View Full Version : Does Size Matter?
Darren
06-14-2004, 06:48 PM
For me... it doesn't matter. If I'm not in love I will not get off. It takes time for me to feel comfortable with someone. When I do...[good stuff deleted]...yum ;)
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Casual Observer
06-14-2004, 07:54 PM
Yeah...its crazy...but there are plenty of women i know who are just as shallow i guess and wont stay with a man who has a small unit.
Can you blame them for knowing what satisfies them, and for wanting that satisfaction? I hardly think that qualifies as shallow. Hell, their honesty in that regard is refreshing and sadly rare.
You hear lots of men say, "I've never had complaints," when asked if they were ever deemed physically inadequate by their partners. We all know that women, being masters of the art of subtlety and empathy, are hardly inclined to tell their significant other, "I'm officially complaining about your lack of penile assets." And Lord knows that therapists, talk show hosts and help columnists don't make it any better by saying things like, "It really doesn't matter, women don't care," et al.
I'm not ashamed to say that I've received a complaint for a subpar member...only once, but still a complaint. It was about 15 years ago, during my military service. She was a GI all of 5'1" and very sexually aggressive and experienced (moreso than I at the time), and a very good friend. Long story short, she informed me early on that she really wasn't satisfied unless a guy was 7"+ and "about as round as a Coke can," in her words. Falling an inch short on one axis and at least two on the other axis, there wasn't much point in continuing my efforts, but nevertheless I was glad she said something. My ego isn't nearly as fragile as conventional wisdom would suggest--not that it makes hearing a woman like Bridgette proclaim her preference for a prodigious penis any easier. ;)
PC's point about the flip side of the equation regarding female anatomy sizing is no less valid but rarely acknowledged; this was a problem for me personally for about four years with a woman I loved very much. It was hardly a point of pride when she was in pain. :(
Much as we might like to be, we can't be all things to all women. Sometimes, the fit just isn't right--literally.
Two cents.
AinNY
06-14-2004, 09:12 PM
I was just using Darren's term for shallow...i dont think its shallow just b/c you want something physically...
Its part of life...i couldnt be with someone i didnt contect with in that way.
I know of more than one relationship and one marriage that ended specifically b/c the physical part of the relationship was not there....and they knew it going into the relationship...sad but true.
Not saying I wouldnt give it 150% to try and make the physical side of a relationship work if I really cared about the girl, but if in the end it just doesnt work...its just not meant to be.
Darren
06-15-2004, 02:36 AM
I was just using Darren's term for shallow...i dont think its shallow just b/c you want something physically...
Of course the word "shallow" has no absolute meaning. It is really a judgement, and everyone draws the line of what is/isn't shallow in a different place. Hence I apologized for using the word because I am here to chat/share-ideas and not to offend anyone.
Bridgette
06-15-2004, 12:03 PM
Well Darren I most certainly would not want a guy to keep hanging around with me if I couldn't satisfy him. I do my best but I reckon I'm not perfect. What's good for the goose and all...
I will say that even if a guy has the best package on the planet, it IS better if he has a clue what he's doing in the sack. But I still gotta have a good sized hot dog as Melonie so aptly put it, to really get much out of it. Partly has to do with the WAY I like to be stroked - a well hung guy just has a much easier time with that particular "technique" :biggrin:
Ah, I do love weeny talk :biggrin:
AinNY
06-15-2004, 02:29 PM
Ah, I do love weeny talk :biggrin:
:rotfl:
bambiblue
06-15-2004, 06:22 PM
i dont know if it matters, but it does help. too small is never good and too big... well that's just painful. Some smaller...b ut not too small of guys can make up for what they are lacking by knbowing how to work it. Unfortunately, not many of them do.
This is like, does boob size matter? Does generosity matter? Does a sense of humor matter? Do good looks matter? Does intelligence matter
Size DOES matter ... at least for me. When a girl is only 5'3" with a small frame, taking on a foot long hot dog can be downright painful ! On the other hand, a four inch stubby just doesn't reach the right places !
If this is about you, I agree cause I am the same way. Luckily my ex was a good size. :relieved: I havent had the "pleasure" of sex with anyone else, so I dont know, but I DO know that it did hurt in certain positions.
Anyway, to get back to your quote, I know a girl at work who is super short (about 4'11) and she told me that the bigger the cock, the better. I was baffled. ;)
I guess its really not about height and frame. While on the same subject that day, another dancer, much taller and thicker said she couldnt handle a big one. lol
:hypnotized:
For me... it doesn't matter. If I'm not in love I will not get off. It takes time for me to feel comfortable with someone. When I do...latex thighhighs, gloves and porno sex...yum ;)
damn skippy!!!
:thumbsup:
I have that same thing with where I sleep....
if I am sleeping in a new area, say a hotel, or a friends house, I sleep really light. if I am comfortable where i am sleeping, not just physicly but mentaly as well then I sleep well.
oh... except my thigh-his are vinal not latex..... ;)
peephole
04-25-2007, 10:45 AM
I got me a 6 1/4'' length and 5'' round..... I dunno. It's average but is it pleasurable?
Madcap
04-25-2007, 10:51 AM
Thanks for sharing.