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Artemis
11-08-2004, 08:26 PM
I was on that site! I went off because I got tired of it. I did meet a couple of guys, and they were sooo cheap!!! Sure, they might have money, but they don't want to spend it! Mostly, they wanted to have sex with me for free. I decided I'm better off making my own money. I might do it again because it's exciting though!!! Maybe there really is a couple guys who want to give a girl whatever she wants just to spend time with her. Ledra Lawson? has a book about finding a sugar daddy. She also does classes. Never been, but I read the book and it was pretty cool.
Maybe not, EPD, but it really sounds like the same guy...
Magdalena_666
11-08-2004, 09:17 PM
I tried going to and it said it was an invaild address.
Does anybody have a link. After reading all this. I have got to check this site out.;D
Emily
11-08-2004, 09:20 PM
works for me
maybe your cybernanny is blocking it :)
NinaDaisy
11-08-2004, 09:25 PM
I posted a profile on the site a while ago, and I think that most of the guys are just looking for a cheap and easy lay.
The most "generous" offer I got was dinner at a restaurant of my choosing in exchange to go back to the guy's room. Also, I got a ton of demand for pics but nobody sent theirs. I never sent a pic of me though. I asked for one first, not a single guy complied.
As for the "allowance" terminology, so what? Women marry men for money/financial security all the time.
I think a much worse issue is all the women out there with these losers that tell them how to run their lives and all they get out of it is agony and grief. Lucky for me, my guy's poor, but he's one of the good ones...
Still a fun site to look at though. Every time I get a message from one of these guys it makes me laugh.
Either they have no clue what it really takes to be a true SD, or they're hoping they'll find some white trash chick who thinks a dress from Bebe and dinner at The Olive Garden is the greatest they can offer, even if they have the means to provide a lot more.
Ok UMMMM as embarassing as it is,,, I must tell you all that I posted on that site as a sugardaddie. Not sure why I did really. I guess I do like to treat cute ladies and spoil, but I had/have no plans to be a full time sd type. I can tell you I didnt meet anyone in person but there were a few girls that were for real just looking for someone who can provide for them, take them on trips, etc. and they would be the cute trophey girl when u needed that.
Ahhh sometimes I get carried away with this internet fun LOL.
Crystal_eyes
11-08-2004, 10:06 PM
Either they have no clue what it really takes to be a true SD, or they're hoping they'll find some white trash chick who thinks a dress from Bebe and dinner at The Olive Garden is the greatest they can offer, even if they have the means to provide a lot more.
LOL !!! Funny but so true !
Malibu
11-09-2004, 03:48 AM
There was another sugardaddy website and it was owned by a woman who sold successful tips on how to bag yourself one. It was like ''success secrets''. She did this apparently as a way of life, more like a business. It was posted on SW sometime ago. I'm not sure if it is the same domain name and that they just changed the layout or whatever.
LoveSexMoney
11-09-2004, 05:17 AM
I remember that Malibu, it was like some sort of forum I think.
In fact, wasn't it like a yahoo board or somthing?
Pamela
11-09-2004, 07:54 AM
Well i am sure my inbox is full. However, i don't want to meet up with anyone of them, i just ask flat out for what i want. It was all funanyway! As for the guy who bought the pic. of me sitting on my car, he is very very nice, and must have money to just do that. He also wanted phone sex, and sexd me money along with cam at timesto start with me he said.
NO way! Don't want anyone of them kowing where i live. And he is young and in Fl. his profile says, not far.
So i just banged out of the whole thing. It's a funny site, and i agree the are looking to get laid,most seem not to have that much money, they will lie of course.
I should be bold, put up a new profile telling men i only want money slaves. My terms.
Never know.
Pamela :)
Pamela
11-09-2004, 07:55 AM
Sorry spelling sucks today, my DSL is down......
EvilPixyDust
11-09-2004, 07:58 AM
Hmm Lena is he Italian? This is freaky..
