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Shayden
01-26-2004, 05:30 PM
Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?



The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.

Shayden

Happy_Camper
01-26-2004, 05:41 PM
Are you kidding? Who could say no to you? Cant say I have had to tell anyone no, we just did it. I would not find that a turn off. If I 'had' to say no for some reason, I myself would feel like I am the inadequate one.

Moneywise
01-26-2004, 05:42 PM
I find that highly attractive. I once dated a woman that matched my high sex drive. We both held down jobs so we couldn't do it all day but we did it in the morning, around dinnertime, and again around midnight. We averaged 3x a day. On one Saturday we must have had sex 6 times. The only problem was she smoked the cheeb and at the time I was in the military and couldn't be around that. Otherwise, I was happier than a pea in a pod.

FBR
01-26-2004, 05:46 PM
Shayden sounds like those guys need to learn some variety. Hey, Im an old fucker and no longer a machine but if I intersperse oral with vaginal along the way I could possible do every two hours LOL

FBR

doc-catfish
01-26-2004, 05:51 PM
Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?

The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.

Shayden


Doc slowly recuperates after performing the heimlich maneuver on himself. Warning: Reading threads regarding sex from hot SCJ chicks while chewing on a meatball may be dangerous to a junkie's health!

Shayden, while the short answer to your question would be "Intimidating? Hell no!!" or "How many more are there more like you??", the more prolonged answer that such an important question deserves could be long, complicated and perhaps can only be answered in face to face chat, like say on a long cross country drive.
:mischievous:
When is that SCJ convention again guys? I just may have the solution to Miss Shayden's travel problems. I suppose I could always take emergency annual leave from work if neccesary.

electric_head
01-26-2004, 05:52 PM
LOL and I get the ole Damn! we just did it two weeks ago.

fishnet
01-26-2004, 06:05 PM
LOL and I get the ole Damn! we just did it two weeks ago.


LMAO!!! Spoken like a true married man. :D

sol_de_pr2
01-26-2004, 06:37 PM
Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?



The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.

Shayden
Where are you when I need you? :heartbeat:

Brel
01-26-2004, 06:54 PM
LOL and I get the ole Damn! we just did it two weeks ago.


Aaaaahhh...I remember the days of getting it every two weeks. What a utopia that was! ;)

And, no, Shayden, I wouldn't find your sexual drive a turn-off at all! As long as you approved of my drive to give you as much oral as I could before my tongue gives out.

SportsWriter2
01-26-2004, 06:59 PM
How do I feel about women with high sex drives? If they like to play rough, it's all good.... Shayden, there's a girl in your mirror who is BEAUTIFUL and HOT. You should definitely get into it with her when the two guys are spent.

big_daddy
01-26-2004, 08:33 PM
It can be a turn off in one way. If the guy don't think he can satisfy you it can be more than a turn off it could ruin the relationship. Men need to think were the "man". If the "man" can't satisfy his woman what good is he? Thats what he may think and this could hurt his sex drive.
There are a ton of ways to get around a mans or a womans lack of sex drive if they want to satisfy their mate. TOYS TOYS and more TOYS. Or ORAL ORAL and more ORAL. In the end everyones happy ;D.

Richard_Head
01-26-2004, 08:38 PM
Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?

No it's not a turn off, LOL do I really need to add more ::).

MeganS
01-27-2004, 08:04 AM
Shit Shayden, can I rent you out to my husband when I'm on the road? He's talking to me about sex every 5 freakin minutes! Then he tries to tackle me when I walk thru the door on Sunday after driving all day. My god, maybe I'm turning into a prude!

fishnet
01-27-2004, 09:11 AM
Then he tries to tackle me when I walk thru the door on Sunday after driving all day.


Speaking purely from a guy's point of view... can you blame him? LOL. I probably would too. ;)

Dreamer
01-27-2004, 10:17 AM
Are you kidding? Men love that. The thing they feel intimidated about is that they fear you are like that with all men and will not be exclusive to them.

Shayden
01-27-2004, 01:43 PM
Well my last boyfriend did confess that he was intimated because he thought he wouldn't satisfy me because I'm such a "freak-nasty" as he called me. But it seemed like I always wanted it way more than he did. He didn't like toys, and more often than not he would be tired or he'd sigh and be like "again?!?".

Am I just sleeping with the wrong guys? I told the ex that I had a high sex drive and he said don't worry I can keep up. This is how bad it was at times, I have seen an entire porn with him!

I am just like Megan's husband! It seemed like I was trying to jump him every 5 mins. And 6/10 times we did have sex but I felt like he shouldn't be saying no, I should be saying no.

