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SportsWriter2
04-18-2004, 06:44 PM
Wasn't "3 Small" an old Nat King Cole song? I think it went something like this:

Unforgivable, that's what you are
Unforgivable though near or far...

If you're her sole source, I hope she doesn't use the money to buy some Chippendale dancer while you're gone. Sorry, sometimes I just can't help it. ;)

Chili Palmer
04-18-2004, 07:50 PM
Anyway, last Saturday, after we checked into the motel and got "comfortable" (and after her obligatory bouncing on the bed LOL), I commanded her to lie face down. I was in the mood to give her a full body massage...I enjoy that. She complied, stretching out and making herself comfortable, her head resting comfortably on her arms. Her eyes were closed and her smile betrayed her anticipation.



First off, nice work. And thanks for sharing the fruit of your efforts with us.

Second, and this is why I may have seemed a little harsh in my initial reporting, but this is neither a trip report nor a night at the office.

What you have here is a "holy grail" experience. When my monger friends and I write about a girl no one else can have, that's the expression we use. Of course I would not expect dancer names or other details on a report like this--who wants to fuck up a good thing for another dog? Certainly not me.

But reports like this belong in their own thread, so they are not confused with actual visits to actual strip clubs, which is what my perception of an actual "trip report" is, or a night at the office, which would detail some amusing anecdote or angst ridden story from same. Anyone agree or disagree with this?

CP

SportsWriter2
04-18-2004, 09:09 PM
Chili, FBR and others connect with dancers in clubs and other places. You can't separate this flow, because outside connections affect the trips (and the drama). For me the "holy grail" experience always starts in clubs.

Chili Palmer
04-18-2004, 11:03 PM
Well, obviously they (and I, for that matter), connect with dancers at a strip club. That is supremely self-evident.

My point is simply this: extra-curricular activities with a dancer that neither begin nor end at a SC do not belong a thread in which strip club activities are involved. A place for everything, and everything in its place, as it were.

Personally, I feel this is a strong enough and important enough thread to stand on its own.

Chili (the anal retentive monger) Palmer

SportsWriter2
04-19-2004, 06:32 AM
Chili, the model of how it works is integrated. You connect with a dancer in the club and it gets intense. She suggests meeting for lunch if you promise never to tell. At lunch, she says she's turned down $2K for sex and has never seen anyone but you outside the club. She won't have sex, but she likes giving/getting head, which she doesn't consider sex (Clinton was right). Plus she likes other fun things like having her hair pulled. She's being open with you because you're non-judgmental.

She doesn't know how to proceed because she's never done this before (go with the flow here). If it's what SHE wants, you're on from $0-125 an hour (more is less expensive in the long run). She's not a ho type, so you're only paying for her time, as if you were in the club.

You connect under the Red Roof and it's all good. You become special in the club. When you walk in, she comes right over for a hug/kiss, then tells the PL she was with that she has to leave because you're her Best Friend. You keep going to the club because it's a complex social event.

She confides details of the outside session to a friend who works in another club, but distance means nothing to a cell phone. The outside relationship becomes rumor in your ATF's club, and another dancer offers more for less to be your favorite. You can see a dozen drama variations right there.

In another variation, you don't see each other outside the club, but some jealous dancer starts a rumor that you're fucking in Motel 6 on Tuesday afternoons. Real or imagined, outside connections are an integrated part of a club's social ecology.

High Roller
05-01-2004, 07:50 PM
LOL...my last post ended with... "It will be interesting to see how long she wants to keep in touch with no money in the mix." Obviously, not long. It was six weeks and not a peep. I wrote hinting at a trip this month. I heard back in less than 2 hours. Ahhhh business. Gotta love it. LOL. ;)

FBR
05-03-2004, 07:59 PM
LOL...my last post ended with... "It will be interesting to see how long she wants to keep in touch with no money in the mix." Obviously, not long. It was six weeks and not a peep. I wrote hinting at a trip this month. I heard back in less than 2 hours. Ahhhh business. Gotta love it. LOL. ;)


LMAO HR Wouldnt it be nice if for once dancers werent so predictable LOL

FBR

FBR
05-03-2004, 08:02 PM
Have a private set up for Saturday with Miss D :P I cant wait. Three weeks is a lonnnnngggg time. Guess while I was on vacation, the club got raided by the sheriffs department :o Dont know what happened but Miss D promised to fill me in Saturday.

