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sander8son
04-15-2004, 01:22 PM
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE going down on girls. im very orally fixated, we'll say. i like to explore and to please. i dont have like "a method" other than to try different things with each girl and see what they most respond to and just attempt to increase whatever motions they enjoy the most....

Not only have i never gotten off from getting a bj, it doesn't really do much for me to start with. i appreciate the effort, but its just does nothing for me. id much rather go down on a girl or make out with her, than have her blow me. sometimes it feels kinda good(not great), othertimes i just go from hard to soft with no good sensations at all.... then again, only really been blown by one girl (others have done it really really quickly, but its never done anything for me).

thats just me. we're all different.

SuzyRea
04-15-2004, 05:22 PM
I like giving guys blowjobs. I even like the taste of a guys semen (most of the time).

Juliette_deSade
04-15-2004, 06:21 PM
I. Am. A. Freak.

I adore giving head. I know the importance of a wet and slippery blowjob. I know that not only are you supposed to deep throat- - -it's a huge favor to him if you wrap your throat around the head and actually choke on it for a few seconds. My man goes mad if I lightly scrape my teeth on the BOTTOM half of his shaft. And yes, i swallow.

He goes about giving me head gingerly because he does not have as much experience as me. It's easier for him to bring me to orgasm with his hands. Ergo, I ask him to use both and I am slowly weening him off of his hands.

I like women. Katrine is right, it is more of and achievment. I am wise enough to not stop until she has reached orgasm. . .I use the "dip-stick" method to determine this, to feeel her involuntary muscle contractions and increased moisture. Only one girl has successfully made me come this way. A couple of guys in my life have had the perserverance to stay down there a full twenty minutes and give me a full on orgasm. Good for them.

sol_de_pr2
04-15-2004, 06:48 PM
Yummy, Juliette je je

big_daddy
04-15-2004, 07:46 PM
Rayanna
:beat: why did I not think of that? lol

MotherDaisy
04-15-2004, 11:14 PM
:D I love you guys, this thread has turned out wonderfully

Hey girls...I never realized the deep throating pleasure. I always thought a big mouth would suffice.

Please give MORE deep throat techniques....not that I have anyone to practise on.

A girl can dream.....

Deanna
04-15-2004, 11:24 PM
love to go down on guys( especially my guy hehe) and girls :).
but to be honest there has to be some sort of a mood setter....IE.... long intense forplay,a 3some, or moresome haha. that includes me and someone else while Blade watches... OMG that is soooo intense

Djoser
04-15-2004, 11:33 PM
A couple of guys in my life have had the perserverance to stay down there a full twenty minutes and give me a full on orgasm. Good for them.



Well, damn, I should hope so. Twenty minutes doesn't sound like all that long to me.

Devastating Divyne
04-16-2004, 03:46 AM
FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN. Enough said.

aphrodite
04-16-2004, 04:00 AM
I voted I love giving BJ's...and yes i swallow, well most of the time! ;)
I've never tried giving head to a girl...hey there's something to look forwards to!

Blade
04-16-2004, 06:44 AM
Makes mental note on which girls are freakier....

ami
04-16-2004, 08:19 AM
I am the luckiest guy in the world. My girlfriend actually asks if I want a blow job. This is good. She likes to deep throat and she does swallow. This is good.

I think it has something to do with control - making me curl my toes... that's OK - if she wants to make me jiggle around like her meat puppet for a blow job I will live with that!


I agree with deogos girl. i wont speak my request but i will go to him and pull down his pants, he rarely argues, and if he does argue its because he is doing something else and cant have a distraction.... i like to deep throught even though i choke a lot, he thinks its insane when i do it, and i like his reaction, both the "wow i cant belive you can do that" and the "ooo that feels good"....

i also agree with motherdaisy about strange dick... my husband's is the only one that gets near my mouth. and only because its attached to my husband...



