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Trashazon
12-11-2004, 02:45 AM
Pretty old - 18. Been making up lost time ever since :P

emilybelle
12-18-2004, 03:49 AM
he and i were both 18. we had dated our entire senior year of high school, and decided to have sex up in the Blue Ridge Parkway..to Bob Marley. lol... he was the first guy i had saw naked, so i thought all guys were that big. how wrong i had been! he was wonderful, and i would recommend him to anyone. :) we ended up hooking up again a few more times in college, and it was even better. so no bad stories with losing my cherry.

now, the stories of when i saw how normal guys are in bed? that is bad.

LunaGirl
12-25-2004, 06:36 AM
I'm 19 and stilla virgin. :(

I've had dates and stuff I just haven't found anyone I click with yet. *sigh*

Is it bad or a disadvantage to me that I plan to start stripping in a few months but will be a virgin? And by that I mean I haven't done anything, oral. But I do have sexuality and am aware of my body I just have never shared with with another person.

Paris_01
01-09-2005, 07:54 AM
LunaGirl I know how you feel. I am 23, and I'm still a virgin. I have done oral and other stuff, but could never have an intercourse as I suffer from primary vaginismus. This condition is more pyschological i.e. fear of pain while having sex. Fortunately this condition is treatable, but I need a partner who is understanding and patient about my condition. I too haven't met anyone that I have clicked with apart from my ex. I was making alot of progress with him but then he decided to call it a day :( Who do I practice with now?

I certainly don't think your at a disadvantage regarding stripping. I do pole dancing (as a hobby) and I feel sexy and I know I'm damn good at it.

TigersMilk
01-11-2005, 11:22 AM
Things will workout for you girls about finding the right one. But, I know all this waiting makes you a bit nutty.
I lost mine at 13.......it was awesome. He was this 15yr old guy named Warren. Dont laugh. :) Though I made the mistake of going to school that day too. I walked bow-legged all the way there. Ouch that sh!t hurt. And the whole reason why I wanted to is because 1) I could 2) I was curious.

morgan
01-14-2005, 09:33 PM
I was 13 and he was 15. It wasn't consentual and it hurt so bad. He lived across the street from me for 1 year after, so it continued. Thank god he finally moved. I didn't have a boyfriend or sex for about 2 years after that fiasco. I will never forgive him for what he took away from me and I swear I see him every once in a while. My husband always knows when I think I see him because I freeze up and stare. I can never forgive him for what he did to me but I do believe in Karma. He will get his someday if not already. I do wish I knew it was rape then, because my father was a police officer.

The first time I was with a girl I was 22.

I am very lucky to have a great husband to which I can share everything with. :heartbeat

showgirlschloe
01-20-2005, 03:10 PM
I was 15, my "boyfriend" climbed in my bedroom window and attacked me in the middle of the night. Happened repeatedly for the whole summer.

Ohlala
01-20-2005, 03:36 PM
16, he was 16, during school trip to NY. In his hotel room. By the end of the trip the whole bus new what we did the night before, including the prinicple.

didn't help I gave him head on the bus ride to NY and the principle knew about that too!

PLUSH
01-21-2005, 06:55 AM
Sweet sixteen. Friends. Drummer. Night before his first show. Big mistake. Lesson learned. He only lasted 2 minutes.. If you combined all 3 times :/

Gwenakitten
01-24-2005, 07:28 AM
I was 16, he was 32. I had known him for a year and been dating him for about 8 months before that. In the begining, I wanted to wait until I was married to have sex, and he was patient with me, but now I am glad I did not wait! He was, is, and will be the only man for me! ;D He is the only man I've ever dated, much less slept with, and I look forward to marrying him this coming May. I am 23 now, and we've been engaged for so long, 6 years now! Something keeps happening to delay the wedding, but We're getting married this May if I have to just stop by a justice of the peace or run away to Vegas.

