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DCFoxxx
10-18-2004, 11:49 AM
It's a myth. I think it just gets like that while you're doing it - obviously because it's being stretched while a dick is in there! Porno movies play this up big-time. But it goes back to normal right afterwards. Just think - if it didn't - then it would be gaping when you went to the bathroom and never be normal, not just if you have sex back there. Trust me you'll be fine.

GoldCoastGirl
10-18-2004, 05:08 PM
I discover this little gem of a site NOW don't I?

http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm

LOL! This thread was more fun ;D

Vyanka
10-18-2004, 05:23 PM
I'm curious about something, question:

Have any of you had a guy bust a nut in your butt? What's that feeling like? Ugh, i'm sorry but I hate it when a nut is busted in my vagina, it feels gross. Plus I hate having to run to the bathroom & push that out.

Vyanka
10-18-2004, 05:40 PM
I discover this little gem of a site NOW don't I?

http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm

LOL! This thread was more fun ;D
Wow, good site. THanks. I'll read & learn until I find me a new BF. :D

DCFoxxx
10-18-2004, 10:23 PM
Great website Gold Coast Girl! Very informative! Thanks for finding it! Yvanka - my guy has never come in my ass (yet)...lol

Bella21
10-18-2004, 10:37 PM
Vy- you think it's gross when your guy comes in you? LoL, that's the best feeling for me!!! I've never had a guy come in my ass... but I've also heard from EVERY GUY that they thought it was rude to do that in a girls ass (yea... rude... lol). But... haven't you ever heard of a brown sanchez? :D

DCFoxxx
10-19-2004, 06:14 AM
What's a brown sanchez? Where they come in your ass? My man can come in me anywhere he wants to! lol

GoldCoastGirl
10-19-2004, 06:24 AM
I'm curious about something, question:

Have any of you had a guy bust a nut in your butt? What's that feeling like? Ugh, i'm sorry but I hate it when a nut is busted in my vagina, it feels gross. Plus I hate having to run to the bathroom & push that out.
Yes. First time Mt Isa Boy and myself got together earlier this month. It was one of the things he wanted to do "to" me whilst we had that time together and I was a very willing participant. }:D

}:D I loooooooooooooove it. }:D

Yes.. you do have to go to the bathroom to get rid of it (only natural) however I don't have a problem with it. I would rather him cum in my butt than my pussy. Whilst the chance of other things are still there ... at least I can't get pregnant from him cum-ming in my butt LOL ;D

(I'm on Depo so the chances are very slim anyway)

Vyanka
10-19-2004, 07:48 PM
Vy- you think it's gross when your guy comes in you? LoL, that's the best feeling for me!!! I've never had a guy come in my ass... but I've also heard from EVERY GUY that they thought it was rude to do that in a girls ass (yea... rude... lol). But... haven't you ever heard of a brown sanchez? :D
Well honestly, the only times i've had a guy cum in me was when I would be PMSing. Never did it on a normal day. So maybe when I get on the pill i'll try it in the future again when i'm not PMSing & maybe i'll like it. But, it just felt messy and uncomfortable inside the times it was done...well, for the obvious reason why too.

Brown Sanchez? LOL! :D I've heard of Dirty Sanchez, but not brown. /:O

susan
10-20-2004, 08:03 AM
Wow...... I hate it when he DOESN'T cum in side me (vagina, mouth, or ass!). I LOVE the feel.... particularly how his cock quivvers and spasms when he's cumming. If I'm near an "O" when he does that, it sends me right over the top. Plus, there's almost a spiritual thing about him cumming inside me. Whenever I masturbate, I end up in my day-dream with the guy cumming.

Yeah, I drip a bit afterwards, but I just use a kleenex or a pantyliner and I'm OK.

hardkandee
10-20-2004, 09:27 AM
Yeah, I drip a bit afterwards, but I just use a kleenex or a pantyliner and I'm OK.
Lol, there are days where I contemplate using a tampon.;D

susan
10-20-2004, 10:05 AM
Lol, there are days where I contemplate using a tampon.;D
Yeah, I know the feeling. Sometimes -- particularly when we do it at night -- I get REALLY wet. But, I'm in bed, and by morning it's all gone.

