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Jenny
01-30-2005, 03:09 PM
Contrary to popular opinion. normal guys actually do go to SC's from time to time LOL OK, had to get that one off my chest ;D

FBR

I've dated a couple of customers in a bar that had a drink commission - they were actually customers. Got to be honest though, I would not feel wildly happy about going out with a guy that bought dances or with a guy who spent no money - either of those things would be a bit of a turnoff in terms of a date. So that's probably why the girls make the distinction - it seems a bit skeevy to take money from a guy to sexually arouse him and then be his girlfriend. And it seems somewhat worse to watch a guy pay someone else to sexually arouse him and then be his girlfriend. And a guy that rejects you in terms of a dance, is not too likely to be wildly attractive to you. So, you see the situation.

CuriousJ
01-30-2005, 04:25 PM
Contrary to popular opinion. normal guys actually do go to SC's from time to time LOL OK, had to get that one off my chest ;D

FBR
Define normal LOL

sadbuttrue
01-30-2005, 07:30 PM
Define normal LOL

Well once dancer told me that "Normal is boring!" Of course all her bfs had been to jail not once, but a few times and she seemed proud of it. Okay.

>>>Sad<<<

FBR
02-02-2005, 06:40 PM
I've dated a couple of customers in a bar that had a drink commission - they were actually customers. Got to be honest though, I would not feel wildly happy about going out with a guy that bought dances or with a guy who spent no money - either of those things would be a bit of a turnoff in terms of a date. So that's probably why the girls make the distinction - it seems a bit skeevy to take money from a guy to sexually arouse him and then be his girlfriend. And it seems somewhat worse to watch a guy pay someone else to sexually arouse him and then be his girlfriend. And a guy that rejects you in terms of a dance, is not too likely to be wildly attractive to you. So, you see the situation.

Jenny I dont think we're disagreeing. If I were interested in dating a dancer romantically (hahahaha like I could pull that one off) I would never become her customer. I understand the distinction between a customer (read ATM) and a dating interest. Having said that, there is a happy medium IMO. I know lots of guys who go to a club, have a few beers and LD's, check out some T&A and go home to momma. At the end of the night, everyone is a winner. No craziness or drama. Thats what I meant by "normal".

On a personal level, Ive gone full circle. I used to be one crazy mother fucker at the club. Anymore, I'm so boring its pathetic. I tip for conversation and just chill out otherwise. And yet, I still have a table full of strippers every time I hit the club. I dont get it but Im not complaining ;D

FBR

Jenny
02-02-2005, 10:31 PM
^^^
Sweetie, I never thought we were disagreeing - now, really, do I just have a reputation for being disagreeable? That's just 'cause of all the disagreeing I do, isn't it? You're sexist!
Alright, I'm done. Seriously, it's just you seemed to be wondering why girls distance the "customers" they date from just regular "customers". That's why - not because we necessarily look down on the regular "customers". That's all. I was just all eager to be helpful and stuff.

FBR
02-10-2005, 05:28 PM
^^^
Sweetie, I never thought we were disagreeing - now, really, do I just have a reputation for being disagreeable? That's just 'cause of all the disagreeing I do, isn't it? You're sexist!
Alright, I'm done. Seriously, it's just you seemed to be wondering why girls distance the "customers" they date from just regular "customers". That's why - not because we necessarily look down on the regular "customers". That's all. I was just all eager to be helpful and stuff.

Jenny youre always interesting and helpful ;D

I hope my post didnt sound grumpy...I'm just having a bit of an identity crisis with a particular fav dancer. I'll work it out though.

FBR

amylynnej
02-11-2005, 12:24 AM
Iagree with that. Ive seen some of the trolls some of the girls I work with date. Most could do a lot better.