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Lexi
03-10-2004, 04:29 PM
SCGirl, I think you are being too hard on yourself. two BIG distinct rolls? Are ya nuts? hehehe You look very nice. :D

abadvi
03-11-2004, 02:34 PM
One girl at my club is "fat" by media standards (not by mine though.) Another girl I saw at a different club was fat and gorgeous. They both did just as well as anyone else.
Men at clubs like women. Period.

Gynger
03-11-2004, 11:02 PM
Men at clubs like women. Period.


AMEN!!!!!!!

As I always say, follow Hank Williams Jr's advice: Naked women and beer.. or where I am: Scantily clad women and beer! :D

Gynger
03-11-2004, 11:02 PM
Oh yeah, SC Girl... get thyself to a club.. you hottie!!!!

Sabre
03-13-2004, 02:49 PM
I started dancing in Hawaii and both the clubs I worked in had at least a few large (not mainland size 8 or 10 large but Hawaiian-Samoan larger) girls and they all did well. Just because American society seems to think only a size 0 is beautiful doesn't mean its true. I've seen girls come back to work following childbirth who make awesome money off their smile and attitude; women have an incredible amount of sexual energy and power and it isn't diminished by weight.

Malibu
03-14-2004, 08:31 AM
How true Sabre. That is what is astonishing about women. Our beauty comes on so many levels. That is one of the reasons why I LOVE being female! :)

Laurensticks
03-14-2004, 07:08 PM
It is so great to have a forum like this! This topic is just what I needed--last week at work I had a minor "breakdown", (for lack of better words), about my body/self-confidence. I am 5'10'' and about 150...size 8 or 10. I get tons more compliments than I do negatives but when I do get the negatives it hurts. I'm usually pretty good about brushing them off...after all who the f*ck are these men to judge me?!? I consider myself to be average in weight, some think "slender" and some think "fat". I know men like all different types and I do very well usually. Last week I didn't do well, not because I am "fat", but because I was feeling shitty about myself and not exuding confidence or even a positive attitude. It's all about the attitude...if you're down on yourself, men will be down on you too, and if you're feeling great about yourself, then men will respond positively. THANK YOU ALL FOR THE SUPPORT!!! ;D

SCGirl
03-15-2004, 04:02 PM
aww girls, you're all so sweet! lol For some reason, I hide my fat pretty darn well (I've been doing it all my life). I was going to take a few nude photos (being me, I always have to prove my point even if it is to my own embarrassment) but I can't find my digital camera! :-\ There is ONE girl that works at our local club that is my size, however, she has what I call a "flat" stomach (meaning it may stick out but she doesn't have rolls), HUGE boobs, and a few very loyal regulars. Bonnie, the manager, actually told me that that particular dancer had been warned over and over about her weight and the ONLY reason she hasn't been fired is that her regulars pay a lot of money (through the bar and to the club, not necessarily to HER). *sigh* I guess I would be comfortable bearing it all if everyone ELSE was comfortable with it--but in my experience, people have been turned off. And, as many of you might know, nothing is more disheartening than getting off stage after working your ASS off, with four sweaty wadded up dollar bills in your hand, and all the guys pretending to be wrapped up in something "more important" but then reminding you, "oh, but you have a beautiful face." :(

