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Rayleen
11-30-2003, 11:24 AM
Say your lady goes to clubs to get sexualy touched and/or to touch a male or female dancer and purposely hid it from you?

How would that make you feel.

There have been recent threads here and on SW that are making me ponder this- what do you'll think about it?

:-*

Chuck149
11-30-2003, 11:38 AM
I voted to let them have their secret. My SO knows I go to clubs... we have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy,

mr_punk
11-30-2003, 12:32 PM
i agree with chuck. i have more of a european mindset, so let her have her fun. i'm not really interested in hanging around and counting,supervising or controling her behavior during dances.

Kabiosile
11-30-2003, 01:55 PM
and I haven't had any serious relationship during that time... so I don't know how I would feel... when you are single, the world is yours... :)

Brel
11-30-2003, 02:32 PM
I would let her have her secret. We should all be able to have our little fun sometimes.

electric_head
12-01-2003, 08:49 AM
let her have a couple secrets.

big_daddy
12-01-2003, 03:25 PM
What goes around comes around. I go and touch she can also. As long as it's a dancer. I go for it she can too.

Dreamer
12-03-2003, 05:55 AM
If it is a matter of concern, I don't like it when anybody does something behind my back.

m
12-03-2003, 08:14 AM
let her have fun, she is an adult and can make her own judgment calls.

Bridgette
12-05-2003, 10:25 AM
It's not surprising we'd get these answers from a bunch of strip club junkies!

FBR
12-05-2003, 11:40 AM
I would be a hypocrite if I got pissed, wouldnt I? ::)

FBR

fishnet
12-05-2003, 04:08 PM
It's not surprising we'd get these answers from a bunch of strip club junkies!

What's wrong with the answers? ::) Men are wired different that's all. LOL. :D

NikkiD
02-12-2004, 06:50 AM
I would be offended because it was being hidden. Honesty is always the best policy! It wouldnt bother me if he went as long as it wasnt my money funding it without me there.

NVJosh
02-12-2004, 07:20 PM
I'd want her to be honest with me. I wouldn't care about the touching, assuming it was all in the name of entertainment and not sizing up (as it were) a replacement for me. I won't hold her to a double standard. While I don't need the gory details, it would be fine if she said "I went to the upstairs at OG the other night and just couldn't resist squeezing this one guy's balls." As long as she didn't go home with him or set up a date. lol

BigRed1970
02-12-2004, 07:58 PM
I don't have a significant other, but if I did I wouldn't mind where she got her apitite as long as she ate at home..... 8)

wait2play
02-27-2004, 08:25 AM
I travel a great deal and my wife knows I go to SC when I am on the orad. She refers that to hanging around in met arket/pick up bats like some of my cohorts do. Women seem to have an uncanny sense of doing who those types of players are. She knows I won't get into any real trouble in a SC, but we also use the "don't ask, don't tell" approach about what happens in the club. I don't care when she exercises the same freedom. I would not like her to hide it from me, and I would not be as accepting of her going to pick up type bars either.

wait2play
02-27-2004, 08:29 AM
"It's not surprising we'd get these answers from a bunch of strip club junkies!"

I am disappointed to see this response Bridgette, considering the "Junkies" are generally the customers that treat you witht he respect and dignity you deserve.

Connor
03-14-2004, 11:15 AM
I don't go for secrets. If she doesn't feel she can be honest with me then that is a sign of problems. Beside, once you cross that line it just get's easier to do again.

Darren
04-19-2004, 05:04 PM
Hmmm, I know I should care, but I don't own my S/O, I am just fortunate to spend what time I can with her. What she does or needs to do in her private time is none of my business.