I love it..do it a lot...I took the "Learn to swallow 101" class with Gynger..... he he..My husband feels cheap and used ....because I make him do it on video. Lots of videos..uh huh yup!..lol I don't like to receive..it gives me the willies! I have complete control of the shtick! :yummy::pickle:


awesome, video is great, i also love that between us we have 2 video cameras and a dvd burner... he he he .....


i do have problems getting my husband off every time i go down on him, but part of that is my lips get tired, part is because i get horny and want his dick elsewhere :D.... but when i do get him off I will admit I swallow! it took me a while, but i trained up to it, first just the bj, no cumming in my mouth, then spiting, then swallowing... i think it actually tastes good now.... :P

as for reciving, i love it, but i don't really get off on it, so sometimes i can get bored after a bit.... mostly though my husband is very good at it, i just dont get off, i was close once... but he stopped because i was about to brake his nose...

69, do it sometimes, the sensuality is nice, but the practicality is aweful. it jsut dosnt work, either one person gets distracted and stops, or both are distracted and dont do as good a job, or my neck starts hurting (top), or my head cant move and I really cant do anything (bottom)... my husband likes to do it sometimes, so i will then but not for terribly long....



...
the nipple stimulation causes your uterus to contract. This is because for whatever reason, there is a direct NERVE connection between the nipples and the uterus....


the reason is after childbirth the baby starts suckling which causes the uterus to contract and go back to its original size, i belive it also helps with the afterbirth. a great reason for everyone to breastfeed.. getting back your figure ;) ...

totally agree with the acheviment thing for going down on women... theres just something about all the noise us girls make, even the most vocal of guys useaully cant compeate with the avrage girl... i know there are exceptions.. but still...



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Please give MORE deep throat techniques....not that I have anyone to practise on.

A girl can dream.....


hmmm.... well i still choke a bit but this is how i am training... frist of all this is where size counts, and smaller is better, now you cant really change the size of a guys dick, but twizlers are really great practice. yes those long thin red candys. i could swallow one whole if I wanted to... useually i just hold it by one end and stick the whole thing down my throught untill my fingers are in my mouth, then i pull it back up. thats the hard part, not swallowing compleatly. you could prolly also practice with a hot dog, they are flexable and thicker then candy, but they bend unlike bottles, or dildos..... another trick is to make your throat more straight. lie on your back on the bed with your head off the end, then have him standing while you go down on him. pesonally i dont like being upside down, but it does work... also make sure that if he has a bend in his dick (most do) that curve should line up with your throat. i can not even try on my husband unless i am next to him, if iam between his legs it will not work. another trick i do is keep swallowing while his dick is in there, just like you were taking a drink or eating, this makes it easier to ignore the choking/puke feeling. that is prolly the most valuble trick i have learned so far. and i hear that it feels good for him too.

and keep dreaming, just like in sports visulisation is key, of course in this its prolly partly because it affects desire to do the work....

blondhottie
04-16-2004, 08:49 AM
I love sucking cock and I've been told I'm good at it. ;D I don't mind swallowing either-some girls think it tastes nasty, but I don't think it tastes bad at all. However, I like it when a guy cums fairly quickly, or if we switch from me giving a blowjob to having sex. My jaw gets awfully sore if I'm down there for 45 minutes. Sometimes after a night out at the bar, I'll be drunk and horny and I'll give my man head while he's driving. Road head is the best-by the time we get home we're both so horned up that we fuck like rabbits all night long! ;)

Okay, this thread is making me horny, I think I need to go masturbate now... ;D

Sirona
04-16-2004, 09:09 AM
I swear that the biggest key to good oral sex (giving male or female) is really and truely loving it. :) I love giving head and/or going down on a girl. Call it oral fixation if you will. ;) Anyhow the more you love it, the more you put into it!

ami
04-16-2004, 10:32 AM
I agree with you blondhottie, except my jaw dosnt get sore, my lips do, they get so numb that i am afraid they will move and I will accidently hurt him with my teeth, that is when we useually switch. but when hes really horny and comes before my lips get tired, that is somehow satisfying, like i did a good job and made him happy. yum.

Jayln
04-16-2004, 12:50 PM
Please give MORE deep throat techniques....not that I have anyone to practise on.


For you and anyone else that is interested, here is just about the most comprehensive site on oral sex on the internet.

http://www.onlinesexsite.net/oralsex/

Whether you want to know more about eating pussy (yummy :-*)....or how to suck cock properly and deep throat, it's all there.
Enjoy! ;)

polecat
04-17-2004, 04:50 PM
I swear that the biggest key to good oral sex (giving male or female) is really and truely loving it. :) I love giving head and/or going down on a girl. Call it oral fixation if you will. ;) Anyhow the more you love it, the more you put into it!
Yay Sirona! This is totally how I see it... and I would also extend that this makes it very specific to each person as the desire and enjoyment level changes for every new, different encounter.

