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Djoser
03-13-2005, 10:40 PM
A beautiful, sexy woman who moves with style and grace, dresses well, and has an assured and irresistible manner of speaking will most definitely get hit on with great frequency wherever she goes.

But take that woman, have her strip off revealing costumes to the tiniest scraps of fabric imaginable onstage, and then make her available for serious grinding sessions in darkened alcoves. She will be hit on much, much more.

She will be asked out by geeks, fat guys, imbeciles, guys twice or three times her age, and all manner of totally unacceptable men, far more than she would if she was working at a Walmart. In a Walmart, most of these guys will know they don't have a chance in hell.

It is only human for these guys, maybe, who might let the environment and their fantasies carry them away. But it's certainly only human for a dancer to get a little tired of it, after say a couple of years or so.

Sure it's amusing and flattering and easily ignored during the first few months, and some dancers never have much trouble with ignoring it. But like a waitress who deals with rude, cheap, or annoying customers for a couple of years, some dancers have an understandable need to vent. It's possible that article was written by such a woman, but even if it wasn't, it is amusing to many dancers who have had to deal with some of this.

It really depends on your sense of humor.

cincyguy
03-13-2005, 11:14 PM
Lots of interesting thoughts in this thread. The underlying problem here is the very nature of the business. The dancers' job is to entice the customers, so they can make some money. If they're good at it (and most are) and keep it up long enough, the natural reaction from the guys is to be more and more attracted, until we lose our sense of reality. That's when the "asking out" thoughts kick in. It's almost like the dancers are too good at what they do.

I've never asked a dancer out myself, and I don't think I would, but I admit that the thought has crossed my mind. The irony is that I used to be like dancerlala's bf - I thought SCs were stupid, couldn't figure out why you'd pay for that. Then I started going a few times, then started buying some dances, and now I'm in the other camp. In some ways I wish I had stayed away and not lost my original attitude.

anonymous1
03-14-2005, 05:48 AM
6- When you are drunk in a strip club, then you are a liability to us. When you are drunk, you are retarded. If you get kicked out for slapping an ass or trying to put your disgusting mouth on a dancer, it's your own fault, and jsut because you are there to spend money(most of you aren't though) no amount of money is worth rubbing your disgusting little penis and having your uncontrolable putrid mouth fouling our skin.


"The post wasn't talking about licking and grabbing you. No one ever said that was ok, it only went off on guys who ask dancers out." SupportiveBF

Really? 'Cause "Rubbing your .... penis and putrid...mouth" sounds like touching and licking to me. Why should we have to accept it as part of the game? The guys know the rules, why can't they just follow them? You are not a stripper so how could you possibly know what it is like day after day? Just because your gf doesn't complain about it, doesn't mean that the rest of us don't have the right to.

SelenaValentine
03-15-2005, 01:32 PM
Strippers won't date you when you do all the wrong things. I dedicated my whole book to teaching guys the right way to go from customer to boyfriend instantly. I suggest you read up and reap the rewards! Even Howard Stern agreed with me.:-*

Selena