FBR

FBR
05-06-2004, 03:59 PM
Miss D called me today. She forgot she has some friends flying in from out of town on Saturday. She asked for a reschedule for tomorrow (Friday) instead. I said sure ;D and then went to work juggling my appointments so I could do that LOL

Some of the other strippers I know would have either no showed or called me at the last minute and screwed up my day. Its nice when you have a mutually respectful relationship :) Im anxious to rediscover her mysteries...its been a while. I'll have to decide whether to post a TR or not and if so whether to FADE TO BLACK or go into the details a bit. Either way its a win win for me. :P

FBR

SportsWriter2
05-06-2004, 04:30 PM
FBR, I like Miss D. I think you should be a kinkier mofo this time, but Fade to Black in the TR.... I get considerate calls like that. Some of the better ones:

* "I'm still spotting."
* "My f*ckin boyfriend found your number."
* "I can meet you if it's raining."

High Roller
05-15-2004, 07:24 PM
Son of a bitch!!! I just spent a 15 minutes writing a post only to have it disappear into cyber space. Grrr….

When I wrote my last post, I had written HG hinting at a trip this month. http://www.emotipad.com/newemoticons/Nodding.gif She remembers my paydays and wrote 4 days before this one just to say “Hi” and to relay a message.

I haven’t said anything about this previously. Our web guy likes to pull elaborate April Fools day jokes every year. This year was no exception. I had warned everyone not to believe a word he says between 3/31 and 4/2. He posted the his soft core porn was finished and the premier showing would take place on the 8th. I didn’t believe it at first. He continued to lie about it from the 2nd till the 8th. It just didn’t make sense that he would want to piss off potential customers for his film. I bit. http://www.emotipad.com/newemoticons/Bang-Head.gif I burned $20 worth of gas, wasted 2.5 hours of my time and hosed a vacation day just to make the premier. I was sooo pissed that I deleted my forum, some 900 posts from the home board and wrote an e-mail to one of the owners. It didn’t do any good of course. What do owners care about customer service? Their attitude is… “Sooooo!” Next!” http://www.emotipad.com/newemoticons/Tantrum.gif To make matters worse I went off on a bud who was in on it. Hopefully no permanent damage there.

Evidently the web guy asked HG if I was mad at him a couple weeks ago. She had promised to let me know he had asked about me. http://www.gay.hr/web/smilies/WTF.gif He knows how to reach me. What is he involving her for?

Oh well…HG got back to me today and we are on. My hiatus ends tonight and I can’t wait!!!!
http://www.gay.hr/web/smilies/klap2.gif

SpursFan
05-16-2004, 06:09 AM
Nothing like drama to make a night interesting...

BTW - FYI - there are a couple of ladies at the Penhouse in SA who will double team you to the tune of $40 each per song!

$80 for a single song...

Make certain that you get it right.

SF

High Roller
05-16-2004, 09:09 PM
I’ve mentioned before the HG was a master of SS. Sat. night proved to be no exception. She said the reason she hadn’t written more was that she was afraid I would think she was pressuring me to come to the club and spend money like other girls do to their customers. LOL. And she made it sound believable. Well… we’ll just see if the frequency of her messages increases now that I told her she doesn’t have to worry about that. Of course she laid on all the usual SS. You look great, smell good, I only do that for you etc.

HG isn’t speaking to one of her good friends at work. This is one of the girl’s that refers to HG as Mom. Miss A had asked for a favor. No problem! HG went out of her way to make time to do this favor and Miss A flaked and stood HG up. That led to bickering, nasty text messages and voice mails. HG finally told Miss A to quit harassing her. Sooo every time Miss A walked by last night, she shot HG a kill look. LOL.

HG and my ATF have both taken courses to get their real estate licenses. Neither has scheduled a date to take the test so it looks like they will both be dancing a while.

OR (original regular) loves piercings. Miss H also referred to now as “One muffin too many” has a shop that does piercings. OR was working for OMTM as an intern, learning how to pierce. OR gave OMTM some attitude and was fired recently. Those two go way back. OMTM and OR have had sex many times… in private, in shower shows and in my lap doing doubles. LOL. OMTM is much shorter than OR. I can’t imagine her firing OR without getting her lights punched out. OR has a bad temper and fights at the drop of a hat.

