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Rayleen
10-29-2003, 10:35 AM
Lets say you are in the VIP and your dancer offers you a hj included in your session........ but only if its covered. Would you prefer she put a glove on or would you rather wear a condom?-

money
10-29-2003, 10:40 AM
None of the above! I had one dancer that just used her hand as is.

sol_de_pr2
10-29-2003, 10:54 AM
I prefer a glove, so I can freely shoot my load ;D

SportsWriter2
10-29-2003, 11:00 AM
Rayleen, you are way cool. I like dancers, but too many accept unsafe sexual practices. I'd take the condom, just because I've seen HJs turn into compulsive BJs.

Chuck149
10-29-2003, 12:26 PM
I would rather not use either.... I hate condoms and to have her use a latex glove is a little to impersonal for me.
No thanks, I'll just do it myself while she provides some entertainment and watches ;)

merely_lurking
10-29-2003, 07:42 PM
I would prefer that she spank me off with her bare hand, maybe that she hocked a loogie into first to provide for some lubrication.

merely_lurking
10-29-2003, 07:45 PM
I'd take the condom, just because I've seen HJs turn into compulsive BJs.

A compulsive BJ? That sounds pretty good SW2, I think I need to get one of those. :)

BigRed1970
10-29-2003, 09:58 PM
cover mister willie for me, I don't like making a mess anyway, and with the condom on, she can always sit on it if she gets the urge....... ;D

money
10-30-2003, 02:12 AM
Amber, some of us have gotten them and not paid extra for it. I usually just pay for the dance time.

fishnet
10-30-2003, 02:33 AM
If it was included in the dance price, whatever makes her comfortable. :) I would not pay extra for this.

espy
10-30-2003, 04:27 AM
I've never had this happen to me but I chose latex glove because I'm not alergic. That would suck if your tounge swelled up harder and faster than your "Mr Dinky"! haha

It is much more fun to have some one do it for you than doing it yourself. IMO

Rayleen, where did you post your pictures? I surfed thru the pink site the other night but couldn't find them in the gallery.

Amber, I think for some ladies it is a want to do not a have to do. Or, they are looking for repeat customers that won't even hesitate to find them as soon as they get to the club because they now know that a HJ is a sure thing.

sp

espy
10-30-2003, 05:07 AM
A HJ gaurantees repeat customers? hmmm.... ::) lol

Luv,
Amber

This is just a theory(sp). I'm not sure if the HJ was an extra charge or included in the price of a group of dances.


Thanks for the info on pix! I can't get there from here so I'll try it tonight.

sp

lestat1
10-30-2003, 06:15 AM
But still.. my question lies unanswered... why do girls give out extras? Is it all about the money? Or do they
just like doing them? I guess the same could be asked about dancing in general... in fact, I'm sure that it has been, but I don't know... why give out a hand job when just dancing can make you the same amount of money?


LOL... maybe this is a question I should ask on the pink site and start a war over there! heehee


Luv,
Amber

My guess is they either aren't attractive enough to make a lot of money 'just dancing,' or they don't have the customer service skills to keep a customer without extras.

lestat1
10-30-2003, 06:18 AM
Well, I'm not a guy, but if I was, I think I'd prefer that she just come home with me... and it doesn't make sense to me why I would pay for it when I could get it for free or do it myself... I don't know... I'm not a guy and no offense to those of you who pay for this stuff, but I don't really see the point! lol

Luv,
Amber
Men don't have the same sexual opportunities as a woman, much less a cute one, so maybe you're not aware of this but many men can't 'get it for free' or have any girl come home with them. Shocking, I know. ;)

Lilith
10-30-2003, 06:57 AM
I'm with you, Amber. This has me flabbergasted. I can readily see why a guy would like it, but why on earth would a dancer give it- for FREE?

She might as well go straight to escorting and make more money.


No, no, wait. I just thought of one reason. To be brutally honest, I once had a regular who turned me on to no end. If it wouldn't have given me a nasty reputation, I would have given (not offered, just given) this fellow a good rub down just because I was fecking dying to touch it! Well-hung, gorgeous man, polite at all times, always careful to request any two-way contact and spend good money on me. The only flowers I've ever saved were from him. I was very disappointed when he moved away, but he did give me a lovely scarf as a going away present.

But free hj's as a general rule? Not on your sweet bippy.

Rayleen
10-30-2003, 07:17 AM
Rayleen, where did you post your pictures? I surfed thru the pink site the other night but couldn't find them in the gallery.

Amber, I think for some ladies it is a want to do not a have to do. Or, they are looking for repeat customers that won't even hesitate to find them as soon as they get to the club because they now know that a HJ is a sure thing.

sp


SP- the pic are in uploads still I think.

