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ksalerio
04-26-2005, 01:14 AM
I date whoever i like, i dont care about race & i dont have a particular race that i like to date. ive dated a black guy, albanian & arabic.

jadenphilly
05-02-2005, 06:24 PM
I have pretty much only dated black men, I have been with my boygriend for 6 years now and he is black. We live in an all black neighborhood, and I get funny looks some times.

I have worked in an all black club before, I was the only white girl there, it was in North Park in San Diego. I made BANK. But I have never discriminated against any race, but white men do not hit on me, or any other race for that matter other than black men. And all my friends are black, when I used to dancesome of the girls at the clun did have additudes about it but I did not care what they had to say.

rusdancer
05-03-2005, 08:38 AM
I've dated all kinds of people,and seem most drawn to exotic looks,instead just white males,although I like them,too.I always had a weakness for persian men.

illusions_charm
05-04-2005, 09:46 AM
I have always been VERY attracted to black men!!! HOT, HOT, HOT!!! I think it is so interesting when this topic comes up I have friends that tell me they aren't attracted to black men AT ALL and I am just like WHAT? *lol* They obviously have never seen black on white NEKKID! *BLUSH* OK so call me visual *sigh* ;)

I will be married 5 years this June - been with my husband for the last 10 -- we have DEFINITELY had our challenges with society! (Both of our families included) My husband is quite dark and a big guy (ex football player) and I am a 5'9, green eyed, blonde (Swedish) needless to say we tend to "stand out" and draw our fair share of "sneers" - I have learned SO MUCH from him how to stand tall despite what people might say or think. It's not been easy but he is my rock in this world... :)

girlinmd
05-04-2005, 10:46 AM
um....

i know this is practically sacrilege as a black girl, but i don't find taye diggs even remotely attractive. tyson, either.

now, morris chestnut and michael ealy can get it all day *austin powers voice* YEAH BABY YEAH!!!!

morris chestnut is at the top of my list, michael ealy is a CLOSE second. i am so hating on halle right now :).

i find myself attracted to whomever, really. i like latina and white girls a lot. i have dated white men and got into a relationship with one, but it didn't work out. i just had a problem with the fact that he claimed that he didn't find white women attractive and the fact that he acted as if him having sex with me was his automatic "ghetto pass". not cool. he didn't turn me off to white men though, i still find head turners here and there.

i like italian men, i like the dark hair blue eye combo too. sexy. i like dark skinned asian men, like men from cambodia. i had a serious crush on a cambodian for a long time. but really the trick is to have a certain je'ne sais quoi about you...a certain swagger...which is why i like lenny kravitz, matt damon, and sean connery. sean connery is a sexy old man and he could get it twice :D!

illusions_charm
05-04-2005, 11:09 AM
um....

now, morris chestnut and michael ealy can get it all day *austin powers voice* YEAH BABY YEAH!!!!
i like latina girls
i like italian men
sean connery is a sexy old man and he could get it twice :D!

I AGREE!!! I AGREE!!!! All the above --- Chestnut is HOT and Ealy those EYES and LIPS!

Latin Girls are VERY Sexy! I always wanted to have a more EXOTIC look -- something mixed...

Italian Men!!! :D

Sean Connery has always been a favorite of mine too... He could just TALK to me!

:)

misssmith
05-04-2005, 12:48 PM
Okay.....I am 18 years old and have been with my man for 4 years (yes 14 yrs old.) He's black and I'm white. I live in a very small town and there are A LOT of people that talk shit and are so quick to judge you right off the bat. I look at it this way.......The only person that can judge me is GOD. I love my man very much and it's taken my mother 4 years to finally let him come to her house. My dad still hasn't met him and dosn't care to. I don't care what people think of me anymore as far as our relationship. I found out who my true friends are and HAVE made new friends since then. None of my friends date black guys but they love me the same. He's not the first black guy that I have dated and black guys arn't all that I WILL date. I love my man because he is a GREAT person. We have been through a lot of shit but we went through it TOGETHER. When we go out I (literally) forget about me being white and him being black. We're people. Gods children. not aliens.

cinammonkisses
06-08-2005, 10:00 AM
Okay.....I am 18 years old and have been with my man for 4 years (yes 14 yrs old.) He's black and I'm white. I live in a very small town and there are A LOT of people that talk shit and are so quick to judge you right off the bat. I look at it this way.......The only person that can judge me is GOD. I love my man very much and it's taken my mother 4 years to finally let him come to her house. My dad still hasn't met him and dosn't care to. I don't care what people think of me anymore as far as our relationship. I found out who my true friends are and HAVE made new friends since then. None of my friends date black guys but they love me the same. He's not the first black guy that I have dated and black guys arn't all that I WILL date. I love my man because he is a GREAT person. We have been through a lot of shit but we went through it TOGETHER. When we go out I (literally) forget about me being white and him being black. We're people. Gods children. not aliens.

Don't let anyone break the 2 of you down ok sweetie. The love is there! Keep it blossoming...

showgirlschloe
06-08-2005, 12:16 PM
I've never dated a black man, but have slept with a couple of black women. How do I vote?

dollylocks
06-08-2005, 08:15 PM
i'm assuming this question is aimed at white women, as it is relatively common for black women to date black men.

I don't however; the ones where i grew up SUCKED, so i was never into them.

