View Full Version : Bring me a "Extra's" girl
SportsWriter2
03-06-2004, 01:39 PM
Louie, she knew you would get dances from her even without the extras. But she felt comfortable doing THAT for YOU, and that just made it too good for you to resist.... When a dancer's childhood experiences tell her "guys just wanna fuck me," she will NEVER understand how doing less will connect her with better regulars.
vanilla_dog
03-06-2004, 01:44 PM
She did it because she is a dumb slut who needs her ass kicked in the parking lot. People who undersell the market make a lot of enemies. The funny thing is there are probably girls in that club who do extra's for a price who are probably pissed at this girl for doing them for free. And so it goes...
LouieJ
03-06-2004, 01:58 PM
she did it because she knew you'd buy dancers from her again later on...and you did.
But even if she didn't do it I would have, so she would have made the same money either way. She didn't have to do anything extra to get me to buy dances.
I had been getting dances on a regular basis from this girl for months before she decided to get frisky that one night.
Katrine
03-06-2004, 03:15 PM
She was just having fun, no big deal, it happens. Certainly not the smartest move, I'm sure all of you einsteins here have NEVER actually had sexual fun when doing a dance and let things go a little out of control....tsssssk....
vanilla_dog
03-07-2004, 02:42 AM
Hell no Katrine! Everything is under surveillance these days. What do you think happens to those tapes? The last thing I want is some skeazy club owner selling tapes of me wacking some dude off...for free :o
I really think the girl is lazy and unimagitive and needs a nudge in another direction.
NinaDaisy
03-07-2004, 02:19 PM
Just wondering...why DON'T guy guys go turn to escort services, where these things are guaranteed..instead of SC's where the dancers are "supposed" to be there for legal entertainment only? Also, why don't these dancers who do "extras" just work for escort agencies, where the money is undoubtedly better, instead of infiltrating the clubs, and ruining it for those of us who chose not to?
Apparently the extras girls and the guys who seek them have a similar motivation: they want to see what they're getting.
I have friends who've done escort work and escort agencies lie their asses off. They'll send a girl over who barely looks like the pic the guy chose, or barely fits his chosen description. And for the girls, oddly, sometimes it comes down to being in the relative safety of the club rather that in a stranger's hotel room.
Also, a lot of escort agencies take half the girls money and maybe they want to keep it all.
Mostly I think (especially for the guys) they want to see exactly what they're getting.
Katrine
03-07-2004, 05:10 PM
Mostly I think (especially for the guys) they want to see exactly what they're getting.
Yes! This makes perfect sense, its so simple. After Vanilla's descriptions of what a escort gig is like, I can see why the guy would want to take the path of least resistance since they are already aroused with their chosen hot girl in their lap. Btw, Vanilla, not knocking you or anything, I really enjoy reading what you have to say about escorting as I had no idea how it worked before.......
Btw, I do not do or condone extras in clubs, sometimes I just get annoyed at optimism and want to squelch it cause we live in a big bad world...hehehehe :judge:
keeley
03-11-2004, 03:19 AM
if you ask the dancer for extras you are indeed implying that they do sexual favours for money hence prostitute themselves
livenudegirlsunite
03-11-2004, 06:57 AM
Vanilla - I agree that the dumb slut should get her ass kicked in the parking lot.
Do you really think that video footage from the cameras in strip clubs are being sold? I did a search and didn't find much. So, that's why those corrupt government pigs want video cameras in the strip clubs. I'll bet that they make a lot of money off of our work.
I don't understand why the cops put all of their energy into busting dancers. The real problem is with the johns. I guess it's much easier and more profitable to scape goat a bunch of powerless working women than it is to deal with the real problem.
Pamela
03-11-2004, 08:30 AM
Now that is a rip off. I would be pissed, and pursue matters further. Of course with the agency. Have any idea, how easy it is to get a bad rep. as an adult business? Blacklisting is serious shit, for the owner/management. Everyone who sees escorts will know of this incident in a few months flat! That certainly was not escort business, that was BS. And the nerve to ask for money, YEP great way to do business and get hurt.
