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goldclubbing
08-19-2004, 10:55 AM
There the best type of tissue in a SC. My favorite always has tears of joy when she see old Ben enter the club.

Madcap
08-19-2004, 11:04 AM
LOL! You'r mamma must be damned proud of you. ;)

;D



EDIT: Okay enough of this before Pryce starts kicking some ass.

sgtjohnny
08-19-2004, 07:50 PM
I used to fall in Love with Dancers all the time. Fortunately, I learned after so much grief and a lot of dollars being spent, that falling in love with a Dancer can be Hazardous to your Health. Not to mention to your Savings. I did not have much training in the areas of Love growing up so I often confused Love with Lust.

However, even today, despite all those lessons it can be difficult to avoid getting emotionally attached to a Dancer while getting a Lap Dance.

I guess I am too sensitive.

I think a funny example of similar love was on South Park. Butters goes into a place called "Raisins". (Parody of Hooters) and falls in Love with a Raisins Waitress.

Those types of Love can have a traumatic effect on a young mans innocence. I know it did for me.

VenusGoddess
08-19-2004, 10:45 PM
I would never, ever date anyone I met at work. It's just bad ju-ju. I stuck with that philosophy while I cocktail waitressed, bartended, and danced. The guys like who I am in the club...and I do not want any of them involved in any way in my personal life. I think it really ruins the fantasy...and don't need anyone going crazier on me. LOL

:shrug:

goldclubbing
08-20-2004, 02:34 AM
Glancing at some of the posts elsewhere on this site I've noticed that sometimes dancers do date customers and form emotional bonds with them and even fall in love. I can see maintaining the fantasy and seperating your personal and professional life but we're all human and love has a way of smacking you in the face when you least expect it...thats why they call it falling in love.

NinaDaisy
08-20-2004, 04:34 AM
There the best type of tissue in a SC. My favorite always has tears of joy when she see old Ben enter the club.


Well I'd imagine she uses them to wipe away the tears of agony when she sees YOU come in...

Damn, they DO come in handy!

stormy
08-20-2004, 05:43 AM
Would I like to nail some of the people- sure! I haven't had any in a while. But I don't. It's the same reason I don't get involved with the hottie saleman at my day job....a bad idea is a bad idea is a duck.... :P

goldclubbing
08-20-2004, 11:26 AM
Bad night Nina? I hear its a little slow these days for girls with your kind of attitude. Tears of agony,hahaha. I'll laugh about that one over lunch with her today. Which she is paying for I might add. My wife, my girlfriend and I all love your sarcasm. I'm sure you'll find love someday.

poriland4
08-20-2004, 11:41 AM
Venus dont burn your bridges, maybe you need to cross them in your way back......
What about if your car stalls in the middle of nowhere and happens that a customer you know stops to help you, even if he does not recognizes you.......will you try?
I have been in several clubs around the States and some of the girls have been rude and others friendly. I always try to talk about their personal life, some of them liike to talk, others dont and ignore me. Always ask the most friendly for their e-mail so I can ask where they are planning to dance and their schedule. Just friendship.

goldclubbing
08-20-2004, 11:53 AM
Hey P: I happen to agree with you about the friendship thing but you'll find if you browse the board here a bit that trying to be friendly like you describe is annoying to most dancers. I for one was was doing the regular stip club routine until my friend took it to the next level by emailing me and meeting me outside the club for drinks. If their interested they will let you know I guess, otherwise they think your hitting on them, which happens all day during their shift. Its fun to be friends with hot sexy women but don't forget that this is WORK for them...and sometimes that work involves being nice to men that they could care less about.

NinaDaisy
08-22-2004, 11:38 AM
Bad night Nina? I hear its a little slow these days for girls with your kind of attitude. Tears of agony,hahaha. I'll laugh about that one over lunch with her today. Which she is paying for I might add. My wife, my girlfriend and I all love your sarcasm. I'm sure you'll find love someday.




Ok, let me begin by saying that the night I wrote the comment that you're responding to I made $710 AFTER fees and tipouts. There are people who went to Stripperfest that will be more than happy to school your ass on the fact that at work, I present myself with the utmost charm, courtesy and professionalism, and every single clubowner that I have ever worked for will tell you the same; I will be more than happy to provide the necessary references. There are also other dancers on this site that can verify that I am very busy earning money most of the time and that at my clubs, especially on busy nights, I essentially have to turn down dances because I can't possibly do a dance for everyone who wants one from me.