OR and one of the other girl’s, a Miss C allegedly flew to LA and did a porno for Jill Kelly Productions. It is supposed to be hush- hush for some reason but everyone knows about it. LOL

One of the club’s best at working the pole is pregnant and going to have the baby. Nope. It’s not the girl I call PC in my TR’s.

Two of the girl’s, Miss M and Miss D had a fist fight in the locker room. This is supposed to be an automatic firing. Neither was. Miss D threatened to have her friends take care of Miss M off premises. One of the managers got wind of it and threatened to fire Miss D if they did. They were moved to separate locker rooms. Not sure about the cause of the fight. Miss D accused Miss M of copying her stage moves or something. Miss M came back from a BA after only two weeks. Ouch!!! Those that know me can find pix of these two on the club web-site.

One of the managers is dating my favorite waitress. They went to the Kidd Rock concert. FW was one of the girl’s dancing in the cages so they were both backstage. FW was hanging all over the band members like a typical star struck groupie. Her bf was not pleased. Rumor is they are definitely on the outs.

While in the VIP last night, I kept hearing the names of dancers that have been there since I first started going to the club. I couldn’t help wondering if they have been dancing too long or if I have been going to the club too long. Considering how fast some dancers come and go, they seem like dinosaurs to me.

FBR
05-17-2004, 04:20 PM
HR, do you think HG will stop dancing if and when she gets her real estate liscense? Shed have to do some serious selling to match the significant (and I assume largely untaxed) money she makes at the club.

FBR

FBR
05-17-2004, 05:06 PM
I had lunch with Miss D this past Saturday. I was hoping to do a private but the warchest is thin :'( I have a lot of money outstanding for some side jobs but havent collected thus far. Guess I'll have to give cousin Guido a call to break some legs ;)

Anyway, lunch was great as usual. Its nice that she'll drive up here with zero expectations beyond a nice meal, a few drinks and fun conversation ;D Anyway, as we were chit chatting she exclaimed "Oh, I forgot to tell you about Miss B." Naturally, Im all ears. Even though Miss B and I havent hung out in quite a long time, Im still interested in whats going on with her ;) Miss D enjoys telling me too. First of all she has the 411 on everybody and likes to gossip ::) :D Second, Miss B boldly told Miss D to her face that I would dump her in short order since I did the same to Miss B. Anytime Miss D can give me some dirt or whatever on Miss B, its kind of a "neener neener, bitch" which she enjoys. Perhaps you remember the history of Miss B alledgedly trying to give Miss D's BF a blowjob at a party :o Neither know the "details" concerning my involvment with the other which makes for delicious fun for me ;D

Miss D told me that Miss B is definitely heading out west to do the summer internship for her school. I mentioned this before but at the time the trip seemed to be up in the air due to BD's objection to it. I asked Miss D "Oh really...so how is that sitting with BD?" She replied laughingly, "Didnt you know? Miss B and BD broke up." Im like whoaaaa...I didnt know that! She went on to say "That aint nothin...heres the best part. Your son is the reason they broke up!"

A bit of background. My son is a junkie like me ::) A junior version, granted, but only because he cant afford to high roll. Hes good looking and very smooth with the ladies. Hes been to the club several times with me plus I know he goes from time to time with a friend. Back around Christmas time I introduced him to Miss B. They seemed to hit it off well so I bought him a couple dances with her. He was on the couch almost an hour LOL so I should have known from that he liked her since he spent far beyond the $40 I gave Miss B. Since then weve been in a few times and he always hooked up with her if she was working. I couldnt blame him...Miss B is hot. Too bad she cut me off >:( LOL

I never told my kid about my relationship with Miss B...I love him but some things you just dont talk about. And I have been focused on Miss D so what Miss B might or might not be doing wasnt an issue for me anymore. The signs were there. I found out through the grapevine that he invited Miss B to a cookout he recently hosted. She no showed but I suspect that was because she learned that I would be there with Mrs FBR and felt it would have been wierd (which it would have been ::) )

Miss D told me that Miss B was at a local dance club the other night and my son was there. They frequent similar establishments. Both of them got drunk and wound up having a major make out session LOL Miss D didnt know for sure if anything happened beyond that 8) but knowing my kid Im sure he tried LOL Supposedly, the next day, Miss B, overwhelmed with guilt, confessed to BD about what happened. Instead of him forgiving her he called her a fucking whore and broke up with her LOL

Hearing all this drama from Miss D was surreal LOL I so want to ask my kid what really happened but dont have the balls to do so since he doesnt know the background and I dont really want to let that cat out of the bag. Also Im wondering, why did Miss B even tell Miss D about it? They definitely arent buds. I have to believe that she told Miss D because she wanted Miss D to tell me. Kind of a parting "Fuck you FBR" or so it seems to me.