Jisela
11-17-2004, 09:08 PM
Girl, you just need to find another club to work at. You are beautiful. Don't let what no one says bother you. And speaking on behalf of another voluptious stripper, you can do it. From looking at your photos, you have nothing to worry about. I haven't been a dancer in about 5 years when I was in Boston, before I had babies. Now, I am a lot bigger then I used to be. I haven't actually danced in about 5 years, but I am going to my first audition tomorrow. Now, I won't get into my exact weight or anything, but I am 5'8" and wear anywhere from a 14-16. I never thought I'd be able to dance again, but when I went into one of the higher scale strip clubs a month or so ago, to visit my cousin on the job, the manager of the club approached her and asked her if I wanted a job. With me being a little insecure about gaining weight I quickly shot the opportunity down. Time has went by and I really got to thinking about it. I finally thought that I would give it another shot. This time I thought I would start off by starting to dance at a local club that specializes in bigger dancers. I don't know if they have those around your area. But, I thought if I started back there, I will get use to dancing again, tone up a little and work my way back up. It's been a long time since I danced, and as much money as I use to bank in Boston, I feel like a newbie all over again. but, yes I also have a small little roll, but it can be covered with the right underwear. My favorite I have now is a wide side thong that covers the extra hang time with the wide band on the side. I don't exactly know where your from, but where I am from being thick is in. I've even visited clubs where the customers and dancers approached me because they thought that I should have worked there, or thought I may be working there. And these were at the better clubs in Indy. I've heard comments from customers that the girls there didn't have enough back, weren't pretty enough, or rude. Comments I got from dancers were things that I have an exotic look, I have a beautiful face (I know those dreaded words), and every club needs variety. I never went looking for these comments either. Everyone always came to me. And I agree with a lot of the other posts that confidence is a must. I know I'm biger then a lot of girls, but I always tell myself, and continue to remind myself that I am beautiful. And although I may see someone that I may feel looks better or has a better body then me, I will never show any sign of insecurity because people can sense that from someone. You got to put yourself on the highest pedestal before anyone else will. and once you start to feel more confident about yourself, others will automatically respond to that, no matter what. I don't know what kind of clubs that you have been trying to work at, but maybe you should start by lowering your standards a bit, just to get your foot in the door. Once you get back in the swing of things. Once you start dancing and toning up a little you will be ready for the upscale clubs in no time. You seem as if you have a natural beauty as well. Clubs out here would love to have you working for them. I think the main thing that is working for me is my exotic look. I'm puerto rican with light hazel eyes, long hair, and even though I'm big I'm propotionate (meaning nice chest, thick thighs, big hips and phat behind). Enoguh about me. Jsut keep your head up. Be determined, and dont let anyone bring you down. I know everyone else is giving their opinions as well, and isn very helpful. Reading posts for you definetly brought my self esteem up another notch, but take it from me, I am a lot bigger then you are, and I will not let anyone with a little negative criticism stop me from doing what I want to do. If you ever wanna PM me to talk or for words of advice, please pm me and let me know. Good luck in what you wanna do.

242_fair
11-21-2004, 05:34 PM
All I know is that the #1 girl at my club, off selling the champ rooms, is heavier that almost every dancer in the building. One day I was watching her work and I think I figured it out. She seems to not like the walking around while everyone stares -'wanna-dance' approach (me either), so she looks for the guys who are most likely to have some cash, and she sits down and talks and talks and almost always ends up with a champagne room. I asked and she said its because she can only handle doing a couple sales jobs a day.

AudreyLeigh
11-21-2004, 06:27 PM
IMO I would rather see someone who is volumptious than someone who is all cracked out... super skinny, yucky teeth and skin... yuck... Im picturing a girl at my club now.. its just GROSS... at my club we have thicker girls who do very well and who are pleasing to the eye ;)

~Audrey

AudreyLeigh
11-21-2004, 06:28 PM
boy - this is an older post isnt it?

Miss_Sierra
11-21-2004, 07:06 PM
I'm not fat, but I do have curves and lately the customers always been hugging on me. They would almost always get dances from me...if not they tip me well.
A lot of them rather have a girl who is healthy and curves in the right places. They would get grossed out about girls who looked "cracked out" or look to be 12.

krchab99
11-22-2004, 11:30 PM
we are all women all differnt kinds you will be suprised

tiamaria
11-23-2004, 05:27 PM
I have abig ass i am embarrased of.Everyone tells me I'm crazy but it makes me feel uncomfortable.but i don't let it get the best of me even though I wish it were small.If I'm confident I don't notice it as much.

