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Jenny
08-21-2005, 05:21 PM
^^^
Hey - I totally do. But it might come back to that thing, where if you actually like and respect someone you might not even want to share the intimate, sexy details with strangers online. But, hey - if you're comfortable with it, I'm all ears. Or eyes. Or both. Or neither (if it makes you more comfortable).

NadiaRX
08-21-2005, 09:03 PM
Know it, that this has been a really interesting link.
Presently, I am in a state of matrimonial bliss.
Well, being of sarcastic nature. I wonder how long this will last.
So am I happy now? I don't know. When you get married, you instatnly, and automatically become somebodys fuck buddy.
Oh well, in my case, nothing changed. I went from being a fuck buddy to a fuck buddy.
I think the only difference in marriage is that, in marriage, there is an obligation.
Whereas in plain fuck buddy, there is none.

When I was some man's fuck buudy, he would come over to the club where I worked, he pick me up, usually on holidays and we would go off and spend the whole time to gether.
Later on, it got more and more frequent. And being just as young (younger) than Giselle above, I was afraid of comitting myself. But I knew this was where it was headed.
And lo and behold, it happened. One night on the porch, he popped the question.
I asked him, if this was really what he wanted it. He said yes.
Well, I told him, JJJJ, we had a nice session, you are now hot and bothered, tell me that again in couple of days.
Well here I am. But am I happy, I don't know. I don't look at sex, as an act of happiness.
I enjoy doing it, but does this enjoyment equal happiness? Maybe, I guess.
Enjoy it while it lasts.

Susan Wayward
08-21-2005, 09:07 PM
Sometimes if you're not careful, yes, you will wind up married to that person you started out just having casual sex with (I hate the FB term). For me, it rules.

Shady156
08-22-2005, 06:38 PM
Someone in another thread mentioned that they had a fuck buddy, you know, someone you have sex with but have no real emotionally attachment to (ideally working both ways). I'm a single guy, I don't have any real desire at the moment to get into a relationship, been there, done that, but I have my needs, SC's help with some of them, but I also do have a fuck buddy (an ex-girlfriend, we were terrible as a couple but the sex was good), we get together every couple months and mess around, it works for both of us, no emotions, no attachment, just a nice fuck every once in awhile }:D . How many of you (guys and gals) have this type of arrangement?

Well, well, well.
Can't fuck without some emotional involvement. Otherwise it would be mechanistic and robot like.
What is meant here is no commitment, free love.
Yeah, done that a lot of times. Made porno films being fucked by other guys, gals, no commitment there other than my pay. I was a fuck buddy for a porno company.
I hate it when the man would call me last thing on Friday evenings.
"Wanna get out? Have a little fun this weekend?"
And expects me to drop everything and run right over.
Burn my gas, or wait for him in some damn motel someplace.
No, I can't be a good fuck buddy, I'm too materialistic.
Besides, I've sold it so many damn times, it's kind of tough giving it away.
It really is.
But sometimes, I got to scratch it. And any port will do in a storm.
If you can catch me right, and I'm in the mood, yeah, you can.
But you gotta buy me something. Like I said, I'm materialistic.
A dinner would be nice. Some trinkets, CD's, books, jewelery, that is bring gifts, and I would love you.

Moneywise
08-22-2005, 07:25 PM
(I hate the FB term).

Does "friend w/ benefits" sound better? :P

Jenny
08-22-2005, 07:57 PM
What's wrong with just "friend"?

Susan Wayward
08-22-2005, 10:14 PM
I think "F w/ B" is unbearably cheesy too. Yes, I think "friend" covers it. That is how we used to introduce each other back when we were having sex, but weren't at BF/GF status.

Mastridonicus
08-24-2005, 05:49 AM
Heh, Friends +Sex is something so rare in my back assward area that the first close friend I met down in Tampa spent HOURS explaining the concept to me when I was 17. I must admit that then I was convinced by him that he DIDN'T do it, he just knew all about it ::)

Friends with Sexual additions never really revisited me until My best friend told me she had been F buddying one of my other friends... Long story short, due to my backassward neglect to my own sexuality and the feeling that thats wrong, it was an enlightening lesson in the asshole I was. I realized that I was Jealous moreso than angry. Heh and even kinda upset that I couldn't be that friend ever because of what I just explained. It weirded me out. Boy am I glad I'm over it! Sooooo many awkward moment. I'm not one to let something stick with me, but I was reminded of all the conversations I got into with people who admitted having fuck buddies that I didn't give half a shit about that I argued it was wrong. How embarassing. I'd love something like that at this point in my life.