My kid mentioned to me today that tonight was Miss B's last night before her trip out west. He left at 5 o'clock sharp from work (which is unusual) so I suspect he had a club trip in mind to wish her bon voyage. I thought about heading up there too but decided against it. Just too wierd for me.

FBR

High Roller
05-17-2004, 06:25 PM
HR, do you think HG will stop dancing if and when she gets her real estate liscense? Shed have to do some serious selling to match the significant (and I assume largely untaxed) money she makes at the club.

FBR


LOL...I'm a little disappointed in her FBR. She had one class to take to get her 4 year degree. She never took the class. :( Her a original plan was to go to law school and that changed too. She took the RE course but hasn't scheduled the test. ::) Her goal was to be deriving the major portion of her income from anything but dancing next year.

Whoa! I've been wondering about Miss B! Kind of ironic your son was behind the breakup you have been wanting. Oh well... Miss D is taking good care of you. ;D

SportsWriter2
05-17-2004, 08:05 PM
FBR, I can imagine Miss B walking out on BD yelling, "I did his father, too, and they're both better than you!" Too bad she isn't interning in Florida. You could call ahead to your brother-in-law. ::)

FBR
06-03-2004, 05:16 PM
The Drama Thread has been dead for a while so I thought Id throw something out.

Had a playdate late this afternoon for dessert, drinks and our usual RR fun. It was awesome...its been nearly a month so to say I was anxious is an understatement ;D I did learn that I dont aim well without my glasses...she was expecting it on the boobies but instead I listed a bit too far north LOL All is forgiven now.

Back to the drama, today was supposed to be a tryst at her new apartment. She called me yesterday to confirm our date and mentioned that her place was still a wreck from this past weekends move and could we just do the motel thingee. I said sure no problem.

Miss D was totally fine today but in the back of my mind Im wondering about the change of location. Maybe its true that she didnt want anyone seeing her place until its all spruced up and ready for public consumption. OTOH Im wondering if shes getting cold feet either from the standpoint that she doesnt want me to know where she lives or perhaps she doesnt want the neighbors to see some guy traipsing into her apartment.

Frankly, Im OK either way but if she had second thoughts I wish she would have just said so. I didnt let on anything to her...hell I was having a great time. But I'll give it a couple weeks. Most people can have their domicile spick and span in two weeks.

Several of you have mentioned that hooking up at her place might not be such a good plan anyways. I agreed intellectually but until today I didnt realize that it was important to me that we did so.

FBR

SportsWriter2
06-03-2004, 07:27 PM
Several of you have mentioned that hooking up at her place might not be such a good plan anyways. I agreed intellectually but until today I didnt realize that it was important to me that we did so.


The apartment isn't what she wants it to be yet. She wants you to think of her as a neat girl.... Once you go there, she'll ask you to stay a little longer and just hug/talk. I fall for that every time.

When a girl says "aim for my boobs," she doesn't want ALL of it there.

FBR
06-04-2004, 04:43 PM
Sporty, she said she'd have her place squared away in a couple weeks. I can understand if thats her real motivation.

OTOH, I would hate it if somehow her level of trust in me has lessened or if she has some wierd fear factor going on.

Ultimately, its her call. I can do RR just as well as her place. The end result for me is the same ;D It would just mean an additional 50 in her pocket rather than in the coffers of a motel chain.




When a girl says "aim for my boobs," she doesn't want ALL of it there.


LOL Who knows what they want. Afterwards, she rolled over and rubbed her face vigorously on the bedsheets, leaving a surprise for HouseKeeping. I cracked up when she did that but as we were leaving I dropped a $5 tip on the nightstand for the cleaning people ;D

FBR

Happy_Camper
06-17-2004, 09:45 PM
I just realized I havnt posted a TR in several trips now. i guess I figured nothing exciting. I did however feel I pissed off Miss A...I hadnt been going in as often so I got the "where have you been?". No biggie, just said I had been busy (and going to other clubs).