If you are in a business, you better be able to deliver what the customer wants, or get out of the business. Period. For that price, and all the wating on the guys part, then....Her behaviour...Rolling of the eyes, she got balls!!! Sure being late, or a no show is one thing, but this chicks style says "I am a RIP OFF" all over her.
Pamela
vanilla_dog
03-11-2004, 11:43 PM
Do you really think that video footage from the cameras in strip clubs are being sold? ...
I think it depends on who we are dancing for. A lot of times we may not know who that old guy is who's lap we are sitting on, but the club manager probably does. The tape can be useful in many ways if it's the right guy!
Yes, I think bouncers, doormen, and managers swap, sell, trade and give away every scrap of good footage they can get their hands on. I would never, ever assume otherwise.
That said I have seen some raunchy stuff on the web about VIP but strangely it's in the VIP rooms of straight clubs! Have you ever seen that In The VIP porn?
http://www.inthevip.com/main.htm?id=searchgals.
Those girls know they are being filmed and do it for free!
sander8son
03-12-2004, 12:09 AM
Do you really think that video footage from the cameras in strip clubs are being sold? ...
That said I have seen some raunchy stuff on the web about VIP but strangely it's in the VIP rooms of straight clubs! Have you ever seen that In The VIP porn?
http://www.inthevip.com/main.htm?id=searchgals.
Those girls know they are being filmed and do it for free!
Its because they are paid pornstars. Its all an act. They sell the gimic of the site as picking girls up in clubs. They're not. Its all pre-arranged. Just good marketting, apparantly. Never beleive a porn website.
livenudegirlsunite
03-12-2004, 04:20 AM
I just came across a site with a government study which mentions all of the cities which seem to have a lot of extras several times.
I have only read about half of the pdf file. It is a very informative study. They do mention Houston in the study.
http://www.cia.gov/csi/monograph/women/trafficking.pdf
I take back my comment about the ass kicking in the parking lot.
Vanilla - I will check out your link anyways even if it is just a porn site. Thanks for the info.
Pamela
03-12-2004, 07:54 AM
All this being said, first off we would not have "extras" if dancers are not willing to give it up. So i don't blame the guys, i blame the dancers, they SHOULD know their job.
As for the VIP clips/sites. Funny thing....These vid. shots are not taken from strip clubs. At least the one in Sander's. He's right, these people want abit of fame, they go to hotel rooms, and private homes etc. Anyone can stage a VIP inside the home, make movies and sell them. These are paid sites ONLY wanting your money. Inside strip clubs? Sex on the floor for ALL (even vice) to watch. NOT.
It's a gimic. Sure we all get the "extras" chick who gets caught sucking off in VIP...stupid. She's outa there, that has been my experience, and i am talking south Fl.
Club owners don't tape us, and sell our ld's, why? Other club owners have their own shit going on to watch.
If this "taping from club owners does happen, it's rare. It's illegal, and it's bound to have gotten out to a dancer or someone who "ratted" out the club about this.
I think it's paranoia. Don't do anything wrong, your fine anyway. Remember these club owners are like gynos, they see tits and ass all day. BORING
Pamela
vanilla_dog
03-12-2004, 11:51 AM
Its because they are paid pornstars. Its all an act. They sell the gimic of the site as picking girls up in clubs. They're not. Its all pre-arranged. Just good marketting, apparantly. Never beleive a porn website.
Heh heh. Maybe I'm naive but it says on the site that the girls are not compensated (unless you count liquor). Plus, I have worked in the music biz for quite awhile and have seen how willing girls are to suck and fuck for a bit of fame. They will line up for a chance to blow a famous person- for free and on tape.
Plus that is a lot of porn stars! They have those tapes from all around the country. Tons and tons of tapes!
