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Isis
03-28-2004, 11:31 AM
What do u think..... why BUY sex ?

Richard_Head
03-28-2004, 12:21 PM
Top 10 reasons to pay for sex:

10-Because you can.
9-Not getting it anywhere else.
8-Bottom line, any sex, payed for or not, is still sex.
7-It's easy to find.
6-Because you can.
5-S/O is not putting out, won't do things you want to do.
4-It's new and exciting.
3-No committment.
2-Because you can.

Drum roll please.

1-It's cheaper than "free" sex.

sander8son
03-28-2004, 02:33 PM
maybe because its easier and more gauranteed than going out and trying to get laid then just coming home depressed and disapointed. or maybe its your only real option. i agree with your question were it posed to a girl who is average looking or better(basically 75% of woman), but its a lot harder for a guy to get laid.

sol_de_pr2
03-28-2004, 04:34 PM
It sure beats masturbation ;D

mr_punk
03-28-2004, 06:53 PM
Top 10 reasons to pay for sex:
10-Because you can.
9-Not getting it anywhere else.
8-Bottom line, any sex, payed for or not, is still sex.
7-It's easy to find.
6-Because you can.
5-S/O is not putting out, won't do things you want to do.
4-It's new and exciting.
3-No committment.
2-Because you can.
Drum roll please.
1-It's cheaper than "free" sex.here's one more.

she does all the work. so, you don't have to work so hard. (http://img.tapuz.co.il/forums/20354349.htm)can you say asian cowgirl? :)

Chuck149
03-28-2004, 06:57 PM
LMAO Mr P :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

SportsWriter2
03-28-2004, 07:27 PM
Oh yeah, Mr P, they even roll you over when they're done with your butt. :P No effort at all. Why don't American girls think like that?

yoda57us
03-29-2004, 05:38 PM
lol, Sporty,if they did I might buy a dance from one once in a while...

FBR
03-29-2004, 05:53 PM
Its a way to get variety without emotional involvement.

FBR

Isis
03-29-2004, 06:25 PM
can we all agree that it is a common stereotype that guys who buy sex do so b/c they can't get it any other way ?

If u agree that is the most common stereotype:

how true do u think it is on a scale of 1- 10 :thinking:

I'd say a 7- is that a high estimate ?
:listen:

lestat1
03-29-2004, 08:01 PM
If u agree that is the most common stereotype:

how true do u think it is on a scale of 1- 10 :thinking:

I'd say a 7- is that a high estimate ?
:listen:


I'd say an 8 or a 9.

sander8son
03-29-2004, 08:05 PM
some guys its their only option(well, save drugging a girl and raping her). others its the only way they can get a girl "that hot." still more its much easier (we're talking making huge life changes) than trying. some guys like myself can get laid without paying, but im lazy. i dont pay for it, so i just never get laid.

polecat
03-29-2004, 10:25 PM
can we all agree that it is a common stereotype that guys who buy sex do so b/c they can't get it any other way ?

If u agree that is the most common stereotype:

how true do u think it is on a scale of 1- 10 :thinking:

I'd say a 7- is that a high estimate ?

No idea how this applies to extras in a stripclub environment, but if you talk to most escorts, they would likely say your rating is absurdly high.

Escorts have always reported that the overwhelming majority of their clients are married men. (polls on escort forums by women suggest 75-80% or higher). I would think this trend would suggest their customers can indeed get sex elsewhere, but they just prefer whatever it is about "cheating"..

mr_punk
03-30-2004, 05:48 PM
<snicker> :) you&#039;re probably asking the wrong group of people. there are only a few whoremongers on this board. you know, i&#039;ve seen posts from strippers talking about the escort business and judging from accuracy of the posts. it looked like their info was gathered from the tv show "cops". much like here, it&#039;s was a case of the blind leading the blind.

mr_punk
03-31-2004, 06:17 PM
same here. i&#039;ve heard the horror stories....married guys waiting as long as 2 years :crazy: , 5 years :scared:, 10 years :shocking: before they decided to take the plunge.

FBR
04-01-2004, 06:50 PM
Guess this is the reason I do it. Refer to my post of 4/1/04

http://www.stripclubjunkie.com/forum/index.php/yabbse/t1342-15.htm?boardseen=1&PHPSESSID=e87a33599523d47f17f83e3a96d7d9f8

FBR

X
04-04-2004, 10:19 AM
if a marriage goes a year+ without sex, the divorce papers should be filed. But yeah, I can see escorts functioning as duct-tape on a sinkin ship.


With my ex, the longest was about 2 months....seeing my ATF was the only thing that kept me sane.