Well I sit down and after she gets off stage she comes by and stands by the table....she then asks "Do you mind if I sit down?"...ok, what kind of question is that when she knows me and knows i like her....so I respond "If you want"... her reply "Dont you want me to?"...I have never told a lady she cant sit, so why are you asking now...So she sits down, I dont remember what she says before she opens her purse pulls out her smokes and lights up....to which i say "You ask if you can sit...but dont have the courtesy to ask if you can smoke?" (yes I am a smart ass at times)....so she grabs her purse and starts to get up. I guess she is expecting me to say I was kidding and to sit down...instead i say "Bye"....she ends up going three tables over and sitting by herself until another dancer joins her 5-10 minutes later. I end up tipping a new girl, then the ATF? and then walked out the door.

Spanky
06-24-2004, 02:13 PM
HC

I like the way you stick to your guns. Unfortuantely I fold too easy for my ATF. I do get pissed at times and let her know it, but then I get over it too easy.

My congrats to you for holding strong! ;)

FBR
06-26-2004, 04:12 PM
Went to the south of town club this afternoon to see DJ. While I was sitting at the bar with her talking shit my cell rang. It was Miss D ::) I didnt answer of course but checked the voice mail once DJ went up to que up some more songs.

"Hi hun" her voice cried out on the recording "Damn I never get your voice mail...you always answer ~ short giggle~ Its about 4 and Im at work. I was just wondering if you wanted to come up and see me? Its not real busy...give me a call OK?"

I erased the voice mail...all the while feeling a tinge of guilt :-\ Im crazy about her right? Everybody knows that. Plus our privates would make the best sellers list if I chose to write about them ::) ;) OTOH I did feel a bit ATM when listening to her message. Had she called me from a regular bar and was just hanging out that would have been different. But to get an invite to go to the club?

Anyway, I didnt call her back and dont plan to. Im sure I'll talk to her next week. A part of me wants to be honest when she asks why I didnt respond. But knowing me, I'll make up some bullshit excuse LOL The cookie is still too tasty to give up :P

FBR

Raven Lee
07-21-2004, 10:27 PM
Every club in the whole usa is gonna have drama because you cant put to many bleeding women in the same building for days and not have drama of any kind believe that ....

Raven Lee
07-21-2004, 10:32 PM
sorry ladies but hey anything that bleeds for 3 or more days and doesnt die something has tobe wrong and I am a lady of 35yrs of age and know its not right to bleed for that long and live come on now.. I know its life but its not good

SportsWriter2
09-25-2004, 04:06 AM
Mean Girls, Part 1

* My dancer T says, "Notice R isn't here anymore?"
Miss R was her nemesis.

Some background: One day T was late and I got two topless dances from R. On the first song she pulled her G aside to feed me cookie. I declined (too easy), so she fingered herself and deep-throated the finger. She said guys never go back to Miss T after her. I can undertand that: Miss R is a pretty girl I would have liked if she had been a good girl.

Me: "I didn't notice. What happened."

Miss T: "We were on stage together. She's dancing in front of some guy who's looking at me. She says, 'Why are you looking at HER? She's got no boobs, no ass, and she doesn't know how to shake it.' Then she slaps the guy's face."

Me with a timely wince: "Whoa, that's MEAN."

Miss T: "I heard her and said, 'Bitch, it's one thing to talk about me to customers behind my back, but on stage you're getting on my last nerve.' So after the set I went to Joe [the manager] and told him I'd fucking had it with her. I told him, 'She thinks she can do ANYTHING cuz she's fucking you.'"

Joe's smart enough not to sleep with dancers, so he was pissed. He asked other dancers if Miss R had claimed to be sleeping with him, and they all said YES.

Miss T: "We were all scared to complain about her cuz we believed her, but Joe fired her on the spot."

Me: "Good work. Gimme five."

kitana
09-27-2004, 04:34 PM
Ok guys, this isn't usualy SC drama of sorts but maybe you guys can help me calm down a little and keep my sexy ass outta jail!

We have these new girls who just started around a month ago, and they are skanks!!!!

You know there has to be a problem when all the girls (30+) want to kick their asses.

Anyway, they caused so much trouble Thurs. night one of them got "jumped" in the dressing room (on the "orders" of the owner). So Sat. night they were much better, but does anyone have any good ideas to get rid of them for good?

I mean really good sneaky, mischevious stuff.

Thanks guys!!!