DCFoxxx
10-20-2004, 11:45 AM
Susan - I second what you said about loving the feel. YES! And the spiritual aspect too - I have always felt that myself. It's like making his energy/essence a part of your bloodstream, especially when he does it in my mouth (swallowing...lol). This thread totally rocks!

susan
10-20-2004, 01:31 PM
Susan - I second what you said about loving the feel. YES! And the spiritual aspect too - I have always felt that myself. It's like making his energy/essence a part of your bloodstream, especially when he does it in my mouth (swallowing...lol). This thread totally rocks!
You know, I'm with you there (on the mouth), but for me, from the very first time a man came inside my vagina, I've had this whole "spiritual" thing about his seed inside me.... ya know? Even though I'm not trying to "breed" right now (LOL... inside joke between hunnie and me), I still get a glow that's really almost close to an "O" when I feel him cum.

Don't get me wrong, him cumming in my ass or mouth is great, too, but there's just something SPECIAL about him in my twat.

DCFoxxx
10-20-2004, 02:15 PM
I can totally relate Susan. It's like filling up your womanhood physically and spiritually or something to that effect. I can't really explain it either in words - but I definitely agree!

Vyanka
10-20-2004, 05:46 PM
hhhmmmm, swallowing is spiritual. :D

DCFoxxx
10-21-2004, 06:23 AM
Oh yessssssss Yvanka! Gotta have that sugar syrup!;->>>

Vyanka
10-21-2004, 10:33 AM
Oh yessssssss Yvanka! Gotta have that sugar syrup!;->>>
lol, i hear ya girly. ;)

susan
10-21-2004, 10:57 AM
I'll vote with that. The whole "nursing on his cock" is spiritual. Afterwards, I'm nearly in a trance!

DCFoxxx
10-21-2004, 11:28 AM
OMG Susan!!! Perfect choice of words - (the whole nursing idea)...definitely a natural high - it puts me in a trance as well as my guy! Hmmm...where is he now when I need him!!!;->

Mahlor
10-21-2004, 01:05 PM
As I am also a virgin in the anal sex department in every way shape or form!

I'm Curious...is it better to have anal sex with a condom on? Of course considering your sexual partner and safety measures first!!

If so, if he cums in you does it come out during your next bathroom session or do you pass it through flatulance? And is that a problem afterwards?

I'm apprehensive and about the whole thing!

susan
10-21-2004, 02:54 PM
As I am also a virgin in the anal sex department in every way shape or form!

I'm Curious...is it better to have anal sex with a condom on? Of course considering your sexual partner and safety measures first!!

If so, if he cums in you does it come out during your next bathroom session or do you pass it through flatulance? And is that a problem afterwards?

I'm apprehensive and about the whole thing!
Personal perspective --

With a "new" partner, ALWAYS have sex with a condom (anal, vaginal, OR oral) unless and until it becomes a committed, monogamous relationship AND you have both gone and had an STD test. Period. No exceptions. I don't care WHAT he says or HOW much you've got the hots for him. After that, though, we've always ditched the condoms. Since I've ONLY had anal sex with guys I was in committed relationships with, I can only comment on "without condoms", which was great. One thing, though -- my hunnie ALWAYS washes off his cock (or sometimes I do it for him) with warm water and soap AFTER anal sex. There is a fair likehood of him getting an infection (as has happened on a couple of occasions when he DIDN'T wash afterwards).

As for his cum, while I have a LITTLE bit of leakage afterwards (not much -- actually less than with vaginal sex) by the time I have my next bathroom visit, it's all pretty much absorbed.

Did that help?

Mahlor
10-21-2004, 10:58 PM
That helps a lot thanks for the info...happy anal fucking everyone!

DCFoxxx
10-22-2004, 06:15 AM
Great advice Susan!