Girls with my attitude at work make a lot of money because we generally stay the fuck away from people like you when they come into the club.

Second, I do have a lot of love in my life; my SO and I have been happily together for the last 4 years and I made some great friends at Stripperfest, especially Bridgette, who I am especially close to now.

I implore you to stop logging onto this site while drunk and high. This post is just another example of you talking out of your ass about things you know nothing about.

FBR
08-22-2004, 11:47 AM
Nina dont tell the girls in my club that you are turning down dances...Im afraid they would all migrate to your location. Its been slow in Ohio. According to info I have read, Ohio is 50 out of 50 in new jobs :-\ thus not too much money to spend.

Im hoping for better times soon. Im OK but hell I cant support all these stripper LOL

FBR

NinaDaisy
08-22-2004, 12:14 PM
Nina dont tell the girls in my club that you are turning down dances...Im afraid they would all migrate to your location. Its been slow in Ohio. According to info I have read, Ohio is 50 out of 50 in new jobs :-\ thus not too much money to spend.

Im hoping for better times soon. Im OK but hell I cant support all these stripper LOL

FBR


I'm not gonna say it's every night, but almost everywhere I go I seem to do consistently well. I was the damn prom queen my last week at the Bush Company ;D

But yeah, it's too bad what's happened to all the jobs in Ohio. I heard it used to be a great place to dance in, too. Not to get off topic, but the jobless rate and its all-important "swing state" status may well determine if dancers will be overwhelmed by newly well-employed Ohioans taking the burden off you in the clubs! ;)

FBR
08-22-2004, 12:53 PM
But yeah, it's too bad what's happened to all the jobs in Ohio. I heard it used to be a great place to dance in, too. Not to get off topic, but the jobless rate and its all-important "swing state" status may well determine if dancers will be overwhelmed by newly well-employed Ohioans taking the burden off you in the clubs! ;)


I truly hope so. I know the ladies at my club could use a cash infusion LOL

FBR

goldclubbing
08-22-2004, 03:47 PM
Nina: All I know is what I've seen heard and experienced on my short stint on this planet. Nothing I've stated here has strayed from the limited reality that I have with what you do for a living. I'm quite certain you have seen and experieced more than I with clubs and customers and I don't doubt your very successful at what you do but that does not negate my experiences or viewpoints.

As far as staying away from guys like me, thats fine. Thats why more than one girl works in a club usually. I'm actually a respectful customer who tips well and doesn't get out of line with my friend. I never get in the way of her making money and if she doesn't have time to hang no big deal I'll give her a tip and see her another day.

I do again appologise if I have ruffled your feathers with my at times blunt comments and I know you have a different opinion about what is acceptable in your job and I respect that. My comment was a response to a snide, sacarastic comment you made...which I've told you before I like...but why can't you take what you dish out?

GoldCoastGirl
08-23-2004, 02:49 AM
I have a rule of thumb that I generally do not date those who purchase a lap dance from me or I meet at work (and just at work).

However, due to a very unqiue situation I found myself in... I did break this rule. In the near on 3 years I've been dancing.. this is the first time ever. As I said.. it was a unique situation and I doubt that type of situation will present itself to me again. Plus the fact that there were definate sparks between us prior to the dance.. the lap dance just confirmed it for both of us.

We're not in love.. but I am still talking to him outside the club... and not exactly having friend type of conversations with him all the time. ;D

It is possible I'm guessing now.. but I generally for the most part do not look for anything more than just a customer in the people that come into the SC (the punters).

Brooke Quinn
08-23-2004, 05:10 AM
Have any of you ladies ever formed lasting relationships with your customers?


Guys who actually started as customers? Yes I have. All two of them. But fall in love and have an honest-to-God relationship? No.

If I didn't believe that some of the men who go to SC's were worth getting to know outside the club, then I'd have a HARD TIME working. Hell, I don't think I would have made it past my first week if I thought that way.

Vyanka
08-23-2004, 10:41 AM
Nina! I've never hidden the fact I'm married nor have I discussed or had any conquests outside the club or really anywhere else with anyone when my wife wasn't involved. I love to flirt and the club is about fantasy...as far as the rest...I also have a sacarstic side that loves to push peoples buttons, so sorry if I offended you. You should really lighten up though.