Have you ever seen the Bang Bus videos? The ones where they "audition" chicks for porn movies then laugh in their faces and kick em out? Do you think they are paid actors too?
Pamela: no one ever gets bored of money. It's not the sex in the tapes the club owners want. It's the money they get when they blackmail and/or sell them to others. And they do tape your LD's!
sander8son
03-12-2004, 01:39 PM
Heh heh. Maybe I'm naive but it says on the site that the girls are not compensated (unless you count liquor). Plus, I have worked in the music biz for quite awhile and have seen how willing girls are to suck and fuck for a bit of fame. They will line up for a chance to blow a famous person- for free and on tape.
Have you ever seen the Bang Bus videos? The ones where they "audition" chicks for porn movies then laugh in their faces and kick em out? Do you think they are paid actors too?
they are paid. I've seen some of the same girls from In the VIP in other sites. As well as seeing some of the guys from In the VIP on other sites.
I've seen bang bus. again, its a concept. they pretend that they pick up random girls, fuck them, then ditch them. they're paid actresses. How often do you see a hot girl just standing on a sidewalk stairing blankly into space??? then, how likely is it that she would actually get in a van with a bunch of guys she doesn't know? Its all an act. I've actually seen a bangbus episode thing where the girl in the end drives off with the van...but im pretty sure they get the van back for the next taping.
all those "amateur tryouts to become stars" type of sites all have paid actresses. they just claim they're not. If they didn't have all these gimics theyd just be average porn sites. its how they try to draw attention to themselves.
heres another example of a porn gimic.....
www.easydater.com i think is the link. basically, they pretend that they're a dating service. and that a girl and a guy both applied to find dates, and get set up on one. so the guy comes over, and what do you know, the girl doesn't want to go out, just wants to have sex with him. then after the sex, she says she doens't want to see him again. which would be one thing if it really happened, but common, they wouldn't be filming it!!!!
In the VIP is also not about VIP/champagne rooms of stripclubs. its supposed to be finding a girl in a regular dance/nightclub and taking her to the VIP section in the club. The guys probably have a deal with one club in town so they can use one of their back offices(that they would then renovate to their liking) to serve as their VIP room. then they find the tallent, and insert them in the club. go up to them, and get them to go "to the VIP." and then, they have sex on camara.
not sure whod be buying tapes of strippers doing LDs. would be pretty shitty. all black and white too im sure.
vanilla_dog
03-12-2004, 01:56 PM
Upskirt video is pretty shitty too but there is a segment of guys who love it. And I did put in my original post that InTheVip is in straight clubs. I was not implying otherwise.
Here is an example of what might happen to a tape
http://www.reviewjournal.com/lvrj_home/2003/May-23-Fri-2003/news/21386501.html
But wait there's more! Undercover police have hidden cam's in their hats as well as mic's and that footage hangs around, too, although storage is more secure one would presume.
Then there are the nifty camera phones. Some clubs prohibit use of cell phones but not all.
Over all it should be pretty obvious that one wants to stay within the bounds of the law with so many forms of surveillance out there. Nobody wants to go to court and watch themselves doing raunchy sex acts in front of a judge, a bailiff, the cop, the court recorder, miscellaneous court officials, your family, friends, and your SO...
What might start as a harmless night of fun can turn into a real mess.
Zabrina
03-12-2004, 04:01 PM
All this being said, first off we would not have "extras" if dancers are not willing to give it up. So i don't blame the guys, i blame the dancers, they SHOULD know their job.
I blame the dancer but the customers are just as much at fault. I've spent some time reading the ASPD site and some of those men are so downright predatory it makes me sick. They LOVE to find a young girl who just wants to make some money dancing and turn her into a whore. The love to find a girl having a hard time and convince her that that's all she's worth, and that she won't make money otherwise. Think of all the young newbie dancers who really don't have a sense of self or what they are supposed to do and it's easy to see how a man with a few bucks can easily manipulate them. Young, naive girls are easily swayed by an older man's words--I think thats the real shame in extras. Very, very sad!