julzgulz
01-25-2005, 07:21 PM
Man...I was 19 and he was older than me by 3 years, but really super short, so yea he was small. He knew it was my first time and thought he was hurting me, my first time sucked. He thought his tiny little thing was hurting me and I wasn't even saying "Ouch". lol:laughing:. He thought he was a big man and ended up stopping because he "Didn't want to hurt me anymore". :O . He was weird most of the time. When I got active with my current boyfriend I was thrilled, because he made me bleed. It was everything I thought my first time would be, so I like to consider my boyfriend my real 1st. Plus it's a lot better ;) !

jessica_rabbit
02-04-2005, 02:25 PM
I was 15. It was sweet, innocent, and special. Wish guys would give that kinda foreplay nowadays.

amylynnej
02-06-2005, 03:41 PM
14. very good experience. I didnt have sex again until I was 17 though.

AudreyLeigh
02-07-2005, 03:41 PM
First time was with a jerk...at 14, he was 16. Shortly after that I got back with my first love and took his V...}:D A few months later was my first time with a girl... dont remember much from my 2 firsts but will never forget my first love :-*

~Audrey

tootsie
02-11-2005, 01:21 AM
15, i look back now and think, damn...i was a baby!

Nurse Betty
02-11-2005, 01:39 AM
Eighteen. Prom night. His date ditched him and my date ditched me. I'd never met him before that night and I never saw him again. He had a johnston like a lysol can and a heart like a block of ice, but I was insecure and needed someone to make me feel pretty. I bled and bled and bled and bled for an entire week and cried for much longer.

My prom date and I eventually hooked up and embarked on a whirlwind one year relationship that should not have been. And we all lived crappily ever after.

Smile!

~Nurse Betty

Ashara
02-14-2005, 07:35 AM
I'm 19 and stilla virgin. :(

I've had dates and stuff I just haven't found anyone I click with yet. *sigh*

Is it bad or a disadvantage to me that I plan to start stripping in a few months but will be a virgin? And by that I mean I haven't done anything, oral. But I do have sexuality and am aware of my body I just have never shared with with another person.

I'm 19 and still a virgin too. :-[ Though I'm not too concerned - I want to make sure my experience is memorable and with someone I really like. I haven't met that person yet. ;)

Umm...if you have oral sex and digital sex (ie with fingers) but the hymen doesn't break you're still a virgin right?? /:O

Blueyez
02-16-2005, 08:08 PM
Cool! I thought I was gonna be one of the younger ones, but I see several others lost theirs early, too.

I was 14 when I lost mine, but I don't regret it one bit. I was ready (at least I believe I was)

bigblueyes
02-17-2005, 01:14 PM
First time at 17 with a french morroccan hottie that I stayed with for almost 3 years. I ended up "doing it" it about six times that day - whew! what a work out!

LilSweetVixen
02-18-2005, 03:48 PM
Umm...if you have oral sex and digital sex (ie with fingers) but the hymen doesn't break you're still a virgin right?? /:O

that's the thing about virginity, hard to pin point. some people don't have hymens at all. i don't consider oral or digital sex losing virginity, only penetration.

PaigeDWinter
02-21-2005, 12:45 PM
Well, I put 17 because that was my age when I lost my physical virginity with a guy. If you go based on the whole "when you first had sex" thing, but dont count the actual cherry pop, I first started sleeping with girls when I was 13.

Blueyez
02-22-2005, 01:32 AM
First time at 17 with a french morroccan hottie that I stayed with for almost 3 years. I ended up "doing it" it about six times that day - whew! what a work out!

Must be something about blue-eyed girls! lol ;D

fancygirl
02-24-2005, 10:27 PM
To LoveSexMoney-

Oh- I'm so sorry! But still! don't count that as sex...sex is good and with your consent. You wouldn't say you had a cooking experience if someone hit you over the head with a rolling pin, so I hope that someday (and maybe you already have) you'll be able to equate sex with sex, and a violent crime with what that asshole did to you.