You are also correct on why some dancers take that next step.
Its a power and control game at times- but usually its to ensure that a customer will visit often and be steady income.
Amber, In some types of clubs I will use that tactic right after certain customers decided they have had enough regular laps
( usually they quit cause they want to cum but don't think I will get them off )
and they are ready to leave the vip- this way I get a few more songs before he quits spending that night and he leaves feeling satisfied and not frustrated. And I am pretty much guaranteed a repeat customer every week for as long as I work the club. I have found its the frustrated types who feel jipped or become cheap "just watching the show" types.
Its amazing how polite, well behaved and generous a customer will become if they know they will get off as a result of what they spend.

fishnet
10-30-2003, 07:21 AM
... why give out a hand job when just dancing can make you the same amount of money?


LOL... maybe this is a question I should ask on the pink site and start a war over there! heehee


Luv,
Amber

That question would not start a war. LOL. All the girls there would side with you. The dancers that do extras for the most part, don't post over there or don't admit it. Now if you asked: Glove or Condom? You would be flamed to death. LOL. ;)

Spanky
10-30-2003, 07:49 AM
I'd take the condom, just because I've seen HJs turn into compulsive BJs.

I'm going to the wrong clubs, LOL - I haven't seen or heard anything like this going on.

I kinda side with Amber on this point. I don't go to clubs to get off, e.g. happy ending. I just enjoy the relaxed environment and the rapport with the girls and other customers. De-stressing with some nice sensuous contact which does NOT lead to completion makes me a happy man. Also makes for easier rationalization that going to a strip club is not cheating? :-/ But then it would be hard to turn down a free HJ - but I probably wouldn't like it if it were from my ATF - I guess it's a matter of awkward morals. ??? I would feel funny seeing her the next visit - it would totally change the dynamics.

Rayleen
10-30-2003, 12:21 PM
but why on earth would a dancer give it- for FREE?

But free hj's as a general rule? Not on your sweet bippy.

I guess I should clear this up. This is not a every customer or every night or every club thing. Just clubs where it is not unheard of such as in SF, Houston, Nashville,Tampa or LV.

And it isn't free either. It's a final service after a set of VIP dances and I charge them for all the songs - and I stretch it out as long as they can stand. Usually I can get an extra $100 from these customers that I wouldn't get if they stopped buying dance only songs.

Its not for every dancer obviously and not for many clubs either. But like I said its a power trip for me as well as a money thing. I tease and tease and make them beg me to please let them cum ,they can't stand it anymore! ;D

mr_punk
10-30-2003, 01:56 PM
and it doesn't make sense to me why I would pay for it when I could get it for free or do it myself... I don't know... I'm not a guy and no offense to those of you who pay for this stuff, but I don't really see the point!

no,amber. you're not a man. your confusion may be due to the fact that you believe that sex is free. you see,amber. guys understand (especially the married ones ;)) that any relationship (married or single) is going to demand a price. it could be in the form of money or some other sort of psychological or emotional price. for example, in the case of an professional athlete it usually comes in the form of a paternity suit :). i'm sure at the time he thought he was getting it for free. when in reality it was just a deferred payment that's probably going to cost him a lot more than just money for the next 18 or so years. another example, a man who marries a beautiful thin woman who proceeds to gain over 50 lbs over the next 3 or 4 years. and yet, she can't understand why hubby spends all of his time in the sc or on the golf course when he could be at home with her....for free. ;D for me, it's not really a question of paying for it, but what is the cost-benefit analysis at the time.





Then why do the dancers give extras? I don't know... I can understand for the money aspect... but for free? I can even see boob touching as part of a dance, but if a dancer can make as much money if not providing extras... why give them out?

you think a dancer provides extras for free?? ;D ;D oh!! my ribs!!! ;D ;D ;D is there a doctor in the house? i need a suture!! ;D ;D ;D



My guess is they either aren't attractive enough to make a lot of money 'just dancing,' or they don't have the customer service skills to keep a customer without extras.

my guess is you haven't been looking or you've been going to the wrong sc. ;)

fishnet
10-30-2003, 03:31 PM
no,amber. you're not a man. your confusion may be due to the fact that you believe that sex is free. you see,amber. guys understand (especially the married ones ;)) that any relationship (married or single) is going to demand a price. it could be in the form of money or some other sort of psychological or emotional price. for example, in the case of an professional athlete it usually comes in the form of a paternity suit :). i'm sure at the time he thought he was getting it for free. when in reality it was just a deferred payment that's probably going to cost him a lot more than just money for the next 18 or so years. another example, a man who marries a beautiful thin woman who proceeds to gain over 50 lbs over the next 3 or 4 years. and yet, she can't understand why hubby spends all of his time in the sc or on the golf course when he could be at home with her....for free. ;D for me, it's not really a question of paying for it, but what is the cost-benefit analysis at the time.


