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RoseDelight
12-27-2004, 03:43 PM
*Hugs* I am sorry to hear. Come to Miami, We'll have a girls night with Trix and maybe Pamela if she isn't busy.....We'd have fun, and it'd cheer you up ;)

Time heals a lot of wounds.

VADEN
12-27-2004, 04:13 PM
*Hugs* I am sorry to hear. Come to Miami, We'll have a girls night with Trix and maybe Pamela if she isn't busy.....We'd have fun, and it'd cheer you up ;)

Time heals a lot of wounds.
Thanks sweetie, I will let you know if I can get there.....:)

Blade
12-27-2004, 04:47 PM
Wow! Well guys, we just broke up and get this....even though we met in the club and we have been together for over a year, he just told me that the reason he finds it hard to be intimate with me is because I am a dancer! I told him I would quit if he was going to take care of me and he said, "I don't want to be your sugar daddy".... :O I told him that I will give him a call when I stop dancing..... :'( Hell if you get lonely or bored, you can call me WHILE yer still dancing....It sucks that you guys broke up, you know where to find me if ya need to talk

Vyanka
12-27-2004, 05:29 PM
Aw Vaden, i'm so sorry to hear that....but i'm really sorry for him though, his loss! There are more men out there that are willing to replace his shoes any day & treat you the way you deserved to be treated.


Cheer up, don't sweat it. :flower: You're a sweet girl, & got it physically going on. ;D He didn't have a problem with it at first, but now? /:O HHmmph. :snooty:


I didn't post in this thread bc I wasn't sure what to think of this btw, the only thing I could say is "Listen to your heart".


Hugs to you from Jersey...xoxoxoxoxoxoxox :hug:

Vyanka
12-27-2004, 05:32 PM
Thanks sweetie, I will let you know if I can get there.....:)
Yes, yes....go out with the girls. Have fun, put your mind at ease. And stay strong. :)

tiamaria
12-27-2004, 08:07 PM
You can have an orgasm from french kissing? Woah. :O

Oh yea!:P

devilkitty
12-27-2004, 08:36 PM
I dont like to kiss and some people i know are the same way. I like to be intimate but i dont know a lot of people i have dated think this?

CalifSCVisitor65
12-27-2004, 09:37 PM
sorry to hear Vaden

:hug:

Hmmm there's some lucky guys in Florida now though. ;)

bigteninch
12-27-2004, 10:04 PM
{{Vaden}}smooch!

MojoJojo
12-27-2004, 11:14 PM
You can have an orgasm from french kissing? Woah. :O
Heh....my wife has orgasmed from a properly placed kiss with tongue on the side of her neck.

VADEN
12-28-2004, 12:23 AM
Hell if you get lonely or bored, you can call me WHILE yer still dancing....It sucks that you guys broke up, you know where to find me if ya need to talk
Thanks Blade ;)

VADEN
12-28-2004, 12:24 AM
Aw Vaden, i'm so sorry to hear that....but i'm really sorry for him though, his loss! There are more men out there that are willing to replace his shoes any day & treat you the way you deserved to be treated.


Cheer up, don't sweat it. :flower: You're a sweet girl, & got it physically going on. ;D He didn't have a problem with it at first, but now? /:O HHmmph. :snooty:


I didn't post in this thread bc I wasn't sure what to think of this btw, the only thing I could say is "Listen to your heart".


Hugs to you from Jersey...xoxoxoxoxoxoxox :hug:
Thank you Vy!!

VADEN
12-28-2004, 12:25 AM
{{Vaden}}smooch!
:-* :-* :-*

RoseDelight
12-28-2004, 12:34 AM
Heh....my wife has orgasmed from a properly placed kiss with tongue on the side of her neck.
Sigh...Shaddup :'(

:rotfl:

MojoJojo
12-28-2004, 12:40 AM
Sigh...Shaddup :'(

:rotfl:
I'll work on that for you.

SexeJaz
12-28-2004, 12:53 AM
Funny Vaden, I'm going through the same thing. But all he tells me is that he don't like to do it. But thats one of the main things i enjoy doing definetly is kissing!:puckerup::puckerup::puckerup::puckerup:

pimpy718
12-28-2004, 03:49 AM
Wow! Well guys, we just broke up and get this....even though we met in the club and we have been together for over a year, he just told me that the reason he finds it hard to be intimate with me is because I am a dancer! I told him I would quit if he was going to take care of me and he said, "I don't want to be your sugar daddy".... :O I told him that I will give him a call when I stop dancing..... :'(
WOO-HOO!:dazzled: HIS LOSS, not yours!! And he's full of shit anyways because if he had a problem with intamacy and you being a dancer, he wouldn't be talking to that lousy ex biotch who keeps calling him in the wee hours of the morning. Just my thoughts-I'm not sorry to hear it, I'm glad to hear it because he sounds like he didn't treat you right anyways. Do not feel bad, VADEN. He didn't deserve u.

