View Full Version : Question about ANAL Sex
Emily
09-28-2004, 02:29 PM
it doesn't look that far...
According to this diagram, the prostate depth is just under the length of his flaccid penis.
It appears to be a white guy too....so if this poster is to scale, this appears to be about 2 inches :teacher:
LoveSexMoney
09-28-2004, 02:35 PM
^ROTFL
NinaDaisy
09-28-2004, 02:49 PM
My index finger's just inder 4" long and it hits my guy's prostate just fine.
Everyone's butt is dirty, which is why I have a "no anal play unless after a long, hot shower" rule.
On another note...4 pages on butt sex! Wow, we are a freaky bunch!
Vyanka
09-28-2004, 02:52 PM
Wow, we are a freaky bunch!
I was just thinking the same thing, LOL. All hail the the anaaail!!
Raven
09-29-2004, 06:32 AM
Well after reading all of these posts. I tried stimulating my mans prostate last night! It is not far at all, about half of your middle or index finger. All I can say is make sure that it is all clean. Have a shower or bath as previously said. My first time trying his back door. Make sure he is worked up first and then go very slowly. Most guys are not cool with their back door. I was giving him head and then slipped my finger in. Wow he really enjoyed it! And it seemed to me that he came alot more than normal.
He said it was awesome. Hope this helps!
VADEN
09-29-2004, 08:33 AM
On another note...4 pages on butt sex! Wow, we are a freaky bunch!
Woo Hoo! :dance:
Aleah
09-29-2004, 10:00 AM
Doodoo before hand!! Don't go out for a big dinner that night either and tell him to take it easy and not pump away hard-core. I have heard a horror story from my best friend and you all know what it is... Pulling out... You'll be ok and just try to relaX!
Bellina
09-29-2004, 10:40 AM
ladies, if you are having accidents, then you aren't preparing as you should. there's a ton of info online about how best to prepare. if you have questions, just ask me. I've got it down to a science. :)
Aleah
09-29-2004, 12:21 PM
Bellina, you rule!! LOL
Vyanka
09-29-2004, 06:08 PM
Alright let me get something straight here...
If you stick your finger up is ass it wont come out shitty unless he already went & showered? I mean, some here mentioned that poop is not even there...it's far up there. Ok, I think i'm confused..... ???
Bellina
09-29-2004, 07:27 PM
Vyanka, sweetie, let's think about this for a second...we are talking about an asshole here. There is certainly a possibility that your finger could get dirty. It comes with the territory. Personally, I make sure I'm clean before any anal play and will insist my man does the same (enema) if we decide have him take it with the strap-on.
LoveSexMoney
09-29-2004, 07:33 PM
Vyanka yes it's possible there may be a bit of poo on whatever is inserted. It won't be a large amount but yeah there could be a smidgen. LIke Bellina said we are talking about butts.
kitana
10-02-2004, 04:12 AM
Bell, you so rock girl!!!! I have been threatning my SO with a strap-on for years, but now he's just like ok whatever. It took all the fun outta it. :(
Anywho, you can get a little messy if you don't clean yourselves properly. Make sure you use a distilled warm (for comfort) water enema. use it about 1-2 hours before the butt play and you should be fine.
The only time you really have poo in your anal cavity is when you are realy to crap anyway. It usually rests a little higher in your body than most guys's length.
Anyway I concur we are freaky chickies!!!!
We so rock!!!
Kitana
Vyanka
10-02-2004, 11:24 AM
Gonna try it tonight ladies!!! :dance:
tampafldancer
10-02-2004, 10:42 PM
Awwww yeah baby, do ya like how I rub your Cowper's Gland, don't that feel good, mmmmmmm............
Boys butts are dirty, I don't like to play with them......
i second that.
noelle
10-02-2004, 11:34 PM
Bellina, you should really try giving your boyfriend anal with a strap on if he is down for it. I've dne it to my last two boyfriends and it was THE HOTTEST thing I've ever done (well, with a dude, that is). It's a total role reversal. I like being female but it's fun to test drive a wang every one in awhile ;)
NinaDaisy
10-03-2004, 12:26 PM
Bellina, you should really try giving your boyfriend anal with a strap on if he is down for it. I've dne it to my last two boyfriends and it was THE HOTTEST thing I've ever done (well, with a dude, that is). It's a total role reversal. I like being female but it's fun to test drive a wang every one in awhile ;)
A toast to strapping it on!
:cheers: :pickle:
Ladies, it doesn't mean he's gay if he likes that...
LoveSexMoney
10-03-2004, 12:43 PM
Gonna try it tonight ladies!!! :dance:
How'd it go Vyanka?
Vyanka
10-03-2004, 12:48 PM
Gonna try it tonight ladies!!! :dance:
How'd it go Vyanka?
