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yoda57us
01-26-2011, 08:06 PM
Well, from what she said she is eager for more but that could have been a thing of the moment. So I don't know.

FBR


Sometimes a lady will have second thoughts about the whole P4P thing after she actually does it. I wouldn't hesitate to ask her about getting together again if it's something you want. If she is on the fence she will be encouraged by the fact that you enjoyed the experience and want to do it again.

Keeping in mind of course that free advice (lol, especially from me!) is plentiful around here and worth exactly what you pay for it...

Chili Palmer
01-26-2011, 09:40 PM
As Lee Corso would say, "Not so fast, my friend."

You build us up and tease us with tales of debauchery to follow, and then *POOF* nothing? FBR, you have officially become one of those dancers who promises "extra naughty" dances in the VIP room, then won't let you touch the merchandise.

It is a sad, sad day here in the basement. I feel so, so...used.

CP

(Btw, I'm very happy you finally conquered your Everest. It seems it's always worth the wait.)

racejeff
01-27-2011, 06:35 PM
I also was surprised by the sudden change but the explanation made sense. After all this time glad you two made the move. And, I will admit curious.

FBR
01-27-2011, 08:40 PM
yoda gave me absolution but I may report anyway. I have Blue genes and feel the need.

As a teaser, (nod to CP) the condom was too small (Lifestyle brand instead of what I requested) and the penetration was not deep enough due to her tightness. She laughed and said that it had been so long she was "re-virgined" LOL. We both got off fine but it was curious. Lesson learned that next time if it happens I will need to be more in charge.

FBR

yoda57us
01-27-2011, 10:01 PM
Magnums (wish I had that problem) and lube is your friends...

FBR
01-29-2011, 11:52 AM
Magnums (wish I had that problem) and lube is your friends... Even though I asked for magnums I am not sure I qualify. I was just concerned that I was half covered at best. Maybe that is normal for condoms.

As far as the penetration goes, if there is a next time I am going to push for a position that allows deeper penetration. Since this was our first time (I was nervous, she less so) we just added on to our previous lotion fun...her comfortably lying on the bed and me giving her a lotion massage and ultimately the partial penetration during what I perceived as the throws of passion. The angle was not that great even though she helped me enter her. What might work better is CG or RCG with me on the bottom.

FBR

yoda57us
01-31-2011, 06:13 PM
As far as the penetration goes, if there is a next time I am going to push for a position that allows deeper penetration. ...What might work better is CG or RCG with me on the bottom.


Yes! Gravity is also your friend! I will reiterate the lube suggestion as well. Even if she is naturally wet a little lube just makes things fit easier. Rubber-on-skin is just not as easy to do as skin-on-skin...

miabella
02-02-2011, 12:31 AM
(lambskin works *really* well if trust is established with the lady)

KS_Stevia
02-02-2011, 07:42 AM
OMG, people, stop using Magnums. They suck, the latex in Trojan brand is irritating, and men tend to overshoot their size and they don't fit correctly.

I like Durex or the non-latex polyurethene condoms.

Something else to consider FBR. Did you attempt intercourse before or after lotion fun? I say, get her off first w lotion fun, then get yourself off w penetration. a post-orgasm vagina is usually more lubricated, and its easier for her to relax her "tightness".

Casual Observer
02-02-2011, 07:53 AM
I like Durex or the non-latex polyurethene condoms.



Preach it, sister!

Polyurethane condoms are thinner and fit better without contstricting.

yoda57us
02-02-2011, 02:59 PM
Something else to consider FBR. Did you attempt intercourse before or after lotion fun? I say, get her off first w lotion fun, then get yourself off w penetration. a post-orgasm vagina is usually more lubricated, and its easier for her to relax her "tightness".

I have to agree. Penetration is much easier after a O or two is achieved orally...

Yeah, Trojans suck, Durex all the way!

FBR
02-02-2011, 06:12 PM
Something else to consider FBR. Did you attempt intercourse before or after lotion fun? I say, get her off first w lotion fun, then get yourself off w penetration. a post-orgasm vagina is usually more lubricated, and its easier for her to relax her "tightness". Kat, I admit to being a little unclear. I had myself pretty worked up. You know the 5+ years history.

FBR

KS_Stevia
02-02-2011, 06:19 PM
Kat, I admit to being a little unclear. I had myself pretty worked up. You know the 5+ years history.

FBR

What is "unclear"? I am not understanding its meaning in this context

FBR
02-03-2011, 07:41 PM
What is "unclear"? I am not understanding its meaning in this context What I meant was that I was fuzzy brained when this was going on and lost my skilz. I apologize for being unclear about being unclear.

FBR

FBR
02-03-2011, 07:53 PM
Addendum:

Let me go on to say that Miss D is not backing off. She has contacted me for more. Most likely it is the money opportunity but on the other hand I recall her telling me that her ex was a needle dick and was lucky to get her off once.

FBR

yoda57us
02-03-2011, 10:12 PM
Addendum:

Let me go on to say that Miss D is not backing off. She has contacted me for more. Most likely it is the money opportunity but on the other hand I recall her telling me that her ex was a needle dick and was lucky to get her off once.

FBR

The great thing about a good P4P relationship is that it can be about both the money and the sex for the lady involved. It doesn't mean you will ever have the sex without the money but that's really not such a big deal.

Casual Observer
02-04-2011, 04:53 AM
The great thing about a good P4P relationship is that it can be about both the money and the sex for the lady involved. It doesn't mean you will ever have the sex without the money but that's really not such a big deal.

