View Full Version : Guys how would you feel if your S/O

11-30-2003, 11:24 AM
Say your lady goes to clubs to get sexualy touched and/or to touch a male or female dancer and purposely hid it from you?

How would that make you feel.

There have been recent threads here and on SW that are making me ponder this- what do you'll think about it?


11-30-2003, 11:38 AM
I voted to let them have their secret. My SO knows I go to clubs... we have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy,

11-30-2003, 12:32 PM
i agree with chuck. i have more of a european mindset, so let her have her fun. i'm not really interested in hanging around and counting,supervising or controling her behavior during dances.

11-30-2003, 01:55 PM
and I haven't had any serious relationship during that time... so I don't know how I would feel... when you are single, the world is yours... :)

11-30-2003, 02:32 PM
I would let her have her secret. We should all be able to have our little fun sometimes.

12-01-2003, 08:49 AM
let her have a couple secrets.

12-01-2003, 03:25 PM
What goes around comes around. I go and touch she can also. As long as it's a dancer. I go for it she can too.

12-03-2003, 05:55 AM
If it is a matter of concern, I don't like it when anybody does something behind my back.

12-03-2003, 08:14 AM
let her have fun, she is an adult and can make her own judgment calls.

12-05-2003, 10:25 AM
It's not surprising we'd get these answers from a bunch of strip club junkies!

12-05-2003, 11:40 AM
I would be a hypocrite if I got pissed, wouldnt I? ::)


12-05-2003, 04:08 PM
It's not surprising we'd get these answers from a bunch of strip club junkies!

What's wrong with the answers? ::) Men are wired different that's all. LOL. :D

02-12-2004, 06:50 AM
I would be offended because it was being hidden. Honesty is always the best policy! It wouldnt bother me if he went as long as it wasnt my money funding it without me there.

02-12-2004, 07:20 PM
I'd want her to be honest with me. I wouldn't care about the touching, assuming it was all in the name of entertainment and not sizing up (as it were) a replacement for me. I won't hold her to a double standard. While I don't need the gory details, it would be fine if she said "I went to the upstairs at OG the other night and just couldn't resist squeezing this one guy's balls." As long as she didn't go home with him or set up a date. lol

02-12-2004, 07:58 PM
I don't have a significant other, but if I did I wouldn't mind where she got her apitite as long as she ate at home..... 8)

02-27-2004, 08:25 AM
I travel a great deal and my wife knows I go to SC when I am on the orad. She refers that to hanging around in met arket/pick up bats like some of my cohorts do. Women seem to have an uncanny sense of doing who those types of players are. She knows I won't get into any real trouble in a SC, but we also use the "don't ask, don't tell" approach about what happens in the club. I don't care when she exercises the same freedom. I would not like her to hide it from me, and I would not be as accepting of her going to pick up type bars either.

02-27-2004, 08:29 AM
"It's not surprising we'd get these answers from a bunch of strip club junkies!"

I am disappointed to see this response Bridgette, considering the "Junkies" are generally the customers that treat you witht he respect and dignity you deserve.

03-14-2004, 11:15 AM
I don't go for secrets. If she doesn't feel she can be honest with me then that is a sign of problems. Beside, once you cross that line it just get's easier to do again.

04-19-2004, 05:04 PM
Hmmm, I know I should care, but I don't own my S/O, I am just fortunate to spend what time I can with her. What she does or needs to do in her private time is none of my business.