Kitana

Element
10-04-2004, 04:40 PM
Ok guys, this isn't usualy SC drama of sorts but maybe you guys can help me calm down a little and keep my sexy ass outta jail!

We have these new girls who just started around a month ago, and they are skanks!!!!

You know there has to be a problem when all the girls (30+) want to kick their asses.

Anyway, they caused so much trouble Thurs. night one of them got "jumped" in the dressing room (on the "orders" of the owner). So Sat. night they were much better, but does anyone have any good ideas to get rid of them for good?

I mean really good sneaky, mischevious stuff.

Thanks guys!!!

Kitana


Can you give more details what do you mean by skanks and what kind of trouble do they cause if that many girls don't like them it shouldn't be that hard to convince the owner to get rid of them but I don't know all of the story.

SportsWriter2
03-11-2005, 08:00 AM
It's been so long since anyone posted drama, so here's a quick one.

I walked into a club one afternoon and saw a slender, pretty dancer I like but haven't seen for months. I asked why she didn't work days anymore. She said, "Other girls started telling guys I had AIDS, and that would scare anybody, even if they knew it wasn't true."

The worst I ever heard before that was, "Don't get emotionally involved with [dancer' name]; she has cancer." :O

Drat
03-24-2005, 01:04 PM
It all started when Scott went to Vegas without Rico. Scott went into a club to see one of his favorite girls CL. While there, one of Rico’s favorite girls, CY sees Scott and calls Rico to see if he’s coming in too. Of course, CY needs money to pay some bills and was hoping Rico was coming in so she could ask him for it.

She convinces Rico to call Scott and get Scott to give her $500 so she can pay her bill. Rico of course will pay Scott back for the gesture. Scott gives CY the money and we think everybody is happy.

Little did we know that this would start major drama that still lingers a year later!

CY decides that Scott would be a better catch than Rico due to the fact that Scott comes around a few times a week and Rico only comes around once every month or two. So, she starts a cycle that will tear good friends Rico and Scott apart as well as hurting her relationship with her own girlfriend, IV.

Next time Scott’s in the club, she goes and gives him a real big hug and kiss and thanks him again for the money. Scott says, “It wasn’t from me, it was from Rico.”

“I know, but I got it because you were here that night and willing to give it to me.” She replies.

She starts spreading the rumor that Scott gave her money and she starts to talk to Rico less and less. Rico spends “quality time” with both CY and her girlfriend IV. Rico still wants to get together with IV and CY but now CY isn't as interested in Rico. This puts a strain on IV and CY’s relationship because IV, put bluntly, needs the money. CY and IV start to break apart.

This is so hard to follow I can hardly follow it and I lived it. :(

The rumor about the $500 blows up to $5000 that she got from Scott. And now the story turns into that CY slept with Scott for $5000. This gets back to Rico and of course he gets mad at Scott for sleeping with one of his girls. Now Scott and Rico are fighting. Both IV and Rico are convinced that the rumor is true.

By this time Scott is dating one of IV’s good friends, VS. This pissed IV off because she hates Scott for allegedly sleeping with her girlfriend but now has to hear about him all the time from VS.

The story balloons into a huge mess that continues to this day. This weeks episode of IV, CY, Scott and Rico involves kidnapping, rehab and murder for hire schemes.

All this started with a little loan of $500 from one long-time friend to another.

SportsWriter2
03-24-2005, 02:59 PM
The rumor about the $500 blows up to $5000 that she got from Scott. And now the story turns into that CY slept with Scott for $5000. This gets back to Rico and of course he gets mad at Scott for sleeping with one of his girls. Now Scott and Rico are fighting.
This is Core Drama. You can substitute cocaine, new boobs, BMW lease up-front payment, whatever for the $5000. It's a game called Make Your Own Soap Opera. ::)

Why can't guys just get along? Like in the movie Internal Affairs, where a guy catches Richard Gere with his wife, and Gere tells him she's nothing but a slut, so shoot her, and that's what the guy does.

Element
04-19-2005, 10:55 AM
I was going to put this is TR but I believe it belongs in this thread considering the amount of drama in evolved.

This story goes back to over a year ago. I started getting off work around 2 to 3 in the afternoon.
And started going to my club right after work.
There was a new girl there she was very young only 19 at the time.
She comes up to and simply asked if I wanted a dance I said sure she seemed to be motioning me to the LD area.
So I said wouldn’t you like to talk first she tells me no.
Then slowly walks off I wasn’t expecting to see again but 20 minutes late she comes up and slumps down in the seat next to me.