Two people can be complete oral duds when together, then branch out to others where the enthusiam and desire level is higher and be absolutely wonderful.

It amuses me to no end to hear people talking about "skills" or rambling off checklists from Maxim, AskMen or Cosmo articles... as if there is some linear instruction manual or methodset. Even more amusing are those that fall for it as some indication AS IF such a thing were possible. Guidebooks and such are a lame concept IMO, but make good boasting rights and bar braggart-style conversation. LOL. It's likely more destructive than constructive since steps/instructions of any sort going on in someone's brain during the deed is more than likely going to be a hinderance since what was described might have been desirable to that one person out of 80 million, but complete polar opposite of what the person you are with finds desireable.

Good oral sex (.. or any sex really ..) I believe comes down to connection, and has to be a two-way street. The one receiving has to have enough of a connection and comfort with the person giving in order to release natural and subtle feedback.. and the one giving has to have enough of a connection and desire for the one he or she is giving it to in order to care enough to pick-up these signals and apply them. If the natural "hunger" is there for both parties, it's pretty hard to go wrong.

If there is any break-down in any part of this for either, it's just not going to be that good. And having to verbalize this is usually the sign of inexperience, and not something that should be a requirement in more balanced/equal match-ups, unless both partners are very young and both inexperienced. Sure, you can "train" someone into a given combination that will get one another off- but I don't believe this has the same potential to compensate for what's really missing and more of just a compromise.

My $0.02

LoveSexMoney
04-17-2004, 07:05 PM
Please give MORE deep throat techniques....not that I have anyone to practise on.

There's always the produce aisle! ;)

I didn't see anbody mention anal licking. Tonguing his ass while stroking his cock will probably make his dick harder than steel. Cocks of Steel! hahahaha

Blade
04-18-2004, 04:20 PM
That does it I'm moving back to SoCal!

honeygymgirl
04-19-2004, 04:56 PM
see I LOVE SHALLOWING AND SUCKING!

reliance6791
04-19-2004, 05:32 PM
Please give MORE deep throat techniques....not that I have anyone to practise on.

There's always the produce aisle! ;)

I didn't see anbody mention anal licking. Tonguing his ass while stroking his cock will probably make his dick harder than steel. Cocks of Steel! hahahaha


OK, I have been holding off posting to this thread, but Saphire, you just had to go there!!! You have opened a whole new world!!

Don't you think "analingus' deserves it's own thread??

Love it!!!!

ToriBaltimore
04-19-2004, 06:37 PM
I love both....it depends what I am in the mood for.......
but I dont do cum.....
man cum is gross to me.....
he can bust.....but not in my mouth......bleh
and as for salad tossing.........tried it...didnt really dig it...

CrescentLuna
04-19-2004, 10:48 PM
Mmm, I voted loved giving oral sex. I like the feelings with receiving, but rarely orgasm from it. Not from lack of trying, either, ex was down there for 1.5 hours once upon a time. All depends on the mood.
Oh, yeah, boyfriend said that he'd never orgasmed from a bj before he'd been with me. I'm his 4th girlfriend.
Ex was one of those that rarely orgasmed from BJ alone, so it was usually a bj+hj combo.

Oh, I can't deep throat well at all, but do swallow. BF likes the money shots more, though. Heehee.

ATLDiscoLawyer420
04-19-2004, 11:23 PM
hell yeah. Both directions, I am all about marathon sessions involving lots of up and down time...

jennworthington
04-22-2004, 02:51 PM
I love doing it, an like some of the guys say, my hubby has to be in the mood! I can deep throat, thank goodness, but I USSUALLY spit not swallow. Whoever mentioned the courtousy tap, I totally hear you :) I can usually tell when its coming, but I would hate to puke because I wasnt ready, haha.

Zofia
04-22-2004, 06:52 PM
I love giving head, and I swallow too. I love giving and receiving cunnilingus.

ami
04-22-2004, 07:02 PM
ohhh but you are missing out topaz.... ;D

:o O==8

jennworthington
04-25-2004, 01:24 AM
haha- start with a small one and work yourself up ::::::::Wink wink:::::::

valkor80
04-25-2004, 03:48 AM
love going down on a girl could stay down there for hours if she's into it.
also add me to the group that takes ages to cum from a bj. it happens just takes ages. not that she minds..