LoveSexMoney
11-09-2004, 02:22 PM
the woman Artemis, Malibu & I were talking about
EPD, Italian in NJ, with an anonymous 800 number for sugarbabes to call him at.
blackbeauty
11-09-2004, 07:08 PM
The author of the sugar daddy book is probably a great hustler and maybe we could learn some things from her. I'm going to try to get that book.
VenusGoddess
11-09-2004, 07:37 PM
Holy chit! Blackbeauty!! Long time, no see! :D
Hope all is well!! :D
blackbeauty
11-09-2004, 07:38 PM
Holy chit! Blackbeauty!! Long time, no see! :D
Hope all is well!! :D
Hey honey! How r u? How is work over at Vips?:)
VenusGoddess
11-09-2004, 07:42 PM
Eh...took an LOA...just too much on my plate. Debating whether or not to go back. Most of me doesn't want to...but some of me does. :blah:
Where are you now? When did you leave VIP's?
blackbeauty
11-09-2004, 07:48 PM
I'm at scores, I left Vips in July. Too much drama with the other black girls and a few other trashbags there. Hey, that's this industry though. I feel like quitting dancing but kind of have to right now because of my financial situation. Wish you all the blessings in the world in your endeavors. You have a great attitude and you'll go far. I'm just trying to lift myself out of burnout mode.
VenusGoddess
11-09-2004, 07:56 PM
There was quite a bit of drama...I pretty much just kept my nose out of everything...bah. :D
I wish you the same. Even if you don't have time to take a vacation...make sure that you really pamper yourself...it'll go a long ways.
I'll let you know if I go back to dancing...probably not, but, hey, you never know. :D
blackbeauty
11-09-2004, 08:00 PM
Okay girlie take care. We should keep in touch. I'll pm you sometime. I'll be sure to pamper myself more often.
Malibu
11-10-2004, 05:26 AM
http://www.sugardaddy101.com (http://www.sugardaddy101.com/)
the woman Artemis, Malibu & I were talking about
That's the one!!
BlackBeauty, nice to see you back! It's been a long while. Hope you're well. x
LoveSexMoney
11-10-2004, 09:26 AM
I pulled this off another sugarbabe's profile and I've noticed similar wording on several others:
"C.E.O.s, V.I.P.s, estate owners in need of a social secretary, personal assistant or property manager"
Does this mean secretary that's willing to be, uh, sexually harrassed (for lack of a better word) or just a model type assistant?
EvilPixyDust
11-10-2004, 07:21 PM
LoveSM- Yeah some guys offered to put me & my friend on the actual payroll, so we'd be able to file taxes without a hassle...Like as a personal assistant, but for a believable amount, like $50-60k/year...They wanted us to relocate to Indiana & teach us about real estate..lol..
Blade
11-10-2004, 09:12 PM
I'm disappointed with the site..I've had no offers...... :(
JadeBrooklyn
11-10-2004, 11:53 PM
Im trying sugardaddie.com/ It is mostly suedo prostitution and yes, sometimes they last for years but I have yet to meet anyone or click with anyone to meet. Im weary because of the whole internet thing but I would make the client come to me. its somewhat safer for the girl if she knows where all of the emergency exits are.
jade
JadeBrooklyn
11-11-2004, 12:03 AM
Im trying sugardaddie.com/ It is mostly suedo prostitution and yes, sometimes they last for years but I have yet to meet anyone or click with anyone to meet. Im weary because of the whole internet thing but I would make the client come to me. its somewhat safer for the girl if she knows where all of the emergency exits are.
jade
DesireTime
11-13-2004, 10:10 AM
wow, anyone actually have luck with this site? Usually guys that i meet with money are careful not to let just "anyone know"
I don't know, i guess if a guy really works that much and has no time to meet anyone.. its possible. I signed up for that last Febuary-ish ? I think.
Someone posted it (as a joke) on a dating site forum that I'm on, and I joined mainly to get some funny responses to post.
The weird part is, I think I got more over the top "I wanna be your sugar daddy" type messages from an Adult Friend Finder ad I had up for about 2 months than I have in over 6 months on Sugardaddie.
