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lilac666
09-11-2004, 03:05 PM
I have had crushes on all types of guys, all kinds of various looks but my biggest turn on is guys with long hair. I love a California surfer looking guy: blond hair, tan skin and blue eyes. Or strangly enough I like the opposite too. The dark Sicialian look: Dark hair, brown eyes, dark skin.

But one thing I have always had a fetish for is skinny guys. I don't mean anorexic but rather small, thin and toned. I don't even conciously think about this when I am attracted to a guy but rather it comes as an afterthought. I hate the big, muscular beefcake guy. While I admire the time and effort they buy into their bodies, that look doesn't turn me on.

Personality wise I love a man with a sense of humor. Intelligence (stupid guys are boring.) and who are innocent and kind.

I can't stand arrogent guys, guys with fucking chips on their shoulders and men who don't like to listen or talk to women, rather who treat them as arm candy.

Magdalena_666
09-11-2004, 10:00 PM
Physically I would say long hair- a johnny depp look.
Slender muscular. Tattoo's.Good Teeth and a nice smile with dimples.My boyfriend now is the closest I have even found to my physical ideal.
People everywhere stop and tell him how ''beautiful'' he is. He has this wonderful charisma.
And it dosen't hurt that he has a HUGE penis and knows how to use it!

;D

Personality wise. I like quiet, kind-of shy, easy going guys. Who are well read, intellegent, and have a good sense of humor. I like someone who can be patient with me.
But I do have a tendancy to go after the bad boy's. The one's that drink, have been in jail ect...there is something so sexy about a bad boy.
But in the end they usually end up hurting you. Not always intentionally. Sometimes they are too selfish to realize that they are hurting you by doing or saying certain things.

Magdalena_666
09-11-2004, 10:36 PM
I have noticed that most of us listed tattoo's as sexy.
Why is this?
What is so sexy about a tattooed man?
Is it that bad boy image.
Or does it make it seem like they have more life experience and are not afaid of commitment( putting ink on you for life is a big commitment)
Anyways,
Just wondering becouse I to get quite turned on by men with tattoo's so just wondering what everyone else's perspective on this is.

onlythebest
09-12-2004, 04:12 AM
At my present state of mind,I just want a man that can make me feel pretty and special.

Vyanka
09-12-2004, 05:44 PM
I have had crushes on all types of guys, all kinds of various looks but my biggest turn on is guys with long hair. I love a California surfer looking guy: blond hair, tan skin and blue eyes.



Nice, I love that look too!! Last night I saw alot of male models with that look. :o They were so beautiful. ;D And I too love the opposite as well.

Vyanka
09-12-2004, 05:45 PM
Physically I would say long hair- a johnny depp look.
Slender muscular. Tattoo's.Good Teeth and a nice smile with dimples.My boyfriend now is the closest I have even found to my physical ideal.
People everywhere stop and tell him how ''beautiful'' he is. He has this wonderful charisma.
And it dosen't hurt that he has a HUGE penis and knows how to use it!

;D

Personality wise. I like quiet, kind-of shy, easy going guys. Who are well read, intellegent, and have a good sense of humor. I like someone who can be patient with me.
But I do have a tendancy to go after the bad boy's. The one's that drink, have been in jail ect...there is something so sexy about a bad boy.
But in the end they usually end up hurting you. Not always intentionally. Sometimes they are too selfish to realize that they are hurting you by doing or saying certain things.


Ooo laa laa, you go girl. Lucky you, sounds like you have the perfect BF. ;)

rkcrox
09-13-2004, 01:30 PM
Better late than never. I like shaved or really short hair. I used to go for long hair but I got tired of my bf having better hair than me. I like em' long and lean, atleast 6' and no fat. I have enough for the both of us. I used to go for skaters, now I like the rugged blue collar camping, fishing, budweiser drinking guy with an edge. Not an asshole, but someone that can hold his own in a fight/argument. No sappy super romantic, that way if he does do something along to romantic lines it's more of a treat. Oh yeah, and great in the sack isn't a bad quality.

max33
09-13-2004, 02:04 PM
I like boyish looking men preferably Leos with intelligence and a heart, hair I can play with. A sense of humor is a basic requirement. He doesn't have to be packing though if he is I won't turn it down. He has to have some backbone but not a control freak. I don't take to being bossed too well and also I have a smart mouth so if he can play the dozens he gets points for that. He'd better be Good In Bed or willing to learn what pleases me. And open minded in bed. 9:00 Missionary every Saturday night will bore me quickly.