Stealing Soul
04-25-2004, 07:13 AM
Getting head: Depends on the skill of the girl. Teeth are bad.....

Going down on chicks: Love it, I get great high from being able to get a chick off with my mouth, fingers. I feel like I am making music with her body and I can control the highs and the lows of her sensations......love to bring her almost to the point of orgasm but introduce a softer slower note to suppress it.... then I will try to get her back up using other methods then bring her down again... finally I will introduce all the sensations together (imagine a drummer working with the drum set) and enjoy the big closing bang of the symphony...........and that is what I called a foreplay....... :P

NekkoStarz
04-25-2004, 03:11 PM
I love giving.... and def love receiving it. Well, as long as the guy doesn't do that whole shaking the head thing, that really annoys me. Oh, but I won't swallow. I don't even let any of my x's cum in my mouth, NO NO. Anywho --- my past x --- whom I still mess around with --- well, he can't/won't/hasn't ever cum during head ???. I don't it get!? Well, he never cummed with a girl on top too - until me! :D My goal now is to make him cum while giving him head...but it doesn't seem to be happening... err...any advice/comments about that?

threlayer
04-25-2004, 04:00 PM
Years ago I would only enjoy getting head for a few minutes and had almost never cum fom it. I would getet bored/distracted. Then I met this stripper who became my gal (sort of) for a long time. She taught me the attitude of passive receiving. I could always cum with her at the helm. Now I love getting head if it is done gently (not rapidly with teeth like from some zipped-up crackhead). I love my balls to be cupped and scratched at the same time. The best feeling is cumming in her mouth without a condom, even the ultrathin ones. I'm not too interested in jizzing up her face or just her hand. (I'd rather use a condom and stay in her mouth.) Seeing my cum ooze back out between her lips and my cock is a real turn-on too. It's just that she isn't really around anymore to help me. Only 1 or 2 other women have had the ability to get me off in the past since then. I need to shop around for a better deal. As much as I love head, fucking is even more intense.

As much as I love receiving head, I really love eating pussy just as much. That exciting 69 thing is great too. I've given head for as long a 3 hours straight (I think she had 7 orgasms) and could go lots longer. I love teasing the gal up until she almost cums and then reducung the intensity for a few seconds, so she has to start up that hill again. i love it when she gets noisy and out of control while cumming. I use a combination of techniques from licking the lips and wiping over the clit, flutter-tonguing the clit, sucking the lips gently with lots of friction, sucking in the clit area and tonguing the tip while in my mouth. It is wonderful but the area has to be pretty clean with no perfume etc.

I have developed a technique of getting lapdances that offters the gal the chance to cum. When the few I've done that with get close to orgasm, I tell them what I'd like to be doing to their pussy right then (see above). This puts them quickly right over the edge. One came that way 6 times in two 4 minute lapdances, and that was the night she left town. I've never seen her again.

ami
04-26-2004, 06:09 AM
no offence threlayer, but i would be super pissed if some customer tried to get me off while i was giving a dance. that is not for paying customers AT WORK, that is only for special people that i love.

sander8son
04-26-2004, 08:04 AM
dont worry ami...... he's full of it.

just let him and sw2 live in their dillusional worlds.

seriously, 6 times in 8 minutes? having sex with someone that would be miraculous. giving a lap dance to a stranger and cumming that many times? impossible. hey, its your fantasy kiddo, and the girls are accomadating.

let me ask you this threlayer. since she "got off" did she give you the dances for free? if she didn't. you may need to pull your head out of your ass.

i know for a fact that ive never made a girl cum durring an LD.

MotherDaisy
04-26-2004, 10:53 PM
i loved his post up until the lapdance part, thats just silly....oh well we all have our fantasies

Why would she leave town....that just cracked me up.

threlayer
04-30-2004, 07:25 PM
Ami, don't worry about that. You have a guy and often that is different situation. With you, neighbor, it wouldn't happen.