And I just wanna go on a brief tangent about that 'dancer' crap. I don't know if ex girlfriend was a dancer-but it sounds like it if she's getting off around 2 as well......:thinking: What was up with that?

Malibu
12-28-2004, 05:32 AM
And did you know that apparently in France, the same kissing technique is referred to as the English Kiss?

Some random information I thought I'd chuck in there for y'all. ;D

VenusGoddess
12-28-2004, 07:04 AM
I'm sorry to hear that Vaden...it's hard to be with someone and invest so much time with a relationship to have it go south...

:hug:

I think you should get together with Rose and have a night out. Scorpio and I are taking Mikki to the Keys in April...We always stay over a night in South Beach...so maybe we could all get together (we'll leave Scorpio with Makayla) and have a girls night then, too!! ;D

AinNY
12-28-2004, 07:56 AM
AWWWW Vaden....well on the bright side...its good you figured it out now that hes not the guy for you.... :hug:

Back on the topic just for fucks sake.

I know exactly where you are coming from.
After beign with my ex at the time for a year and half....all of sudden she tells me she doesnt really like kissing so much anymore :-\ WTF does that mean? for a year and a half she couldnt get enough. Now she doesnt really want to kiss so much or french kiss or whatever(unless we're having sex). This is basically about the same time the relationship started going downhill. I just felt like there wasnt anymore passion from her, like she didnt "want" me anymore ...it started with the kissing and just got worse....we still had great sex, but it just wasn't the same. Too bad it took 6 more months till we finally ended it though. But I was seriously hurt for those 6 months...doubting myself....wondering what I was doing wrong...blah blah blah...i can admit that I still have self esteem/self confidence issues today b/c of it.

So good thing you figured it out now and I'm sure you'll find someone better soon enough.
:hug:

Jillian
12-28-2004, 09:52 AM
i'm sorry to hear you guys broke up! hugs

I am one of those people who are not a fan of french kissing. I only do it if I am waaaay drunk or having some very hot sex.

Lena
12-28-2004, 12:13 PM
Me too. Sometimes ya just don't want someone slobbering in your mouth, no matter how much you love them.

VADEN
12-28-2004, 12:56 PM
WOO-HOO!:dazzled: HIS LOSS, not yours!! And he's full of shit anyways because if he had a problem with intamacy and you being a dancer, he wouldn't be talking to that lousy ex biotch who keeps calling him in the wee hours of the morning. Just my thoughts-I'm not sorry to hear it, I'm glad to hear it because he sounds like he didn't treat you right anyways. Do not feel bad, VADEN. He didn't deserve u.

And I just wanna go on a brief tangent about that 'dancer' crap. I don't know if ex girlfriend was a dancer-but it sounds like it if she's getting off around 2 as well......:thinking: What was up with that? :-\

Bunny
12-28-2004, 11:23 PM
From a different point of view, I never feel like kissing my boyfriend much. I'm having doubts about the relationship and maybe that's why. It's like I just want to hug him.

DeepGreen
12-28-2004, 11:47 PM
First, sorry to hear about the break up Vaden :'( ...but it sounds like it was maybe time. I'm sure you will find someone even better.;)

Second, it seems like there can be two things going on when certain forms of intimacy dwindle. My wife and I have been together for 15 years (married for 10). We admittedlyh french kiss much less than we did at the beginning...but then we do other intimate things much more frequently (we touch all the time, in all sorts of ways). So it's not as if intimacy is lost--it is just taking other forms. We are happier now than we have ever been, IMHO. However, sometimes she still wants to "make-out" like we used to do when we were first together...sometimes when I am not in the mood. It doesn't necessarily mean that I love her any less....it's just somehow different after all this time. On the other hand, sometimes making out like teenagers is still a blast....:)

However, if guys seem to be pulling away after just a few months, or if they seem uninterested in any form of intimacy, then it seems like it is a sign that something is wrong....

VADEN
12-29-2004, 12:45 PM
Thanks Deep.....;)

Hottie7268
12-29-2004, 02:28 PM
I don't particularly like a lot of french kissing. Slow pecks on the lips and some sucking do just as well for me. I guess it's all in the execution of it that counts.

VADEN
12-29-2004, 05:34 PM
I agree Tia. Kissing (french style) is a major turn on for me as well. }:D

SportsWriter2
12-30-2004, 06:46 PM
You can have an orgasm from french kissing? Woah. :O DFK can trigger an orgasm, or DFK can be the reflex response to an orgasm. I've seen it both ways, but never trigger AND reflex in the same cycle.

DeepGreen, you made an excellent point about intimacy changing form over time without diminishing. I also like quick sports girl "gotta run" kisses.

Vaden, you made a good choice. Life's too short to settle for less than you deserve.

Casey-11
12-30-2004, 07:16 PM
Kissing is soooooo under rated.

Gynger
12-30-2004, 11:05 PM
I could kiss for hours on end, and yes, I've cum wtih just a kiss... unbelievable experience..