View Full Version : itty bitty titty club...confession
blnde
01-23-2005, 07:42 PM
whirlerz! your signature hits the nail on the head! reality is what you can get away with!
the reasoning behind it all since i started dancing... my momma always said " guys only see what they want to see." tried and true...
devilkitty
01-23-2005, 09:47 PM
hi blnde. I have small boobies and do well. I am not going to be mean to you but your post has honestly irked me. Why did u start stripping if you arent going to take your top off. That is why we are paid, we provide a service most women are not willing to do. That is the game. I am honestly surprised that management puts up with it. Also since your managers are soooo understanding I dont see why the other girls haven't driven you out with torches and pitch forks. Be proud of what you have it is yours and it is gorgeous because its you. And if it bothers you that bad then get a god damn boob job. Ok you are a very nice girl and I really hope I havent offended you that bad, but if you are going to be a stripper than strip. One last thing if there are any bikini bars in your area that would be the perfect job for you . You should definitly look into it.
blnde
01-23-2005, 11:21 PM
devilkitty, you're totally right. the point of being a stripper is to strip! i understand how what i am doing would upset you (and should!) i really did paint myself into a corner with it all and i don't think i understood that when i started. in my defense, though, i'm not the only girl at my club who doesn't go topless, but the other girl is a little more obviously real, so i can't really compare situations...but it is something that's condoned... i have tried bikini bars, but the only one anywhere close to me made it clear they only hire a "specific type" of girl. so i checked out the other clubs that weren't bikini bars. that's how it all started. i'm really sorry that it worked out the way it did, but i've just been thinking this way for so long, i wasn't trying to cheat anyone, it was just who i was and how i thought. i know it's not cool and that's why i'm trying to change it. thank you for the feedback and the honesty:) i knew my post would make some people upset and i sincerely apologize but i thank everybody for their understanding and supportiveness!:hug: it's really helped me out a lot :thanx:
devilkitty
01-27-2005, 01:17 PM
I really hope that you are more confident since reading all the girls posts. I am glad that i didn't offend you. It is so easy after doing it for the first time. You just need to get over that hump. Like I said I am also flat chested and i used to use padded bras and such,waaaaay before i was a stripper though. It was such a relief when I realized that i didnt have to trick anyone anymore and I dont think that i was fooling anyone anyways. That really sucks that they were so picky at the bikini club.:( I hope everything is working out for you. Hold your head up, throw those shoulders back and and know that they are lucky just to be able to gaze apon the beauty that is you.
P.S. Alot of guys love naturals,or just little bitties, I get a ton of compliments;)
rdknite13
01-27-2005, 07:06 PM
Speaking from a 'customer' point of view. It is all about the money, so I wouldn't worry too much if you 'fool' the guys. There are plenty of guys who like the small breasts, that finally legal look, so don't worry about it. Many of the women I know who got breast enlargements was to attract more business, is this not in some way 'fooling' the customer. No offense to anyone else who reads this, I am NOT putting down breast enlargement. I am just saying it is a business and you do what you need to do to make money and get regulars.
naughtynaomi
01-27-2005, 09:59 PM
I've worked at many topless bars and known quite a few girls who never took off their tops onstage (or otherwise). And to be honest, none of the customers seemed to mind too much. However, some of the girls I know with small tits manage to make BANK, especially from guys who like the barely legal thing. Unless (and this is going to sound stupid and weird) they are working up against tons of chicks with BIG implants. I guess the kind of money you would make showing off your small tits (I myself am a fan of the smaller ones) would depend on the club you choose to go to.
devilkitty
01-29-2005, 11:44 PM
I was not talking about fooling a guy with a BA. I was talking about how it seemed she was saying that she used falsies or something. I gathered that when she talked about the other girl being more obviously real.
devilkitty
01-29-2005, 11:46 PM
BTW Blnde I hope you are doing well. Let us all know how things are coming along.;D
SilverSaturn0
05-06-2006, 06:10 PM
i love my small boobs. they actually get in my way and i couldn't imagine them being bigger. i'm a 32b and they are the best
BrunetteGoddess
05-06-2006, 06:42 PM
you guys rock! maybe it's jsut my personal preference, i'm practically a twig myself (115lbs., 6ft. tall) but i always thought the super skinny models weren't very attractive, favoring a more voluptuous image as the picture of femininity... the girl in the pics is hot though and i can't believe she's a playmate! she's a tad bit bigger than me, but we have the same body type... i feel prettier now... i think i should really hone my hustle, though, if that 's what it all comes down to... this is kind of a wierd question, but , i'm definitely no hustler and no saleswoman, but i've been trying hard reading the books prescribed in this forum and talking to my bf, who used to sell cars, how do you really get the "hustle" down? what attitude do you take to each cust. that says " you will give me money!" do you ever feel bad about it? do you ever ASK for anything? i'm a frequenter of hustle hut and i even print stuff out sometimes and put together an "instruction manual" but i just don't htink i have the attitude.... ( sorry about all the questions.. thank you guys so much for all the help!!!)