Katrine
03-12-2004, 04:11 PM
From the article:
Mack, who is engaged to be married, said he no longer visits strip clubs.
"I made a commitment to myself, my family and fiancee. I do not need to be involved or go into these establishments at all," he said.
Sure.........god I hate politics and politicians and hypocrites.
Rayleen
03-12-2004, 04:19 PM
I've spent some time reading the ASPD site and some of those men are so downright predatory it makes me sick. They LOVE to find a young girl who just wants to make some money dancing and turn her into a whore. The love to find a girl having a hard time and convince her that that's all she's worth, and that she won't make money otherwise. Think of all the young newbie dancers who really don't have a sense of self or what they are supposed to do and it's easy to see how a man with a few bucks can easily manipulate them. Young, naive girls are easily swayed by an older man's words--I think thats the real shame in extras. Very, very sad!
I couldn't agree more about those guys at ASPD- many of them are downright sick and should probably be removed from the general public :ill:
vanilla_dog
03-12-2004, 04:53 PM
From the article:
Mack, who is engaged to be married, said he no longer visits strip clubs.
"I made a commitment to myself, my family and fiancee. I do not need to be involved or go into these establishments at all," he said.
Sure.........god I hate politics and politicians and hypocrites.
I think it is hilarious that his name is *Mack* As in Mack them Ho's! Good Ole' Mayor Mack
:rotfl:
madgrad
03-13-2004, 12:49 AM
If anyone is looking for an "Extra's Girl" in Texas; they must have some serious issues. SF Bay Area I can understand, but Texas? Texas is one the easiest places to get laid. I can't understand why anybody would need extras in Texas, when there are so many beautiful availble women around that can be picked up on very easily, and it's much cheaper too.-- Go figure.
livenudegirlsunite
03-13-2004, 06:31 AM
Pamela - If you were to read the CIA report on the involvement of organized crime in conjunction with the corrupt low level government officials, I think that you would have a different view of what those extra's girls are subjected to.
Don't you think it's odd that john's are not subject to suffering any legal consequences what so ever? Solicitation for prostitution is just as illegal as prostitution.
How come the cops never do any "john stings"?
Here is an excerpt from that CIA report. Notice that the places which are notorious for extras are all mentioned in this excerpt.
"Traffickers move women into the United States using a variety of ports of entry.
Major ports of entry are Los Angeles’ LAX, New York’s JFK, Miami International, Chicago’s O’Hare, and the San Francisco International Airport.
Once inside the United States, women trafficked for the sex industry may be moved
around on an internal circuit that include several of the following cities: New York, Miami, Las Vegas, Houston, Reno, Seattle, Los Angeles, and San Francisco."
vanilla_dog
03-13-2004, 08:48 AM
Live, my Adobe Acrobat is not working so I could not read that article as much as I wanted to.
I think that is why those girls have pimps, though, so they don't get their asses kicked in the parking lot!
Do the girls in the article work stripclubs?
livenudegirlsunite
03-13-2004, 09:48 AM
The article talks about all levels of human trafficking. Some women are forced to work as prostitutes in strip clubs, some are forced to work in brothels, some are forced to work in sweat shops, some are forced to work as domestics. In short, it's about slavery in this country and it's relation to organized crime in conjuntion with corrupt low level government officials who do nothing to help these poor people.
I still haven't read the whole thing. It is a real eye opener.
If you go to this site you can get adobe reader for free.
http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep2.html
Strong Bad
03-13-2004, 12:18 PM
Damn, what a can of worms I opened up! Now, what was my question again?
Katrine
03-13-2004, 02:37 PM
Many of the women who are trafficked into the US, Europe, and the Middle East are just put into full blown brothels. Its too hard to control the woman in a strip club, especially one that is not owned by the same crime group responsible for the trafficking...
