ironjocelyn
03-24-2005, 10:22 PM
Porn is a-ok with me, and I don't mind watching it together, it can be pretty fun actually. I even own a few DVDs myself.
However.
If he's spending a lot of time beating off to porn, I would probably get irritated and/or offended. What's a lot of time? I don't know. I guess if it took time away from us, or was a compulsive thing.
The other thing is the taste. I'm picky about what girls I consider hot, and when I see a boxcover with a truly fugly skank who looks like they plucked her out of the trailer she shared with her father/brother, I can't help but be a little disgusted. Pretty counterproductive to what porn is supposed to accomplish, but I have an ex who really disliked implants, so he bought from the all-natural and amateur (too new to have implants) lines. Holy shit ladies, there are some truly hideous, fugly girls fucking on camera. I am flabbergasted that anyone would buy some of these, nevermind someone I knew and was sexin' with. Even more flabbergasted he tried to get me to watch a couple of the really awful ones. I was like you must be out of your mind, if you have any sense you will put in some Jenna or Raylene and never mention this godawful other flick again.
Edited to add: content can be an issue. BSDM is no problem (might get bonus points, actually ;) ) but some of the really violent and/or degrading stuff would not be kosher to me. I'm NOT saying porn is general is degrading, that's bullshit and it pisses me off when the so-called feminists drag that old argument out, but there is stuff out there that is degrading in my eyes. Some of the stuff I've seen, if I ever saw in a guy's possession I would be skeeved to say the VERY least. I'm talking about stuff with cover copy like 'fucking whore cum-dumpsters get choked on cocks, take soda cans up their ass, get choked and have their heads stuck in a toilet and they love it because they are fucking sluts and want what they deserve!' Yes, I saw something pretty much like that. Honestly, the thought that this would bring someone to orgasm would be a dealbreaker to me. This ended up being long and kind of off-topic, I apologize.
However.
If he's spending a lot of time beating off to porn, I would probably get irritated and/or offended. What's a lot of time? I don't know. I guess if it took time away from us, or was a compulsive thing.
The other thing is the taste. I'm picky about what girls I consider hot, and when I see a boxcover with a truly fugly skank who looks like they plucked her out of the trailer she shared with her father/brother, I can't help but be a little disgusted. Pretty counterproductive to what porn is supposed to accomplish, but I have an ex who really disliked implants, so he bought from the all-natural and amateur (too new to have implants) lines. Holy shit ladies, there are some truly hideous, fugly girls fucking on camera. I am flabbergasted that anyone would buy some of these, nevermind someone I knew and was sexin' with. Even more flabbergasted he tried to get me to watch a couple of the really awful ones. I was like you must be out of your mind, if you have any sense you will put in some Jenna or Raylene and never mention this godawful other flick again.
Edited to add: content can be an issue. BSDM is no problem (might get bonus points, actually ;) ) but some of the really violent and/or degrading stuff would not be kosher to me. I'm NOT saying porn is general is degrading, that's bullshit and it pisses me off when the so-called feminists drag that old argument out, but there is stuff out there that is degrading in my eyes. Some of the stuff I've seen, if I ever saw in a guy's possession I would be skeeved to say the VERY least. I'm talking about stuff with cover copy like 'fucking whore cum-dumpsters get choked on cocks, take soda cans up their ass, get choked and have their heads stuck in a toilet and they love it because they are fucking sluts and want what they deserve!' Yes, I saw something pretty much like that. Honestly, the thought that this would bring someone to orgasm would be a dealbreaker to me. This ended up being long and kind of off-topic, I apologize.