Mastridonicus
09-04-2005, 10:00 AM
At first the two things I look for are your hair and your face. that narrows the playing field to one or two prospects.
sorry, i can't relate. while i'm very observant of a stripper's body below the neck. i tend not to notice stuff like eye color, hair or even heads for that matter.
I can relate. The face is EVERYTHING hot to me. Face, then Hips, then Thighs, then Ass, then Stomach, then the rest.
second i will go up and tip you so i see when another guy tips you see how bored/into it you are. then i will ask you to come over and chat.
in my experience, a stripper acting like a sex kitten on stage usually has nothing to do with her private performances. still, that's kinda creepy, Gendai.
Maybe it is, but I too like the show, and I watch the show, and that show often includes a guy on the bar getting tits beat into each ear. Private shows aside, if shes good on the pole,I will probably approach her. Staring is Creepy.
during the chat i will listen to what you have to say if their is any mention of me giving hand outs, not having enough money, how bad the boyfriend is. alarms go off and i've writen you off. regardless i will buy one dance to pay you for your time.
okay, it's one thing to pay a stripper to stroke your brow and tell you that you are pretty. however, it's quite another to pay her for giving you a splitting migraine with flaky stripper talk.
eh, when I go to a club, I strive to make it as enjoyable for me as possible, and I generally do, if I am in the mood for stripper talk, I'll hear it, otherwise I'll change the subject. I reinburse for chatting only when it keeps her from making money, and its an actual conversation I enjoyed taking part in. C'mon, the club is about the custy paying for what he wants. I do just that.
after the dance if you shut down or run to the dressing room or off to the next custie. then your done. just i little pamperage and hugs will go along way.
At first I thought the same way, but soon realized I really didn't care. I mean with my ATF it does matter cause she just does it, I mean she has a good time with me, so its natural its cool. As much as you may prefer the GFE, after the songs done its not gonna feel like one.
the biggest thing i look for is. somewhere in the back of your mind in a place you may not admit exists or are even aware of. you care about me as a person . if i can get that i can put up with alot of SS. as long as i know i'm more to you than just a walking wallet you've got me.
If you LOOK for it hard enough, you'll see it whether its there or not. I don't walk into the club concerned about such trivial things. Granted I do care, its just me, its who I am, but knowing if she does or not doesn't effect my experience. I know I've spoke in the past about my self proclaimed PL shit, but make no mistake, I go WANTING that enough to pay for it, and secondly, don't think I leave the club going "I wonder if Dusty Gazongas really wants me to drive safe it was a cute hug tho."
for me the main reason i come to the club is to start and maintain a relationship that is IMPOSSIBLE to have in real life. at most it will last with a girlfriend for maybe a few days maybe a week. before she decides to push for sex/marriage and kids.
i want to come out enjoy your company and go home with a smile on my face.
Whoa? a week into a relationship and your gf are pushing for sex/marriage/kids? WHOA.
For me the turn on for a strip club is seeing woman sexually free that my upbringing and religious brainwashing told me never existed. I am 100% sure if I turned it on full blast I could date some of them. Its not an IMPOSSIBILITY, its the game of odds, and as Jenny jokingly but truthfully said 'She's a stripper, its not a normal relationship'. Maybe someday ::)
Major turn-off: When a favorite who's barely on the list sends over a collie, who says, "Your girl sent me to take care of you while she's in champagne." Take care of me? I dismissed the collie and moved a new hottie onto the favorite list. :)
Happened to me once too. WTF is that? I mean sure the thought counts, but that slams the fantasy right outta the stadium.
sorry, i can't relate. while i'm very observant of a stripper's body below the neck. i tend not to notice stuff like eye color, hair or even heads for that matter.
I can relate. The face is EVERYTHING hot to me. Face, then Hips, then Thighs, then Ass, then Stomach, then the rest.
second i will go up and tip you so i see when another guy tips you see how bored/into it you are. then i will ask you to come over and chat.
in my experience, a stripper acting like a sex kitten on stage usually has nothing to do with her private performances. still, that's kinda creepy, Gendai.
Maybe it is, but I too like the show, and I watch the show, and that show often includes a guy on the bar getting tits beat into each ear. Private shows aside, if shes good on the pole,I will probably approach her. Staring is Creepy.
during the chat i will listen to what you have to say if their is any mention of me giving hand outs, not having enough money, how bad the boyfriend is. alarms go off and i've writen you off. regardless i will buy one dance to pay you for your time.
okay, it's one thing to pay a stripper to stroke your brow and tell you that you are pretty. however, it's quite another to pay her for giving you a splitting migraine with flaky stripper talk.
eh, when I go to a club, I strive to make it as enjoyable for me as possible, and I generally do, if I am in the mood for stripper talk, I'll hear it, otherwise I'll change the subject. I reinburse for chatting only when it keeps her from making money, and its an actual conversation I enjoyed taking part in. C'mon, the club is about the custy paying for what he wants. I do just that.
after the dance if you shut down or run to the dressing room or off to the next custie. then your done. just i little pamperage and hugs will go along way.
At first I thought the same way, but soon realized I really didn't care. I mean with my ATF it does matter cause she just does it, I mean she has a good time with me, so its natural its cool. As much as you may prefer the GFE, after the songs done its not gonna feel like one.
the biggest thing i look for is. somewhere in the back of your mind in a place you may not admit exists or are even aware of. you care about me as a person . if i can get that i can put up with alot of SS. as long as i know i'm more to you than just a walking wallet you've got me.
If you LOOK for it hard enough, you'll see it whether its there or not. I don't walk into the club concerned about such trivial things. Granted I do care, its just me, its who I am, but knowing if she does or not doesn't effect my experience. I know I've spoke in the past about my self proclaimed PL shit, but make no mistake, I go WANTING that enough to pay for it, and secondly, don't think I leave the club going "I wonder if Dusty Gazongas really wants me to drive safe it was a cute hug tho."
for me the main reason i come to the club is to start and maintain a relationship that is IMPOSSIBLE to have in real life. at most it will last with a girlfriend for maybe a few days maybe a week. before she decides to push for sex/marriage and kids.
i want to come out enjoy your company and go home with a smile on my face.
Whoa? a week into a relationship and your gf are pushing for sex/marriage/kids? WHOA.
For me the turn on for a strip club is seeing woman sexually free that my upbringing and religious brainwashing told me never existed. I am 100% sure if I turned it on full blast I could date some of them. Its not an IMPOSSIBILITY, its the game of odds, and as Jenny jokingly but truthfully said 'She's a stripper, its not a normal relationship'. Maybe someday ::)
Major turn-off: When a favorite who's barely on the list sends over a collie, who says, "Your girl sent me to take care of you while she's in champagne." Take care of me? I dismissed the collie and moved a new hottie onto the favorite list. :)
Happened to me once too. WTF is that? I mean sure the thought counts, but that slams the fantasy right outta the stadium.