I've done quite a bit of reading about this after hearing about what happened to some women from my home country of Ukraine. They are usually put on the street or in houses. Strip club earnings are not enough for those greedy bastards, although I am sure it happens. I would not worry about those women doing extras in your club. Rather, I would pray for their safety and that the pigs who do this to them get their balls slowly disintigrated with a dull blade.....
LouieJ
03-13-2004, 07:51 PM
Once again.... stripclubs in New York seems to be a little different than those elsewhere. There seems to be an invasion of Russian dancers. I believe many to be "slave" labor.
I asked a dancer (non-Russian) about all the Russian girls. She told me that they come to work together and go home together. They are shuttled back and forth by their "pimp". All the girls live in a tiny little apartment. If they don't make enough money, their pimp beats them (I've seen the bruises). They work for him until they make enough money to pay for the expense of bringing them over here. That's why the Russian girls hustle so much. They will practically do anything to get your money. But be prepared for them to run away as soon as they get it.
In most cases, if you want an extras girl, it's one of these Russian girls.
Katrine
03-13-2004, 09:04 PM
Wow....good thing my Russian ass came over here with my parents...they only beat me until I made good enough grades for grad school....meow!
I'm sorry that the Russians have such a bad rep..my mom lives in Moscow and most of my family in Russia or Ukraine...its a tough situation over there....The girls are really beautiful and have little chance of succeeding in the current economic and cultural climate...hey Louie...which clubs are sporting these high mileage Russians...I am curious to know????????
LouieJ
03-14-2004, 12:02 PM
Katrine... Don't get me wrong. I'm not lumping all Russian dancers into this category of being an "extras" girl. I have met a few Russian dancers that are legit and very nice girls, not to mention VERY attractive. It sounds like you are one of these "nice" Russian girls.
But there is a large number of "nasty" Russian girls. These girls are not very pretty, they are out of shape, they hardly speek English, and they haven't discovered deodorant (nothing worse than a dancer with BO :o ). Despite all of this, they still make money because of the guy who will accept a HJ (or more) from anyone willing to do it.
Which clubs??? Doesn't really matter. It happens in any club that these girls work. So , Katrine, where are you from anyway?
I've never gone into a stripclub specifically looking for an extra. I've had "things" happen, but it was between girls I had known for a long time and was more "just fooling around" than an extra. I don't consider it an "extra", but getting carried away while dancing (especially since there was no talk of being "compensated" for there actions). One such time was mentioned somewhere else on this board. :)
Katrine
03-14-2004, 01:52 PM
I'm in Texas and we don't have that big a Russian population in comparison. Most of the pretty new immigrant Russian girls I've met here have snagged them sugar daddies, or are flat out prostitutes....well, the ones willing anyway. Obviously, I also know many Rus girls in non-sexual industries......
Yeah, admitting to getting carried away and having things "happen" at the club will get a girl crucified on this board. Thus, I confess NA-TING!
Katrine
03-14-2004, 01:55 PM
Which clubs in NY have this? I am curious because if I go to the east coast this summer, I definately want to go work in a NY club and want to be careful. Honestly, if I see this happening to the girls (since if they talk about it in Russian I understand what they say), I WILL report it to the INS. I cannot watch people be enslaved and abused....
polecat
03-15-2004, 01:06 AM
Russian/Ukrainian trafficking is an issue here on the left coast also, but it's apparently not the same as being described on the east coast.
As the mobsters trafficking these women into the states don't have alot of pull/control over the clubs, the women have a lot more freedom to earn their extortionist importation fees. Many do wind up in the sex industry- strip clubs, sex clubs, massage parlours or working the streets. Not all do. Some are able to latch on to more affluent "boyfriends" and extort as much cash as they can to pay off their importer Kings.