I couldn't do it really....
We were at his friend's place & it had to be quick & very boringly quiet bc he was sleeping. And we had to wake up early bc he was flying back home to CA. We didn't have enough time to do anything .
*sigh*.
Maybe next time when I see him.
Ohio_Dancer_Paige
10-03-2004, 06:36 PM
I know this answer is a little delayed because I haven't been around for a few days....
Yeah, I liked using the strap-on :) My guy didn't get off, but he wants to do it again. I think when he gets a little more comfortable with it, he may...
Adina
10-05-2004, 05:18 PM
In the immortal words of anal porn queen Chloe -
"Get over your fear of shit."
Poysyn
10-07-2004, 11:15 PM
I am late to everything it seems. When I sold sex toys and stuff we carried a product called Anal Eez, it has a little numbing in it and is thicker than other lube, so it stays around longer.
Other than that, I found the shower to be a good place to try it out for the first time. Any mess is cleaned away :)
But really, it's only a little poop. If it doesn't bother him, don't let it bother you. Just don't go back and forth (as I am sure someone has mentioned).
Infection-city!
susan
10-08-2004, 08:37 AM
Now FIVE pages about butt sex!!!!
LOL.... we end up doing it about once a month or so. It's got a real D/s quality to it, if you know what I mean. For a while (a few days) afterwards, I am VERY submissive about nearly everything.... he calls me a "lap kitten" when I'm in that mood. And ditto what a couple of you said -- it's really best AFTER I've already had an "O" some other way. I get pretty wet, and we've reached a point where our combined juices are nearly enough most of the time for anal.
Practice makes perfect, by the way. At first, it was fairly uncomfie and he really didn't know how to read my body language (although he was VERY quick to learn!). Now, he's just perfect at taking me that way.
GoldCoastGirl
10-08-2004, 10:27 PM
I must say that this thread has definately helped me. ;D Someone got to the question before me and I basically got used to performing anal on myself with an anal vibe I bought (it is different to my pussy vibe, of course) a week before Mt Isa Boy came to visit me.
I made sure I held off in re: masturbation in the last 24-48 hours prior to his visit so that when he arrived.... I was horny enough to want it any which way he could give it to me. He totally loved me for it .... and henceforth... it is part of what we do now. ;D I'm a recent convert ;D
His dick is the right girth so that it doesn't hurt. Naturally, if I am horny I find that it is easier (no lube needed amazingly).... and I had the most amazing intense orgasm when he did it to me the first time... OMG! :faint:
Thank you thread for existing.. ;D
Vyanka
10-09-2004, 12:23 PM
I must say that this thread has definately helped me. ;D Someone got to the question before me and I basically got used to performing anal on myself with an anal vibe I bought (it is different to my pussy vibe, of course) a week before Mt Isa Boy came to visit me.
I made sure I held off in re: masturbation in the last 24-48 hours prior to his visit so that when he arrived.... I was horny enough to want it any which way he could give it to me. He totally loved me for it .... and henceforth... it is part of what we do now. ;D I'm a recent convert ;D
His dick is the right girth so that it doesn't hurt. Naturally, if I am horny I find that it is easier (no lube needed amazingly).... and I had the most amazing intense orgasm when he did it to me the first time... OMG! :faint:
Thank you thread for existing.. ;D
Wow, a vibrating anal toy...sounds exciting!! I may have to look into that one!! ;D
Vyanka
10-09-2004, 12:24 PM
Question for you girls....
Have any of you used anal beads? Any fun?
shedevil4260
10-09-2004, 01:51 PM
Hmm I haven't. :P
They look too scary for my :butthead: .
Bellina
10-09-2004, 02:00 PM
Have any of you used anal beads? Any fun?
YES! I have some that I use often. I love the feeling of them being inserted as much as I do pulling them out. Sometimes I use them when I am playing alone and by the time I get like the 5th or 6th bead in, my clit is absolutely throbbing. All I have to do is climb under the faucet in my tub and let the warm water hit my clit and I will have the most intense climax in a matter of seconds. I do prefer the larger beads though. I play a lot anally, so I can handle the bigger stuff. ;)
Vyanka
10-09-2004, 02:33 PM
YES! I have some that I use often. I love the feeling of them being inserted as much as I do pulling them out. Sometimes I use them when I am playing alone and by the time I get like the 5th or 6th bead in, my clit is absolutely throbbing. All I have to do is climb under the faucet in my tub and let the warm water hit my clit and I will have the most intense climax in a matter of seconds. I do prefer the larger beads though. I play a lot anally, so I can handle the bigger stuff. ;)
Hahaha, I knew you'd be the first one to answer this....give you the crown for the most freakiest on here!! Love it though. ;) I love running water on my clit too, omg it is intense. ;D
Bellina
10-09-2004, 02:44 PM
I love running water on my clit too, omg it is intense. ;D
It definitely is very intense. There's nothing like just laying back and letting the water do all the work for a mind-blowing, hands-free experience. I can completely relax and let my fantasies run wild. :) My water bill is outrageous though...no kidding.