*Shakes Head* I am so sexually inept! Damn my old crazy azz religion and my assumption that being successful earlier in life means self sacrifice in that area!

Hahah

On a side not, The friend is still hot as balls, and probably woulda rocked my world if I was an adult enough to handle it! *Siggghhhh* *tosses coin in the well* ::)


::Mast::

threlayer
08-24-2005, 06:34 AM
The idea maybe is to have fuck buddies for personal pleasure, even if that pleasure is giving same to your buddy, which is not a bad goal. That way you find what you like in another person, or what you don't like, and they you. Later when you start finding that kind of sexual relationship a bit too shallow, that is, you want a permanent dependable person you can trust for more than the sex, then you are wiser and may make a better choice than if you stayed out of the buddy game and instead were in the casual one-niter game. Whomever you choose. Married sex life can be as good or better, but without the chase drama. Seems to me that if/when that happens, you can be more prepared for being more than just a buddy. Or maybe not, depending on your degree of narcissism.

Malibu
08-30-2005, 01:15 AM
^^ If you really boil it down, if you really analyze the actual sensation, the actual event in cold blood, it is just simply not fun. It's just not meant to be. Ha.

That statement can be applied to a shedload of things. The pleasure is achieved from the amalgamation of all the components of said event. If you were to take each tiny part and try and find pleasure in them individually, you'd be greatly disappointed.

I'll use a overly simple pie ananlogy (it's still early over here, at least for me so bear with me). If you try and eat the raw ingredients on their own, I bet you 90% of them taste shit. Heck, even preparing and baking the pie can be a pain in the ass. All that chopping, mixing, etc and then making sure that the damn thing doesn't burn/deflate in the oven. But when the final moment comes, when you pull that freshly baked, delectable pie out of the oven and take a bite into it's warm, delicious crust and delight in the sensation of the scrumptious combination of ingredients on your palate, you realise that all the previous labour was worth the final result.

I'm not saying that all the effort that goes into sex, 3somes whatever will always give you shining results. Like the pie analogy, you can end up choosing cheap ingredients and lack of care/effort in the kitchen will leave you with a burnt pie that tastes shit. However, if you choose the right people and you're all prepared well for the event and know what you're doing, you know the effort will be worth it.

I've had probably one mediocre/less than satiable 3some because not all participants were in the right frame of mind at the time. However, the others have been very good because we were all funloving, sexually experienced, trustworthy and totally in the right frame of mind.

SportsWriter2
08-30-2005, 01:18 AM
Suppose you get a 10 with great ideas and a 9 with really good ideas. You hold the 9 down by her left boob and right inner thigh and talk your all-time dirtiest while the 10 works her over. You feel the 9 shudder and shake repeatedly while she struggles to get free and give back. But the 10 is so intense that you ultimately have to give 9 most of the money shot to compensate.

But the doubt just gets worse. The 9 fears she's now a lesbian but doesn't wanna be, so she's begging you to "please tell me it was you holding me down that made me cum." Okay, whatever, but she starts feeling sooo inferior that she offers the 10 lines to stay friends. Then the 9, 10 and lines become the threesome and you're SOL.

A month later the 10 is so addicted that no one wants her and her gym bag in their car, and you're left with nothing but the surreal home brain movies and a ton of guilt. Plus you hate the 9 for fucking up the 10.

Even when it works it doesn't. :-\


(Sorry, Sporty - had to excise the copyrighted material that was unwittingly quoted. - JZ)

LemonLime
09-04-2005, 01:32 AM
Some interesting links

1. NonVerbal Sexual Curing.

2. Date Russian Women

Personally, I found both of these sites to stretch the boundaries of belivability.
Almost to the point of hiliarity.
And these people make money of these junk.
I think we need to redefine the definition of "fantasy" when that word is use in this context.
I wonder what the people are actually buying.
Probably trying to get an edge on the endless quest of finding a "fuck" buddy.

