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Kelli
04-14-2004, 04:27 PM
I was 15 when i had sex for the first time. It was with a guy I was friends with...i'm 18 now and we are still friends today!

sarah angel
04-14-2004, 07:19 PM
yeah, it took me years to realize that it was rape. When I hear the word rape I tend to think of some crazy guy holding a knife to you. Know what I mean? To this day I never told my mom. I wish I had and that dumb asshole probably would have gone to jail. She knew something was wrong but since I refused to speak one word she never got it out of me.

Sapphire, That sounds like my story also. I was raped when I was 12 (by the "god ol' boy" down the street that every adult adored) with all of his friends watching and laughing. It took me until 16 to admit that it was rape. I told my mom when I realized it, and she said I deserved it. I think she didn't realize that the rebellious behavior came AFTER the rape.
Technically, though, I lost my virginity to a girl when I was 13. The guy who raped me's dick was too small to pop my cherry, so a girl did it for me and that hurt!!!

Rhiannon
04-14-2004, 07:46 PM
Wow. I am so sorry to hear all of your bad first time experiences. Rape should never happen to any woman, especially for her first time. It's downright wrong.

When I was married to a Navy guy, I was shocked at all the stories I heard. Many wives thought it was their "duty" to give it up to their husbands, and if they didn't, then they deserved to have it taken from them. It's crazy, but that type of thing goes on a lot in military marriages especially. My next door neighbor, as a matter of fact, when we lived in Navy housing in Newport News, said that she woke many times to her husband on top of her. She felt it was his right to do it.

I give you all much credit for moving passed all of your bad experiences. I know it must not have been easy.

Katrine
04-14-2004, 11:22 PM
Same as Lexi, 17, one month shy of 18....

I didn't start to enjoy sex until I had an orgasm at 19. I didn't turn into a slut until 20/21 though ;)

GoldCoastGirl
04-15-2004, 04:18 AM
Around the 16-17 mark. There was this hot Papua New Guinea guy ... yup.. a black man. ;D Well.. the Christian school I was attending would hold dances for the PNG girls where the PNG guys from another school would attend as well.

We fooled around for a little while prior to 'the night'.

I was at a friend's party and her house was located near the school where this PNG guy was staying (it's a all boys school with boarding). So.. I met up with him 'in the bushes'.

It hurt and was very unpleasant until about 30 or so seconds from the end... he must've obviously 'popped my cherry' as it felt good for those last few moments.

Due to inexperience, I didn't really enjoy sex and REALLY loose my viriginity (in my mind) until I was 20-21.

I've kissed and fooled around with other females however I've never 'gone down' on a woman or 'fucked' another woman (with a dildo or strap on)... so I'm still a big virgin in that area.

ami
04-15-2004, 03:29 PM
.....When I was married to a Navy guy, I was shocked at all the stories I heard. Many wives thought it was their "duty" to give it up to their husbands, and if they didn't, then they deserved to have it taken from them. It's crazy, but that type of thing goes on a lot in military marriages especially. My next door neighbor, as a matter of fact, when we lived in Navy housing in Newport News, said that she woke many times to her husband on top of her. She felt it was his right to do it.
....


wow.... my husband is on horny goat weed (mostly for working out and stuff) so he is a walking hard-on, worse then a teenager... i useually turn him down sevral times a week, but because i also tend to be very horny we still have sex like rabbits... i couldnt imagine just having sex whenever he wanted... maybe thats why some women dont like sex.... there has been a few times when i would help him out because he is my friend and I love him, but not because he was my husband.....

I agree with you you on the credit... props to you all....

SuzyRea
04-15-2004, 05:00 PM
I was 14. It was with a friend of my brother. He was over to see my brother and made a joke about having sex. (He did that often). My best friend was with me and dared me to do it. My parents were out, so I took him into my bedroom and had sex with him.
Never did any more with him.

ChristyWild
04-15-2004, 07:29 PM
Both virgins, and was off the side of a golf course when I was 19. Ah, the places you try and find when going to a stuck-up-their-ass Christian college!

And then, of course, with my current bf, he took my anal virginity in the woods off a trail by the movie theater we'd just gone to on our first date- I'm such a lil slut! lol

heidi
04-16-2004, 06:35 AM
wow everyone has such different stories... i'm so angry to find out how much unconsentual sex/rape has gone on... i'm sorry for bringing up an uncomfortable subject (for some) but i commend all of you ladies for your courage, being strong, and sharing your stories....
big hugs

xoxo
heidi

LoveSexMoney
04-16-2004, 11:33 AM
It's ok heidi. LIke I said, I feel like I learned a few things from it, and it's just one of many incidents that makes me who I am today. :D

Princess44
04-16-2004, 03:58 PM
i was 14~he was 18 and to my surprise it didn't hurt but my whole "Theory" on why it hurts 4 so many girls is because tey are either
1~Scared about it because their friends tell them it's gonna hurt so therefore they automatically assume that it will
2~Deep inside their hearts they know that he's not the right guy.

~~~~~~But you're torn because you are just so in the moment that you say yes then you go ahead it happens, and then as you sit there and think to your self about what has just happened you realize you can never go back and change it, no matter how much you wish that you could it's over. ~~~~~~

erotictonic
04-17-2004, 08:48 PM
Same as Lexi, 17, one month shy of 18....

I didn't start to enjoy sex until I had an orgasm at 19. I didn't turn into a slut until 20/21 though ;)


I turned into a slut around 23 or 4. It's fun being a slut, isn't it? I wouldn't have it any other way... ::) 8)

LoveSexMoney
04-18-2004, 12:58 PM
yeah, then when you hit late 20's you shift into "super slut" mode. :flirt:

Miss Courtney
04-19-2004, 02:54 AM
I was 14, he was 16, I kinda regret it cos he turned out to be an asshole, but it happened, can't change that

A.n.a.l.a.
04-19-2004, 11:45 AM
i feel like i was really old when i lost mine compared to everyone else. i was 21.5 years old, didn't plan it but don't the guy for it either. foreplay went too far, that's all. :-\ oh and to anyone who didn't actually want to lose their virginity when they did and felt forced or whatever, that time doesn't count as losing it.

(oooh! the new simlies are pretty! ;D)

A.n.a.l.a.
04-19-2004, 11:48 AM
now i know i am not the only one here who wasn't a teen when s/he had sex for the first time!

ami
04-20-2004, 07:30 AM
my husband mentioned the other day that out of his friends he was the first to really lose it... i was the oldest out of my friends so it was no surprize that i was first.... i have know lots of people (guys mostly) who were in thier early 20's and still virgins. some just hadnt met the right girl, some hadnt had a real chance (like the girl wanting to, the guys i geneally know are gentlemen), some wanted to be virgins possibly untill marrige........

A.n.a.l.a.
04-20-2004, 06:39 PM
i still feel like i was really old when i lost mine. probably cause even if i wanted to then (which i'm sure i did somewhat), every adult i knew and some kids i knew would've blabbed to my folks about it and screwed everything up. or because i kept thinking to get approval from my folks i had to abstain from everything- sex, drugs, alcohol, etc. so i kept claiming to myself that i'd wait until marriage, which i never did. then i wondered what had taken me so long! :-\
never been with a woman either. if you were forced or didn't want to, IT DOESN'T COUNT! sorry for yelling, had to make that clear.

AnnaPDX
04-20-2004, 07:03 PM
I know it doesn't count, but since everyone else is mentioning it, my first experience was rape as well. I was 16. The next year I had sex with my "best" friend (male) but that was only halfway consentual too (it's confusing). I first had sex with a girl when I had just turned 20, and I've only been with girls since then.

