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GoldCoastGirl
06-05-2004, 09:00 PM
I would also like to attest to the fact that it is the phrasing of the question that has gotten the majority of us off-side.

Do not ever lump everyone in the one basket. Never ever say ALL DANCERS unless you have been to every single club in the USA, Canada, London and Australia... and I really doubt you have... hence you can only say "Some dancers".

As for the dancer acting bored, you are right.. it does take two to tango. If you aren't providing her with anything to make the dance more interesting (no chemistry for starters)... then what can she do? Also, if you start humping her or doing any of the other negative behaviours that plenty of guys in lap dances do... do not be surprised she has switched off.

I personally only switch off if the guy is smelly (bad breath and/or BO), rude, ignoring the rules (which I told him about at the beginning), handling me incorrectly (soft and sensual is a sure fire winner), trying to take the control of the dance away from me and so on.

Think about what you are doing that is contributing to the boring nature of the dance. It does take two to tango...

There is an answer.

darlinpandora
06-06-2004, 01:21 AM
I only go to full nude clubs, where alcohol is not served. So, no, I don't "act all drunk and stupid". I'm usually very appreciative and attentive to what the girl's doing, but it seems like you girls just don't really give a shit? :shrug:

And about the "ugly shoes" did you miss in my post where I said, "(eg, clear heels)"?



Hmmmm.... this IS a toughie. Where to begin. Oh! I know! We tend not to give a shit if you are actin' a fool #1. #2, you go to all nudes and don't get drunk. Your vibe BLOWS #3, and last but not least, we like our clear shoes. The reflect the black light and we don't have to change them every friggin set because clear matches with everything. Bottom line - if you get a better additude and act like more than a dog in dry heat, then u would get it i think. Oh, wait, no. You are a god, so we have to give a shit, right? :o the thought!!

Herz to the troll patrol :banghead:

06-06-2004, 05:21 AM
Holy crap! You mean not every dancer is having an orgasm when she shakes her butt in my face? My face...which is so very special and different from every other face she has had the esteemed pleasure to dance for during this particular evening? Dayum!

Bridgette
06-06-2004, 02:48 PM
Why do every single one of you act like you don't give a shit when you're grinding your junk all over me?

Makes for a very unsatisfactory experience, eg, you suck at stripping.

Curious. :shrug:


It's not every single one of US - it may be every single one YOU've had a dance from, but not all of us dances like that. Perhaps you need to do a better job of choosing who you accept dances from. The 'wannadance' girls generally tend to look very vacant when they're grinding their 'junk' on you. The more friendly girls tend to be a bit more 'into' the dance. Pick the more friendly ones.

Katrine
06-06-2004, 05:19 PM
Why are you ladies giving serious advice to a troll? C'mon, no man can be THAT stupid?

Wait, ding, ding, ding...we have a winner!!!

SexyJess
06-06-2004, 08:51 PM
LOL, reading this thread reminds me of that Liz Phair song....
"You stand there watching me performing........ have you ever thought it's YOU that's boring? Who the hell are you?"

Was "Extraordinary" written for dancers? hehe

Bridgette
06-07-2004, 05:33 AM
Well sometimes I am just sarcastic. Sorry girls.

Lexi
06-07-2004, 09:25 AM
I basically think that if you would have worded it better, it would have not sounded offensive. (lumping all the girls together....using the word JUNK) Its just tacky.

You could have said, "why are SOME girls disinterested when giving dances?" Not, "Hey strippers..." etc...

strippersilver
06-07-2004, 01:54 PM
I'm w/ Lexie. The whole "hey strippers" thing crawled up my ass.

SexyBooty
06-07-2004, 10:07 PM
yeah we r biatches and what.you like it though

SexyBooty
06-07-2004, 10:08 PM
he need ATTENTION.thats all it is.

Loooser

darlinpandora
06-07-2004, 10:54 PM
then lets stop giving it to him

SexyBooty
06-08-2004, 11:07 PM
true true

stripper_mgr
06-12-2004, 11:17 AM
Listen dood. I'm sorry if you feel like the girl dancing for you isn't enjoying the lap dance as much as you are. You might want to change clubs you go to. You got to understand that alot of girls have been treated like shit, lied to and hurt very much in this business. Maybe you're just a victim of bad timing. The girls that you get your dances from probably during the night have already been poked, proded and propositioned about 20 times before you even got there. By the time you fork over your $20 for a dance she is probably just profiling you as the same as the countless other dudes that treated her like shit earlier that night.

But that is my opinion. I can't speak for all dancers. I'm just going off of what my girls tell me about their experiences.

Paris
06-12-2004, 12:17 PM
Have you tried getting dances from a male stripper? Maybe you are seeking the services of the wrong gender to get you excited?

:pickle: :pickle: :pickle:

Darren
06-12-2004, 12:34 PM
Even though I am not a big time SC customer, I have rarely had any dancer act like she doesn't give a shit (your words). Most have come across as very affectionate if not downright passionate. Giving advice is always a bad thing, but some common sense things.

First, strippers are first and foremost women. What is your attitude towards women? You can't hide it, so if you basically don't like them that is going to come across and from there on out you are screwed. They can only fake it to a degree. Like them and it will (generally) be reciprocated.

Second, common sense, a lot of guys are so fricken dense you have to wonder. They come into a club stinking, wearing their crappiest dirty clothing, they don't shave, they don't brush their teeth, etc., and then they don't get it - why are women having to try their hardest not to gag and choke.

Third, what kind of dancers do you pick? Just because a girl is the hottest looking girl in the club doesn't necessarily make her the best choice. Look first to see if there is any (person) there. If all you see is a hot body and nobody is home pass and find a different dancer.

Gynger
06-12-2004, 03:43 PM
Perhaps you should change your venue Kinsbane...

darlinpandora
06-12-2004, 03:46 PM
Its been said before, and I'll take the time to say it again. Troll.

RoseDelight
06-12-2004, 04:26 PM
Trolling along.

NinaDaisy
06-15-2004, 01:12 AM
I basically think that if you would have worded it better, it would have not sounded offensive. (lumping all the girls together....using the word JUNK) Its just tacky.

You could have said, "why are SOME girls disinterested when giving dances?" Not, "Hey strippers..." etc...



No question, the guy definitely could have finessed it a bit more.

Tell ya one thing, it's hard for me to hide my contempt for a guy during a dance when I'm dancing for him, smiling and trying to be cute and make a little eye contact and be playful, and the guy says crap like "so do you even like your job?"

Somehow I don't think Kinsbane is totally innocent here. Like he said, it takes two to tango, but I think he might have been the first one to step on a few toes.