Darcy Hawthorne
11-24-2004, 04:52 AM
There are so many things that need to be taken into account when a person is trying to figure out if they are a "big" girl or a "fat" girl. You have to look at more than just clothing size or weight.

Now I don't know about other countries like Australia, UK, or Canada......but here in the US, we don't have standard sizes for women's clothing. (And I totally hate this shit because it makes buying clothes so difficult) I can shop at one boutique and and fit into a size 7/8 and then the next store I go to the smallest size I can wear is a 12. Different stores and different brands of clothing put different sizes on two pairs of jeans which if measured with a measuring tape.....are the exact same fucking size!!! (If I go into my closet right this minute I know I will find at least four pairs of jeans that all fit me the same way but have all different sizes on the labels.)

When we talk about our weight, we also need to take in two other factors......height and muscle/body fat ratio. For instance, let's say that there are two girls who both weigh 110lbs. But Girl A is 5'2" and Girl B is 5'9". Girl A probably looks great at 110lbs, because at 5'2" her small frame is in proportion with her small weight. :) But Girl B, at 5'9" has a larger frame and instead of looking sexy at 110lbs. she looks sickly and malnurished. :-[

Then there's the muscle/body fat ratio. Again let's take two girl's. Both Girl A and Girl B weigh 140 lbs. and they are both 5'8". But Girl A doesn't work out or excercise very often so she has a higher % of body fat and a lower % of muscle. Girl B works out every other day with weight training and aerobic exercise and she has a low % of body fat and a high % of muscle. (Also note that muscle weighs more than fat does) So even though these two have the same height and weight, Girl B's body probably looks much thinner and tighter than Girl A's body.

Ladies my point here is that we should try not to judge ourselves by weight or clothing size alone. Don't be discouraged if the girl next to you wears a differnt size dress or has a different weight than you. Because these things alone don't tell the whole story.

Miss Jessica
11-25-2004, 02:13 PM
The largest dancer I met was a size 16. She had a beautiful face, and was a really sxy dancer. Unfortunately, she doesn't make money anymore and had to retire...

anonymous1
11-27-2004, 06:36 AM
I've seen dancers who are a size 12 misses. I think its all about confidence and the way you move.

slutty
12-01-2004, 02:06 PM
before i started dancing i use to think that every dancer was blond, big boobs, perfect everything, basically barbie, now as long as i've been dancing i see girls come and go and i can see who makes money and who doesn't. well to get to the point, we had a dancer that started way back and she was a tight thick with nice boobs just a thicker girl and she was busy she wasn't a dirty dancer, well she quite but then came back about 4 months later and she was as skinny as i was! i couldn't believe iot! her boobs shrunk immensely and she didn't do as good as she did when she was thick, not even a portion as good her money declined drastically. moral of the story:skinny isn't always the ideal.

BigGreenMnM
12-01-2004, 05:04 PM
I see alot of hard bodied,beautiful entertainers, sugar coating the "fat dancer"question.
Most of this industry,as well as MOST of the sex industry,has certain standards.They cater to majority social standards of what beauty is.
You wont see many profitable clubs that cater to lovers of fat dancers,midgets,etc.
Check out the top 5 mens sexual oriented mags.No fat
check out the top 5 females sexual oriented mags.no fat
top 5 females fashion mags.no fat
top 5 mens fashion mags.no fat
when was the last heartthrob who was fat?(besides Joey Buttafucko)

If i PAY to see a professional car race,i want finally tuned and maintained vehicals,not pinto's that need a jump start or jalopies that can be beat by what i have at home in the garage.

