View Full Version : Bring me a "Extra's" girl
fancygirl
12-09-2006, 04:49 PM
So when a dancer is straddling my lap and the night manager comes by and tells her she has to keep one foot on the floor, was I getting something extra? Cool! I'll have to tip more next time.;D
-smirk! and a tiny rofl-
21stcenturyfox
12-10-2006, 11:17 AM
why not get a girlfriend?
21stcenturyfox
12-10-2006, 11:20 AM
try using your imagination after all we have to pretend that you are good looking and not a loser ...
aaaahahaahahhahahahahahahhahaaaaa!!!!! fuck me, that tickled me! ;D
21stcenturyfox
12-10-2006, 11:28 AM
Yeah, generally - not inevitably but the majority of clubs - would consider an extra to be anything that involves the exchange of fluid or secretion. I think kissing is way grosser than jerking the guy off, not because it is "more intimate" but because there are more senses involves - who wants to taste their customer's saliva? (Seriously this gives me gross out shivers just think about). But generally we can all agree that extras are:
-handjobs
-blowjobs
-allowing the guy to touch your vagina
-allowing the guy to eat you out
-kissing
-any kind of licking or sucking
-do I need to put full sex in here?
-penetrating yourself with other objects
-doing any of the above with another girl
These are fairly agreed upon. I can't imagine that there is going to be debate over them. However some girls have a more expansive definition including
-grinding on the guy long enough/hard enough/with the intention of making him or allowing him to ejaculate (as opposed to just grinding on him "a little bit")
-masturbating in front of the guy
-allowing the guy to touch your breasts or nipples
-allowing the guy to touch "too close" to your vagina
-allowing the guy to touch your ass
-allowing the guy to touch you, in an intimate manner, at all
The intersection between these points of view is the subject of the ongoing debate.
i really do not need money badly enough to do any of the above with some random guy who pays me for my time.
and i am stone cold broke, as in not even enough to buy a loaf of bread...
i think doing these things just perpetuates the misconceptions that men already harbor about strippers and women in general.
i also think it is sad that some women will lower themselves to such a level.
guys will pay for an air dance, so why do more?
Bennie Blanco
12-10-2006, 05:27 PM
why not get a girlfriend?
Who said he doesn't have a girlfriend? Or a wife?
WyldKat
12-10-2006, 11:58 PM
I do agree that it is insulting to ask a dancer to pick another girl for you. On top of that, you're also asking her to pimp someone out.
Strongbad, if you really need to do that, then why don't you go to a brothel where they will do everything you want? what is it that you define as "extras"? Is it what Jenny has on her list?
VegasPrincess
12-11-2006, 12:35 PM
Well, personally I would never do that because I work in Las Vegas, where Vice "ie cops who come in and pretend to be customers but are really trying to bust people being lewd" is a regular fixture in the clubs. Personally, I wouldnt know if you were trying to set me up for something so I would tell you that no girls in my clubs do extras and if you wanted a hooker you should go walk around a casino. It's not that I would really give a crap or be all that enraged, but I have to cover my own ass and I'm certainly not going to be associated with any sort of girls who do extras in the club!
radar
12-12-2006, 03:16 PM
If you're any sort of a regular at a club, the extras girls will find you.
If you're out of town, sit back and pay attention for a bit. Watch which girls are heading back to the LD area more often, and not returning after only one song. Otherwise, perhaps chat up a customer at the bar. A tip to a bartender or bouncer would be more advised than to another dancer. A lot of times, a bartender may be workig in concert with a dancer. If you pay with a big bill, and look like there's more where that came from, the bartender may send a girl over, without you even asking.
At the clubs in my home area, I prefer the sweet, nice personality girls, that will spend a lot of time chatting, yet still give decent dance, while not generally stretching the rules too far. They may get a little friskier over time, but certainly not a dealbreaker.
If I'm out of town, I may not want to invest as much time in conversation, and just get down to business.
I have hooked up with extras girls at my home clubs, when my normal fave left early, took the night off at the last minute, etc. When this has happened, they are almost like vultures. They know you spend money, and here is their chance to get some of it before you can make a quick exit. I have always went back to my faves though, relegating extras girl to sort of the role of 'the other woman'.
I've had managers hook me up, had girls call me, after getting my number from another girl, and some are so blatant as to kiss your neck, guide your hand somewhere, etc., while on their tipwalk, even while you are sitting with your fave.
Managers are well aware of what goes on, and look the other way, as they are often making a percentage of the profits.
If you ask another dancer to send a girl over, she may complain to the management. Management will be obliged to say something. Girls will never condone this, especially on a public message board.
I've had girls flame people on my board for even discussing 2-way contact. However, I have met some of these same girls at the club, and in the private booth, they are singing a different tune.
Juliette_deSade
12-14-2006, 12:38 PM
I've had girls flame people on my board for even discussing 2-way contact. However, I have met some of these same girls at the club, and in the private booth, they are singing a different tune.
I'll be honest and tell you that we probably don't like it. It depends on the extent that you try to take it. Whenever a stranger goes for my panties with his hands I pull away and feel like I am about to vomit. I don't like boob touching much either- I pull away. Strippers will tell you what they think you want to hear, it SALES and MARKETING. Please be clear on this.
Would I take the 40 bucks and give him an extas girl though? Yes, but only after telling the girl what she should expect. There are girls who do them and talk about it. If the 40 bucks is a cakewalk, sure I'll pocket it.
CheetahTim
12-14-2006, 02:34 PM
Especially in the VIP rooms I've asked girls what the limits are and they nearly all tell me that it's pretty much what the girl will allow, (within the limits of the law, of course.) I'll always ask permission before I touch a girls boobs and such because I don't like crossing peoples limits. If she's uncomfortable with that all she has to do is say no. I don't have a problem with that. I'd prefer she said no rather than think she was being creeped out by my touching her.