SportsWriter2
09-04-2005, 01:50 AM
From the Russian website above. This is terrible: :O

From one side of the coin, these marriage agencies introduce to these men, beautiful looking exotic Russian women, whose goal in life is to be dutiful to their husband and children.

Yet, on the flip side, they may have heard horror stories, either from friends, relatives or through TV and newspaper accounts about Russian women, who want to escape from Russia.

Once these women have escaped from their shackles of Russian life and have settled into their new country, they quickly divorce their foreign husband taking everything from them and sometimes even killing them!!

Susan Wayward
09-04-2005, 09:43 AM
(Referring to deleted post)

What are you, some kind of plagarizing spambot?

http://www.viceland.com/issues/v10n11/htdocs/threesomes.php

If you're going to continue copying and pasting articles in their entirety, start giving some attribution.

Katrine
09-05-2005, 11:32 AM
2. Date Russian Women http://www.russian-romance-guide.com/


Elena's a genius! Russian women rule, I receive requests to be involved in helping out type of business all the time in a sort of a pimp translator manner.

Delany
09-06-2005, 11:57 PM
I thought everyone knew Sportswriter's stories were just that---stories, though I did think he made them up himself. :-\

SportsWriter2
09-07-2005, 05:27 AM
I thought everyone knew Sportswriter's stories were just that---stories, though I did think he made them up himself. :-\

Oh no, I copied out a section from that website on dating Russian women. I thought that was obvious, but I went back and attributed the source.

I myself wouldn't go east of Brno. :)

Dale-San-Diego
10-15-2005, 10:21 PM
The Russian women I have met are terrific. I have been happily married to mine for 5 years. I am not saying that women in Russia are the best in the world. This would be too general of statement to make about any gender or nationality. What you will find if you seek to meet and date a Russian woman is that they are raised in a way much different than their American counterparts. Russian women are very intelligent, open, sensual, romantic and feminine. They cherish their feminine appearance and make an effort to present themselves in the best way possible especially in a public setting. This of course is very appealing to a man.

Russian women understand that men and women are not equal but have unique rolls in a relationship. Culturally they favor a strong, decisive man capable of being a good partner and provider in a relationship. They do not make the choice to leave behind friends and family to marry a foreign man easily. This is a process of great sacrifice done more for love than money. Certainly they are not going to make this sacrifice to marry into a situation that is going to put them into an economic struggle (they arenít fools).

The men that seek to meet and marry a Russian woman do so because they have the economic means to make it a reality and prefer to find themselves in a marriage with a younger, more attractive and slender woman than he could find/obtain locally. The nature of the process, dealing with the immigration laws of the U.S., makes this a long and challenging experience. I think the immigration barriers created by the U.S. test the sincerity and commitment of every Russian/American couple and serve a useful purpose. Only the strong survive the long delay and financial requirements to enable a Russian woman to immigrate to the U.S. for marriage to an American man.

It is not fair to say that all Russian women pursue foreign marriages for financial gain. I'm sure there are some Russian woman that are gold diggers from the start but the truth is these situations are often times created by stupid men. If a 50 year old American man pursuing a 20 year old Russian beauty is expecting something different then a marriage for convenience he is fool for believing this. Often times marriages of such large age differences end in divorce for the simple reason that the two people are simply not compatible. Although it is very realistic for Russian women to be attracted and accepting of an older man for marriage, a 10 year age difference is more realistic. My wife is 17 years younger than me. It works for us but may not for other couples.

Russia is not a poor country with poor stupid people. If you think such nonsense then I invite you to become more educated about modern Russian society and culture. As a society they cherish education and make a strong emphasis on it. Their technical and cultural achievements are testimony to this. The Russian and Ukrainian women you will meet through the international introduction agencies like are extremely well educated in addition to being extremely beautiful. They typically present themselves with confidence and pride.

If your man enough for the challenge then I invite you to read and learn more about how to meet and marry a Russian woman if you are not satisfied with your local options. You will find a large range of choices if you are looking for a young, sexy, slender, intelligent lady for a lifetime of love and passion.

Dale
Webmaster

girlnew156
10-16-2005, 10:12 AM
You know, a common saying about men marrying goes like this, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why?

Well, now here is the counter part to the saying above,
"Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage..."

Just my addition. See ya.