Your body is the vehical that drives you thru this industry.
If your not tuned up,your just not tuned up.No amount of girl/girl cuddle talk can change that.
Entertainers should be in top physical condition.They are not only entertainers,they are athletes as well.The stage aint no joke,its a friggin workout,and thats without a pole!
If your 5-10 lbs overweight,thats not an issue.If your 20+lbs overweight,thats a problem in this industry and you will have trouble finding work at most top clubs.
This industry can be cold and harsh when it comes to the fat issue and so can customers.
I can support any woman who has the balls to get on stage,but i dont want to hear any pissin and whining if they cant seem to make as much money as the girl next to her who isnt overweight.(the same girls who say being fat is ok BTW)

Professional entertainers are in shape,newbies should at least try to get in some sort of shape before applying as a stage dancer IMO.


all that being said,one of the top earning entertainers i have ever met was a blond named Heather.She had to be 200+ and around 5'4'.Bleach blond hair and looked like marilyn monroe and talked like queen latifa.
Man she was fat!!!!
But that chic knew how to work a room!!
I fought with her everyday about her weight.
She never lost it,married rich and retired from what i heard.
BUT!!!!!!!!
If she had of lost that fat,she could have been in the top 10 best entertainers in this country IMO.

noelle
12-01-2004, 11:05 PM
I fought with her everyday about her weight.
She never lost it,married rich and retired from what i heard.
BUT!!!!!!!!
If she had of lost that fat,she could have been in the top 10 best entertainers in this country IMO.

It's not your place to be telling anyone what their weight should be. If I was her I would gain more weight just to spite you for being rude. If it worked for her and she was comfortable, why should she change (other than for health reasons)?

BigGreenMnM
12-02-2004, 08:15 AM
It's not your place to be telling anyone what their weight should be. If I was her I would gain more weight just to spite you for being rude. If it worked for her and she was comfortable, why should she change (other than for health reasons)?this is where you are wrong again,it WAS my job,and still is,to tell an entertainer who is over weight to lose weight,or start looking for another club.

This isnt highschool or the oprah show.This industry isnt going to be nice or PC when it comes to overweight entertainers and neither am I.This is how we feed our kids,it aint no joke to me.
If you want to keep the fat,fine,just do it some where else where people will lie to you and tell you how good you look carrying 20 extra pounds.

When was the last "fat"Miss America winner???

Do you think its someones "job"to screen the girls before they hit the stage???


After you get down from the stage,and the dj puts up 3-4 fat girls,how many guys do you think will still be there for your second set??


You can try to make me the bad guy for telling the truthful facts of this industry,but it wont work.You will find the guy like me in any top club in the country telling the girls at the door applying"yes yes no yes no no no yes no no yes no "(just pray its not a woman doing the screening,they can really be harsh!)
An ugly entertainer with a great body has a better chance then a pretty girl with 20 extra pounds.
A handful of an entertainers regs can cry "personality"but thats not what we sell.We sell tities and beer and the female form in all its beauty.
The industry says "Fat doesnt equal beauty",not just me.
I could retire this morning and go back in 5 years.SURPRISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
wanna bet fat chics will still be working in the dives and not the top clubs???

I cant belive this whole thread went so long without someone being honest about the fat issue in our industry.

Glamazon
12-02-2004, 09:33 AM
Nobody has the perfect body.

BigGreenMnM
12-02-2004, 09:40 AM
Nobody has the perfect body.I agree,but the adult industry has standards that it works within.
If you want to be fat,fine,be a secretary or something else where you are not judged by your body.

hardkandee
12-02-2004, 10:33 AM
I agree,but the adult industry has standards that it works within.
If you want to be fat,fine,be a secretary or something else where you are not judged by your body.
Dancers are not only judged by their body but the overall performance. There are girls 20lbs lighter than me that can't give a lap dance at all.
I dance and work in the sex industry because I like it. It makes me feel sexy, it is fun and I can't imagine anything else I'd like to be doing right now. I don't work in the industry because I have a super-hot porn star body.

And as for the guys that won't be in the club around for my second set because of the fat girls dancing on stage...... maybe they won't be paying attention to the girls they are not attracted to on stage, but that makes it all the easier for me to sell them some dances.