Ironically a muscular body isn't a prerequisite for me. He can be a little out of shape or skinny but no extreme not very fat or see your ribs skinny.

I like men with pretty eyes and who relate well to my rugrats, if my kids don't like them chances are I won't either.

LoveSexMoney
09-14-2004, 05:16 AM
I like boyish looking men preferably Leos with intelligence and a heart, hair I can play with. A sense of humor is a basic requirement. He doesn't have to be packing though if he is I won't turn it down. He has to have some backbone but not a control freak. I don't take to being bossed too well and also I have a smart mouth so if he can play the dozens he gets points for that. He'd better be Good In Bed or willing to learn what pleases me. And open minded in bed. 9:00 Missionary every Saturday night will bore me quickly.


OMG, not only did you just describe my LEO b/f, you and I are the same age and the same astrological sign!

And people say astrology is bullshit. HA!

blondhottie
09-14-2004, 10:48 AM
These are the first things I look for in a guy:

Kindness- He has to treat everyone with respect, including family, friends, and strangers. (Unless someone's an asshole first, then it's ok to be one right back. :devil:) If he treats the waitress or his mother like shit, I know it won't be long before he treats me like shit.

Intelligence-He has to be able to carry on a conversation; you can't have sex all day long! :sly:

A good sense of humor-I love to laugh and tell jokes and I like guys who do the same. :laughing:

Confidence-Insecure people annoy me; he has to have confidence without being arrogant. :cool:

Physically, I am most attracted to guys with dark hair and blue eyes, but I don't really have a "type." If a guy has all of the qualities that I mentioned above, he is sexy to me, even if most women don't find him sexy. I don't care if a guy has a perfect body or not, a beer belly is fine, but I prefer if the guy is not very overweight. I like to work out and I like it if my guy does too. I like guys taller than me (which isn't hard to find since I'm only 5'4", lol) I don't really go for pretty boys; I don't want a guy who takes longer to get ready than I do. I don't like really hairy guys, one of my exes had lots of hair all over his back! :yuck: Like rkcrox, I usually go for the rugged, blue-collar, beer drinking types too. I think it's kinda sexy when a guy has 5 o'clock shadow on his face. I usually go for guys with short hair, but if a guy had long hair and it looked sexy on him, that would be cool too. :thumbsup:

Also, I like guys who are independent and have a job! They don't have to be rich at all, but they must be able to support themselves. This sounds obvious, but I can't believe how many guys my age have no jobs, mooch off of their friends or parents, and sit at home and do nothing but play X-Box and smoke pot all day! ::)

VADEN
09-14-2004, 11:03 AM
you can't have sex all day long!

Why the hell not?!.....LOL :laughing:


If he treats the waitress or his mother like shit, I know it won't be long before he treats me like shit.

Soooo very true.. ;)


I don't like really hairy guys, one of my exes had lots of hair all over his back!

Yuck! :scared: :P


sit at home and do nothing but play X-Box and smoke pot all day!

Sounds like my ex-husband.. ::)

domino0716
09-15-2004, 06:29 PM
NONE ladies ONLY!!!

lunchboxmaiden
09-16-2004, 12:50 PM
I like guys with long hair, my fiancee has longer hair than me. But I also like the shaggy hair guys with grungy attire look...you know the corduroy pants, vintage ringer shirt and bowling shoes kinda guy. guys with make up is a turn on for me also, if its done right.And is it just me or does jonathan Davis (Korn) look HOT in a skirt?