Vyanka
10-09-2004, 02:47 PM
It definitely is very intense. There's nothing like just laying back and letting the water do all the work for a mind-blowing, hands-free experience. I can completely relax and let my fantasies run wild. :) My water bill is outrageous though...no kidding.
LOL, you're too cute...I can imagine!! :D
Briar
10-09-2004, 03:10 PM
thanks, now I have to take a bath}:D
GoldCoastGirl
10-10-2004, 12:01 AM
Question for you girls....
Have any of you used anal beads? Any fun?No.. I have my anal vibe. The actual specifics is that it's a Waterproof "Ultra 7" Pearl Ribbed Anal Vibe. Tho'... now that I'm a recent convert and I know I can take my vibe enough... I am now considering them. I didn't at first due to not knowing how I would handle the vibe as well as him in this regard. Now that I know that I can handle my vibe and him perfectly okay... I'm considering.
With my anal vibe.. I find that I like the pulsating and high vibrating speeds }:D
http://www.gaynors-goodies.co.uk/acatalog/pearlrib_s.jpg (http://www.gaynors-goodies.co.uk/p/ultra_7_pearl_ribbed_anal_vibe_2k599_d5_bcd.html)
Click on the picture for more info about it }:D I totally love it.
TigersMilk
10-10-2004, 12:37 AM
Omg i never knew this much about anal sex till now...I've always wanted anal sex to be better but never knew how.....I didn't know sooo many women liked anal sex??!!! Now I'm going to try all these lubes and things...thanks girls! My bf is going to be soo happy. :)
Bellina
10-10-2004, 06:59 AM
GCG, do you actually like the vibration when you have your toy inserted in your butt? Or do you leave it turned off? I've tried different vibrators, but I've never gotten anything out of it (anal). Maybe I need to experiment some more. :)
GoldCoastGirl
10-10-2004, 07:49 AM
GCG, do you actually like the vibration when you have your toy inserted in your butt? Or do you leave it turned off? I've tried different vibrators, but I've never gotten anything out of it (anal). Maybe I need to experiment some more. :)
At the moment.. yes ;D My favourites is the pulsating and high vibration. Tho' I do have my moments where just having it in there does the job as well. It is all individual tastes in the end. Granted, the main reason I like the pulsating is due to being reminded of Mt Isa Boy's pulsating penis being in there.... :faint:
{ Damn.. I was horny enough already.. now I'm thinking of him.. argh.. ;) }
Bellina
10-10-2004, 09:17 AM
Damn.. I was horny enough already..
You too, huh? I've already had one bath this morning...lol. My man ordered some videos from www.lezlovevideo.com and they are great! I'm not a huge porn fan, but the scenes in these Viv Thomas videos are not your average porn...lol. The girls are so beautiful and into each other. They are so passionate. It seems very real to me. You probably wouldn't like it if you are not into girl/girl stuff though.
GoldCoastGirl
10-11-2004, 12:56 AM
You too, huh? I've already had one bath this morning...lol. My man ordered some videos from www.lezlovevideo.com (http://www.lezlovevideo.com/) and they are great! I'm not a huge porn fan, but the scenes in these Viv Thomas videos are not your average porn...lol. The girls are so beautiful and into each other. They are so passionate. It seems very real to me. You probably wouldn't like it if you are not into girl/girl stuff though.
A little off-topic however I just have to say that the part that I highlighted in bold is the only way porn does anything for me no matter if it is lez love, anal, traditional or whatever. If the people involved seem to be totally into the scene (and I've watched porn where you can tell the guy is totally there but the female is not) as well as good music and they have developed the two characters so that they are characters.... yup.. you have me! I'm not asking for too much plot.. I don't mind the action. }:D Just that I don't want the whole film to be full of sex... I want some story so that the two actors are more than two actors.. they are characters. 8)
I've been horny ever since Mt Isa Boy left. It is because I keep thinking of that day.. and every time I think of that day.. oh dear :faint:
The laboratory! Hahahahahah.
:rotfl: I just got it now. hahhah :rotfl:
I sort of want a penis popping my cherry back there, haha!! ;)
OMFG! :rotfl:
This whole time I have been reading this morning I have laughed out loud a bunch of times. This just killed me. LMAO
Prina
10-11-2004, 02:09 PM
I'm in no rush...I'm actually saving my butt for marriage:angel: :butthead: :no:
Vyanka
10-11-2004, 04:29 PM
OMFG! :rotfl:
This whole time I have been reading this morning I have laughed out loud a bunch of times. This just killed me. LMAO
LMFAO, yeah...I read this whole thing & it does make me laugh too, i've said some pretty silly things.