BigGreenMnM
12-02-2004, 01:57 PM
Dancers are not only judged by their body but the overall performance. There are girls 20lbs lighter than me that can't give a lap dance at all.
No doubt,we agree.But an entertainers body is the foundation to her business,thus the foundation of our industry.
A racecar driver aint shit without his car.
We make MOST of our money off the hard bodies bye far then the fat overweight ones.By a longshot!!!!
If more entertainers were fat and overweight then hard bodied professionals,do you think the strip club industry would be what it is today???
I doubt it.
The day more fat girls are in a club then fit girls is the day that club starts to decline.Thats industry fact.

I dance and work in the sex industry because I like it. It makes me feel sexy, it is fun and I can't imagine anything else I'd like to be doing right now. I don't work in the industry because I have a super-hot porn star body. look at your avatar,yes you do.
How often do you work on your body?
do you belong to a gym or workout at home??

why,in a room full of professionals,who have worked on their bodies(the foundation of thier profession),should an overweight entertainer expect to compete?Why should she be allowed to if she isnt willing to put forth the same effort and dedication that the other professionals do??

This isnt the prom where everyone can attend.
Fat girls and ugly girls and crack heads will always find a place in this industry,just not at the top clubs or clubs that make alot of money.

There are exceptions,i have seen some myself.But they are very few and far between.


And as for the guys that won't be in the club around for my second set because of the fat girls dancing on stage...... maybe they won't be paying attention to the girls they are not attracted to on stage, but that makes it all the easier for me to sell them some dances.Thats great for you but not the club,and not for you in the future when they dont come back.

Those guys will leave and go to the club down the road where the skinny gals are.

If you opened a strip club,would you hire every girl who applied??
Yes we can all find beauty in any woman,on that we agree.But would you hire EVERY woman who came thru your door???
Walk thru the mall before you give your answer please and look around at all the females you see.
When do YOU say when??


Then ask yourself this...

How many Male strippers have you ever seen???
How many were fat???
were any of them even 10 lbs over weight??
did they all have a six pack or close to it??

Its almost a double standard if you think about it.;)
Its ok to have overweight female strippers but not overweight male strippers.

When a woman pays to see strippers,she doesnt want to see a beer gut.
same same for guys when they pay to see a stripper.

MisfitBunnie
12-02-2004, 02:15 PM
Green,

I agree with you in several points but the difference between men and woman is a woman still looks good with a little extra weight on her because women are supposed to be soft and curvy. Men aren't supposed to be soft and curvy...period. LOL. So no, men can't be fat dancers because men aren't supposed to be soft, curvy with a little bit of cushion.

bigbustygirl
02-25-2005, 07:59 AM
your not fat you are perfect girl so dont go there

bigbustygirl
02-25-2005, 08:06 AM
to comment on all that is said about a full figured dancer i think the world brain washes woman and men to believe we all suppose to be one size for god sakes if that was true god would have never made different shapes and people and placed them all over the world the reason why god place people in africa japan mexico europe and etc . is because of things like this people were jealous envious and cruel to one enother very judgemental god saids hey since these people want get along i will divide them by looks and accents so know one can under stand what there big fuss is about im saying this to say if you was not born slim then you were not meant to be that way love and cherish who you are im 59 and way 284 mostly tits and ass look at my web site i got posted

Fathom7
02-25-2005, 09:49 AM
I enjoy going to the clubs with my guy friends and I have heard over and over that size is not an issue. They say that the curvier (sp?) women have more confidence and it shines through, that is the money ticket for them. Me, on the other hand, love some meat. I haven't seen too many women in my area that are over a size 12 though.

LovelyLaura
02-25-2005, 10:51 AM
I love curvy women!! As long as they are proportionate and take care of themselves. A volumptious woman deserves to be on that stage just as much as anyone else! I knew a beautiful curvy dancer whos body was awesome and her boobies were just beautiful!!!!