The new T-1 Visa's have had really excellent results for victims of sex trafficking, but they are unfortunately useless against those with families back home endangered. This usually makes them ideally suited for Russian/Ukrainian sex slaves who were either run-aways or their families not involved in the troubles they have found themselves in, but less ideal for asian/eastern sex slaves as these have families as "hostage" back home.
flickad
11-21-2006, 04:08 AM
I would probably be offended if the extras you wanted were illegal ones (and I would not accept your tip. I would tell you 'We don't do that stuff here, there's a brothel on so-and-so street..'). I feel quite strongly about the issue of playing within the rules at the clubs. But, assuming you wanted, for example, more (legal) contact that I personally am comfortable with, I would happily refer you to someone else, especially if you were offering to tip for my help.
jaizaine
11-24-2006, 04:12 AM
hey strongbad why dont u go to a brothel - too tight probably
Pretty_Penny
11-25-2006, 06:48 PM
damnit. i never read dates.
so i assume you're a raging asshole now?
:P jk
Mastridonicus
11-25-2006, 11:13 PM
"Raging" would be a proper adjective.
CheetahTim
11-27-2006, 01:33 AM
I've only been back on the strip club scene since April and I'm a little confused as to what everyone is refering to as "Extras". Are we talking about a little extra touching where you shouldn't be or are we talking about actual sexual acts here. I'm sure there's a very fine line between the two, especially where the legal authorities are concerned./:O
Andygirl
11-30-2006, 12:18 AM
I guess I'm not terribly sensitive about this sort of thing. I doubt I'd give any information, but I wouldn't be offended just because a guy is looking for a little extra action. Hell, I assume most of them are looking for that.
Girls don't give hand jobs or blow jobs at my club (at least not that I know of), but I have seen what I consider extras. I feel like it's their business if that's how they want to conduct themselves. It has nothing to do with me and I haven't lost any money because of it. Live and let live is how I feel about the topic. Perhaps I'd feel differently if more was going on in front of me, but since it's not I can't be bothered to get worked up by it.
CheetahTim
11-30-2006, 01:02 AM
So when a dancer is straddling my lap and the night manager comes by and tells her she has to keep one foot on the floor, was I getting something extra? Cool! I'll have to tip more next time.;D
Jenny
12-01-2006, 06:29 AM
I've only been back on the strip club scene since April and I'm a little confused as to what everyone is refering to as "Extras". Are we talking about a little extra touching where you shouldn't be or are we talking about actual sexual acts here. I'm sure there's a very fine line between the two, especially where the legal authorities are concerned./:O
Yeah, generally - not inevitably but the majority of clubs - would consider an extra to be anything that involves the exchange of fluid or secretion. I think kissing is way grosser than jerking the guy off, not because it is "more intimate" but because there are more senses involves - who wants to taste their customer's saliva? (Seriously this gives me gross out shivers just think about). But generally we can all agree that extras are:
-handjobs
-blowjobs
-allowing the guy to touch your vagina
-allowing the guy to eat you out
-kissing
-any kind of licking or sucking
-do I need to put full sex in here?
-penetrating yourself with other objects
-doing any of the above with another girl
These are fairly agreed upon. I can't imagine that there is going to be debate over them. However some girls have a more expansive definition including
-grinding on the guy long enough/hard enough/with the intention of making him or allowing him to ejaculate (as opposed to just grinding on him "a little bit")
-masturbating in front of the guy
-allowing the guy to touch your breasts or nipples
-allowing the guy to touch "too close" to your vagina
-allowing the guy to touch your ass
-allowing the guy to touch you, in an intimate manner, at all
The intersection between these points of view is the subject of the ongoing debate.