The other weird thing was that a lot of the guys on AFF were surprisingly wordy in their responses, and generally very polite. I got amazingly few graphically sexual message. (Not that I recommend AFF, if nothing else the interface on the site will drive you up a frigging wall). I got more bizarre sexual propositions on SD than I ever got on AFF, even though I had a lot more messages on AFF) and the messages on SD tended to be pretty short. A lot of one liners. I guess they figure that is you claim to have money you don't need to say anything else ::)
Sugardaddie is (I think) still a fairly new site, so there aren't that many members. The guys who're actually in your state will probably only be a few pages of search results worth. BUT there are usually even less women (oddly enough). I think when I joined I was one of maybe 5-7 girls in my state and age range who had photos up (it's probably more by now) so within the first few hours I had 22 messages (nothing like what I had on AFF, but SD has nowhere near the amount of members).
As far as the guys, they don't screen them (at least as the basic service, if there is a premium service I hadn't noticed it, but I only check back on that site occasionally).
There were a lot of married guys looking for someone on the side (too potentially messy for my personal taste) and a few who seemed unbelievably arrogant (not a huge shock). A majority of the guys who have pics up seem to be average to good looking, but I can't verify the pics on all of them. The one or two I chatted with on webcam did look like their photos.
One of the first guys I talked with seemed like he'd probably inflated his resume`. He was fairly understated but the "whole package" just seemed a little too perfect. I checked the number he gave me against switchboard.com (turned out to be a home number, shocked the hell out of me) registered to someone who (after a google search) was in the profession he said in the city he said, and had the same contact number as a cell number he also gave me (and I called both numbers, both were his). So there are at least some guys there who are what they say they are.
I assume there are a lot of fakes too but most seemed pretty obvious within the first few minutes of an IM. They were pretty obviously looking for a "tell me what you'd do to me to get me to spoil you" jerkoff fantasy, which wasn't gonna happen :D
All in all I think if you're in an area with a decent number of members (there seem to be a lot in Fla. and Calf. ) and/or are free to travel/relocate and have a decent BS detector the site is worth a shot (it's free anyway).
AudreyLeigh
11-13-2004, 10:16 PM
Curiosity killed the cat - found this thread last night around 1am? and posted on SD... 13 messages already - 1 guy has potential with a solo photo and 2 photos with a cute blond (daughter? granddaughter? sugarbabe?) hmmmmm
LoveSexMoney
11-13-2004, 10:26 PM
lol I'm such a chicken shit I can't bring myself to make a profile. I'd love to hear if anybody meets a REAL sugardaddie;)
This is tooooo funny. I have to check it out. Im not going to meet any of them for dinner or anything, but it may be a good way to get men in the club. If they dont like me, surley they will find another girl floating around, shit, all of us will take you money, you dont have to worry about that.
emilybelle
11-14-2004, 01:11 AM
i am curious about this site too, but haven't put a profile. although i haven't thought of using it to bring guys in the club.
Bunny
12-07-2004, 11:57 PM
shoot, you don't need to join that. I had a guy offer me money to see me naked on Yahoo the other night. I told him for a Ferrari Modena I'd do it. Guess the price was too high. Yahoo is full of freaks. I have no problem getting gifts or money from someone I like but I've had a guy I was dating that I wasn't really into tell me I should quit my job and let him take care of me and it freaked me out. Something about giving up the power of independence I really don't like.
tiamaria
12-08-2004, 12:20 AM
Sadly?I lost my babe' a yr ago,anyways,I met this guy that I really liked alot,I don't know maybe ity's me fallin in love so sudden an all , but, I 5thought that I found a soul mate and he was tewllin me bout' a chick he met and he says,You shouyld do what she does,Get a sugar daddy,What's this mean,Are we not soul maytes?
TheSexKitten
10-13-2007, 12:58 PM
Sorry to ressurect an old thread, but just out of curiosity I made a profile on this site. I've already gotten a bajillion responses BUT there's one that's kind of interesting. His profile (and mine) specifically states "Strictly sugardaddie/sugarbabe relationship", and in his comments he repeats in caps "I am NOT looking for an escort. I am looking for a beautiful young woman to take out on the town, maybe sailing or horseback riding, a couple of times a month."