And Pooja--thanks again for your response, it was one of the least jaded responses I've seen and renewed my faith the optimism and people with a positive outlook can be found everywhere


I have a very healthy sense of humor, I just don't appreciate people who instigate shit on a website that is for strippers. You want to "push people's buttons"? do it on the Blue site, not the place that we, DANCERS, come to to vent and get away from people pushing our buttons in the club!

It's not very enlightened or positive to come on Stripperweb and call us whores or say that dancers who don't allow lots of mileage should just get out of the business. You say the club is about fantasy? Well your posts often tell that you want to turn that fantasy into reality outside the club. So stop trying to pull the wool over our eyes with this new sensitive-guy crap.

You need to learn to read things in context too. Did I say you hid that you we're married? I knew because you mentioned in a previous post! Just letting Pooja know what she was dealing with. Dumbass...


:o :o :o

I totally agree with you! Wow, Goldclubbing that is really f*cked up you talking/joking like that on here....esp. that the majority here are women & you know women are sensitive & don't have the same snese of humor as maybe a guy like you.

I'm sorry but if you call any woman a whore, you're a male whore along with her. If, that is you got yourself involved with her.

P.S. I think it's really f*cked & disrespectful for a married man to be flirting with other women. So wrong. Sorry, for adding my input but you put it on a public message board.

goldclubbing
08-23-2004, 11:10 AM
V- again I was merely stating what I have experienced in my limited interaction with strippers. Geeze-I believe someone on this board mentioned getting a BJ just last week in a SC. Does that make you all whores? NO. But my original point was that some of you are and when I made the comments regarding "extras" in the SC it was in that context not as a universal statement regarding every dancer. I work in sales too and have been called a whore many times...and own the term instead of being offended by it. Its just a word.

As far as flirting with other women...I really see no harm to it if my SO has no problem with it. As I've also mentioned on this board she and I have both flirted with the same dancer. And it is just fantasy. We both know our realities and respect our SO's...but I have run into many dancers with your perspective and have even been called sleazy to my face and had my friend called a ho bag to her face for hanging with me. Thats by some of the more sensitive dancers and they like you are entitled to your opinions. But I am doing this in a SC not some random bar or nightclub. Remember Fantasy. And besides I flirt all day with men and women to make sales...thats why I like dancers to begin with...some of you guys are the best salespeople I know.

Sorry again if I offended you or Nina or anyone else with my comments and can take the criticism you offer.

NinaDaisy
08-24-2004, 01:30 AM
Okay, you are REALLY pissing me off now.

You are a bold-faced liar. Stop backpedaling on the whore comment. You meant it directly towards OTB and myself, and there are several others on this site that would be happy to back me up on it and helped report about TEN of your posts to the moderators.

You are a liar and a fucking nuisance.

I'm a moderator now too, and I'm not saying this to "carry a big stick", I am mentioning it because Mods encourage people with conflicts to work it out through PM's, but this involves others too, so I am leaving it on the boards. Again, just my opinion, perhaps Jay and FBR will disagree with me, we'll see.

Madcap
08-24-2004, 01:47 AM
Okay, you are REALLY pissing me off now.

You are a bold-faced liar. Stop backpedaling on the whore comment. You meant it directly towards OTB and myself, and there are several others on this site that would be happy to back me up on it and helped report about TEN of your posts to the moderators.

You are a liar and a fucking nuisance.

I'm a moderator now too, and I'm not saying this to "carry a big stick", I am mentioning it because Mods encourage people with conflicts to work it out through PM's, but this involves others too, so I am leaving it on the boards. Again, just my opinion, perhaps Jay and FBR will disagree with me, we'll see.


he might be a liar, but i dunno about nuisance. Dig this, he's an example of what a customer shouldn't be. Ya dig? This is assuming he's atually this way, it might be just bravado.

I dunno, honestly ND why not try just forgetting those that you dislike. You have to deal with idiot men all night long, though i hope there are some decent guys too, why deal with them or give them the time of day off the clock?

After all, there are guys like me here. :withstupid:

hehe.

FBR
08-24-2004, 07:13 AM
OK were done with this one folks. Getting too personal.

FBR