Katrine
04-05-2004, 02:40 AM
My 3 or 4 pay guys were married and regularly getting sex, from what they told me. Once guy was single, and actually tried to date me afterwards. He is currently my chiropractor and gives me free adjustments, I am sure he did not have too much trouble getting laid most of the time....

Still, you usually need a sample size of 30 + for statistically significant data, so I can&#039;t really give expert advice on the pay for sex thing......

coolshot
04-06-2004, 12:46 AM
boo statistics if sample size is small(less than 30) u can use "z" instead to "t" right? whatever as long as i dont have to do standard diviation.

I never have paid for sex with anyone but thought about.anyone that looked like i wanted to bang on their ads or whatever is like 400+ an hr so thats too much for too little. I guess i gotta do the hard way by paying with my time,money over time and.... sanity of course in a marrage to get laid someday lol.

Susan Wayward
04-06-2004, 07:51 AM
I always thought men didn&#039;t pay for the sex, they paid for her to leave afterwards ;).

mr_punk
04-07-2004, 06:08 PM
taken from another board.



Review: My Wife

Services Offered: Very few, if any
Massage: Never
Cum in Mouth: You&#039;re kidding, right?
Sex: Only if she really wants something
Lick Pussy: Yea, right
Blow Job: If I am very lucky and then no CIM
Anal: Hahahahaha!!
Touch Pussy: Only if she&#039;s asleep
No-Rush Session: Yes, only if under 2 minutes
Kiss: Only if she wants something
Multiple Pops: Not in my lifetime!


The General Details:
The years have been less than kind to her. Her once firm "killer B" breasts are now sagging, her once lithe and supple body is still carrying quite a bit of after baby-fat despite it being more than 12 years ago, her long, flowing auburn hair is now short and gray and her cute little button ass,...well, let&#039;s just say that there is a hell of a lot more of it than there ever was before.

Came home from the salt mines, ate dinner and then briefly watched some TV before she indicated it was bedtime. I went into the bedroom where I saw that she had changed into her....(Caution: only the brave can read further...)


The Juicy Details:
...long flannel nightgown with white socks on her feet. She had already taken all of the money out of my wallet and indicated that she needed much more. With the formalities out of the way, I disrobed and jumped into bed nuzzling her neck to which she said, "I guess you want some tonight?" I answered affirmatively to which she started to whine and commenced a lazy, dry HJ. I attempted to find my way through her unshaven, hairy puss for some DATY to which she said, "Don&#039;t lift the covers, it is too cold out there". She then stayed with her HJ for a few minutes before deciding I was hard enough to start with some "let me just lay there" mish. I wanted some doggie and tried to roll her over but she wouldn&#039;t have any of it, saying," Oh no way, you are not getting kinky on me tonight!" So, I decided to stay with mish and was able to pop before she said "Aren&#039;t you done yet?" I try desperately not to repeat, but I just can&#039;t help myself!!

LauraLove
04-07-2004, 08:42 PM
The above "review" sounds like a woman who has stupidly stayed with a man who treats her like crap everyday.

Men who treat women with love and respect don&#039;t get that kind of sex from their partners. When men share understanding and friendship with their partners the review looks more like this:

Review: My Wife or Girlfriend

Services Offered: Most of the Kama Sutra
Massage: Often
Cum in Mouth: Please
Sex: several times a week
Lick Pussy: YES PLEASE
Blow Job: But ofcourse
Anal: Maybe- we&#039;ll try it and find out
Touch Pussy: sure with fingers and toys too if you want!
No-Rush Session: Yes, several times a month a MUST
Kiss: many many many- everyday !
Multiple Pops: at least once a week

If your wife /girlfriends review sounds more like Mr. Punks than the one I listed then you are probably a pretty crappy husband or boyfriend.:whistleblower:

danhunt
04-07-2004, 09:01 PM
O-Kay ::)

Dr. Laura has invaded our little corner of heaven and unreality. Apparently, you have&#039;nt heard that the MOST expensive sex, is supposedly free sex.

Punk is right about his description, right down to the white socks. He is not a bad husband. All he really wants is to be respected by his wife.

BTW we go to SC&#039;s to feel good about ourselves. I know you think we go to the clubs to see you undress and dance, and that&#039;s partly the case. However, its mostly about talking to beautiful women, no commitments, relaxation and TO GET OUT OF THE FLIPPIN&#039; HOUSE.

"get over it!"
Don Henley-The Eagles

mr_punk
04-07-2004, 09:27 PM
If your wife /girlfriends review sounds more like Mr. Punks than the one I listed then you are probably a pretty crappy husband or boyfriend



taken from another board.you must have missed this part. <sigh> :no:

LauraLove
04-07-2004, 10:14 PM
O-Kay ::)

Dr. Laura has invaded our little corner of heaven and unreality. Apparently, you have&#039;nt heard that the MOST expensive sex, is supposedly free sex.

Punk is right about his description, right down to the white socks. He is not a bad husband. All he really wants is to be respected by his wife.


Dr. Laura- LOL! Good one ! ;D

I agree GOOD free sex is expensive. It costs time, energy, understanding and humor ;)

If a man gives his partner that then his wife/girlfriend&#039;s report card is in the top 10% otherwise it looks more like the one Punk descibed, sorry but it&#039;s true guys

big_daddy
04-13-2004, 08:01 PM
Is it bad to pay for sex to have a 3 some with another woman for you and your wife? Yes Dr LauraLove my wife wants to play to! ;D

BigRed1970
05-01-2004, 07:40 PM
Is it bad to pay for sex to have a 3 some with another woman for you and your wife? Yes Dr LauraLove my wife wants to play to! ;D
first of all, I will admit that I have paid for sex on more than one occation, for me I had a really lousy socal life in highschool and am still suffering the afteraffects.... shit I lost my virginity at a club, when I was 31 (two years ago) I probably could get it for free if I wanted to but I have other issues that would get in the way of a relationship..... (the main one is that I have never really been it one) so for me it is a way to satify the need to lay pipe.... without all the bagadge that I am not very well equipped to handle.... plus there is the novelty faction. and the fact that you will be with a woman that really knows what she is doing..... :-[,

the funny thing though is that i have never asked for sex.... for me, especally in a club, I am more than happy with a dance. but when a very sexy girl asks you if you want to go farther, (most of the time with goods in hand already) I just go with the flow....

have I felt gulty afterwords.... well no....like I said I am single... the only thing negative is that the money could have gone to somthing else.... as for the dancers.... I am friends with quite a few of them that I have gotten extras from, and some that I have never gotten anything else but a dance. and i have just gotten a dance from one that i have done more with befor... for me while sex is fun, I like the contact and interaction even more.... some times all I want to do is cuddle.... but the thing that is nice is that I can get that if that is all I want...

well that is enough of my rambling... anyway, the main reason I have paid for sex is that it is convient...

Rath
05-03-2004, 12:23 PM
"I pay her to leave" is a bit simplistic and insulting. But I think that, if you&#039;re married at least, you try to make sure there&#039;s a commercial component in your extramarital adventures so it&#039;s clear to all parties that there are limits on your "relationship", that certain types of commitments aren&#039;t gonna be made and certain lines aren&#039;t gonna be crossed. I&#039;d imagine both sides would like that.

Connor
05-03-2004, 05:17 PM
two main reasons are probably the most obvious. Lack of complications or strings and second, getting something you want that you might not get elsewhere. IE fetishes.

Also there are no games involved. The guy knows why he is there and the provider knows why she is there. All up front.

For some it&#039;s a hobby, like collecting baseball cards. (check out a site called The Erotic Review)

Richard_Head
05-03-2004, 07:33 PM
Is it bad to pay for sex to have a 3 some with another woman for you and your wife? Yes Dr LauraLove my wife wants to play to! ;D

Sounds fun, go for it.

FBR
05-03-2004, 07:55 PM
I havent had a private with Miss D for over three weeks. I need a "friendly reminder" :P

FBR

BigGDJohnson
07-09-2004, 09:06 PM
As the saying goes, "You don&#039;t pay for the sex, you pay for her to leave afterwards."

sgtjohnny
07-17-2004, 08:41 PM
I do because I cannot it elsewhere as well. Also, I enjoy giving Money to Women. When I pay I ask her to remind me that I am paying by asking her to hold the money. I find it exciting. If she does it good then I feel happy. btw. I only met a few Women who can do this correctly.

RCJ
07-19-2004, 07:07 AM
When I pay I ask her to remind me that I am paying by asking her to hold the money. I find it exciting. If she does it good then I feel happy. btw. I only met a few Women who can do this correctly.


Now that is an interesting fetish! So let me get this straight, she(the woman) is holding the cash in her hands while you bounce on eachother?

Gee, I&#039;m getting wood just thinking about it! ::)

big_daddy
07-20-2004, 08:36 PM
I just got done watching Monster....I don&#039;t think I will be buying sex for a long time!!!!!!!!!!!

sgtjohnny
07-24-2004, 12:11 AM
Anyone know where I can pay for it around here? I am not getting anywhere else?

Dont give me a bunch of crap links :&#039;(

bj
07-25-2004, 08:13 PM
It sure beats masturbation ;D



Think of it as masturbation with a hired hand :)

big_daddy
07-29-2004, 01:58 PM
It sure beats masturbation ;D



Think of it as masturbation with a hired hand :)

hahahahahahahahahaha!!