: (

Wildrose
02-28-2005, 12:26 PM
I was 14 when I lost my virginity. I was romantically in-love with a sexy guy just one year older than me. I don't regret it at all. I am happy that I broke my virginity on Mom's bed. :)

I am happy about that because it felt safe and serene in making love although I was still scared. It was actually me and Mom's bed. We shared beds while I was growing up because Dad left Mom after 14 long and hard years of marriage.

He left her with six babies, the youngest being only 9 mo. So growing up we had a two bedroom tiny little apartment with seven people and one bird. :) Not enough space for six kids and Mom. Being the youngest girl I got to sleep with Mom.

Even though our living situation was extremely tight and being one of the younest I got hand me downs and no space I love the idea that I grew up sleeping next to Mom every night.

It was a great sense of security and a serene feeling of femininity. I loved it then and love it still as a sweet memory. I feel lucky that way. How many women can say they grew up as a little one feeling the sense of importance and security sleeping next to Mom til it was time to grow up and move into your own life. That's a sense of happiness in my heart.

Life was like that for me since the age of 7 til 19.

The only thing I wish happened that day was that the guy I broke my cherry with was older and wiser to the ways of a female so that it wouldn't be so quick and all about him. Oh and I wish I was not so shy that I would have joined him in the shower afterwards when he asked.

I was too shy and was embarrassed for bleeding. I didn't know ladies bleed on their first time and that it was okay...and normal. But I did wait in the bathroom naked while he showered. I live for sweet memories and love to create them as often as possible. :)

By the way, Mom was 13 when she broke her cherri and it was done under a bridge so I feel thankful for having a soft warm bed to have experienced my first. I love my Mom. She is a sweetie. I finally told her about my first experience when I was all grown up.



P.S. Today is my Birthday...yea!!



Always....Wildrose

Etania
02-28-2005, 06:53 PM
I had just turned 16, when I met him. A few months later I lost it. I wasn't a great expeirience. I stayed with him for 4 YEARS!! (We just broke up) He is still the only guy Ive ever been with...and I hope to keep it that way for a long long long time.

Dancing Girl
02-28-2005, 11:47 PM
Although I was raped for the first time that a penis penetrated my vagina, to be litteral about it, however I definitally agree that doesn't count as loosing my virginity. Neither does simply the act of the hymen being torn, and some children fall on things, or loose them digitally. I think the definition of loosing someones virginity (why does it have to be something we loose? why can't it be called something more positive?) is the first time we willingly engage in sex with someone, however when it comes to full or partial penitration I think it is the choice of the people involved to decide according to their own interpritation.

Since the first penetration does not count, I am a 23 year old virgin, very sexually inexperienced, and because of my high standards I don't see anyone in my life who I would give my virginity too. I hope my wait isn't too much longer ;)

MsFINE
03-05-2005, 06:51 PM
14 for me!

SthnrnGrl77
03-05-2005, 08:41 PM
17 but it was not a good experience. It was sort of a waste because of who it was with. :P

exoticxx33
03-05-2005, 09:02 PM
I WAS A LATE BLOOMER I LOST IT AT 19 ALMOST 20..:D

LilSweetVixen
03-07-2005, 08:37 AM
Since the first penetration does not count, I am a 23 year old virgin, very sexually inexperienced, and because of my high standards I don't see anyone in my life who I would give my virginity too. I hope my wait isn't too much longer ;)

speaking of which, how did you guys know you were ready?

moonjade6
03-09-2005, 05:11 PM
Just after I turned 16, and I know I just wasn't ready. I didn't mind the pain--it was actually very pleasurable. ;)

But the consequences far outweighed the benefits. I didn't even love him, or like him for that matter. I was just so stupid (being sixteen.) He had a huge influence over me, and I didn't even know it. He put me down for my horrible performance, not knowing I was a virgin. He literally forced himself on me because he thought No meant Yes, and I accepted that and told no one about it. I got pregnant my first time...we all freaked out...and then I miscarried alone, in my bathroom, on a Thursday night in March.:brokenhea Huge sigh of relief for him I suppose...we no longer speak to each other, he stopped talking to me after I stopped being friends with his friends, he graduated before me, and I never saw him again.

