View Full Version : How old were you when you lost your virginity?
bambiblue
08-27-2004, 06:07 PM
I was 16....so naive and innocent then.
bambiblue
08-27-2004, 06:10 PM
He was my first everything except for kiss. The first time I saw him naked, I was like, "That's not ballS, that's Ball!"
I thought each ball would be in its own seperate pouch! ;D
Sorry That cracked me up!!!! I think I thought the same thing!!
Kitty-chan
08-28-2004, 01:20 PM
i need to know, which counts as losing your virginity? when i was 15, i attempted to have sex, and the guy broke my hymen(which i was pleased about as i could then use tampons), but we couldn't manage full penetration.
then when i was 17, i finally did have full penetrative sex.
i've never known which age i should say!
hyzenthflay
08-28-2004, 06:51 PM
A few months after my 16th birthday. I still think about that dude, although I think he's either bi now or completely gay.
mercedez
08-29-2004, 03:38 PM
I was 18.....and so much in love with the idea of my highschool sweetheart. I remember, how nervous I was.....man, talk about butterflies.
Cutiepie
08-29-2004, 09:46 PM
I was 16 and it was with a guy I asked to do it with so I could get it over with...we were in his truck and the cops showed up made us stop. Meanwhile, another patrol car pointed and laughed at us as they drove by. :embarassed: Not one of my proudest moments!
brandys
08-29-2004, 10:58 PM
Damn Lexi , thats grat ! one guy , i wish i could say that.........
Brandys, thanks. :) I always get comments about how funny that is. lol But we have broken up, so thats not gonna be a forever thing! ;)
Boobie Monster
09-09-2004, 04:24 AM
17, Freshman year of college - about 2 months before my birthday.
My catholic guilt got to me, so I started with anal... moved on to regular about a month later. The stupid ass things we convince ourselves of thanks to religion.
Crystal_eyes
09-09-2004, 04:33 PM
I was 15 and I stayed with that guy for 2 years ! We taught it was gonna last forever ... it didn't ! :)
pornopink
09-17-2004, 09:42 PM
it wasn't all it was cracked up to be, the guy i'm with now is really good in bed.
Raven_angel
09-23-2004, 10:39 PM
I was 19, and I'm 20 now. And I have a more active sex life then pretty much most of my friends.
Raven_angel
09-23-2004, 10:41 PM
I meant intercourse. I started having oral sex at 17.
JadeBrooklyn
10-02-2004, 10:42 PM
16. it was...then it was gone. I didnt value it at all. I just took it as the opening to a realm of sexuality. and then RAN with it. lol
Aleah
10-04-2004, 12:40 PM
I was 16 and it was superbowl Sunday. We were on the top bunk of my brother's bed and he rolled over and broke the rail!! He landed FLAT on his back clutching the rail and we still crack up about that! He's my oldest and one of my best friends to this day and currently stationed in Iraq. I hope he comes home soon, safe and sound. : ) Miss ya Johnny!!
spottedfawn
10-11-2004, 07:40 AM
I was 17, a month away from 18, and graduating from Highschool. Wait...er, not AT graduation, but after school ended before the ceremony a few days later. Hah. I trusted him, and was ready to get it over with already! It hurt like hell and I ended up curled in a ball in tears. It wasn't until a few weeks ago after having sex with a different guy for the first time, and then talking to my friend about it, that I realized it hurt so damn badly at first because he was effing huge, width wise.
GloryAngel
10-14-2004, 08:16 AM
checked under 14 when i lost it to a boy but I am not gonna say the exact age...not proud of it wish I could have waited...but with a girl I was umm..about 14-15.
DCFoxxx
10-14-2004, 01:03 PM
Well let's just say I was in college my first time with a guy - not gonna say the exact age - it didn't hurt but bled a lot...and first time with a girl - hmmm...around 13...haven't done anything else with a girl since but really want to! Any takers? lol
slutty
10-14-2004, 01:20 PM
16
Sparkell
10-17-2004, 01:11 AM
14 :o
AmyCA
10-19-2004, 02:03 PM
15 :biting:
Malibu
10-20-2004, 01:20 AM
No way! Boy, most of you were so young! I was crying about it when I was 17, thinking that I had been plucked from the field of innocence at such a young age! lol! Regarding the person whom I slept with, I still wish I'd waited. But don't most of us.