Every dancer I've ever done that with let it happen, had to be involved in it (the way it has worked) and wanted it to happen. It certainly doesn't happen until there considerable trust was built up between us.

threlayer
04-30-2004, 07:34 PM
She, the multi-orgasmic one, left town with her man who wanted to start a new life. She told me about it well beforehand but I didnt know the exact night; that part was luck. Maybe, with the friendship that built up between us over a few months, it was her way of saying goodbye. I do miss talking with her and watching her incredibly sexy dancing. I would have 2-3 paid lapdances with her, most every week after sharing personal news maybe for a half hour.

And to those doubters, maybe you don't want to believe or don't have the experiences I've had. But it does happen, and it did to me.

Madcap
05-01-2004, 01:34 AM
I guess i should say "I hate giving head," but that's cuz i don't like the idea of things that go in my mouth spitting at me. I figger this poll is a lady poll... Sorry, but....... Ick....

Yuck!


How about i hate the entire IDEA of giving head, yet i feel no animosity towards those of my own sex who like it. Have a blast. More women for me.

As for the members of the opposite sex who like it... What can I say? Cool. You like, great, you don't like, that's okay too.

Not that big of a deal. More important things are at issue.

Deogol
11-09-2004, 07:34 AM
I love giving.... and def love receiving it. Well, as long as the guy doesn't do that whole shaking the head thing, that really annoys me. Oh, but I won't swallow. I don't even let any of my x's cum in my mouth, NO NO. Anywho --- my past x --- whom I still mess around with --- well, he can't/won't/hasn't ever cum during head ???. I don't it get!? Well, he never cummed with a girl on top too - until me! :D My goal now is to make him cum while giving him head...but it doesn't seem to be happening... err...any advice/comments about that?

Ah... you won't swallow and you don't want any cum in your mouth, and you're wondering why he won't orgasm while giving head? Maybe because he doesn't want to offend you?

(Chicks! :O )

Daddyforhire
11-09-2004, 07:35 AM
Getting is great. Even better if the girl knows how to do it. But I'm patient, the others have to learn somehow.
Giving to a woman? Love it. Develop theories on it. Some became scientific law. What the hell, everyone needs a passion or two in life. ;)

hardkandee
11-09-2004, 09:34 AM
Anyone who's seen my yahoo group knows the answer to this one...;)

I love giving head! There are nights where I can't go to sleep without it.
I'm sure I'd enjoy cunnilingus (giving) but haven't had the opportunity yet. :-\ I'm willing to learn!!

AinNY
11-09-2004, 10:18 AM
Anyone who's seen my yahoo group knows the answer to this one...;)

I love giving head! There are nights where I can't go to sleep without it.
I'm sure I'd enjoy cunnilingus (giving) but haven't had the opportunity yet. :-\ I'm willing to learn!!

I'm sure you could find someone here to "learn" on :rotfl:



I like recieving...but I love giving...love it love it love it ;D

Hottie7268
11-09-2004, 11:01 AM
I love big cock! BJ's are my specialty, along with raping men's assholes with my vibrator :)!

azamber
11-09-2004, 11:23 AM
I love giving head, more than receiving it. Most guys I've been with have no clue, and please, DON'T do the alphabet thing on me. How lame. Find my damn clit and lick the hell out of it until I tell you to stop or do it differently. I'll lick his asshole too if he's clean. I love women too, but haven't been with one in quite some time. I'm a very oral person, and I definitely swallow. I was with this one guy who wanted me to show it to him in my mouth before I swallowed it. OMG that turned me on so much!

Vyanka
11-09-2004, 11:37 AM
What's cunnilangus?

Yes, I love giving my man a BJ. I have a problem with swallowing his load though.

Trix
11-09-2004, 11:43 AM
What's cunnilangus?


performing oral sex on a woman

CarrieLee
11-09-2004, 11:43 AM
I have to say, I love giving head! It's something about satisfying the other person. *deep throat and swallow baby!*

AinNY
11-09-2004, 12:01 PM
performing oral sex on a woman

Hi girlfriend ;D

A_Guy
11-09-2004, 12:50 PM
hmmmmmmm.... gotta love to be on the receiving end, but love to give also.


I've had been in a few great relationships with the shared "give and you shall receive" philosophy :D ... works great both ways

Trix
11-09-2004, 12:53 PM
Hi girlfriend ;D^^^ ;)


and as for my opinion on head: love it, enjoy it, appreciate it! ;D