GnBeret
10-24-2004, 11:19 PM
If it Flies, Floats or Fucks... RENT IT!}:D

bj
11-28-2004, 08:17 PM
It sure beats masturbation ;D

I think of it as masturbation with a hired hand ;D

cc1111
12-13-2004, 04:42 PM
I don't know about others, but when I pay for sex it is because it is the safest way to enjoy the variety I have always craved. I get sex at home, and it is good sex. We try to mix it up -- but there is nothing like exploring a new person. I've tried escorts -- but the most success has been with strippers that I have met that enjoyed a mutually beneficial relationship.

Zaijann
03-07-2005, 02:22 PM
Quick response to this.

1)Its cheaper
2)No commitment
3)You get exactly what you want

There are alot of men that are so burnt out by relationships that they dont want the relationship part anymore, just the raw sex satisfaction.

They dont want someone there the next day to tell them how wrong they are, what they did wrong in the past and how they will undoubtably will fuck up in the future.

just my 2 cents

mark45y
03-07-2005, 04:46 PM
My best friend in High School and college had acne bad and he wore big thick glasses.

He went to college and got a masters in cinematography and got a gig making movies for the council of churches in Europe. He fell in love with a hooker he met in Paris. He was in love but he paid her every day. She would not take the money at the end of the week or month but every day. My friend and I both got drafted and served for almost two years in a combat zone. He was always faithful to his French hooker and sent her money monthly. The prostitutes were readily available where we were but he stayed true to his love. When he got out of the army he went back to Paris to find his love. She was walking the streets when he found her. It almost killed him and then she dumped him. He was a pretty ugly guy. It almost destroyed his mind. He didn’t marry until he was 40 or 45. Everyone reading this has seen his movies. He is not a dummy nor is he untalented. Now a jet setter he flies around the world and does his thing. He paid for sex because he fell in love with a sex worker. I wonder how many men feel the same way about their ATF's?

Sh0t
03-23-2005, 08:30 AM
Convenience I suppose.

It probably also ends up being cheaper in the long run for SOME guys.

In addition, many men simply have no chance at getting sex through dating. Some are handicapped, ugly, brutally shy, or have other problems. For these people, the availability of prostitution is akin to having access to good medicine.

Those who wish to ban prostitution are heartless.

LilSweetVixen
03-29-2005, 12:34 PM
gee THAT was nice. well you guys can thank him ^^ for driving cute looking, nice girls away from the escort business out of fear of getting hustled like that.

Sh0t
03-29-2005, 04:13 PM
No shortage of them, so no worries

LilSweetVixen
03-31-2005, 01:33 AM
That comment wasn't even directed at you./:O Whoever posted that comment has deleted it. It was a comment about getting services and then bailing out before paying. It's a rude move. And yes there's an ample supply of them but the potentially better ones stay away for that very reason.

SportsWriter2
03-31-2005, 07:29 AM
That comment wasn't even directed at you./:O Whoever posted that comment has deleted it. It was a comment about getting services and then bailing out before paying. It's a rude move. And yes there's an ample supply of them but the potentially better ones stay away for that very reason.

LSV, guys always pay in cash. He paid her, but when she asked for an additional big loan, he said his checkbook was in his car, and left to avoid dealing with her. They start to plead and cry. It's a real downer that negates all the fun you just had. :-[

Nicolina
03-31-2005, 01:20 PM
In addition, many men simply have no chance at getting sex through dating. Some are handicapped, ugly, brutally shy, or have other problems. For these people, the availability of prostitution is akin to having access to good medicine.


I believe this is true, Shot. Interesting how it's really only readily available to men who have these issues. Is it solely an issue of demand? (I kind of doubt that...) It seems a little unfair.

Jenny
03-31-2005, 08:24 PM
Actually this is entirely untrue - although paying for sex is the simplest, easiest quickest way for ANYONE to have sex, nobody is too ugly to get a girlfriend - and I'm sure I don't have to say that nobody is too handicapped. (Shaw actually said this when talking about Pygmalion - that the really interesting attractive people are always single, and that nobody was too ugly or unpleasant to get married).
There is not enough business in my town to support even one agency of male "escorts" for women - maybe to support a few indies. As to why -- I don't know. Maybe it's self-projecting, and because there aren't really readily available services, people aren't taking advantage of the services? Or we could go the more traditional social route and say that for women, not being able to "procure" is, socially speaking, much more a failure than men. Regardless of how wrong the idea that "all ANY woman, no matter who she is, has to do to have sex is, more or less, demand it from strangers" is, it is still prevelant, and those women who, in fact, CAN'T do this then have to imagine exactly what she IS in that case - and having to share that failure with a stranger would be pretty harsh. My two small ideas.