Hmm. Kinda seems cool.
I don't want any sex in the equation. Maybe this could actually work? *ponders*
SundayMorning
10-13-2007, 01:28 PM
Sorry to ressurect an old thread, but just out of curiosity I made a profile on this site. I've already gotten a bajillion responses BUT there's one that's kind of interesting. His profile (and mine) specifically states "Strictly sugardaddie/sugarbabe relationship", and in his comments he repeats in caps "I am NOT looking for an escort. I am looking for a beautiful young woman to take out on the town, maybe sailing or horseback riding, a couple of times a month."
Hmm. Kinda seems cool.
I don't want any sex in the equation. Maybe this could actually work? *ponders*
I signed up on there too and kind of wish I hadn't. I've gotten a LOT of responses, even though my profile explicitly states that I'm not able to commit to a sexual relationship so this would be for time and company only, and now I feel kind of...intimidated? Not wanting to move any faster, but everyone wants to meet NOW NOW NOW. So I'm chilling.
LatinaRose
10-13-2007, 02:42 PM
I don't want any sex in the equation. Maybe this could actually work? *ponders*
Not likely. He's still gonna wanna fuck after he takes you out on the town.
TheSexKitten
10-13-2007, 03:05 PM
Oy vey. I think I'll just put in my profile ''no sex''
and if I stop getting replies, so be it.
Smoothcat
10-13-2007, 08:53 PM
I'm guessing there are more sophisticated sites out there than something called "sugardaddie.com" or w-e it is. :brow: I recall some several years ago that claimed to be matching up pre-screened millionaires with dates. There were a lot of attractive women who had their profiles listed, hoping to find either "Mr. Right" or "Mr. Right Now". For those of you actually curious about this, maybe look for sites that aren't so obvious. I'm sure there are some UTR places where a woman can meet a friend with benefits. :flirt: :tophat: It's been my impression that women aren't necessarily always gold diggers who do this. They just get sick of dating losers and realize they could be treated just as well (if not better) by a guy with money as by a guy without any.
Cupid213
10-13-2007, 09:27 PM
I signed up on there about two years ago but,of course no luck for me.
I think a lot of guys who go to this site do it because...
a) they want to make themselves feel good...all the ladies contacting them...and them stating their net worth, etc etc..it's a big ego stroker. They're doing it for the kicks, not necessarily because they want to spend money doing this. It's rather a fun game
b) they want an escort, but never hired an escort before,and are worried aboutr getting "arrested" or caught so this website helps them screen the female more.... and gets them warmed up to the concept of paying for sex. And they might be cheap, thinking a 1k-2k/month allowance is enough. Haha, what a joke! For me it'd not be worth the drama.
I think it's a waste of time. Pretty much all of them are expecting sex. Do you want to have sex with someone you don't like that much, but who's offering you money? It's yoru choice, but now when I think of it, I think, ugh. Would make me feel more depressed. It'd fuck with my self-esteem--->and my esteem is precious to me. Plus, any day, any moment, the guy could go adios for whatever reasons... so all that energy you put in writing to him, talking to him, etc..it might just disappear and go poof!
Also, i'm guesssing lots of these guys might even think oh it's like a regular girlfriend.boyofriend relaiontship...now we shouldn't be using condoms... they might pressure you into having unprotected sex. You don';t know whoelse he might be fucking on the side, even if you did an HIV test with him.
I've dibbled and dabbled with those sites. It's a waste of time, IMO. Yes, maybe you might get lucky and find a gem, but ugh, I think it's way too much effort, not to mention the yucky feeling at least I get when I think about it. It is something that'd make me feel like someone put a leash on me, and i'm not really myself...and I have to ACT all the time, be nice, pretend. I'd rather get myself a real boyfriend, and work super hard at ther club, and take vacations once in a while.
Also, the idea of sugardaddy is a muddled concept...I think technicaly it's suppossed to mean without sex...hence the "daddy" portion... but these days, it basically implies sex. It's expected. yeah, there might be guys who'd take you out to dinner, don't pressure for sex, but is it worth it? He might take you on a shopping spree, so you use him in that way, but then you know there's one guy out there who will recognize you, and know you were a sugar baby...it's not something i'd want others to know about it, and he might tell others about it...so if you worry about getting outed in your personal life...this is dangerous.
So, if you haven't gone to the website before, you can surely do it. Get your kicks. But you'll later might learn it's just not worth it. THere'll always be somethign weird about the guys. Either they want to know every detail of your life...or they'll be ugly, or they'll want unprotected sex, or they are on the site but they don't really want to give you money they just will pay for your dinners and theater tickets...whoopty doo! But you might get sick and tired of it after a while... and get sickand tired of the guy because in sugar daddy situations, you can't be very choosy....there's a limited number of men, each with their up and down sides....
Ooph I get anxiety when I think of it.
TheSexKitten
10-14-2007, 03:41 AM
Very good and interesting input, da.
Thanks for sharing your experiences. :)
^^ you're welcome :)
I just think having an SD can be bad if you don't want to feel paranoid of later in yoru life, that fact getting leaked...and then yiikes! I remember one sugar daddy from a website, he ended up being an asshole who made himself sound good, but didn't want to follow through on my terms of the agreement...just wanted to manipulate me...though this was surprising...because he had a very respectable job...and now I think...shit, now i'm going to have to avoid working where he works at...if I ever go in that career direction, because he will remember me and might try to fuck things up for me...because who knows...i've had seemingly normal, respectable people get a tad bit wacko on me in the past... can't trust NOBODY.You can't 100% predict someone's behavior.
It's not always guaranteed that things will be sweet between you and an SD...so if you have plans to work outside of stripping or what not...and have a normal side of life with a regular job, it might bite you in the ass big time. You gotta realize there's possible jealousy, manipulation...control...stuff can get wacky. For me it's just not worth the risk. You might feel like "gee a live in such a big town/city/world...we'll never be in contact again" well not necessarily.
LatinaRose
10-15-2007, 08:52 AM
I think a dream sugar daddy (one that doesn't expect sex and wants to spoil you) does not have to go through an internet service to find a sugar baby for him. I'm sure there are plenty of girls jumping through the hoops to begin/maintain a relationship like that. IDK, the site seems a little desperate to me.
petitegirlxoxo
10-17-2007, 02:56 AM
just got to chime in and say I love this thread! =) still reading posts though ..
petitegirlxoxo
10-17-2007, 03:17 AM
if i wouldn't mind dressing up like a dom and beating the crap out of him on a weekly basis....
I think I'll stick to the club pervs - these guys are too much work :)
lol!!!
so i see i'm not the only one getting those weird emails....ahh..the internet, people can be so brave when their writing and not having to look at someone in the face.
petitegirlxoxo
10-17-2007, 03:26 AM
Lena-
Then sent me an IM saying "$50 for a BJ" :O what the hell.. lol
lol! that's funny....it would be even funnier if his profile says he makes like 500,000 - a million a year.
echomadison
10-17-2007, 05:47 AM
There is another site thats just like sugardaddy.com only you dont have to have a membership to do all the stuff...
Its called www.seekingarrangement.com if you guys get a kick out of the other one you will surely get a kick out of this one because its free to respond and junk!
sammi
10-17-2007, 08:03 PM
I wonder if the site responses are computer generated?
sugardaddie.com = godaddy.com
Domain Name: GODADDY.COM
Registrar: GO DADDY SOFTWARE, INC. , Internet Domain marketing firm.
OrgName: CERFnet
OrgID: CERF
Address: 5738 Pacific Center Blvd
City: San Diego
StateProv: CA
PostalCode: 92121
Country: US
Domain Name: www.sugarmommy.com (http://www.sugarmommy.com)
Registrar: GO DADDY SOFTWARE, INC.
they're not. they are real people. and some of them have real money.
first hand experience.
the_dfb
10-18-2007, 06:06 PM
this site SCREAMS "internet rapist." however, totally just registered to see what the fuck it's all about. let's pray I don't get internet raped.