FoxyRoxIt
10-21-2004, 11:08 PM
I was 14 going on 15, he was 20. We'd been together for a year and I was ready. Me and my 2 bestfriends had a running bet who would loose it first so I went for it and won the bet.
gypsy_girlchild
10-22-2004, 12:35 AM
19 I dated him 2 years through high school, he was older (said 21, actually 27 and I was 17)l and then before college he brought me to his house.
I said fine to myself and got it over with, nothing exciting, it didn't hurt, but it wasn't interesting.
I broke up with him one month later when college started.
gypsy_girlchild
10-22-2004, 12:36 AM
man, not much of that made sense!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SORRY!
19 was the age.
VADEN
10-24-2004, 06:35 PM
No way! Boy, most of you were so young! I was crying about it when I was 17, thinking that I had been plucked from the field of innocence at such a young age! lol! Regarding the person whom I slept with, I still wish I'd waited. But don't most of us.
So true, Malibu....I felt the same exact way.
The messed up part was he was my best friend of 3 years and after we had sex he told everyone in school what a great lay I was and that they should also try and get down my pants. He threw away our friendship just to make a reputation for himself....:( It broke my heart to loose his friendship.
gothicgoddess
10-25-2004, 03:31 PM
i was 16, very inlove ... It was after spring formal, on the waterfront in theback of a van lol....
Eyes_of_Ice
10-28-2004, 11:37 AM
19
exotica17
11-02-2004, 09:00 PM
I was an old maid compared to everyone here--21 with my ex husband on our not so honeymoonish "honeymoon."
rkcrox
11-04-2004, 01:51 PM
14, almost 15 with my date for the homecoming dance in the bushes outside the school. As far as women go I think I kissed my first girl when I was about 10? Then not again til my early 20's nothing below the belt but ass grabbing. "I've played in the minors, but never went pro"-quote from Coyote Ugly
Well my story is kinda like Lexi's.... lol.- the girl part anyway.
As for the first most unforgetable time.... which really really sucked by the way..... >:( I was 5 f***ing years old. Im sure I dont need to go into much detail for everyone to get the picture, but it was by the man who killed my mother. She caught him raping me, locked me in the bathroom and tried to kill him, she ended up being stabbed 37 times in her neck, heart and stomach. ** Nelly said it best in that new song, "Cause it's all in my head, I think about it over and over again"-but whatever, it happened, it didnt kill me and IM STRONGER, and now I have my mom as my own personal Savior and Hero.....
Now away from the sad stuff... and onto the fun stuff....(I started with the cutest guy in my whole school.... it hurt and he was big to be young you know. I was 14 and he was 13 or maybe it was just big cuz I was little...lol, but really his mass (and he wasnt fat at all) was bigger than most of the male teachers at the time. He flashed me his thingy thing in the back of math class in the 8th grade... and after that I had to try it... so for about a few months every day before class we were doing the nasty... I dont know if it was because I actually liked him, I doubt its that because I knew even then I was a Lesbian (omg, did I just come out on a forum full of strangers :O ) but I never acted on it. So after a while it stopped... and then it was girls from there.... Now does my first female :P encounter count as my first time too??? lol... if so I ll have to tell that story too... it was much more interesting.}:D
**by the way I really like this site** now I just need you all to reply to my posts...lol j/k
hardkandee
11-04-2004, 04:31 PM
Woah Lust.:worried: That is one incredible story. You really must be a strong girl with that in your past. I'm in shock just reading it.:wide-eyed
RaggDoll
11-04-2004, 08:02 PM
I was 16, he was 33 and gorgeous!
*lina*
11-07-2004, 11:59 AM
i was 15 and my guy was 27. i had a thing for older guys but he was good. it was not the greatest night but not too much pain.
as for girls... about the same year i had my first girlfriend. we stayed together 4 years... longest relationship so far.
i am a cat, only company when i'm in heat ;) *meow*
RachelleD
11-10-2004, 04:42 AM
I was 14 and my bf was 16. He ended up being a lying cheating ass, so if I could go back I would've waited
Vixie
11-11-2004, 02:43 PM
WOW! i was 18 almost 19, we had been together for two years by that time. He was 27. we got married when I turned 20 and then we got divorced when I turned 21.