Agreed.

Money is a social lubricant, even in otherwise professional situations.

Elusive21
03-19-2011, 11:30 PM
I know I'm supposed to disagree with all of this, but some of these stories have made me feel intrigued and a little bit turned on.

yoda57us
03-29-2011, 11:51 AM
I know I'm supposed to disagree with all of this, but some of these stories have made me feel intrigued and a little bit turned on.


Nothing wrong with that! It's just some good clean grown-up fun!}:D

FBR
04-02-2011, 11:12 AM
^ Agree sir. Elusive, you are welcome here any time just so you know. By and large most of us enjoy a response from the dancer point of view.

Over the years, some folks (both pink and blue) have said more or less that the boys make stuff up. Not saying that never happens but even if it does some of those tales are enjoyable to read as recognizable fiction. But if you think about it why would a veteran here bother with tall tales? The vets have been equally open about success as well as flaming out in some situations. Some of the newbs jump in trying to impress but soon learn we have heard it all and can dissect the contradictions in the posts.

FBR

JoeUnCool
04-03-2011, 03:50 PM
^ Agree sir. Elusive, you are welcome here any time just so you know. By and large most of us enjoy a response from the dancer point of view.

Over the years, some folks (both pink and blue) have said more or less that the boys make stuff up. Not saying that never happens but even if it does some of those tales are enjoyable to read as recognizable fiction. But if you think about it why would a veteran here bother with tall tales? The vets have been equally open about success as well as flaming out in some situations. Some of the newbs jump in trying to impress but soon learn we have heard it all and can dissect the contradictions in the posts.

FBR

Interesting. I've never really thought about it, but why would someone lie here? Its not like we're buddies hanging out having a beer telling fishing/golf stories.

FBR
01-29-2012, 02:53 PM
I am turning down for 4 what I paid 7 for less not that long ago. Something wrong with that I admit. :(

FBR

rickdugan
01-29-2012, 03:07 PM
I am turning down for 4 what I paid 7 for less not that long ago. Something wrong with that I admit. :(

FBR

Everything is relative I suppose. What is worth 7 when flows are good may not be worth 4 when cash is tighter. Unless, of course, money is not the root issue, but I do remember you saying that your personal economics have changed.

It is good to see you back and posting btw - for a while I thought you had given up on this board.

rickdugan
08-09-2012, 03:50 PM
I just had one of the best OTC nights that I've ever experienced.

Now to set the table, this happened with a girl who I have had multiple ITC experiences with over the last couple of years and even a great 2 girl OTC adventure (with her real life GF at the time, little did I know), but never once did it occur to me to take her out to dinner and make a night of it. In fact, I normally avoid this type of activity in order to retain more flexibility, but this time I agreed and was happy that I did.

We started at the best steakhouse in town. Now I certainly could have gotten away with doing a lot less, but I thought that it would be a lot of fun the bring her there with me. And I was right. Throughout the meal, she was thoroughly entertaining and simply a pleasure to spend time with. Combine her company with a tremendous meal, then pour heavy amounts of alcohol in and stir, and one has all the makings of a great dinner trip.

After dinner and not wanting the night to end too quickly, I asked her to show me one of her favorite local watering holes. She was gracious enough to do so and more drinking and laughing ensued. If she was forcing it in any way, I certainly couldn't tell. She was an utter treat to spend time with.

She was even gracious enough to do the driving, since I was using hotel shuttles and taxis on this trip and had not planned for this type of event. Her car was beat-up and very old, with no air conditioning other than windows that rolled down - LOL. However, for me that just added to the laid back nature of the affair.

Finally, with bellies full of excellent food and strong booze, the fun continued in my hotel room. Now as I mentioned before, I've messed around with her ITC and even OTC as part of a 2 girl gig, but it was a lot of fun having this funny, gracious, and, of course, very sexy young lady alone in a very nice hotel bed. And she very much knew what she was doing, though she did make sure to let me know that she was getting hers before I got mine, which made the whole thing just that much hotter.

Wow, that was a lot of fun and I think that I just made a new friend in this city. ;)

Chili Palmer
01-20-2013, 09:22 PM
Six years and two months. On Tuesday the wait is finally over.

CP

yoda57us
01-21-2013, 10:12 AM
I admire your tenacity Chili....Enjoy!

juicebox69
06-08-2013, 03:59 AM
Damn good read

FBR
02-04-2017, 05:42 PM
Those were the days but I am happier now. Well, that could be disputed but I'm in the right place for my advanced age now :)

Golden_Rule
02-07-2017, 12:35 PM
Those were the days but I am happier now. Well, that could be disputed but I'm in the right place for my advanced age now :)

First off, as I said elsewhere, very good to see you about. Again well wishes and the hopes that all goes well with you.

As to the rest, Happiness is the holy grail. However you get there, the key is to get there. Age is a number until the knicks and pings of an interesting life add up and make it other than that. Candidly I plan on becoming the six-million dollar man before they plant me in the earth. Medical science is a marvelous thing, and improving all the time. :)

FBR
06-12-2017, 04:35 PM
First off, as I said elsewhere, very good to see you about. Again well wishes and the hopes that all goes well with you.

As to the rest, Happiness is the holy grail. However you get there, the key is to get there. Age is a number until the knicks and pings of an interesting life add up and make it other than that. Candidly I plan on becoming the six-million dollar man before they plant me in the earth. Medical science is a marvelous thing, and improving all the time. :)GR you knew the score from day one and I'm glad to see you still contributing :)