SexyShannon
10-15-2004, 05:00 PM
How do I work myself there? ??? I know this is a funny post, but I gotta ask. :rotfl:
Okay I'll give some tips but its a little graphic!;) First, if you can be a little drunk, high, pilled out (muscle relaxers or pain killers best choice) this will make a BIG difference! Second, I have my man come from behind(doggie) the whole time I'm chanting slowly, slowly, slowly or slower. Third, I make him bend over and reach my cliterous (sp?) and rub me while he's slowly entering. Ex. his hand is reached around to the front of my body and on my clit rubbing. And when the pain starts getting worse I tell him to rub harder- that takes my mind off the pain or it makes it hurt less somehow. I know pretty graphic but thats what works for me. And when it works DAMN it's like HOT sex!!! Good Luck- hope this helps
Been butt-F *ed,
Shannon;D
LoveSexMoney
10-15-2004, 05:06 PM
lol you're killin' me :rotfl:
hardkandee
10-15-2004, 05:34 PM
I know what I'm going to try this weekend!!!;)
Shannon- graphic=good (and helpful for me, at least!)
GoldCoastGirl
10-15-2004, 07:11 PM
For me, I found that if he butt-f*cked me whilst I had my legs spread and I'm on my back ... that totally worked more than on my knees doggy style. Doggy style had too much of a habit of it slipping back into my wet hole.
I also found that if I was very horny I was more prone to enjoy it (and want it) without problems. Also... I bought the anal vibe due to it helping me work on myself so that I would "get used to" the feeling of something going "in" the "out" hole ;)
No going back for me now! ;D
Tho'... I still don't mind vagina sex... I can now attest to why butt sex is damn good as well. ;D ;D
DCFoxxx
10-18-2004, 06:18 AM
Ladies - FYI - I had some excellent anal sex on Saturday night...my guy knows how to rock my body so good that it was like one long continuous orgasm the whole time he was working my ass.;->>>I prefer vaginal sex but OMG when I do this with him the orgasms are absolutely mindblowing - much more so then with vaginal sex. Here's a tip for you newbies - lay flat on your stomach with a pillow under your stomach so your butt is hiked up a little...use lots of lube on him and once he has slid it in have him hold it there for 30 seconds or so as your butt adjusts to him. (Fingers don't work on me at first - in fact I find them painful - a dick is much more comfortable!) I promise the short pain you might feel once he is all the way in will subside in a few seconds then he can start moving around gently building up to more forceful thrusts. Trust me - I was afraid too my first time but DAMN my man is good and knew how to make it feel GREAT. Once that small amount of pain subsides you should be fine and he can work it just like the pussy - trust me you will have the most intense orgasms you have ever experienced!
Plus I have a question - have any of you had experience with a little "juice" coming out of your butt after anal? I made sure I had gone to the bathroom plus taken a bubble bath before we had sex, so what is this? Just lube mixed with his pre-cum? It wasn't a lot and I didn't think butts had natural lubrication like a vagina - but just wondering if any of you had experienced this or know what it is? I know it sounds gross - I was a bit freaked out but my guy didn't notice or if he did, it didn't bother him. It was just like clear liquid. (And no he didn't cum in my ass, so I know it wasn't that.) Any replies would be appreciated. Thanks ladies!
Bellina
10-18-2004, 06:47 AM
Foxxx, it's great to hear that you enjoyed it. I had awesome anal sex on Saturday night too! I think I had 7 or 8 orgasms in a little over an hour. I agree with you about the fingers...I don't like them either. I would rather he just slide his dick in and wait for me to adjust. I ususally get warmed up with a dildo or butt plug first though, so I'm ususally ready for it and there isn't much initial pain.
About the juice that you noticed...it was probably the lube running out. I use lots of lube and I've noticed that some of it always drains back out during sex. No biggie.
DCFoxxx
10-18-2004, 07:05 AM
WHEW! Thanks Bellina for the info on that "liquid". That makes me feel soooo much better! Yeah I guess we were both flying high on Saturday night---WOOHOOO!!! Seems we have a lot in common girl. I see you are in Houston - I used to live in Waco, TX - went to Baylor U. TX rocks for sure! PM me sometime. Any sex advice of course is appreciated too - as well as dancer advice since I am new to dancing.
Artemis
10-18-2004, 10:44 AM
Ok, I've really liked anal after the pain goes away, but I'm worried my hole will look bigger! I don't want this icky hole back there! Does that really happen, or is it myth?