Pretty_Penny
12-01-2006, 11:36 AM
on the subject of russian dancers, we have about 7 at my work. they all hang out together and speak russian 90% of the time. i can't say wether they are part of trafficing or not. the few i've talked to seem really nice. i've just noticed an increase in russian dancers at the clubs i've worked at over the last year.
cameronfl
12-01-2006, 12:03 PM
So when a dancer is straddling my lap and the night manager comes by and tells her she has to keep one foot on the floor, was I getting something extra? Cool! I'll have to tip more next time.;D
Yes you were..since she was technically doing something she wasnt allowed to do.
Mastridonicus
12-01-2006, 08:13 PM
I often think (after reading this thread) about the embarassing result of a customer asking for this, the dancer taking his tip, agreeing, going in the back, grabbing a blow-up sex doll, bringing it out on the floor, and saying "HERE'S YOUR EXTRAS GIRL GO GET A ROOM" all loud and shit... hahaha just such a funny sequence in my warped little mind.
Pretty_Penny
12-01-2006, 08:42 PM
^ you really shouldn't put these ideas in my head
smartcookie
12-02-2006, 06:03 PM
I hate to say it but..."trafficking" has been way blown out of proportion by the media. It does happen (albeit rarely) but the majority of women we classify as "trafficked sex slaves" knew very well beforehand that they would end working as prostitutes at their final destination. What they did not know was how deplorable their work conditions how the erroneous charges their bosses would add to the debt they are working off would prolong their indentured servitude endlessly. Some people feel that this means that they are no longer deserving of sympathy. I don't.
JennyDahl
12-02-2006, 08:21 PM
Lady's, It seems from the posts in here that 99% of you do not do any extras. Now, i'm in Houston where from the clubs I've been to,
the percentages are just the opposite, 99% seem to do extras. My question is, I have been with girls who I could tell did not do any of the extras & I asked if they could send over any girls that might. I
always give the girl 20 or 40 bucks for this. My question is would this offend you? Or is the 40 bucks a good enough tip to soothe any ill feelings? Now let me be clear, I want extras but only if the girl i'm with draws me a roadmap first! i'm very shy, won't touch a girl until she grabs my hands and shows or tells me what I can do! Just don't want to come off like a a-hole, handsy, dirtbag. I'm just being honest in what I want, & have no problem with you girls who don't do anything "extra".
Ok better late than never , by asking a "clean" girl to get you a girl that will break the rules is bad because 1) She could tell the manager either getting you kick out for solicitation or get the "extra" girl fired after he watches up close and sees her doing extras 2) Clean girls do not like girls who do extras
3) the girl that does extras doesn't want everyone to KNOW that she does extras and someone requesting that will freak her out
4) ITS ILLEGAL and you could yourself arrested and this poor girl desperate for money FIRED OR worse
Damn , just sit back , be a good boy , keep your hands to yourself and enjoy the show .....try using your imagination after all we have to pretend that you are good looking and not a loser ...
Star Player
12-05-2006, 05:08 AM
I think it would be insulting a dancer to get her to select another girl. I believe a coctail waitress would be better for this errand, especially one you know well. Also, a $20 - $40 tip goes a much longer way with the right coctail waitress.
If I am with a dancer I do not talk about other gals or request some other dancer as I want to be considerate of her feelings. I want to show the dancer respect, appreciation, compliment her, and where appropriate tip her well. If I want to trade off the dancer for another one, then after the dance I simply say "I need to chill for awhile, this just turns me on too much" or "I think I just wanna go watch the show and hang, your welcome to join me - otherwise go make some money and I will flag you down later if I need some attention."
Lola Rose
12-07-2006, 09:04 PM
I've been asked this twice. once w/ a 50$ tip, once for 100$. I brought back the bouncer.
fancygirl
12-09-2006, 04:47 PM
for forty bucks I probably wouldn't care. But then I wouldn't want you getting upset if I sent you a girl who does extras in my opinion (letting you tweak her nipples) but then doesn't do the extras YOU want (handjob through the pants or what have you.)
So if you don't mind not getting the extras you were really going for, then I don't mind (for $40) sending you a girl who does more than I do.