Plastics Doc
10-22-2004, 06:21 AM
Susan;

Someone has to say it so it might as well be me....your boyfriend is one very, very lucky guy.

Plastics Doc

GoldCoastGirl
10-22-2004, 07:47 PM
As I am also a virgin in the anal sex department in every way shape or form!

I'm Curious...is it better to have anal sex with a condom on? Of course considering your sexual partner and safety measures first!!

If so, if he cums in you does it come out during your next bathroom session or do you pass it through flatulance? And is that a problem afterwards?

I'm apprehensive and about the whole thing!
Susan pretty much answered you... I just wanted to add a little bit more...

* Make sure he has washed his cock before and after anal sex - this will reduce infection as there are plenty of micro-bacteria in one's butt

* Make sure you have anal sex ONLY ! This point cannot be stressed enough. No having anal then having him dip into your pussy after you've had anal..... if he/you wants to have anal then "finish" off in your pussy.. make sure he uses a whole NEW condom. The same thing if it happens vice versa (pussy then anal). It's one or the other..... or if you want both.. use different condoms.

* Make sure you both are tested for STDs and so forth esp. if you want to have "unprotected" anal sex. His word is not good enough.

Vyanka
10-25-2004, 04:21 PM
So where do you girls prefer to have it in first, the vagina or anal?

hardkandee
10-25-2004, 04:34 PM
I vote for vaginal.

It's kind of like foreplay for those "behind" days.

Bellina
10-25-2004, 10:44 PM
I vote for vaginal.

It's kind of like foreplay for those "behind" days.

Yep, me too.

pooja
10-26-2004, 02:25 AM
ive tried. i dont like it. it hurts like a mofo.

Bellina
10-26-2004, 08:09 AM
ive tried. i dont like it. it hurts like a mofo.

Practice, grasshopper. Practice. :)

GoldCoastGirl
10-26-2004, 09:18 AM
Vagina first too...

Besides.. I have to "prep" myself for anal (using the anal vibe whilst he's fucking my pussy).

Vixie
10-26-2004, 11:22 AM
My husband and I tried it the other day...IT was HARD!!!! I couldn't get in the mood for it I was way too nervous. I'm five months pregnant and it was very dificult to get comfortable. I tried doggy style, that was too forceful, I tried lying on my back that hardly gave him entry space, I tried getting on top, that almost worked but I chickened out at the last minute. I guess I have to warm up first. Any other tips?

ViXie
www.Sexxxy-Me.com

DCFoxxx
10-26-2004, 04:38 PM
I prefer the vagina first myself. Then once I have done it with him a few times and am nice and relaxed and have had a few orgasms, then sometimes he will f*** my ass. And for Pooja - the first time my new guy did it with me that way, it hurt for like a second once his dick was fully inside me. He used lots of lube and slid in easily and then just held it there for a few seconds while my body adjusted to something being in there and NOT being pushed out! lol After that we were able to work into a good rhythm - he was very gentle and kinda went at my pace - and it became intensely pleasureable with NO pain. In fact, I have had my greatest orgasms while having anal sex with him! We're talking screaming multiples!;->>>(Damn where is he when I need him!)

Bellina
10-26-2004, 07:50 PM
We're talking screaming multiples!;->>>(Damn where is he when I need him!)

That's what I'm talking about! 8)

I wish more of you could get comfortable enough with anal to experience this. It's some of the best sex ever.

kryssy
10-26-2004, 08:18 PM
You have to be comfortable with your partner to be able to enjoy it. Let go of yourself.

DCFoxxx
10-27-2004, 07:28 AM
Hell yes Bellina! You got that right sister! I never would have thought before I tried it that it would ROCK MY WORLD so intensely! And it helps too if your guy really knows what he's doing! lol It is so pleasurable that we kinda work up to a frenzy sometimes and he f***s me hard like that just like he would do with my pussy. The sensations are INCREDIBLE!!! And Kryssy - you're right about "letting go of yourself". I really had to to that with my guy - at first I was kinda self-conscious about it being "the ass" but once I relaxed and realized he was enjoying the hell out of it too I had the most amazing orgasms. It really has built a stronger emotional bond between me and my guy that's for sure!