Katrine
10-16-2005, 10:56 AM
My most recent fuck buddy has screwed me over, YET AGAIN. I can't go no lovin in this town dammit!! AND, he owes me some pills/money, fucking asshole!! And he isn't even a musician...well, never mind, he plays guitar. ;)

FBR
10-16-2005, 11:34 AM
My most recent fuck buddy has screwed me over, YET AGAIN. I can't go no lovin in this town dammit!! AND, he owes me some pills/money, fucking asshole!! And he isn't even a musician...well, never mind, he plays guitar. ;)

Kat, you have strayed too far from your Pink sisters. Get your fucking money, pills, whatever upfront.

You are way too trusting. I thought all you Russians were paranoid for justified historical reasons ;)

FBR

Richard_Head
10-16-2005, 01:37 PM
My fuck buddy found herself a new man damnit! Am I evil to be thinking of sabotage}:D!
I do have my needs you know.

Katrine
10-16-2005, 01:58 PM
Kat, you have strayed too far from your Pink sisters. Get your fucking money, pills, whatever upfront.

You are way too trusting. I thought all you Russians were paranoid for justified historical reasons ;)

FBR

Stripper Kat and real Kat are very different people. Stripper Kat is a merciless mercenary. Real Kat is a fool for a cute young boy with a big dick. I fronted him the pills because we had just had an awesome night of ass-fucking, so I figured I would see him again pretty soon, not that he would fall off the face of this earth with something he owed me. I'm REALLY pissed off about this still, stupid, stupid, stupid. :'( No love.

yoda57us
10-16-2005, 06:22 PM
Kat, never trust a guitar player, especially a cute young one with a big dick.

Is OTC Kat-the trusting romantic-over compensation for merciless mercenary Kat? Or is it the other way around?

Katrine
10-16-2005, 07:10 PM
Kat, never trust a guitar player, especially a cute young one with a big dick.

Is OTC Kat-the trusting romantic-over compensation for merciless mercenary Kat? Or is it the other way around?

Nah, I don't have guilt about my work ethic. I give the guys what they want, am no ROB. My dances are high contact and I don't overcharge. Hell, I don't even try to hustle more than $10 a dance when we do 2-4-1, unless they want to pay me more.

Fuck romance. Its not about trust, or being russian, etc. At the time, it didn't seem like a big deal to give him something of small monetary value. It not like I loaned him my car or actual cash. I think I just want the pills he was going to give me, they are worth much more than what I gave him. It sucks getting blown off and ignored, and it keeps happening to me the last few months.

Anywho, he isn't all that well hung. To be honest, I am not even sure, I've been wasted every time we had sex, vodka goggles, ya know. ;)

I have no desire for a boyfriend or even a FUCK BUDDY right now, my friends are vibrator are taking pretty good care of my emotional and sexual needs.
Ok, enough threadjacking.

SportsWriter2
10-16-2005, 08:22 PM
Ok, enough threadjacking.
Kat, you can jack this thread anytime you want. Just don't tell me what pills were in the proposed swap. I hate knowing there's a drug named after my favorite breakfast cereal. :(

Katrine
10-16-2005, 09:32 PM
Kat, you can jack this thread anytime you want. Just don't tell me what pills were in the proposed swap. I hate knowing there's a drug named after my favorite breakfast cereal. :(

Huh, which drug/cereal is that? Oh, wait, never mind, I figured it out. I only tried that Special K many years ago, it sucks, and it doesn't come in a pill that I know of. The only cool part was that I was administered my dosage rectally, and now have a story to tell about it.....}:D

lunchbox
10-17-2005, 08:35 AM
The only cool part was that I was administered my dosage rectally, and now have a story to tell about it.....}:D
WOW! I didn't know K-hole meant Kat's hole.

electric_head
10-27-2005, 05:49 AM
This interests me, but I can't seem to keep sex and love apart. So I guess I'm doomed.

SportsWriter2
10-27-2005, 08:26 AM
This interests me, but I can't seem to keep sex and love apart.
Whoa, that is sooo fucked up. :-\

electric_head
10-30-2005, 02:35 PM
LOL Sporty it's not easy being me!

vegasbebe
11-04-2005, 06:28 PM
Hmm. I have a fuck buddy. We're friends, and we have sex. Like, we hang out and do normal stuff, like go out to the bars or what not, and we also fuck. But we're not dating. This has gone on for five years...he lives in my home city that I still visit and am actually moving back to. I think I might need to be a grown up and end it....but its hard, because we are actually good friends, but there are reasons we never dated. hmm...