On the other hand, I do agree with BIGGREENM&M's post....I believe we ARE selling a fantasy here and we are paid to look good. I have had the unfortunate experience, quite a few times of seeing a girl on stage that really DIDNT need to be up there. In fact, it embarrassed ME to see them up there! This is just my opinion, but a girl who has a celluite ridden tummy that hangs well over her g-string or huge-cottage cheese looking thighs should NOT be dancing! Now girls, I'm talking about huge, not just a little pooch or something.....We make enough money as dancers to take good care of ourselves, and that should be first and foremost above anything else, because IMO, why bother if we didn't? If a girl doesn't care enough, or wanna take the time and/or $$ to make herself look good, I think that is sad, and NO she shouldn't be dancing.

tampafldancer
02-27-2005, 05:53 AM
on the other hand.. Ive seen some anorexic, yes certifiable anorexic girls working that shouldn't be working.

looked to be about 70 pounds. (if that) Looked like she was going to faint!

Id rather see curves then bones myself!


Just be healthy at whatever weight you are!

Jenny
02-27-2005, 08:12 AM
you know, being pretty or beautiful isn't equivalent or the same as being thin. Being fat isn't the same as being ugly. I'll tell you a story - one of my best friends (an exdancer) was always the top - or second - at whatever club she worked at, and she was clinically obese. She didn't look clinically obese, but she did look overweight. And she had a baby, so she had the "pouch" that some women get (sort of loose skin on the tummy?) She had small breasts that were flat and far from perfect. She was pretty, but not, (in my opinion) stunning. Yet. She had all the confidence in the world, showed guys a great time, and enough men thought she was the sexiest thing they had ever seen and every single night she outearned "prettier" girls. I worked with another girl who was fat, but just drop dead gorgeous. She made a ton of money because she was stunning. Me, I'm 5'5" and 125 - compared to some of the girls here, I'm a whale - oh, and I'm not stunningly pretty. Just, normal pretty. But, same thing - I show my customers a good time, and they seldom want to ditch me for the prettier, thinner girls. So, you cannot viably use a weight criteria (short of Jerry Springer obesity) to determine which girls might be an asset to your club.

And, I'm not paid to look good. If this were true, then the prettiest girl in the club would always make the most money, and that doesn't happen. You are "paid" to entertain the customer. And you can do that without a hard body, as can be demonstrated in practically any club in the world.

ToriBaltimore
02-27-2005, 09:49 AM
wow this post has really gone on for a while!.......*felt the need to state the obvious*;)

Sunshine73
02-27-2005, 02:52 PM
There was a woman at my club who was full figured. And she was sexy and exuded confidence.

JMonash
02-28-2005, 07:34 PM
I remember one girl at our local club who was HUGE. Not full figured or big boned, she was just large. She was only there for a few nights, pity really.
If i can hazrd a guess at her weight it would have been the 85-95 kg range (i forget how to convert to lbs). But either way this was defintaley the heaviest dancer I have ever seen

She was part pacific islander (mabye tongan?), and man could she dance, she really knew her stuff. definatley one of the best VIP performances I've had (aside from my first ever one of course). Yeah she was defintaley one sexy lady

Needless to say she had the largest natural breasts ive ever seen on any woman.

Etania
02-28-2005, 07:58 PM
I dont think any of you have really seen a fat woman dance....it's awful. I mean a girl can be bigger, and still georgous, as long as she fits well together. I hate the skinny little girls with GIANT fake boobs... you girls dont look right. Anyways... my club likes to hire FAT girls. And when I say fat, I mean fat. One of them just had to take a leave to get her stomach stapled!!! No stomach, just rolls. But Im not happy with my body (like all girls). But when I get on stage after one of them, I feel much better about myself! Most of the fat, or ugly girls will make money though. My bouncer told me why: "Because those girls will work hardetr for the money if you know what I mean......."