Natascha
09-16-2004, 01:21 PM
Nerdy (not dorky, ther's a difference
Pale (not pastey, there's a difference)
Tall and skinny
Dark hair and eyes
Well read, well traveled, and unobnoxiously brilliant
Boys with trust funds and east coast art school educations and big dicks are fine, as well

I guess I'm into your basic hipster, though that's not so cool to admit, right?

azamber
09-20-2004, 04:34 AM
Hmm, I like variety, so it's hard to pin it down on just one type. I like skater boys a whole lot. (I love Bam) They're yummy! Also boys with tattoos and piercings, shaved heads, oooohhhhhh. Gettin excited just thinking about it! I like them 18-35, but the younger ones are more for play. Afraid my upper limit will have to extend by a few years before I find "the one". Either that, or I'll have to find a really self-aware, mature young one, and they're so hard to find! Long hairs are also hot, if they take care of it. Shaggy hair can be hot on the right guy. I like them with darker eyes and hair, more of a mediterranean look. Dorks are great, but there aren't many computer geeks with tatoos, shaved, heads, piercings, who skate. If you know of any, pm me! I'm single! Thanks for askin, I'm gonna ... uh, go to bed now, yeah, that's what I'm gonna do. ;)

Ohio_Dancer_Paige
09-21-2004, 10:22 AM
Oooooh, I like tall (6' or over please!), broad shouldered, muscular-but-with-some-padding, shoulder length dark hair, strong facial features, and a great sense of humor, because I'm entirely too serious. I have someone in mind...maybe I can post a picture when I get one :)

pornopink
09-26-2004, 06:31 PM
I am into men that look my long term man,let me rephrase that. I had a boyfrien for almost a decade and when we "take breaks" i always go for guys that have similar traits as he. I guess i like to follow suit.

evie
09-26-2004, 09:36 PM
I'm a sucker for bald guys also, don't know what it is. My last 3 were bald...However, they have to have the right shaped head for it. :banghead: On the other hand, my boyfriend is the muscular type, 6'4, dark hair.....He is a fireman and personal trainer if that gives you an idea. :thinking: God he makes me melt! :lovestruck: ;)


I'm so jealous! hehe, I like the miliitary type. The muscles, the short hair (or bald is hot too), shaved (facial hair=baaaad), clean cut, and the UNIFORM! OMG.

It's been a while since I've gotten any :pray:...

Magdalena_666
09-26-2004, 10:04 PM
I want a relationship like this song describes.

People ask if I'm in love with you
Because I'm sitting here with your picture
And smiling to myself (I smile)
I'm kinda lost in my own thoughts of you
My heart speaks before my mind thinks through
And I blush as I say yes (yes)

What a feeling of vulnerability coming over me
And I'm feeling weak and I can't speak (speak)
I can't think, no
Never thought I'd give in so willingly to a human being
With abilites to set me free (free)
Let me be me
Makes me wanna say

Your lips, your eyes, your smile, your kiss
I must admit it's a part of me
You please me, complete me, filling me
Like a melody
Your soul, your flow, your youth
Your truth is simply proof
We were meant to be
But the best quality that's hooking me
Is that you're loving me 4 me (loving me)
Is that you're loving me 4 me

Now people ask why I'm in love with you
Well let me start by sayin you got my heart
By just being who you are
And what we got is between me and you
Doesn't matter about the money I make or what I do
Or that I'm a, a star

Unconditionally you're there for me
Undeniably you inspire me, spiritually
So sweet
This is meaningful, it's incredible
Pleasurable, unforgettable
The way I feel (I feel)
So sweet
Makes me wanna say

Your lips, your eyes, your smile, your kiss
I must admit it's a part of me
You please me, complete me, filling me
Like a melody
Your soul, your flow, your youth
Your truth is simply proof
We were meant to be
But the best quality that's hooking me
Is that you're loving me 4 me (loving me, loving me)
Is that you're loving me 4 me

It's so amazing how something so sweet
Has come and rearranged my life
I've been kissed by destiny
Oh heaven came and saved me
An angel was placed at my feet
This isn't ordinary
He's loving me 4 me

Poem:
Stripped of all make-up
No need for fancy clothes
No cover ups, push ups
With him, I don't have to put on a show
He loves every freckle, every curve
Every inch of my skin
Fulfilling me entirely
Taking all of me in
He's real
He's honesty
He's loving me 4 me
Yeah

Oh yeah
Yeah yeah

-Christina Aguilera