Damn Mr. P you nailed this one!!!! Just like Ice-T says: "The most expensive sex in the world, is:" "free sex." ::) :o

SportsWriter2
10-31-2003, 01:44 AM
Amber, some girls just love getting into it. They do it impulsively for free.... But watch out guys if they love YOU. That can be VERY expensive.... I asked a ghetto girl the glove vs condom question. She looked puzzled and said, "What about saran wrap?"

money
10-31-2003, 03:41 AM
Amber, to be honest with you, it is probably less work to give a HJ than it is to dance, wiggle and jump around for 5 minutes! So the dancer is getting $20.00 for something that will not take the entire time. Sounds like a win win situation for both parties! Stick with me hon, you will get places! LMFAO!!

Chuck149
10-31-2003, 04:21 AM
Amber, to be honest with you, it is probably less work to give a HJ than it is to dance, wiggle and jump around for 5 minutes! So the dancer is getting $20.00 for something that will not take the entire time. Sounds like a win win situation for both parties! Stick with me hon, you will get places! LMFAO!!

Holy sh** Money, It only takes one song::) I didn't know you were a "Minuteman" LMAO I hope you wore a condom?

fishnet
10-31-2003, 06:24 AM
Holy sh** Money, It only takes one song::) I didn't know you were a "Minuteman" LMAO

[email protected] thought it but refused to say it. :D Of course that might not be bad... easy on the wallet sorta like a cheap drunk. LOL.

money
10-31-2003, 06:38 AM
Chuck >:( dont get me all fired up now!!! Usually with this one dancer, she would dance a couple and then she would do the deed with the 3rd dance or maybe 4th depending. Only one time, when this one dancer was only 19 years old, totally inexperienced, she didnt dance at all, just the HJ. I always thought how dumb this chick could be! She could have gotten a good $60.00 to $100.00 out of me. So it only cost me $20.00. And of course, as you know Chuck, I can be a little tight with the money, so I didnt even give her a tip. But she did get future business out of me because of that, which is what Rayleen's point is.

Lilith
10-31-2003, 06:44 AM
I guess I should clear this up. This is not a every customer or every night or every club thing. Just clubs where it is not unheard of such as in SF, Houston, Nashville,Tampa or LV.

And it isn't free either. It's a final service after a set of VIP dances and I charge them for all the songs - and I stretch it out as long as they can stand. Usually I can get an extra $100 from these customers that I wouldn't get if they stopped buying dance only songs.

Its not for every dancer obviously and not for many clubs either. But like I said its a power trip for me as well as a money thing. I tease and tease and make them beg me to please let them cum ,they can't stand it anymore! ;D


See now, this makes far more sense. I'm with Amber once more in that I believed what was being referred to was "all free extras, all the time" rather than a tool to wheedle more money for more services offered.

And yes, I will admit to allowing a hand to "accidentally slip" (Whoops, lost my balance! Lovely that your crotch was there to catch my fall!) several times when I know:

1) He has lots more money in his wallet
2) He is just about to quit the VIP room because he thinks he's "gotten" all there is to be had.


Saving the big guns for what he thought was the last dance he would buy, while not actually an "extra", is always good for another $50 to my garter. When they don't buy more, they are sure to tip well. Extra money either way and the fellows are always appreciative. In fact, I think they get off on it. I have an immaculate reputation, so I'm sure it is even more of a "WOW!" for them when the Good Girl's hands slip just a tad.

Chuck149
10-31-2003, 09:33 AM
Chuck >:( dont get me all fired up now!!! (snip)

Sorry Money :-* I think I knew what you meant, but I just couldn't resist LMAO

But was it a glove or a condom?

espy
11-02-2003, 12:05 AM
money, you should have taught the newbie how to work a few dances out of a customer before putting on the glove [frustrated] You probably would have made a friend for life. [clap]

Kittie
11-05-2003, 02:50 PM
I would go with neither one and just do it myself if I were a guy.

The best orgasm I ever had, I had by doing myself. ;D

fishnet
11-05-2003, 04:13 PM
LOL...that's why I said I wouldn't pay for it Kittie. Far be it from me to turn down a freebie though. :D

FBR
11-06-2003, 11:41 AM
LMAO this is some funny shit LOL

Rayleen either you are ML's kissin cousin or maybe hes just hanging out with us in drag LMAO. Chuck..check out her IP LOL

I voted for me wearing a condom. The latex glove thing reminds me too much of the fat chick wearing the cellophane gloves that cooked my Sausage McMuffin this morning :-/

FBR

big_daddy
11-06-2003, 02:09 PM
To answer the question, if it were happen to me I would want a condom. Why get messy?

Derek
07-21-2005, 06:16 AM
I prefer condoms and will go back to a dancer who can give a good HJ.

MinahSky
08-07-2005, 11:41 PM
I think Charlie Sheen said it best..."You don't pay them for the sex. You pay them to go home."