I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

Shayden

FBR
01-27-2004, 04:54 PM
Shit Shayden, can I rent you out to my husband when I'm on the road? He's talking to me about sex every 5 freakin minutes! Then he tries to tackle me when I walk thru the door on Sunday after driving all day. My god, maybe I'm turning into a prude!


Megan, you are very hot and of course any man in his right mind would want to jump your bones as often as possible :P Having said that, maybe your hubby is starting to feel a little insecure about you starting to tour. Im sure you guys discussed it before hand and I bet he said No Problem but when faced with reality ones feelings can change. He probably doesnt realize hes being pesky. He probably justs wants as much of you as he can get. Was he like that before you made the Iowa trip? I didnt get the impression that he was but maybe Im wrong.

FBR

FBR
01-27-2004, 05:01 PM
I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

Shayden


Shayden, were all different with different sex drives. Ive known younger guys who are happy with once every couple weeks and older dudes that would like it once a day with a masturbation session in between. Different strokes as the saying goes.

If I were your man (hahaha in my wildest dreams) Id have to be creative..no way I could do it every five minutes LOL Id invest in some nice toys and other accessories. My goal would be to keep you satisfied recognizing that I wouldnt always be able to enjoy the grand finale myself. That would be OK with me though...I enjoy giving pleasure to a beautiful woman.

FBR

doc-catfish
01-27-2004, 05:34 PM
Well my last boyfriend did confess that he was intimated because he thought he wouldn't satisfy me because I'm such a "freak-nasty" as he called me. But it seemed like I always wanted it way more than he did. He didn't like toys, and more often than not he would be tired or he'd sigh and be like "again?!?".

Am I just sleeping with the wrong guys? I told the ex that I had a high sex drive and he said don't worry I can keep up. This is how bad it was at times, I have seen an entire porn with him!

Not knowing either you or your ex-boyfriends personally Shayden, I can't make any judgements here. I do know one's upbringing plays a great role in how open they are sexually.

Perhaps they felt some anxiety that they would lose you to a less inhibited guy because they weren't as comfortable about sex as you were. Some of us have more inhibitions than others, and we all need to adjust what we are comfortable with at our own pace. I'm certainly more willing to try things now than I was when I was your age when I clearly had more opportunities for sex available.


I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

If you're concerned that something is wrong with you, don't be. Your hormones are raging and its perfectly healthy. A lot of men, who know a good thing when they see it, would be plenty comfortable dating a gal with your sexual appetite. I'm sure that you'll bump into more of them as you get older.

lestat1
01-27-2004, 07:05 PM
I am just like Megan's husband! It seemed like I was trying to jump him every 5 mins. And 6/10 times we did have sex but I felt like he shouldn't be saying no, I should be saying no.

I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

Shayden


I don't think either partner should ever tell the other "no" (exceptions for illness are allowed). There are always tongues and toys; pleasing your partner in the bedroom shoudl be job #1 in a relationship.

velvet
01-27-2004, 07:45 PM
i've fallen in that trap before. meaning i wanted it so much and asked for it so much it became a "chore" i kid you not. i bugged 3 diffrent people so much it did in fact turn them off! i know better now or maybe i just have someone that can keep up with me... hehe

CaptainOblivious
01-28-2004, 06:07 PM
Wow, when I read the message my first reaction was that it HAD to be a troll. Then I looked back at the author and had to do a double take. Shayden's boyfriend is complaining that she wants sex too much?!? SHAYDEN'S boyfriend?!?

Ok, shock over, I actually have some thoughts about this. First off, sure - everybody's sex drive is different. With guys your age, though, the vast majority of them would be happy to get laid 3 or more times a day. Us old farts don't have quite the *ahem* resiliency we used to have, but even we're usually good for pretty frequent playtime. But those are generalities, and maybe you found two guys who are in the low range of sex drives.

There might be other explanations, though. Maybe both these guys are control freaks who need to initiate everything sexual, and as soon as you try to initiate something that turns them off. If that were the case, the only solution I can think of (other than letting the next guy - I'm sure there's a line - have a try at being the boyfriend and see if he handles it better) is to work really hard at being extremely subtle when you come on to him. Maybe there's a particular part of you that he can't resist - tease him by making sure he gets a good eyeful of it (accidentally, of course) until he makes a move. The general idea being that HE thinks initiating sex is his idea, while you know you seduced him into it.

I'm assuming, here, that you want to keep this relationship enough to be willing to work at that. If that isn't the case, and you were just wondering if you were "weird" or something, the answer is "hell, no!" On the scale of 1 to 10, if you had guys rate their fantasies, a hot girlfriend who absolutely loves sex, and lots of it, would get about a 9999999999.

