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EvilCyn
02-26-2003, 08:34 AM
Ok guys, I have a question about the kind of dances you like......
I am very sexual and sensual when I dance, good amount of contact, but I won't grind on a guy for the whole song......
So my question is
Would you want just a grind it into you lap kinda dance,
Or Where the dancer is very aware of being sexy and giving contact at the right moment and places?????
I would love to hear any thought from you guys on this !!!

electric_head
02-26-2003, 08:47 AM
Very slow and sexy working up to the climax!

02-26-2003, 09:34 AM
THe best lap dance I got was when the girl was extremely sensual. I mean...before she even got on my lap...she seemed like she really wanted to screw me. Maybe she really did or maybe she was acting....but I tell you one thing....I got several dances in a row from her. Girls that get on me and are robotic and grind hard only get one dance!

witt
02-26-2003, 04:48 PM
I agree with what has been said already, but I have to emphasize no hard bouncing or hard grinding.

MisterBlue
02-26-2003, 05:06 PM
I prefer the slow sensual dance. I don't like a lot of hard grinding. I'm really turned off by the girls that just jump around really fast and nervous like.

My ATF does this thing, which involes her knee and my groin which just about makes me faint. But not like it sounds, it definately doesn't hurt! :)

Alanna
02-26-2003, 09:52 PM
there are sooooo many mindless hobby horse riders i wish would read this!

just a few nights ago i took a guy friend of mine out to a club he's always wanted to go to for his birthday... we both got a dance from one of the girls, and while she totally ignored me, she plopped on his lap and ground him straight into the floor while staring at the wall. right after that, he limped out to the car with me in tow and swore his nuts were "mashed into tapioca". once he was sure nothing in his pants was broken, we laughed about it... and went to another club where we got some good dances from a few skillful sensual ladies. ok, so he was a bit hungover at work the next day, but it was a memorable birthday celebration. ;)

EvilCyn
02-26-2003, 11:02 PM
[email protected], hobby horse riders.........
That is great.......
I always thought of it as grinding like a dog on your leg....LOL
We have a few girls like that where I am working now.
That's what prompted me to ask this question...
I would see girls just bouncing up and down on these guys thinking
"that looks like it would hurt, not be enjoyable in any way"
Thanks for all the thoughts on this, and please keep them coming.......
Cyn

Jackjrct
02-27-2003, 12:25 AM
But if I were to combine the favorite dances I've gotten that stayed within club limits (and of course, many clubs wouldn't allow this much):

-The dancer slowly undresses in front of me and jumps in my lap
-lying back against my body, her head against mine, giving me a full downward view of her arched body.
-A gentle, slow, deliberate grind can be nice.
-Strokes along my face, neck, shouldersand arms.
-Having her body parts (arms, chest, legs) touch my face and neck
-Sliding up on my leg
-Nice forceful hug
-Letting her hair play against my face
-Holding my face like she's going to kiss you and letting our noses touch. (no kissing)
-Running her hands through my hair
-some grinding

EvilCyn
02-27-2003, 12:40 AM
Jackjrct, that sound about like how I dance, I like to use my nails( not to hurt anyone) but to caress around the neck and face...... My hair is another biggie, and love being close to the face and neck........
I love hearing this stuff, all the likes and dislikes we know about only help us......
Keeping in club limits, my dances in most clubs around my area would not be in the limits, that drives me crazy.....
I am not dry fucking anyone, just giving a good dance, and it could get me in trouble anyway..........

doc-catfish
02-27-2003, 03:39 AM
Here's my do and don't list

DO's

1. Eye contact. Very important.
2. Small talk to help us both relax. ("Hi, what's your name? My name is ________")
3. Try getting into unique positions if possible (although I know when you're doing a dance in a standard restaurant chair, where about 80 percent of mine have taken place, there's only so much you can do).
4. Blow in my ear.
5. Massage my shoulders a little bit.
6. Draw my attention to every curvature in your body by tracing them with your fingers.
7. Sit out towards my knees (or on a second chair) and place your legs up on my shoulders. A lot of dancers have great legs, and I wish they would show them off more during lap dances.
8. Ask me if I love your outfit, your hair, your shoes (of course I'm going to say yes!), then take the outfit off of course.
9. Always ask if I want another dance.
10. A little peck on the cheek (or several) is always a nice icing on the cake.
11. Eye contact. Yes, I know I've mentioned it already, but it's that important.