That was just a bad year.:boxedin:

So yeah. To all the twenties virgins *bows to them* Hopefully it will be with someone you love; don't be a stupid horny little schoolgirl like I was.

Heaven-Lee
03-13-2005, 10:06 PM
I was 15-it was a week before my 16th B-day. It was my first real BF. I just did it b/c in school and he was the most populat boy. I just wanted him to keep liking me.....

Stripper35
04-10-2005, 12:51 PM
16, and i started doing it alot now almost everyday its like my hobby

candy_parfeum_gurl
04-10-2005, 03:05 PM
I was 15. He was 18. He was so HUGE!!!! The biggest I've been with to date. Kinda weird b/c he was short and skrawny. He was also the youngest I've been with- I usually go for 4 or more yrs. older than me. =)

sexybeast
04-10-2005, 06:19 PM
I was 14. He was 15. It hurt a lot, but it felt good. Sex is on the top three of what I like to do.

DarlingDiva
05-06-2005, 08:50 AM
When I was 12 I had sex...but it wasn't consensual.
At 16 I had sex with my girlfriend ( she had a strap on) and at age 19, I had my first real sexual experience with a guy. I'm still with him and he is AMAZING both in and out of bed. So...I'm not really sure when I lost my virginity...what do you guys thing?

Onemore
12-19-2007, 02:35 PM
i was 16

blondi553
12-20-2007, 08:55 PM
wow this is an old thread......i was 16.5 and im still with him and about to get married here in less than a month! yayayyy

paintgoddess
12-21-2007, 12:55 AM
Yeah.... realllly old thread.

I was 21. Still with him six years later. Have only been with him... and am starting to think i'm missing out.

maryjade
12-22-2007, 10:31 AM
Does anyone know what the statistics are for this for the general public? Just wondering how we compare.

aviendha
12-22-2007, 11:00 PM
I was 27. It was okay. Didn't hurt, didn't give me fireworks, didn't change my life. Mainly I was relieved to finally get that friggin' label off my back.

MulattoKitten
12-23-2007, 07:44 PM
I was 13 and raped by my best friends' 18 y/o brother during a sleepover. If that doesn't count then it's still 13 because 2 months later I ended up living with a 35 y/o guy and it was either put out or get out. On the upside I learned how to fuck and I got a working wardrobe out of it. :-\

Why the hell were you living with a 35 year old guy?

Anyways, I was 18.

PrettyCurlieQ
12-23-2007, 07:50 PM
I don't know what to put. I was 16, but that fits in two categories! 15-16 AND 16-17... :shrug:

kaiarose
12-23-2007, 08:02 PM
13. Boy oh boy. That's so young!

TheSexKitten
12-23-2007, 08:10 PM
Why the hell were you living with a 35 year old guy?

Anyways, I was 18.

Sounds like she had a very rough adolescence. Actually, sexual abuse is one of the leading causes of childhood and teen homelessness. :(

I was 14.

LittleMissy
12-23-2007, 09:29 PM
19 not consentual, was a little bitter about it afterwards, I guess in ways I still am.

20 with a girl totally consentual & was fun.

hannah83
12-24-2007, 11:00 AM
I was 18, with my high school sweetheart.

19 with a girl

Cheer4lyfe
12-24-2007, 11:27 AM
I was 13 too. I started early.

_Ariel_
12-27-2007, 07:45 PM
I was 15 when I frist had sex. Haven't stopped since :P

Miss Jessica
12-29-2007, 07:10 AM
I was 13, he was my age and a virgin too. I had a great time w/him that year. :biggrin: