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Nicolina
03-10-2005, 01:03 AM
OK...why not?
I think some of you are aware of my predilections, and I'm wondering if anyone has some really good porn/erotica recommendations. I'm too embarrassed to actually walk into a sexshop all by my lonesome and load up a cart :O . I have nothing against mainstream porn, but I'm not sure it's designed to push my buttons; besides, it's something to watch with that special someone, dontcha think?

I do like really dirty books. Of course I like the Beauty books by AN Roquelaure (Ann Rice, whatever ::) ), especially the 2nd and 3rd in the trilogy...though there's really not enough heterosexual dom/sub sex in there to suit me; seems like the male slaves have all the fun. Story of O has some good parts. Some of the Victorian "Anonymous" books are pretty darn good, despite the rather purple prose...A Man With A Maid is a favorite. I've read a little of DeSade but i gotta admit that some of it was too extreme for my tastes. I'm familiar with HOM, but not terribly impressed with their stuff (at least not the magazines).

I'm open to any suggestions...even mainstream porn if you think it might include some "trigger" scenes for a submissive. (Has anyone seen Zazel? I've seen some stills, and those boots with the big dildo spurs look pretty f*ckin' hot.)

Open floor.....

SportsWriter2
03-10-2005, 04:02 PM
I'm open to any suggestions...even mainstream porn if you think it might include some "trigger" scenes for a submissive.

People don't really understand the power of symbolic "triggers" in sex, and triggers are highly variable, so you don't see many symbolic scenes in adult videos. Sex is literal in porn for guys. :-\

I saw Coming of Angels almost 10 years after it was made. It has some good symbolic scenes, including one of my triggers. You can still buy/rent it. :)

I once saw a cheap B horror movie in which teens tortured a caustrophobic girl by repeatedly locking her in a closet. If you were claustrophobic, it might get to you, but chain saws are more universally scary. :O

hardkandee
03-10-2005, 05:17 PM
Damn, I loved the Beauty series!! I would totally get off on a movie based off of those. }:D

Katrine
03-10-2005, 08:28 PM
I like the Rocco: Animal Trainer series. I also used to scout alt.sex.stories.moderated, and its gay equivalent for smut. There is lots of good stuff but you have to wade through crap.

My trigger, or one of them, is dirty talk. And not the romantic type of talk either.......

Nicolina
03-10-2005, 08:39 PM
hmmm....I notice that MOST of the guys are keeping mum here. Perhaps they are loathe to betray their own preferences here? Maybe I should try this on the pink side?

Jayln
03-10-2005, 08:49 PM
I love Anne Rice's diryt books, I still need to read the 3rd one.

You might like Andrew Blake's movies. I have seen some that have bondage/submissive elements. They are mostly girl/girl, so that may be good or bad for you. Rather softcore, but aesthetic.
I also just watched Jenna Jameson's "The Masseuse" and she plays a submissive. There is a scene with Japanese rope bondage and another where she dominates Savanna Samson.
I have to agree with Katrine on the Rocco Animal Trainer movies. His style of fucking is really rough and I love it. }:D

SportsWriter2
03-10-2005, 08:57 PM
My trigger, or one of them, is dirty talk. And not the romantic type of talk either.......
I recite my version of the Miranda Rights for Bad Girls first: "Anything I say is solely for the purpose of sexual stimulation and does not in any way reflect my opinion of you as a person."

They always smile and say, "I know that."

Favorite request: "Could you talk dirty to me in Spanish? I just like the way they talk."

Jay Zeno
03-10-2005, 09:40 PM
hmmm....I notice that MOST of the guys are keeping mum here. Perhaps they are loathe to betray their own preferences here? Maybe I should try this on the pink side?

Or they really have nothing to offer.

Or they have a learned behavior of not trying to push their preferences on a favored female who might not share those preferences. ;)

Katrine
03-10-2005, 10:57 PM
Favorite request: "Could you talk dirty to me in Spanish? I just like the way they talk."

I can talk dirty in Spanish, Russian, and even a bit in Dutch. What is your preferance sir? }:D

SportsWriter2
03-11-2005, 06:00 AM
Russian, definitely Russian.... Different languages have different idiomatic expressions for sexual comments, but it's funny how mushrooms keep showing up for little dicks. :-\

Cranky
03-11-2005, 09:51 AM
If you dont mind reading online, http://www.literotica.com/ has some good stories.

Books you may enjoy also:

Black Feathers By Cecilia Tan
Erotic Travel Tales Edited by Mitzi Szereto
Sacred Exchange: Stories of Spirituality and Transcendence in Dominance and Submission
Best S/M Erotica: Extreme Tales of Extreme Sex By M. Christian
The Best Fetish Erotica By Cara Bruce, Editor
The Best Bondage Erotica Edited by Alison Tyler

If I can think of anymore, I will edit this post to add them.

Nicolina
03-11-2005, 10:01 AM
Thanks, Cranky! A very cool list...and very brave of you to post it! ;) :)

Nicolina
03-11-2005, 10:10 AM
Russian, definitely Russian....

Yes, please.
;D

Cranky
03-11-2005, 11:07 AM
Thanks, Cranky! A very cool list...and very brave of you to post it! ;) :)

You're welcome, hope you enjoy!

I wouldnt call it bravery, I am very open about my preferences and proud of who I am.

doc-catfish
03-11-2005, 04:41 PM
hmmm....I notice that MOST of the guys are keeping mum here. Perhaps they are loathe to betray their own preferences here? Maybe I should try this on the pink side?
Nic, odd as this may seem for a guy, while I confess to having a small stash I've really never had much interest in video porn, or even porn in general (unless a subscription to American Curves qualifies). Watching people freaky on my television to me is kind of like watching golf. I'm just not content to being relegated to a spectator, esspecially to a fantasy that isn't mine.

I do have a liking to a good BJ scene, but they're few and far between. The way they end in a typical porn movie is an outright downer. I've never understood the cum all over the face deal, and damnit you porn directors, if the guy needs a handjob to finish, let the woman on her knees before him do the honors.

Even most "specialty" porn is a tad too generalized for my tastes. Not enough "triggers" if you know what I mean. To be honest, I'd just as soon direct the movie, or at least write the script.

Katrine
03-11-2005, 08:01 PM
"Topping from Below"

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0312144350/102-9684835-6332911

It has some disturbing moments and lots of hot D/S and S/M scenes surrounded by a murder mystery plot.

Nicolina
03-12-2005, 12:25 AM
I wouldnt call it bravery, I am very open about my preferences and proud of who I am.

See, I knew if I put this up here all my fellow freaks would eventually come out to play ;)

Nicolina
03-12-2005, 12:48 AM
Nic, odd as this may seem for a guy, while I confess to having a small stash I've really never had much interest in video porn, or even porn in general (unless a subscription to American Curves qualifies). Watching people freaky on my television to me is kind of like watching golf. I'm just not content to being relegated to a spectator, esspecially to a fantasy that isn't mine.

Doc, it doesn't seem odd at all. Honestly I've watched very little stuff on video (though I did "accidentally" end up in a professionally produced bondage flick--but that's another story...I've never watched it...too scary!) ....Anyway, I guess that's why I like books best...cause you can more readily put yourself into the action, and you can skip the boring stuff without having to mess around with a remote.


I do have a liking to a good BJ scene

Amen to that, doc. That's all you really need. Fuck the ropes and spreaders.


Even most "specialty" porn is a tad too generalized for my tastes. Not enough "triggers" if you know what I mean. To be honest, I'd just as soon direct the movie, or at least write the script.

I'm with you here, too. I guess that's why making it up in your head is best;) . "Specialty porn" is either too generalized OR too specific, I find. Maybe we should start a new "trigger" thread... :O

Thanks so much for sharing, Doc!
:)
Nic

Nicolina
03-12-2005, 12:53 AM
Or they have a learned behavior of not trying to push their preferences on a favored female who might not share those preferences. ;)


:-* (You're a good man, Jay.)

Cranky
03-12-2005, 10:48 AM
See, I knew if I put this up here all my fellow freaks would eventually come out to play ;)

Thats Mistress Freak, thanks! ;)

Nicolina
03-12-2005, 04:16 PM
Oh, yeah...actually I didn't see your pink ribbon before. But when I said "fellow freaks" I just meant brothers-and-sisters-in-freakdom :)

Katrine
03-12-2005, 07:33 PM
Here is a good resource:
http://www.leathernroses.com/mall/eroticabooks.htm

I would also like to point out one of my favorite writers of hardcore erotics, Pat Califa. She/he is a transgender leather dyke, now living as a man, who writes some great unsettling erotica. I would recommend anything by Califa if you are not squeemish......

Nicolina
03-12-2005, 07:41 PM
Thanks for all the recommendations, Kat. You rock. ;D

Cranky
03-13-2005, 10:35 AM
Oh, yeah...actually I didn't see your pink ribbon before. But when I said "fellow freaks" I just meant brothers-and-sisters-in-freakdom

Whatchu talkin bout sista? I put the F in freak :P No offense taken!


Here is a good resource:
http://www.leathernroses.com/mall/eroticabooks.htm

I would also like to point out one of my favorite writers of hardcore erotics, Pat Califa. She/he is a transgender leather dyke, now living as a man, who writes some great unsettling erotica. I would recommend anything by Califa if you are not squeemish......

Califa rocks! I didnt mention her because of the genre of her writing but Katrine is right.

Zaijann
04-12-2005, 07:41 PM
For tweeked bsdm my friend says any of the IVY MANSION movies,
IVY Mansion link (http://www.stockroom.com/b458.htm)
They looked neet to me, actually I might buy a few.

Archangel
04-15-2005, 07:32 AM
(Has anyone seen Zazel? I've seen some stills, and those boots with the big dildo spurs look pretty f*ckin' hot.)


Zazel is very interesting. 100% porno, but very artistically done. The story is almost non-existant though. It covers a good variety of scenes and fetishes. and the costumes, body painting and makeup are unique. Definately worth seeing. }:D

Nicolina
04-15-2005, 08:01 AM
^Thanks, Archangel! I may have to check that out...

smartcookie
04-23-2005, 10:56 AM
Shane's World.

In the book realm, read "The Bride Stripped Bare." Also check out "The Surrender" by Toni Bentley - a former ballerina's 300 page ode to assfucking. It's awesome.

Nicolina
04-23-2005, 11:53 AM
OMG, smartcookie, T. Bentley's "Winter Season: A Dancer's Journal" was one of my FAVORITE books when I was a teenager! I had NO IDEA that she later wrote an ode to assfucking! I'm a little disillusioned; I thought ballerinas didn't do things like that :O

But thank you, very much, for the suggestions. :) I bet they're good.

Wwanderer
04-23-2005, 11:33 PM
In the early years of the net, before it was filled with pay-for-access porn sites and such...in fact even before there were web sites, a large volume of amateur written porn was posted in various places. (Does anyone recall the network newsgroup alt.sex.stories and its various subgroups?) Most of it, of course, was very low quality, but there were some real gems of creativity, erotic imagination and decent writing to be found by the dedicated. And quite a bit of it was definitely of the subfem type. Unfortunately, the only place I'd know to look today is http://www.aspd.net/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=615, and I have not examined it enough to know whether the contents there are worthwhile or not.

Maybe the stuff is still out there somewhere, probably I'd guess, but it is hard to find it even with Google I'll bet because it will be buried amongst all the commercial porn however you search for it, as far as I can see.

-Ww

Katrine
04-25-2005, 04:03 AM
In the early years of the net, before it was filled with pay-for-access porn sites and such...in fact even before there were web sites, a large volume of amateur written porn was posted in various places. (Does anyone recall the network newsgroup alt.sex.stories and its various subgroups?)

-Ww

I LOVE a.s.s!! Hehehe, there an a.s.s.moderated group around that has a few gems in between stinkers. They had it for gay stories too. I'm too lazy to setup my news server right now to check, but I spenT MANY wasted hours on that group!

I'm order the ass ballerina book right now!!!!

Fudpucker
04-28-2005, 01:27 PM
Amatuer stuff is Ok but so many of the people in it are less than good looking. If they are in good shape and have at least a cute face I like it. If they are 20 poundds overweight forget it.

gdamadg
04-28-2005, 01:54 PM
There are lots of free porn sites still out on the net, but you just have to be careful about where you look. And if it is video your looking for usually just clips, unless you download torrents, then you can get the whole thing. The net is a weird and mysterious place, if you have a certain trigger, you are most assured to be able to find it.

Katrine
04-28-2005, 05:56 PM
Wow, and I thought we were talking about erotic literature here????? ;)

gdamadg
04-28-2005, 06:56 PM
:P lol, well Katrine. I think it was Porn/Erotica recommendations.

I didn't give links for that reason. It was a generic request porn and erotica, at first but most responses leaned towards literotica.

If someone wanted specifics, then I would be more than willing to provide. }:D

Malibu
05-17-2005, 07:06 AM
Oh you gotta love some regulars :)

Screw asking them for money, one of mine is making me copies of his porno collection. I am due to receive the first package this weekend with plenty of big dicks and gangbang scenes.

This girl cannot wait!!

Head Boy
05-17-2005, 08:48 AM
I had an idea about writing stories of phone sex stories, and I put some intros onto www.calltonight.com - I'm thinking of doing one about a stripper.

The real problem is deciding if a short story should be a teaser for a pay site, or if it should be an end in itself.

SportsWriter2
06-13-2005, 07:24 PM
I don't read erotica. I don't read much fiction. My porn attention span is 30 seconds, so I LOVE free trailers.

But... there are exceptions. I first saw Monique Alexander on alsscan.com and loved her look. She has finally gotten to hardcore boy/girl video in Lexi and Monique Love Rocco. That's the legendary Rocco Siffredi, doer of Kat's girl Belladonna. I'm buying the DVD. :P

I'd also buy the compilation video of "Iron" Mike Tyson taking his final beatings. :O

Nicolina
06-19-2005, 09:33 PM
Wandered into a stripper shoe/porn shop the other day....
Kat, HK, and others: Found a book called Estancia....an estate on which slave-training takes place. Some sick and twisted shit in there! (I've never heard of a ring gag before....:O) I was too bashful to buy it though....:-[

A series of videos called "Cum-Swapping Sluts" was also quite appealing....:)

SportsWriter2
06-20-2005, 06:29 AM
Wandered into a stripper shoe/porn shop the other day....
I think you made an intentional decision walking in the door. Maybe you wandered once you got inside...


Kat, HK, and others: Found a book called Estancia....an estate on which slave-training takes place. Some sick and twisted shit in there! (I've never heard of a ring gag before....:O)
Ring gags are good for face-forward suspensions if you like to see a lot of drooling, but dental mouth-spreaders look more professional.


I was too bashful to buy it though....:-[
You saved some money, too. You can always go to gor.net and read the free encyclopedia. Or watch an insex.com trailer. :O



A series of videos called "Cum-Swapping Sluts" was also quite appealing....:)
This has become quite the niche. You can find free swapping pics and trailers at spermswap, bravegirls, cumstars, cumswappingcuties, and doghousedigital ("share the wad" section).

Katrine
06-20-2005, 11:07 PM
http://www.extremerestraints.com/stat/st625.html

Wow, that is fucking hot!! Why, oh why can't I find a nice man who owns one of these and isn't afraid to use it? Every guy is so sucky and boring, he just wants to lie there while I jump on top of him. If he does want to do something, its giving me real bad oral that serves his ego more than any of my needs.....

Back to the vibe......

BTW, I saw "Quills" tonight....hot hot hot! The end was sucky though..........

mr_punk
06-30-2005, 09:55 PM
Why, oh why can't I find a nice man who owns one of these and isn't afraid to use it?perhaps, they think you're too special.}:D

oh, here is a decent erotica recommendation on rope bondage for you sailors or ex-scouts out there. i have a copy of it myself and it pretty much covers a lot of the basic restraints techniques, positions and equipment. http://www.extremerestraints.com/stat/st052.html

Katrine
06-30-2005, 11:31 PM
Dearest Punky, I'm beginning to dislike you a little less. Its a shame I don't fit into your beauty ideal. I know you wouldn't have me as I probably have 5% too much body fat and a head to boot......no, removing the head is NOT an option. We still need a mouth hole to work with and NO you can't drill a new one or use the cranial stump.........

mr_punk
07-02-2005, 08:57 PM
Dearest Punky, I'm beginning to dislike you a little less.uh oh, that means i'm doing something terribly wrong. i'll have to correct that in the near future.

its a shame I don't fit into your beauty ideal. I know you wouldn't have me as I probably have 5% too much body fat and a head to bootbut you're only half-correct. i don't have a problem with you below the neck. i just can't get past the whole head thing. i mean, what's wrong with talking directly to a woman's breasts or ass rather than a useless appendage like a head? anyway, i have a solution...

no, removing the head is NOT an option. We still need a mouth hole to work with and NO you can't drill a new one or use the cranial stump.........damn it! oh well, back to the drawing board....

infra-red
07-30-2005, 01:54 AM
"Night Trips" by Andrew Blake is THE best porn film ever!! Best soundtrack, as well! Even though I work in "the business", its the only porn DVD I own!

CrescentLuna
08-14-2005, 05:54 PM
Carrie's Story by Molly Westerfield. Haven't read the sequel yet, loved the first one though. :)

Dental mouth-spreaders look more scary. Which can be a good thing.

BF is on the lookout for drow porn, if anyone comes across any, PM me. ;)

Casual Observer
08-14-2005, 08:57 PM
"Night Trips" by Andrew Blake is THE best porn film ever!!

Certainly classic, indeed.

I'm a big Blake fan.

infra-red
08-18-2005, 02:41 PM
Me too, the guy is just amazing! I also like JimmyD's vids. He is a member of the glamour photography site I belong to. He is quite amusing.

Katrine
08-19-2005, 01:54 AM
Awwww, isn' that sweet. Why don't you two go have a big happy gay singalong. I'll stick with my Bella and Max. They can do A2M because they have been completely sterilized of all living cells. ;)

Sectumsempra
08-19-2005, 11:44 AM
I like a site called "Beautiful Agony" - you get to see people's faces (and just their faces) while they orgasm... it's actually a lot more arousing than a lot of porn where you get to see everything, because the orgasms aren't fake like in porn, they're real...