am from Houston there is a really good burn center in Galveston about 45min.-1hr outside of Houston. Plus the medical center..Texas children, Hermann..If Pam can't find him then it must be nonsense..not to mention Zoey hasn't posted the info like she said she would..so I thinki ts fishy whish totally sucks

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 11:05 PM
You know guys we are forgeting that just a few days ago..Zoey came on here asking for us to help her get another man. Then before she complained that her truck was towed and Ryan's DAD paid to get it out. Remember she said it was HER truck. We don't know what been going on in that house. If she behaves half as bad at home as she does on this forum..I can only imagine whats going on between her and Ryan.
My older sister behaves in this same manner. Abuse is wrong..But my gut feeling is telling me something is not right in this situation. Ya'll might get mad but somethingis not right. Like Pam said why did she go to a psych ward and not the ER ? Where is her truck ? Things are just not adding up..

zoey
02-12-2004, 11:05 PM
thats the hospital!! he was at the shriners first. all i know as that his name is spencer i will go down and take pic of the flyer tommaro to cold tonight. and no this is not a scam. just feeel really bad about the kid thats all

Farrah_Holiday
02-12-2004, 11:11 PM
And I have to add we are giving her what we always give her..more attention. Why would Ryan's dad pay to get her truck out if he hates her so much ? The dad is probably pissed about all the drama she and Ryan are always going through. As a parent I would be. Maybe Ryan learned of her flirting with and trying to get this other guy ? Something is not right..I am sorry but, something is not right.Its just not adding up