ViXie
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justagirlami
11-14-2004, 06:03 PM
Seraya, I just love your avatar!!!!!!!
Tanya
Katherine
11-17-2004, 01:00 PM
I was 14. There was this boy I met in high school. HATED him. Owed him a favor and went to his house to help with his homework. Once we actually had a civilized conversation I realized how much I liked him. Had sex that very night. Hated him again next day in school. This was eight years ago and we still talk. Just went to his wedding last summer.
Paris_01
11-18-2004, 05:07 AM
Well, I'm a 23 year old virgin....and still waiting for Mr Right. Although I have done other stuff with my last boyfriend, penetration did not occur as I suffer from a condition called vaginismus but luckily its treatable. I must say my ex was very experienced and he had no problems bringing me to orgasms without us having an actual intercourse.
devilkitty
11-18-2004, 02:26 PM
2 months from 16
RoseDelight
11-20-2004, 12:31 AM
I lost mine when I was 23, and I am 24 now. Everyone had made up how 'big a deal the first time was'.....That dude didn't even last 2 minutes. :P
ladygodiva3261
11-20-2004, 12:43 PM
i was 15 almost 16 he was my first love but he didn't feel the same way. after that he just thought i was his play toy to use and throw away when ever he wanted. guys suck sometimes.
RoseDelight
11-21-2004, 03:12 PM
i was 15 almost 16 he was my first love but he didn't feel the same way. after that he just thought i was his play toy to use and throw away when ever he wanted. guys suck sometimes.
Amen
Miss_Sierra
11-21-2004, 07:41 PM
16
blackbeauty
11-21-2004, 08:07 PM
I was almost 13. Terrible hunh? I was sheltered throughout my childhood and teens, guess I was just being rebellious.
purgatori
11-28-2004, 02:20 AM
17 when the real thing happened
toxicgirl
12-03-2004, 04:35 AM
this is gonna be really wierd. i dont usually talk about this. but i was 11. it was consensual. actually, i initiated it. that was 10 years ago, but i never talk about it to anyone (except my best friend). sex bores me now. i don't really like it. why do i feel guilty about my past? *sigh*
Cranky
12-03-2004, 11:46 AM
I discount the sexual abuse when I was a child because qualifying it even now would piss me off and he is so not worth anymore emotion from me. I kicked his ass good when I became an adult and forced him into therapy for his sickness in exchange for me not beating his ass again and calling the cops because I held on to proof. I dispensed a healthy dose of hillbilly justice on his ass.
So, my answer using the "willingness" factor is with a male at age 15, with a female at age 17.
MizBribri
12-03-2004, 03:05 PM
i was just 12 he was 18... maybe that what comes of not having any "real" parents? :: sighs ::
RockAngeL
12-10-2004, 11:19 PM
I was 15, so was he. We had been dating in jr. high and one day he was over my house visiting[no one was home}:D ] so i just took 'em to my bedroom and we fumbled around in the bed. I had no clue what i was doing but i knew i really liked him and i was sure he'd be no regret. He got it in & out a few times, but it seemed really small. So, he didn't pop the cherry. The second one did. Well, the next day at school i was so embarrassed and just assumed he'd go running and telling everyone. So, i cut him short and broke up with him outta sheer embarrassment. Didnt see him for 10yrs. When i did see him we got back together and it eventually ended cuz i found out he was sleeping with his baby's momma the whole 1year we lived together. That definitely hurt. Guess we weren't meant to be.
Although i've had experiences with girls as a child but not as an adult.
My first experience with a girl was when i was living in Tennessee. I was in third grade during class and i had gotten in trouble for talking so the teacher put me in what they called "the quite room" {a storage room with shelves and a few chairs}. When i went in, she closed the door behind me[the top half of door was glass, so you could see in a li'l]. There was another girl in there and...well...we gotta a little acquianted. She had me sit on her lap and begun to massage me between my legs. I remember how good it felt and being scared of getting caught. I moved, haven't heard from her since.