DON'TS

1. Kneel on my thighs. Ouch!! Most dancers have great legs, but most also have very FIRM legs.
2. Behave like a porn actress by biting my pants zipper or flicking your tongue at me. I want naughty, not nasty.
3. Show up on my lap with a blood alcohol content that resembles a baseball batting average. Drunk dancers give the WORST dances.
4. Stare out into space. I call that eye-ANTI-contact. It tells the customer that your attention is not on him.
5. Bad mouth other dancers while you're with me. I can judge them myself, thank you.
6. Show up on my lap with a chip on your shoulder about your boss, co-workers, boyfriend, situation at home, etc. Trust me, any bad attitude will come across in the way you dance.
7. Play "Whack-A-Mole" against my face with your breasts. That seems silly and infantile to me, not sexy.

doc-catfish
02-27-2003, 03:45 AM
there are sooooo many mindless hobby horse riders i wish would read this!

Mindless hobby horse riders...I love that term!! ;D

EvilCyn
02-27-2003, 03:53 AM
dr catfish........... I have to say the "whack a mole" comment is one of the funniest things I have ever heard.......
I don't have to worry about that one, I have very itty bitty tittys......
That was such a good laugh thanks I needed that before heading off to the dentist..........

sol_de_pr2
02-27-2003, 06:50 AM
Yes, I love grinding, but I also love it when I'm allowed to fondle the dancer's butt and boobs and if I can go a little further, hell yeah :P :P

Richard_Head
02-27-2003, 10:56 AM
Blow in my ear.

I love it when a girl blows in my ear.

Depending upon the contact rules of the club a good grind with the shin bone can be very enjoyable too, I agree with the previous posters that the knee kind of scares me.

yoda57us
02-27-2003, 10:58 AM
I have a Fav who rubs her leg against my crotch while she nibbles on my left ear. After about 30 seconds of this I swear I would kill for her if she asked me to.... ::)

sol_de_pr2
02-27-2003, 01:00 PM
I love it when a girl blows in my ear. I love it when she licks my ear :P.

Richard_Head
02-27-2003, 02:53 PM
I love it when a girl blows something else entirely. http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/lol2.gif

LOL, I think this post belongs with the extras topic.

lestat1
02-27-2003, 10:45 PM
dr._catfish summed it up pretty well with his dos & don'ts list. I have a few more of my own to add.

DO:
1. press your whole body against mine (I guess club rules permitting), hair in my face, breathing in my ear, arms around my head/neck, breasts lightly touching my cheeks, legs entwined with mine...whew! You now own me.
2. nibble/kiss/lick/blow-on/caress/nuzzle/bite my ears and/or neck....instant goosebumps!
3. ask me to help you undress (so hot, even if it's just pulling the strings on your top loose).

DON'T:
1. ask me what I'm thinking about during a lap dance.... what am I thinking about? Either dirty thoughts I'd be too embarassed to say, or, I can barely muster the brainpower to keep breathing, much less form thoughts and sentences! (damn little head taking over :) )
2. take my glasses off then proceed to touch yourself in a highly erotic manner which I now cannot see at all...talk about a tease!

-lestatdl1

EvilCyn
02-28-2003, 01:12 AM
[email protected], I understood what ya ment........ and if I made a guy think of me blowing on something else entirely, then I did my job...*evilgrin*
you don't always get what ya want, but you can at least enjoy what ya get !!!!!

Jackjrct
02-28-2003, 04:11 AM
Evil

You sound and look like a hot dancer

sol_de_pr2
02-28-2003, 04:20 AM
Where I dance, the way I dance would get me busted, I push the rules as much as I can to give a good dance, but do not do any real extras..I tend to be on the raunchy side, with eye contact and facial expressions.....I totally get into giving a good dance.... Its a challenge to do a good job at what I do !!! How about lap dancing me, hon?

EvilCyn
02-28-2003, 05:06 AM
Carlos, I wish I could !!! you are soooooooo far away !!!
Thanks for all the input you guys are giving here !!!!! (no pun intended)
(ya right ) LOL
Hope Everyone has a great weekend !!!!!!!!!!!

GoldCoastGirl
03-03-2003, 02:36 AM
If the customer behaves (plays by the rules) then I will give you a very good dance (like Evil I push the envelope too but still try to stay within club rules...).

I focus alot on the intimacy of touch. For me, that is one of the main reasons people buy private dances: they want to be touched by another person. It is intimate.

Something I like doing with my customers and I've had positive reaction with is thus:
I have just past shoulder length hair so I "drape" my hair around his face enclosing both of us in darkness. My face is so close to his face that our noses are touching .... I feel this little curtain I make with my hair just makes the dance feel more intimate and personal.