NaomiLee
04-20-2004, 08:00 PM
I was a virgin waiting until marriage... then i fell in love big time... i had just turned 20, it was in my room, on my bed for like 5 hours (of pain)... while my parents were on vacation... he was extremely experienced, gentle, and sweet.... it was a good first time....

blondhottie
04-20-2004, 08:48 PM
I was 17. I lost it to my boyfriend at the time. Surprisingly it didn't hurt at all, but we had fooled around a lot before that plus I had been using tampons too. It wasn't that great; we were both virgins so we didn't know what the hell we were doing. Plus he came almost immediately after sticking it in. :o

alwaysalady81
04-22-2004, 09:33 PM
i was 15 i had been with him for 6 mos and thought we'd be together forever. thank god one day i woke up and saw him for what he really was.... a skinny, bignosed, gangsta wannabe, and a drug addict.

oceanblue
04-30-2004, 10:17 AM
I had just turned 16 and it wasnt a great experience, it didnt hurt at all and the guy called me a liar saying a virgin couldnt possibly move that well. What a guy!

Synnove
04-30-2004, 12:01 PM
I was 13 and raped by my best friends' 18 y/o brother during a sleepover. If that doesn't count then it's still 13 because 2 months later I ended up living with a 35 y/o guy and it was either put out or get out. On the upside I learned how to fuck and I got a working wardrobe out of it. :-\

Tiff_7_17
04-30-2004, 10:28 PM
I was 16, he was 23...and I haven't found someone as good in bed since :-[ Obviously the first time sucked...but the rest of the time...well...hehe.

Becks
08-19-2004, 11:11 AM
I was sixteen. The experience was not good though cause my parents found out and I got grounded!


YOU GOT GROUNDED?Im from england but i thought the legal age to have sex was also 16 in the states????how can they ground you for doing something that is legal!
I was 15 by the way!

hardkandee
08-19-2004, 11:17 AM
I was 17. Didn't hurt bad enough - I asked him to do it again as soon as he finished!

shift_6x
08-19-2004, 11:24 AM
17 1/2 here

Hottie7268
08-19-2004, 11:27 AM
I was 14 and it was with my bf, Bob who was 18. We called him Boobs tho cuz his were bigger than mine. Oh, he also had a unibrow. ;D and a camaro! It didn't hurt tho and I didn't bleed. Actually, it was kinda nice when I think back to it.............

VADEN
08-19-2004, 11:32 AM
"17"

NinaDaisy
08-19-2004, 05:01 PM
Reviving old threads, I see...

I was a week shy of my 17th b-day with a 20 yr. old I'd been dating for 8 months. The first few times were painful, but he was nice about it. We dated for 2 1/2 years till I went to college, and the sex was pretty bad the whole time.

First time with a girl was actually with TWO girls, the same weekend I met the above guy actually! lol... Now THAT was fun!

playboycntrfold
08-19-2004, 05:56 PM
I was 15 when it happened. He was my first love and I have absolutely no regrets. Even tho I'm engaged now (diff. guy of course) He'll always hold that special place in my heart.

I actually just talked to him recently. We still got along as well as we did 5 years ago. I found out he's like, a fucking millionaire now. :cry: *sigh* too bad it didn't last. LOL j/k :laughing:

WickedNYGirl
08-19-2004, 06:07 PM
It was on March 31st (Still remember the date) I was 16, he was 30 something. He was the FIRST DATE THAT I'VE EVER HAD. I got totally wasted, and we did it in the back of his Jag, then he went down on me and when he came up for air he had blood all over his face he was like "What the...?" He got mad and asked, "are you a virgin?" My only responce was "Not anymore." (he he he) ;-)~

stormy
08-20-2004, 05:30 AM
September 2, 1997. I was sixteen and I just gave in my horny little boyfriend. I showed him the best 47 seconds of his then young life... :-*

After that I had to do it more so I wouldn't think sex was so disappointing. ;)

onlythebest
08-20-2004, 05:36 AM