SportsWriter2
11-04-2005, 10:12 PM
I think I might need to be a grown up and end it....but its hard, because we are actually good friends...
I've always thought being fuck buddies was as grown-up as you can get. :)

Bunny
11-04-2005, 11:32 PM
I wish I could be emotionally detached enough to just have FB's with people but if I like them enough to really get into the sex it's going to end up feeling like more than that to me.

MishaBliss
11-14-2005, 02:44 PM
I've had a few fuck buddies and its lots of fun whilst there is no attachment! ;)

Phedre
11-21-2005, 11:08 AM
I feel worse after "breaking-up" with a fuck buddy than I do a person I've been in a relationship with...and I've yet to figure out why.

I thought that it was just me being a girly that felt that way? I guess it makes me feel better to know that girls aren't the only one feeling worse breaking up a FB relationship. The real ones are WAY easier to walk away from without feeling so bad! I miss my FB, we always had such a good time together, in more ways than just a fuck so it was hard to let it go.

ricosuave312
11-21-2005, 06:46 PM
Hey, if you wanna fuck your buds, thas koo. Cholo did that when he did a nickle at Chino SP. Not that there's anything wrong with that...

I have some sweet new purple buds. I need to smoke a bowl, then go fuck the old lady. Chronic purple fuck buds is what I'm smokin.

Phedre
11-22-2005, 03:16 PM
^Now that's the beauty of friendship ^ puff puff ;)

electric_head
11-26-2005, 05:53 AM
I don't understand why you have feelings for a fuck buddy? Is that not the whole idea? Just a fuck....nothing else?

Katrine
11-26-2005, 04:43 PM
I have a designatedl Houston fuck buddy. He isn't that great in the sack, which is pretty important for just a fuck buddy. If someone is REALLY REALLY good in bed, I will usually start to like them because great sex tends to imply great chemistry between two people. Thus, a crush is the natural progression, at least for me.

yoda57us
11-26-2005, 06:44 PM
I don't understand why you have feelings for a fuck buddy? Is that not the whole idea? Just a fuck....nothing else?

Well, the term is Fuck BUDDY and the buddy part sort of implies that you like the person. If all you want is a pussy you can rent that and have ABSOLUTELY NSA nookie any time you want. To me, good sex involves some simpatico brain waives between the two parties involved. It doesn't mean you have to be in love, just like each other enough to want to share a bed, respect each other enough not to make it a head game, and be smart enough not to attach more significance to the event than it deserves. It's just sex.

electric_head
11-27-2005, 04:51 PM
You are wise Yoda, thank you that helps me.

yoda57us
11-28-2005, 06:21 AM
No problem EH, I do what I can. Actually, I ust like to post wherever Kat does so I can check out her avatar....

Your's (avatar) is interesting...it reminds me of my last 10 minutes in the Champagne room last night...

funtasticFerra
11-28-2005, 09:56 PM
I have a fuck buddy. I've always been the type of girl who likes to have multiple partners. It's more the thrill of the game than anything. I get a high from it. (I'm such a sex addict haha) I usually have no interest in the guy after we have sex the first time, but i've found a few over the years that have made me come back for more lol. All friends, nothing more.

GSDiva
12-02-2005, 08:25 PM
I love this thread... I have to post the "booty call agreement" you'll have a good laugh. But I have to find it first in my other comp.... be back in a bit.

Richard_Head
12-03-2005, 09:43 AM
I have to post the "booty call agreement" you'll have a good laugh. LOL, kind of like Jerry and Elaine on Seinfeld, I wish I could remember their agreement, all I can think of though is "spending the night is optional".

paul123xxx
12-14-2005, 02:00 AM
yeah i got one, a sexy friend, we get together quite a bit.

kitana
12-14-2005, 10:37 PM
Man see I want a FB now damnit!!!

Although, I love hubby dearly and the sex is off the fuckin charts, I still like new meat.

The thrill for me with a FB is the newness of it all. The 1st time might not be the best sex ever (and usually isn't), but it's still awesome (usually) since it's new, it's fresh, I haven't had it before.

Damn I want a new FB now!!!!

Miss Chevious
01-14-2012, 04:02 AM
Laugh out loud.

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