;D

EvilCyn
03-03-2003, 03:41 AM
AussieVee, you and I sound alot alike....... I do the same with my hair, it is a little longer, and do it for the same reason...... It blocks out the lights and sights going on in the club........ Its like makeing a world that just focuses in them...... I love to use my hair like that with my nails lightly caressing the neck and chin line.......
Like you said, the better bahaved he is, the much better dance I will give......
If am worrying about wondering hands, I can't relax to give a good dance......

FoxHunter
03-03-2003, 05:10 AM
I prefer my dances to be sultry with eye contact and a little sexual tension. I would rather have the dancer control the contact level as well. I am paying for her to do the work , I should just be able to sit back and relax 8)

Alanna
03-03-2003, 06:48 AM
i do that hair curtain thing too. it does seem to work well to create a sense of privacy and intimacy, especially for the guys that feel a bit shy or awkward because of other people and activity around.

Chuck149
03-03-2003, 08:59 AM
AussieVee, you and I sound alot alike....... I do the same with my hair, it is a little longer, and do it for the same reason...... It blocks out the lights and sights going on in the club........ Its like makeing a world that just focuses in them...... I love to use my hair like that with my nails lightly caressing the neck and chin line.......

Wow, I had to have a cigarette just reading you lady's posts :o That's just the way I like my dances. I have to make sure you two are on my stripclub tour ;D

lestat1
03-03-2003, 11:40 AM
I focus alot on the intimacy of touch. For me, that is one of the main reasons people buy private dances: they want to be touched by another person. It is intimate.

Something I like doing with my customers and I've had positive reaction with is thus:
I have just past shoulder length hair so I "drape" my hair around his face enclosing both of us in darkness. My face is so close to his face that our noses are touching .... I feel this little curtain I make with my hair just makes the dance feel more intimate and personal.

;D

Damn I love the "hair curtain" maneuver! I've only had a dancer do it once but it was like the entire club disappeared and I was lost in her seductive little web. That was a hot private dance, she was so sensual...and then I never saw her again! :(

-lestatdl1

sol_de_pr2
03-03-2003, 12:17 PM
Something I like doing with my customers and I've had positive reaction with is thus: I have just past shoulder length hair so I "drape" my hair around his face enclosing both of us in darkness. My face is so close to his face that our noses are touching .... I feel this little curtain I make with my hair just makes the dance feel more intimate and personal. ;D Oh, my, how much is a plane ticket to Australia. I'd love a dance from you ;).

Alanna
03-04-2003, 12:09 AM
Wow, I had to have a cigarette just reading you lady's posts

geeeeeeeeez, after reading Aussie's i needed 2! if i cut a few weeks of my life off from doing that, it was worth every minute. ;D

GoldCoastGirl
03-04-2003, 11:39 AM
Well... it looks like the hair curtain thing that I do will be a sure thing I will do from now on!

Thanks everyone for the positive feedback in re: this little move. I didn't expect such a positive response.. just thought I would throw it in ;D

Evil... we are alike from what I've read your private dances are like. The only problem is that it depends on which other dancers are around/near me whether I can "get away" with certain moves.

I now know which ones watch me just so they can "report" me so I will stick to certain movies during the dance and not push the envelope. Otherwise, if these dancers aren't around then I will push it.

EvilCyn
03-05-2003, 12:11 AM
AussieVee, LOL, I always know where the manger is......... The club I am at now doesn't have as many mirrors, so I have to look more.....
I love mirrored clubs, so easy to know where the managers are.....
You learn to give thee illusion of following rules from a distance...
If they only know all the tricks we learn and things we good through to give a good dance........ LOL

Derek
07-19-2005, 08:08 AM
I like a dancer who gives sexy contact at the right time and place plus the opportunity to feel her legs, ass, and boobs.

kymchoon
07-19-2005, 08:24 PM
I'll reiterate the "no hard grinding/hobby horse" statements. Other than that, I'm in complete agreement on the whole 'intimacy of touch' theory. Hell, if I've got my eyes closed for a good chunk of the dance to concentrate on thmy sense of touch and/or smell, it's a bloody good dance.

Bouncing back onto these forums is giving me the impulse to go out to a club again sometime. Don't suppose you're heading back to my neck of the woods anytime soon, Vee? }:D

P.S. Oh yeah, that reminds me. Was it you who had those shoes with the money in the heels? If so, can you let me know where you got them from (I mentioned them to a mate of mine, and now she wants a pair)