16,but it wasn't my choice.I don't want to get into it.

Vyanka
08-20-2004, 05:40 AM
I was 21. 23 now.

Becks
08-20-2004, 08:18 AM
It was on March 31st (Still remember the date) I was 16, he was 30 something. He was the FIRST DATE THAT I'VE EVER HAD. I got totally wasted, and we did it in the back of his Jag, then he went down on me and when he came up for air he had blood all over his face he was like "What the...?" He got mad and asked, "are you a virgin?" My only responce was "Not anymore." (he he he) ;-)~


HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA i love it!so funny!!!!!!!i think im gonna pee!

Stipperella
08-20-2004, 08:19 AM
a month before my 16th birthday after that i never had sex for about over a year and a half. I guess it wasn't that great and i was greatly disappointed. I remember after he finished I asked was that it? lol

AkashaM
08-20-2004, 08:51 AM
15 years old--wasnt too fun for me... then i became the biggest whore afterwards!!! (heehee). Ive definitly slowed down since then....

Pamela
08-20-2004, 09:01 AM
I was 18, and he was almost 19, we stayed together for 11 years after!!

Pamela

kellyallstar
08-20-2004, 09:02 AM
17 years

Natascha
08-20-2004, 09:23 AM
I was 12. He was 20. It was not consensual and it messed me up for a while. He should have gone to jail, but I was too ashamed to tell anyone.
To any of you girls who have daughters, I can not emphasize the importance of keeping open lines of communication about sex. Its so essential.

My real first sexual experience was when I was 18...in my dorm room...with the most amazing and hottest guy I had ever seen (up to that point LOL)!! It was perfect! We are still friends and both happily connected to our significant others, but every now and then, especially if I run into him unexpectedly, I get little goosebumps when I see him.

WickedNYGirl
08-20-2004, 07:33 PM
HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA i love it!so funny!!!!!!!i think im gonna pee!


Thank you, thank you, I'm here all week. LOL

ladysummer
08-20-2004, 07:34 PM
I was 18 years old.... ironically I was a dancer while I was still a virgin (for a couple months....) :P

Ellie Tara
08-20-2004, 09:51 PM
I was fourteen.

maia13
08-20-2004, 11:33 PM
I was sexually molested when I was ten but it was never intercourse so I checked 20-22 cuz that's when my cherry got popped and I kinda regret it. I lied about not being a virgin cuz I didn't want to say that I went crazy when I was 10 and for almost 10 years I sheltered myself from the world and that now I feel too old so I just gotta do it.

phillydncr
08-21-2004, 09:44 PM
I was 17..He was 24. Big italian guy..mmm mmm mmmm. He thought that I had sex before...When I showed that it hurt, he stopped and looked at me and said .."wait a minute... you're not a virgin are you?!?!?" It was an okay experience except for when he went down on me. It was the first time anyone had done that and he was soooooo rough. I think that might have hurt almost as much as the sex did!! LOL AAHH I still remember his name..carl ugh

starbeat
08-22-2004, 02:46 AM
I was 18, he was 29. (Scandalous!)

We'd been dating for about 7 mos. at that point, but I wasn't ready, and he wanted to wait till I was legal. Smart move, buddy!

He was my first everything except for kiss. The first time I saw him naked, I was like, "That's not ballS, that's Ball!"

I thought each ball would be in its own seperate pouch! ;D

maia13
08-25-2004, 09:03 PM
Maybe I really don't regret my first time but I wished I'd been honest about it. I couldn't believe how scared I was even though I was older. I was sober and so was he. He was a nice enough guy too, cute, funny. I became a slut after that. It's funny how that happened.

Oh, and my first time with a girl I was 23.

kitana
08-27-2004, 08:25 AM
Hmm, when I lost my virginity? How old was I? Ok I remember now.

I was old enough to sleep alone, but young enough to know I didn't wanna.

Which would make me 16yrs old.

Kitana