WOW, and people called me "too skinny" at 145lbs. @6'00" tall! Rock on!
Lysondra
05-07-2006, 08:46 PM
You mentioned something about insults. Here's what I've gotten for my B's:
"Your tits are too small, I want a dance witha REAL woman." (and he got a dance from a FAKE one... nice)
"Your tits remind me of a sixteen year old."
"You know, if you got implants you could make more money."
"You have a nice ass and legs but your breasts need improvement."
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But this is when I worked in a club where all the girls were huge and lapdances were $50... so they wanted more cocksucking for their buck. u_u;
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Should I mention the time I was PULLED OVER by a someone so they could hand me their plastic surgeon's/friend business card 'cause they noticed 'I had small tits and looked like I needed help'.
Fark off.
I <3 my boobs.
scarlett_vancouver
05-08-2006, 12:13 AM
I must be lucky or deaf. I have teeny boobies, and have had one insult ever.
However, I get turned down in favour of girls with big racks all the time...tonight was great- I had a guy ASK for a dance, then see a girl with huge tits and say "actually, I'm going to go with her- I need masturbation material". Omfg!
Lysondra
05-08-2006, 12:18 AM
^^ Isn't THAT an insult? o_o
PhillyDancer1982
05-15-2006, 08:12 AM
I think as long as you have nice nipples/ or just an appealing look to them you should be fine.
That's the thing...before I got my breast augmentation, I DIDN'T EVEN HAVE NIPPLES!! :-\
OK so maybe I had nipples in the literal sense, but what I mean is, they didn't poke or protrude outwards at all. In the same sense that a girl can "have no butt" or "no chest at all," was the sense that I didn't have nipples. When I was younger, my mom lectured me about how "slutty" it was to go braless with tank tops because your nipples would poke through, but I never had that problem(yet she STILL banned me from wearing tank tops!). A few years ago, I was self-conscious about my small boobs(small A) so to make them look more "interesting" and thus also create attention from some of the guys I was after that were piercing/tattoo obsessed, I got my nipples pierced. There wasn't really anything more to pierce than someone who would pierce the skin on his hand! No wonder they started growing out only a few months after I got them done, despite washing them as instructed!(there was nothing but skin for the piercing to grab onto) After I got my boobs done, my areolas stretched bigger and the implants pushed my nipples outward a bit...so now I have nicer nipples, they are still not very big, but at least they are visible. One of the more common compliments I get from customers is that I have "the nicest nipples"...admittedly, something that I never got before my BA.
As far as people insulting me on my pre-op small boobs? People generally kept their opinions to themselves and the only way it showed was when they turned me down for lapdances. There was one incident I remeber though, in which some asshole young guy made fun of me and told all of his friends to not tip me or talk to me, meanwhile he was being very friendly to all the bustier girls. The reason this occured, was because I'd admitted to him earlier that I was getting a BA in a month, and he happened to come back in "about a month", which ironically was 2.5 whole days before my scheduled surgery. So he was mostly making fun of me for "lying" about surgery, even though I really wasn't and it's not my fault he came in 2.5 days too early.
PhillyDancer1982
05-15-2006, 08:24 AM
Yeah, so word of advice as far as telling customers if you're getting a BA...if you tell them, make sure you carry through on your word. I have a friend who will keep talking about how she's gonna get her boobs done, but most likely it'll never happen because she's terrible at budgeting/saving money and she doesn't work very hard. I think she says this to the other dancer girls on days that she feels insecure because she isn't making as much money as she wants. On these "dead" days, she also tells people that she doesn't have to worry about making much money dancing, because she's going to hit it big as a model, a soap opera actress, or a porn star.
However, I WAS telling the truth about getting a BA. Looking back, I regret telling a few customers but not specifying the date. For example, my friend Sean who would visit the club here and there. 1-2 months before my scheduled surgery, us dancers/managers were discussing with Sean the boob job I was planning to get. Then Sean got busy with work for a few weeks and I didn't see him for a few weeks, and he was like "I thought you were getting the boob job?" NOT YET!! Some guys don't realize that BA's take time to plan & set up in advance(much less pay for!)...I can't just say "I want to schedule a boob job" and get my boobs done that same week! And if I'd told that one asshole & his friends whom I wrote about in my above post, that my surgery was set on the 6th of the month, that whole discretion of him coming in on the 3rd and thinking I was "lying" about my BA woulda never happened.