Vyanka
10-30-2004, 11:10 AM
OMG, I love this thread. Cracks me up still. :D

hardkandee
10-30-2004, 11:45 AM
Speaking of all things anal, I cracked up when I saw these shoes the other day. Anal beads anyone?
http://store1.yimg.com/I/snaz75_1815_41081638',500,500,

VADEN
10-30-2004, 11:49 AM
Speaking of all things anal, I cracked up when I saw these shoes the other day. Anal beads anyone?
http://store1.yimg.com/I/snaz75_1815_41081638',500,500,
Yes, I thought the same thing when I saw them. LOL :D

Vyanka
10-30-2004, 12:07 PM
Speaking of all things anal, I cracked up when I saw these shoes the other day. Anal beads anyone?
http://store1.yimg.com/I/snaz75_1815_41081638',500,500,
Haaa! I kind of like them though. :P

DCFoxxx
10-30-2004, 03:14 PM
I like 'em too! Vaden - I love your new pic!

Vyanka
11-04-2004, 07:03 PM
I just did the enema tonight for the first time & OOOOOOUUUUCCCHH!!! :tapedshut It hurt my little holey. :-\

I may try it finally tomorrow for the first time, lol.....yay! :highfive:

DCFoxxx
11-05-2004, 07:40 AM
Good luck Yvanka and let me know how it goes. Make sure your man goes REALLY slow the first time. As for me, I'm taking a break from that kinda stuff for a while. The man I used to do that with is out of my life right now (boohoo). Oh well...

Bellina
11-05-2004, 03:09 PM
The man I used to do that with is out of my life right now (boohoo). Oh well...

I'm good with a strap-on... :-*

DCFoxxx
11-05-2004, 07:43 PM
You are Bellina? Hmmm...well I'm bi!;->>>Houston here I come! lol...(wink)

Actually I have good news since I made that post. The guy I did anal with all the time (the one who did it sooo well) finally called me again TODAY! I hadn't heard from him in several weeks. WOOOHHOOO!!! I guess he is not out of my life now after all. We are going to get together again very soon. I'm psyched! I'll let you ladies know how it goes!;->>>

Ladybug
11-06-2004, 02:01 AM
A couple of people mentioned using numbing creams or taking drugs or drinking a lot to decrease the pain. This is highly problematic. Pain is a body's way of telling a person that she is doing something that is bad for her. Anal sex can be uncomfortable, or even a little painful, at first, but it shouldn't really hurt, or you're doing it wrong. If it really hurts, you should add more lube, or rub your clit, or have him stop for a minute so you can get accustomed to it. Try taking deep breaths and relaxing your muscles down there. If you do all those things and it still hurts a lot, STOP! You can really hurt yourself if you don't do it properly. Call it a night and try again some other time, if you're still interested.

That said, having a (single) glass of wine before you start can help you to relax a little without numbing you to pain that is excessive and a sign of something wrong.

DCFoxxx
11-06-2004, 05:54 AM
Good advice Ladybug! When I see this guy I usually have 1 drink so I am a little relaxed. Also we have a lot of foreplay and lots of vaginal sex before we do anal. That way I am VERY relaxed and I have already had a few orgasms so I am more ready for anal sex. He really knows what he's doing so that helps a lot too! Plus I keep a big bottle of lube next to the bed and he gets slicked down with that before entering me anyway. Another way to relax once he's in - have him lick the back of your neck. Works for me everytime - and makes me have tons of orgasms too!

VADEN
11-06-2004, 06:46 AM
I like 'em too! Vaden - I love your new pic!
Thanks DCFoxxx! Is that you in your avatar? ;)

Bellina
11-06-2004, 08:48 PM
Another way to relax once he's in - have him lick the back of your neck. Works for me everytime - and makes me have tons of orgasms too!

OMG...I love that too. Great advice, DCF.