Me. So I take it your not into idol chat?
All call her miss S
Miss S. Umm no
She was a sweet girl but very shy. We talk for about 2 song lengths then I ask her if she is ready for that dance of course she agrees.
She wasn’t that bad for a new girl I get 2 dances from her then we go are separate ways.

I come again about a week later she is still there but she was wearing a wig. I get some more dances from her then I then I go talk my current favorite at the time.
All call her J.

I come back about 3 days later there she was again still wearing the wig J comes over to me.
So I ask her what’s up with S and her wigs she starts whispering.
It turns she had borrowed some hair jell from one of the black girls they have much thicker hair then the white girls.
And it literally burned all of her hair off I really felt sorry for her.

I’m coming in off and on over the next month still having casual conversations with S it wasn’t easy getting her to talk but when she did I enjoyed her company.
Then one day I come in and for the first time in over a month she isn’t wearing the wig.

She had about an inch or two of hair it looked a bit odd but you had to admire her courage.
I tried not to stair but sometimes couldn’t help my self.
She was wearing a beautiful blue dress I thought she looked great despite the short hair.

I come to the club twice over the next two weeks and didn’t see S both times.
Then I come in and there are only about 5 girls working that day there’s usably between 15 to 25 girls working at one time.
I go up to one of the girls that I occasionally get dances from and ask her where are the other girls she pause for a moment then tells me she not sure just that a lot of girls called in that day.
I just finish my beer and leave.
I come the very next day and I sit down and J comes up and sits at my table I tell that I dropped by the day before.
She was looking a little nervous and then asks me how many girls showed yesterday I so I tell her only 5 girls.
She leans over and starts whispering do you know where they where I reply no.
They where at S’s funeral I was quite shocked I asked what happened after promising not to tell anyone.
She tells me S committed suicide about 2 weeks ago and her funeral was yesterday.
It turned out that the day I last saw her without her wig was the last day of her life she committed suicide that night.
I kept wondering if she had noticed me staring at her that day.
This is one of those SC stories that will stay with me for the rest my life.

SportsWriter2
04-19-2005, 11:28 AM
Element, that was clearly written and very well organized.

I've been to the funeral of a dancer who committed suicide. You have no idea how lonely and despondent some dancers are, even when they're very attractive. It's just human nature to wonder if there was something more you could have done.

You made her feel comfortable and got her to talk, so don't feel personally guilty about what happened.

NVJosh
04-19-2005, 12:07 PM
Yeah, Sporty's right. What she did to herself was ultimately her choice. You weren't responsible for her life or her behavior. While you could have done this, that or the other, so could she. And her choice was to stop dealing with the problems of life. You'll never know what finally put her over the edge. An alcoholic can't blame himself when another member goes drinking, even if its someone he's sponsoring. A compulsive gambler who starts gambling again can't blame it on an argument with his wife. A PL can't blame a stripper not making her rent on him not buying 5 more dances. We only control our own choices, not those of others and we need to be responsible for our own actions.

Element
04-22-2005, 10:39 AM
I heard she other problems but as Sporty said its human nature to wonder if there was something more you could have done.
I really miss her she was quite unique.

FBR
06-06-2005, 05:23 PM
Bummer...

Miss D had a falling out with the owner of my home club a few days ago and has decided to quit. It was a stupid deal involving another dancer whom the owner is banging. I have no reason to doubt her story and I can't blame her for leaving.

She has another club she's checking out and will probably start there this week or next. Thinking about getting "established" at another club makes me tired but OTOH Miss D is the only reason I club right now anyways. Hopefully, I'll get comfortable there and it will turn out to be a nice establishment.

I'm sure my visits to the "old" club will taper off a bit...from about twice a week now to maybe once a month or so in the future. I still like several of the dancers there and it's very convenient to my workplace. Plus, I just got a PM today from one of our dancer members who is planning to hit my club in July for a one week dancing visit. No way I will miss an opportunity to meet her ;D

FBR

SportsWriter2
06-06-2005, 07:52 PM
FBR, she'll appreciate you all the more if you make her feel special in her new club.

FBR
06-07-2005, 05:05 PM
SW, I'll defintely move my business to her new club with perhaps an occasional visit to the old one. Since we see each other OTC, I believe the transition will be smooth.

