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*lina*
11-07-2004, 11:54 AM
i do like some wine or champaigne before it - being a little lightheaded s much more fun here :)
DCFoxxx, your treatment sounds like the greatest thing! wow!
the partner should be really caring and take care of other parts, like nippels, clit, back, neck.... when you get the sensation of being just one big erotic zone i relax into anything...

as for the first time... i was 19 and it was a girl with a strapon. i can say this was great because she was so understanding and we got there in two sessions. the first time i was way too tense;)
my first male partner was very surprised afterwards when i told him i was no virgin there. he was great and caring too though:)

Vyanka
11-08-2004, 08:43 AM
It hurts!!! We tried popping my cherry back there, & it wasnt happening. LOL! Lots of lube too & the anal vibrator. I was trying as hard as I can to relax too, but my SO told me it takes a little time, esp. that i'm really really small.

DCFoxxx
11-08-2004, 10:53 AM
Thanks Bellina! YUMMMY indeed! I swoon just thinking of that! And Vaden, no that is not me, but my hair is colored exactly like that, my boobs resemble hers, and she could pass for my twin sister. I just wanted to remain a bit anonymous but with a pic that looked a lot like me!

DCFoxxx
11-08-2004, 10:57 AM
Lina, glad you liked my treatment!;->>>Yvanka, sorry it hurt hun. Give it some time hun and maybe another time you might want to try again. It's all about what's comfortable for you! If you don't like it, no big deal hun!

GoldCoastGirl
11-14-2004, 05:05 PM
Good luck Yvanka and let me know how it goes. Make sure your man goes REALLY slow the first time. As for me, I'm taking a break from that kinda stuff for a while. The man I used to do that with is out of my life right now (boohoo). Oh well...
I'm in the very same boat..... I'm taking a break from sex in general (just like I did before Mt Isa Boy). Back to leading a sexual life of abstience. Using my anal vibe isn't as fun anymore for me coz I have no one to share this newly found aspect of my sexual self with anymore.

:'(

GoldCoastGirl
06-12-2006, 12:13 AM
No.. I have my anal vibe. The actual specifics is that it's a Waterproof "Ultra 7" Pearl Ribbed Anal Vibe. Tho'... now that I'm a recent convert and I know I can take my vibe enough... I am now considering them. I didn't at first due to not knowing how I would handle the vibe as well as him in this regard. Now that I know that I can handle my vibe and him perfectly okay... I'm considering.

With my anal vibe.. I find that I like the pulsating and high vibrating speeds }:D


http://www.gaynors-goodies.co.uk/acatalog/pearlrib_s.jpg (http://www.gaynors-goodies.co.uk/p/ultra_7_pearl_ribbed_anal_vibe_2k599_d5_bcd.html)

Click on the picture for more info about it }:D I totally love it.

Just wanted to update the above link since it doesn't work no longer:


http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?id=7600


http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/prodimages/200/7600.jpg

Yes, I still have it only that I use it occasionally now. One purchase that I will never regret ;)

Yekhefah
06-12-2006, 12:19 AM
^^^ If I were you, I would be VERY careful putting that in my heinie with that tapered bottom. It's very easy for slim objects like that to slip too far in and get stuck. Toys designed for anal insertion generally have a very wide base to prevent this, and that makes them much safer.

TigersMilk
06-12-2006, 12:23 AM
Is anyones ass really that deep for it to get lost inside?

GoldCoastGirl
06-12-2006, 12:24 AM
^^^ No risk Yek as I've been using it for ages now.. your hand is on the silver bit and therefore it can't go in too far... besides.. it's the perfect length for me. You can pretty much feel when all of it is ..well.. within you already thus preventing you from going further.

Silver Phoenix
06-12-2006, 12:47 PM
Alrighty...

I really enjoyed this thread and I'm glad I got a chance to read it since it was resurrected. I wouldn't have found it otherwise. I figured I'd share my limited anal sex experiences.

My first ever boyfriend loved anal and it was his favorite. He and I did oral and then anal before I EVER did vaginal sex. I was still a virgin for months after our first anal sex experience. (My mom was kinda psycho at the time and I was under 18. I thought if she ever had a problem with my boyfriend and me and called the cops I could still proove I was a virgin and no one could prove that we'd had sex. What did I know at 17 anyway?)

I never had any problems with anal sex... We always started with a lubed finger. His nails were always cut WAY short or it would have been painful. Nails hurt. He waited for me to become accustomed to the first finger then he'd move it a bit, twisting, in and out, and just stretch me out a bit more before inserting a second finger. Same thing, wait and then move it until I was comfortable. Usually a few minutes for each finger. It feels a little weird at first and it felt kind of embarassing. But then, if you are embarassed about anything with your partner why are you with them? I don't have this problem with my current boyfriend. We also do the finger preperations.