TigersMilk
02-28-2005, 08:10 PM
I saw a girl once at a club I worked at as well. She was um very very big boned thick like molasses type. She did her things got up on stage and danced nicely but she didnt stay long. I did see her make money though; I dont count others money but she make at least a 100 bucks.
As far as a "fat" dancer Im sure everyone here has what that girl might look like in mind. I only think its bad if the girl doesnt care about her appearance for god's sake your naked up there infront of 50 ppl you dont know and that you want money from who wouldnt want to look their best? If she has extra meat and carries it well then thats fine but if her overall looks are way sub-par then yea thats dissapointing to see.

Etania
02-28-2005, 08:41 PM
I disagree with everyone that thinks that there is only one kind of beauty. Because there isn't. I like to say that every woman has they're own form of beauty.... But there has been a few times that I have been proven wrong. I still think a lot of you have never really seen a fat dancer. One girl tried out, and it remided me of Jurassic Park. This guys water was rippleing... yeah it was bad. To top it all, she wanted to use the stage name: Big Foot. To my suprise, she didnt get hired.

showgirlschloe
02-28-2005, 09:44 PM
We have a dayshift girl that is quite large. She doesn't make much money 'cause she's not really winning in the personality department either. Whenever she is on stage, I always hear guys making comments about how she looks. I always tell them that there is someone for everyone and I'd like to see them try to get up on stage with only a thong and a smile. I do feel kind of embarrassed by it though. I have seen sexy bigger women that make good money, but when it's sloppy, I think it brings down the club.

craftyk
03-01-2005, 06:12 PM
This is inspiring! I'm 5'9 and 155, have an athletic build but some cellulite and shapely hips. Worried my audition (this Saturday) would be a flop but this makes me feel better. Wish me luck!
;)
K

BigGreenMnM
03-02-2005, 08:27 AM
We have a dayshift girl that is quite large. She doesn't make much money 'cause she's not really winning in the personality department either. Whenever she is on stage, I always hear guys making comments about how she looks. I always tell them that there is someone for everyone and I'd like to see them try to get up on stage with only a thong and a smile. I do feel kind of embarrassed by it though. I have seen sexy bigger women that make good money, but when it's sloppy, I think it brings down the club.

this is exactly what i mean by hurting the clubs reputation.
These are professional entertainers.Someone has to set standards.

I hate bringing a entertainer on stage who I freekin know will hurt the next 3 girls money until the momentum cant be built back up in the room.

In a packed room,the girl after the unprofessional girl is the best place in the rotation to be.
In a slow room,its the worse.

Most DJ's try to set the rotation(or should,im sure all here do)to counteract this situation.They will seperate the blondes(or try to,alot of ya out there)seperate the big boobs small boobs,tall short,black white,rock r&b,etc.The aim is to paint a consistant roller coaster ride so if a custey doesnt like what they see,in 6 mins or so,thats going to change.Before your 1st beer is gone,the custeys "type"will have been on stage.
The idea is to surround the unprofessional entertainer with the best ya got workin that night so one of your best will usually still be on stage with her.
This is just proppin the stage show up where it needs it.
It could be a drunk crackhead newbie,not just the overweight.

Its whats best for the club,and every professional entertainer that came to WORK that night.

BigGreenMnM
03-02-2005, 08:37 AM
This is inspiring! I'm 5'9 and 155, have an athletic build but some cellulite and shapely hips. Worried my audition (this Saturday) would be a flop but this makes me feel better. Wish me luck!
;)
K

ummmmmmm

this isnt big at all.

If your new,in three months,the stage will knock 10 Lbs off you.
I have not met alot of entertainers who didnt have some cheese somewhere,so dont worry about that part,we can hide it in the lights.
As for shapely hips,thats what they payin to see!
In 3 months,your butt,legs,and hips are going to look alot different from the stage workout and the shoes,so dont get alot of new clothes over the next few weeks.

Best of luck,hope ya get it.

colleen
03-02-2005, 09:04 AM
wow, these height/weight comparisons make me feel really heavy! I think a lot of my weight is from muscle though (espec. from my lower half).