Katrine
02-05-2004, 01:29 PM
I don't think either partner should ever tell the other "no" (exceptions for illness are allowed). There are always tongues and toys; pleasing your partner in the bedroom shoudl be job #1 in a relationship.

........And thus spoke the virgin.... :-\

Hehehe...you boyz are fun, sorry to get on your case 'Stat, but that is a pretty unrealistic ultimatum. Honestly, when your lady is oozing blood, yeast, bacterial vaginosis, or is just plain sore from too much :puckerup: ...NO will sound like a better idea...meow!

BigRed1970
02-05-2004, 05:38 PM
heh, I guess it depends on who your partner is, but if I was with a sexually charged woman.... I would do anything I could to please her.... after all I would be in a relationship because I liked her, so I would try to satisfiy her as best I could, and that means non sexual requests to.... I can understand her need to be held after a bad day at work or whatever. somtimes being a good partner means more than just being able to rock her world.... ;)

lestat1
02-05-2004, 06:53 PM
I don't think either partner should ever tell the other "no" (exceptions for illness are allowed). There are always tongues and toys; pleasing your partner in the bedroom shoudl be job #1 in a relationship.

........And thus spoke the virgin.... :-\

Hehehe...you boyz are fun, sorry to get on your case 'Stat, but that is a pretty unrealistic ultimatum. Honestly, when your lady is oozing blood, yeast, bacterial vaginosis, or is just plain sore from too much :puckerup: ...NO will sound like a better idea...meow!


Well duh! All of those things would fall under the category of "illness," as would a genuine headache.

Juliette_deSade
02-09-2004, 08:43 PM
From a sexually charged woman-

There truly were men who were turned off by my high sex drive. It has something to do with chemistry, I think. being "in sync". Skewed needs are a pain in the ass.

I am in a situation now with somebody. We think we have too much sex and are trying to cut back. Yunno, and maybe go to a movie. We forget and kick it.....next thing you know 4 hours have gone by. ;)

It varies from guy to guy. Four times a day is just fine with me.

Happy_Camper
02-09-2004, 09:37 PM
It varies from guy to guy. Four times a day is just fine with me.


You seem really nice and all, but I am not cutting back for you.... ;)

jenna2479
02-12-2004, 01:39 PM
I have the same problem. My S.O. is so busy we only do it every two weeks or so and it kills me. He says I'm not normal because I want it at least once a day. I think I'm compromising by telling him I'd settle for once a day. I'd never cheat on him, but sometimes I find myself fantasizing about every man that walks by me and it's very distracting. Now I know how guys feel!

jennymodel
02-15-2004, 10:36 PM
I would like more sex more often, but how do you keep from getting raw and sore? Am I more delicate or are there some secrets I should know about?

Shayden
02-17-2004, 12:50 PM
I'm not quite sure what the answer to your problem is because I don't hardly ever get raw and sore but I think that if you slap on a little lube it helps. That's what I've been advised to do from a good friend who has the problem.

Best Kind: Eros (personal preference)

Shayden

Katrine
02-18-2004, 01:49 AM
Jenny....I take Ibupuprofen for the soreness! Meow!

threlayer
03-02-2004, 07:55 PM
Katrine,
Maybe you can find ibuprofen cream and he can apply it with his (wrapped) tongue.

I do not think it wise to refuse your partner because you do not want to cum. With imagination (vital in an active relationship), there is always a way to please.

Remember, guys, keep your tongue muscles in shape; you never know when she wants to try serial orgasms.

BigGDJohnson
07-09-2004, 09:22 PM
My partner wants it all the time and I told her if she wakes up in the middle of the night, she can fuck me while I am sleeping if she wants. Eventually, I will wake up and join in.

She literally did just that one night, I woke up with her riding me cowgirl!

The higher her sex drive the better, because I want it at least once a day and will not complain for more.

polecat
07-10-2004, 05:27 PM
I love sexually charged AND promiscuous women.

Longer sessions versus multiple "quickies" throughout the day is preferrable... or both LOL. To me, the best sex is what transpires over 4+ hours of erotic play with lots of food play, party favors, VERY sensual exploration and extended passion between rounds of aggressive and totally exhausting sex... rinse and repeat until both are unconscious, then wake up after 1pm the next day. :)

I've been finding lots of women that insist upon the open thing but very few that are also game for full disclosure. For the few that have met both criteria.. it's incredibly arousing and great for developing the time together towards better pleasure for both. Sharing experiences is a wonderful thing for opening up sexually to each other and exploring things we've found with other partners. Best not to cross any lines though nor want to- time together is best for just for the two. Obviously, gotta play safe inside and outside, as well as get monthly tests and swap results.