We usually worked up to three fingers in starting with them in a triangle position with all the fingers tightly together and then with him moving his fingers slowly into a straight line (kind of like the girlscout pledge hand position) so that when he finally entered me we had no problems at all because I was stretched out all I needed to be BEFORE he ever tried to enter me with his penis. Lube was used generally this entire time of finger preperation and then applied again to his penis and the puckered skin of the anus. This, on me, is the only part that hurts for me as the friction is the worst there, if the puckered skin isn't lubed there's no hope. The inside doesn't really need lubed for me. (Same thing with vaginal, it's the outside skin that needs the lube because that's where the friction hurts, inside I'm peachy.)

As for condoms with my first boyfriend we never used them for anal. He was circumsized (so infections for him weren't that much of a concern) and I trusted him. There were multiple positions for me to be in when it actually came to insertion. It could be missionary with us facing eachother as long as my hips were elevated with a pillow under my hips. This helped with the angle that he thrusted with and the spot that he reached as well as helping him not to slip out and get the wrong hole. We could also use doggy style but I had to have my legs spread to form a triangle and my hips had to be tilted... usually my ass was in the air and my head on the bed. You could also just layer some pillows under your hips and lay belly down with your butt slanted up and maybe legs spread just a bit.

After we were finally able to get me comfortable and him inserted the movement always made me feel like I had to pee. I never did as I always went to the bathroom before hand. If you just ignore it that's the start to the most powerful orgasms I've ever had. They are quicker and MUCH more INTENSE then vaginal orgasms ever have been for me. They also come (hee, CUM) faster and closer together. I've never had any acident problems.

I never did enemas or anything like that. He's in my ass, if he sees poop then tough luck. He's the one that wanted to try it. Cumming inside was always uncomfortable for me. I felt a pressure but it wasn't so bad. When he pulled out though there was a mess and I'd have to "catch" it with tissues or something. I always went to the bathroom after and pushed the rest out though there was still some discharge after that. The worst part was that I would fart the rest of the day and maybe the next because my muscles were stretched out and I couldn't hold them in.

My current boyfriend and I have only done it once (soon to be again, maybe tonight cause this thread has gotten me worked up for it!)... I initiated him to anal as he'd never done it before. (None of his previous girlfriends ever swallowed before either what's up with that?) We use a condom for multiple reasons, he's not circumsized so infection risks are higher for him and he doesn't have to pull out when he cums. It's much better for him to come inside me and I don't have any of the mess to deal with.

As for foreplay... I love to get oral sex first where he'll lick my ass too. (My boyfriend gives good... no GREAT oral sex. Sadly my first boyfriend sucked at it and usually I got no foreplay. It made the relaxing harder but not impossible.) Another thing that's fun is to do oral sex while you get stretched out with fingers, then maybe use toys vaginally and/or anally. I've kept a vibrator in my vagina while he was in my ass and he ould feel the vibrations.

Anyway, that's all the experience I can comment on. Hope I helped a bit.

-=Phoenix

P.S. I was told that guys like it better because the rectum is generally warmer and MUCH tighter then a vaginal. Just what I heard from one guy though. My boyfriend still likes vaginal sex compared to anal and still LOVES handjobs (almost more then blowjobs though he doesn't complain about whatever he gets!).

metal_n_mitsu
10-18-2006, 10:04 AM
I'm curious about something, question:

Have any of you had a guy bust a nut in your butt? What's that feeling like? Ugh, i'm sorry but I hate it when a nut is busted in my vagina, it feels gross. Plus I hate having to run to the bathroom & push that out.

Yes, when i was trying to do the whole anal thing, but it hurt too much for me, he just put the vert tip of it in and came. I guess it's not that bad, but I had to go right to the bathroom and "get it out" which is always kinda gross. I don't like having cum pouring out of my vagina either, I hate that feeling, it's really gross, but for a guy nothing feels better than to push it in really deep and bust.

Vyanka
10-18-2006, 11:03 AM
For that, I rather him finish in my mouth. Which I don't mind. ;)

Sunshine73
10-19-2006, 08:49 PM
Someone once gave me this advice that I would like to pass along...

Fingers first, toys, then boys. :D

TigersMilk
10-19-2006, 08:51 PM
Ok so since this is the anal sex thread.....

How does one prepare ones ass for anal sex in terms of cleanliness?

britney
11-14-2006, 11:56 PM
the first time i did it (i was 14) it was very painful but arousing. The guy was doing me from behind and just stuck it in. He kind of held me there and forced it on me. It was painful but i kind of liked it.

Since then i have done it with several guys and it is a regular part of sex for me. The only time that was bad since my first was when i was really drunk. I was hitting on this black guy. Me and him went home and started having sex. He had the hugest penis i have ever seen. It was probally 9 inches long. Regular sex was uncomfortable. When he talked me into anal, that was horrible. My ass hurt for a week.

VaVaVoom
11-15-2006, 08:04 PM
hehehe.
i only read the first 8 pages of this, but i wanted to reply.

i lost my anal virginity 2 weeks ago. }:D
dont be stingy with the lube! use what you think will be too much.
i was also drunk, so i was feeling very relaxed and uninhibited. ;)
it was spontanious so i didnt use an enema beforehand - luckily nothing embarrassing happened.