Don't sweat it about the height/weight comparisons. If you are muscular (as I am) you will weigh more than a less muscular girl in the same size jeans. Back in the day, I was in the Army, and the "proper" weight for my 25 years old and 5'6" was 146 lbs. I NEVER ONCE made it on the scale and had to go through the body-fat caluclation every 6 months (to much criticism and ridicule by my skinny, skinny female platoon sergent who told me that any female who had to get taped had a weight porblem in her opinion.) But guess what--I was a size 8 and had the boys following me all over the place! I was also soooo muscular tht I had to invent a special new way to roll up my uniform sleeves, because my upper arms were too big to roll up the sleves the regualr way.

ANd don't worry about not being a tiny size--just liek everybody says, it takes all kinds. Now I am a size 12, and when I have to dance to rap music, I choose "Ass like that" or "Baby Got Back."

Satara
03-02-2005, 10:50 AM
Beauty comes in all shapes & sizes ! Please ignore the mean spirited comments by 1 of the men who replied earlier in this thread

Zaijann
03-02-2005, 03:02 PM
As Oscar winner Jamie Fox said on Barbra Walters.
"I like my women thick"
" what do you mean by thick?"
"I mean fat, my girlfriend in highschool and i would walk down the hall and we looked like the number 10"

Sirona
03-02-2005, 04:18 PM
Don't sweat it about the height/weight comparisons. If you are muscular (as I am) you will weigh more than a less muscular girl in the same size jeans.

I was just going to say the same thing! I'm 5'4 and average between 135-140 which sounds big but i'm actually a size 4/6. Basically i'm far from fat... *shrug* I try to never go by a number but more how I look.

http://silena.homestead.com/files/Scan18402b.jpg

BigGreenMnM
03-03-2005, 12:08 PM
Beauty comes in all shapes & sizes ! Please ignore the mean spirited comments by 1 of the men who replied earlier in this thread

LOL Most men RUN like hell from the fat question!!!!
Its the difference where we sleep that night sometimes!!!!lololol
PUSSY'S!!! lolol

Being that i saw only 2 guys foolish enough to join in this conversation(that wasnt posted in the ladies only section)and the other guy posted some interesting links,im going to guess you mean my remarks and opinions.

Until I responded,I didnt see anyone give a response remotely resembling the actual proffessions response,just alot of girl girl support,and pass the bon bon's.

When the fat question is asked,you have 5 choices....
1)Lie
2)be honest
3)Give the professional opinion
4)mumble in hebrew
5)run like hell

I chose #3 since #1 and #2 were impossible,i dont know what the girl looks like.I dont speak hebrew,and its hard to run from a puter.My options were limited.
We could have been talking about a broadway cast,vegas showgirls or strippers,the issue of "fat"is real.

Since my post,a few females have also stated basically the same thing i did.I guess its the mars and venus thingy and females just say it better.

Sorry to anyone i may have offended,im just trying to give a #2 on a #3.

sammy_lee
03-06-2005, 10:36 PM
I think that everyone is the same, it doesnt matter what your size is, if you have the cofidence and ability your going to make it. I'm a size 11, although not a stripper yet (i wanna do some more toning...) but guy's tell me that im sexy.... everyone is different, and most guys say they prefere women with somethin to grab (I have mostly male friends).
When you walk on stage i think (and this is just from watching) that if you wear the right outfit for your shape (a little bigger) those guys are going to be impressed


I think that my only thing is that if your a little bigger and not tanned all those defults seem to be highlighted under the light..... (as dark and clubs are). But be proud of what you are...

dofire
03-08-2005, 07:07 PM
Know what gets me the hottest and when I tip the most... when some light hits a girl's ass and I see a little cellulite or stretch marks on the booty. Nothing like a natural woman to get me going. The "perfect girls" just don't do it for me.

JUICY BOOTIES UNITE! SHOW ME YOUR ASS TONIGHT!

Okay girls, thanks for hearing my comments. I'll be leaving your forum for awhile. Stay tuned for my upcoming book... Secrets of the go go world uncovered... a man's point of view!

}:D