FBR

FBR
06-08-2005, 05:48 PM
Just a quick update (I'm not sure anyone cares but I can't resist posting)

Miss D called me today. She auditioned at the new club and was hired. Turns out several dancers from my "old" club are also working at the new club. If the "old" club owner finds out they are toast.

Miss D is working tomorrow afternoon so I'm going to visit and see if I like it. I hope I do but it's kind of tough to move out of one's comfort zone. We'll see.

FBR

afxturnip
06-10-2005, 09:04 AM
FBR, I emphathize. I don't adapt to change well, and boy I'd hate having to start over - at least you still have Miss D.

I went to a new club the other night that I hadn't been before and boy was I a fish out of water (well at least until I saw the one gal in the place that I knew).

And like you, I feel that having a good waitress is key to enjoyment at an establishment.

Good luck. Hopefully the social atmosphere may get better for you as more of the people get to know you. (but a curse on clubs/management that take a cut of dances!)

-afx

FBR
06-12-2005, 01:47 PM
AFX, thanks bud. I'm looking forward to moving into some sort of comfort zone. It truly is difficult after spending so much time at one club. I've received several requests from the gals at the "old" club to get my ass back there LOL Also, MeganS is making a stop for a week in July so I'll be there anyways, at least for her visit.

Miss D is working three days next week (supposedly) so we'll see. What I really need is a nice OTC :P but its the wrong time of the month for her.

FBR

SportsWriter2
06-12-2005, 01:59 PM
Also, MeganS is making a stop for a week in July so I'll be there anyways, at least for her visit.

And where is the MeganS tour going after that? :P

FBR
06-12-2005, 02:14 PM
And where is the MeganS tour going after that? :P

Sporty, Im not sure but I'll ask her ;D If I can get my money situated it could possibly be a mute point. She may return home financially sated ::) ;) Megan makes me spring serious hickory.

FBR

SportsWriter2
06-12-2005, 04:46 PM
Sporty, Im not sure but I'll ask her ;D If I can get my money situated it could possibly be a mute point.
Megan, I got my money situated. Come to Providence first and give my bud some time to do his IF thing. ;)

FBR
06-13-2005, 05:53 PM
Megan, I got my money situated. Come to Providence first and give my bud some time to do his IF thing. ;)

LMAO Sporty, Megan has to be thinkin damn lets play this shit for all its worth LOL

I figure its a win-win. If she hits Prov first then you have her all warmed up and ready. If Dayton first then she will know how to spell chump change and thus will head up east ;D

Seriously, its not often that Junkies get to meet pinkies. I have a separate bank envelope set aside for Megs. I already told Miss D that it was going to happen. Surprisingly, she was cool with it. Guess that why I wuvs her LOL

FBR

Susan Wayward
06-14-2005, 07:14 AM
Good for you, FBR--I hope you make that club worthwhile for her 'cause it sure isn't worthwhile by itself, and I only had to travel 60 miles!

FBR
07-06-2005, 03:31 PM
It's deja vous all over again.

I believe I posted in one of the other threads that Miss D has moved to a new club. There are already two other strippers from the old club now working there just since Ive started visiting. And the other day, surprisingly, I caught a glimpse of Miss M, who has been a fixture at the old club for years, picking up an application. (Aside: to be honest, I didnt realize dancers actually filled out applications :O ) Anyway, it looks like pretty soon, the new club will wind up being the old club transplanted 10 miles south.

Miss D is delighted with the whole situation. Before long, she will wind up being "Queen Bee" again just like the old days. Who says strippers aren't natural born politicians? In the meantime, I'll just sit back and enjoy the drama.

FBR

Richard_Head
07-06-2005, 05:13 PM
FBR, is that the club that your DJ 'friend' works at? What happened with her?

FBR
07-08-2005, 05:18 PM
FBR, is that the club that your DJ 'friend' works at? What happened with her?

RH, actually its a different club but it's only a mile or so away from DJ's old club.

As far as DJ goes, I really miss her. She's very pretty but beyond that she is bright, educated and a blast to hang out with. Unfortunately, some months back, I learned that I'm not a very good OTC juggler, in spite of what blah blah may have come out of my mouth. So I'm focused on one for better or worse.

FBR

SportsWriter2
07-13-2005, 04:47 AM
I could write a summary of this drama, but the serial posts from July 8 on have more flavor:



Really sad, because I always thought this was a friendly club.