The conservative or uptight guys that want a virgin or pure and chaste thing... or otherwise denounce sexually liberated women can go fuck themselves. They'll never know the deep and intense emotional bond of being at the core of someone else's actual inner being versus one that has centuries of societal baggage piled on top of it, polluting it.

Lastly, I heard an interesting statistic on the news today. Seems female infidelity in marriages has risen to 15% from 11% last year, while male infidelity remains constant at 22%. Go ladies, Go!!! LOL.

RCJ
07-12-2004, 02:36 AM
Lastly, I heard an interesting statistic on the news today. Seems female infidelity in marriages has risen to 15% from 11% last year, while male infidelity remains constant at 22%. Go ladies, Go!!! LOL.



I saw that statistic on the cover of a magazine last week as well, I could be mistaken about the magazine, but, I thought it was Newsweek.

Casual Observer
07-16-2004, 06:43 PM
It is for this reason that strippers are so appealing in a stereotypical fashion; the idea that they are in fact, highly driven individuals sexually is very attractive, especially to those of us equally driven.

Considering I've had one, just one relationship where there was relative parity in drive and desire (I cannot recall the number of times I've been called "oversexed" or "sexually addicted"), it's a depressing state of affairs for those of us that are looking for a highly driven woman.

Slut isn't a dirty word.

:D

Darren
07-16-2004, 08:37 PM
Slut isn't a dirty word.
:D


Nothing wrong with looking for someone with similar sexual tastes and appetite.

BigGDJohnson
07-23-2004, 11:47 PM
Open relationships are wonderful as well, because my girlfriend will meet girls and literally share them with me, and I have fulfilled her fantasies of two men at once before. One of the things I like is that she loves women and I like to watch her with another woman.

The reason that this works for us is that we both really get off on seeing each other enjoy themselves - I love to watch her cum, especially when she cums on me.

The fun never stops. Next week we are going to a professional who is going to teach her some new blowjob techniques at her request!

It just doesn't get any better than that.

tinkerbelle
01-14-2005, 07:04 PM
I guess the answer would be hell no coming from a guy on this site,Eh?LOL!jk..:P

CuriousJ
01-20-2005, 08:07 PM
Shayden , aggressive and sexy and wanting it all the time , is it hot in here or what ( what was the question }:D )

playstation
01-20-2005, 08:16 PM
um,hell no!...the higher the better!..my sex drive is off the chart!

VADEN
01-23-2005, 03:42 PM
Shayden, I have one of the highest sex drives than anyone I know. I am constantly "in the mood". I have a problem also finding a man to keep up with me. I am worse than some men I know. I am just a very sensual, exotic, sexual, intimate individual.... }:D

doc-catfish
01-23-2005, 04:51 PM
Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?

The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.


Shayden, I have one of the highest sex drives than anyone I know. I am constantly "in the mood". I have a problem also finding a man to keep up with me. I am worse than some men I know. I am just a very sensual, exotic, sexual, intimate individual.... }:D

:thinking: Hmm, Shayden and Vaden and....

Oh never mind. That would never happen (to me anyways) although a double dance would be a nice consolation prize.
:P

merely_lurking
01-27-2005, 09:06 PM
If I have already orgasmed twice and the woman I'm with wants to fuck some more, I can still maybe get it hard but I'm tired and it's not much fun and I start to feel like a male prostitute or something.

CuriousJ
01-28-2005, 09:09 PM
Shayden, I have one of the highest sex drives than anyone I know. I am constantly "in the mood". I have a problem also finding a man to keep up with me. I am worse than some men I know. I am just a very sensual, exotic, sexual, intimate individual.... }:D
I can believe this it would be great for a spell but man to just be able to do the energizer bunny mode all the time that would be a bitch , even porn stars get tired of fucking.

Sh0t
02-16-2005, 09:12 AM
My wife is one of these kind of women. It's great but I have to outsource the sex sometimes to top her off.

portlandmodest
07-05-2005, 01:36 AM
Sexually Charged Women = Sexually Abused Kids, in my experience.

Katrine
07-06-2005, 01:56 PM
Sexually Charged Women = Sexually Abused Kids, in my experience.

Wow, so I guess normal, well-adjusted, non-abused women lie there like sacks in bed waiting for it to be over???

Why does a woman have to be abused to have a high sex drive?

I already hate you portland. I hope you never ever have good sex again. Your hand doesn't count either.....>:(

SportsWriter2
07-06-2005, 05:16 PM
I already hate you portland. I hope you never ever have good sex again. Your hand doesn't count either.....>:(

OMG, Kat. If I ever say anything that offends you, PM me and give me a chance to delete it. At least spare my hand. :O

Bryon53067
07-08-2005, 01:25 AM
I like that,I can't find 1 that wants it as much as me.


;)