NinaDaisy
06-08-2005, 10:12 PM
All my relationships have been interracial. I'm Latin and every guy I've ever dated has been white. Not done on purpose, that's just the way it's been.

There are black men I think are attractive, but I've never been attracted to one. Haven't met any Latin guys I've been into yet either, primarily because they're usually all thugged-out and that's just not something I'm into.

quoth_the_raven
06-09-2005, 10:58 PM
At least I'm not alone in this! I'm black and I don't date black men anymore. I've probably dated more White and Hispanic men than anything. The current Love of My Life is a big, sexy, and goofy(like me) Clark Kent type. I do love to look at Black(or Asian, or Hispanic, etc) men though... My man hates it when we watch anything with Morris Chesnut in it or The Rock!

An intelligent, well-spoken man of any race is so sexy to me, but hard to find in my area. Around here most Black men I meet are so cocky and arrogant(don't know why--most of the ones I meet don't have jobs, or can't tell me what their job is) and disrespectful. It's as if all black women should be grateful to be in their presence, so they can talk to us any kind of way. Sometimes I wonder if these guys have mothers? And if they see a Black woman with a white male, they are SO insulted like "What, us brothers not good enough for ya?". Then after all the fuss they go home to their White wives/girlfriends :shrug:

Damn, I sound like Clayton Bigsby from the Chappelle show }:D WHITE POWER!!! Seriously, though, I have dated men of many races, not because of their skin color, but because of the person (I thought)they were. IMO there are *ssholes in every race. There are also some sexy *ss mofos in every race!

dollylocks
06-12-2005, 01:20 AM
An intelligent, well-spoken man of any race is so sexy to me, but hard to find in my area. Around here most Black men I meet are so cocky and arrogant(don't know why--most of the ones I meet don't have jobs, or can't tell me what their job is) and disrespectful. It's as if all black women should be grateful to be in their presence, so they can talk to us any kind of way. Sometimes I wonder if these guys have mothers? And if they see a Black woman with a white male, they are SO insulted like "What, us brothers not good enough for ya?". Then after all the fuss they go home to their White wives/girlfriends :shrug:


a-fucking-men

prairie
06-12-2005, 04:43 AM
i'm half lebanese / half white so most all of my relationships are somewhat "interracial". i stopped dating guys when i was about 17. the two i did date were both white. mostly because i lived in a predominately white, upper middle class area / went to a predominately white high school.

the two girls i've had semi-serious relationships with since then were not white. one was puerto rican and the other was black.

i'm not turned on or turned off by any particular race. i do tend to go for semitic / exotic looking girls. i like them dark haired / dark eyed like myself. i guess i'm just not attracted to typically anglo-saxon features.

Amethyst
06-13-2005, 06:32 AM
And if they see a Black woman with a white male, they are SO insulted like "What, us brothers not good enough for ya?". Then after all the fuss they go home to their White wives/girlfriends :shrug:

LMAO!! This happens to my BF and me all the time. This weekend, for example, we went to a festival and not only did a few Black men give me that "TRAITOR" look, but some were walking with their White girlfriends/wives and BOTH parties were looking at us like "how the hell did THAT happen ("THAT" being White man with a non-White/Asian woman) or "what is s/he doing with him/her?". I love it!!

quoth_the_raven
06-13-2005, 06:48 AM
^Yeah, I have to admit I get a kick out of that, too! I love to dress really sexy(but classy) when my bf and I go out }:D It's really funny when people give us that look like we've commited a crime against nature. Luckily he's like 6'3" and 240lbs, so no one really has the balls to mess with him!

desavirsire
06-15-2005, 06:26 PM
I`ve dated 3 black guys, i`m an equal opportunist but I just find any variation of interracial relationships beautiful. Also i tend to have more black guys approach me than any other race, can`t really figure that one out but i definately don`t mind.

pink_staR
06-15-2005, 08:42 PM
I like all guys. Black guys are definitely hot too. The last guy I dated was mixed (he was half black, half asian) and aside from how hot he was, he was also very driven and serious about his future.

Anyways, I don't care about race...I love everyone lol.

x0x <3

Crystal_eyes
06-16-2005, 02:47 PM
I think all my relationships have been inter racials. Asians, arabs, italians, greeks ... I don't care about the race just about the wallet LOL }:D

misstressdj
06-16-2005, 08:37 PM
Although I am not racist I would never again date anyone outside my own race. I dated a black man once and found that we spent more time defending our relationship than having one. The black women I delt with hated me and white men and women just gave me too much shit about it not to mention my parents didn't approve of it not that I really cared too much about that. After a while I just got tired of hearing the shit so we just ended it. But then again the guy I dated was the whitest black man you would ever meet. Lately I've been exposed to those men that think they are thugs and that doesnt impress me much so I just tend to stick with kinky white men. But nine times out of ten I dont really find black men that attractive just my personl opinion

SmokyBrownEyez
06-20-2005, 07:41 PM
Well I'm a black chick that prefers white guys so I couldn't take your poll. I thought you were gonna do a poll including different races of women who date outside their race but yeah I like white guys with dark features.

screaminpeachez
06-20-2005, 07:49 PM
Ok been there...
it was the same as any of the white men I've dated except less oral sex...

Amy85
06-04-2006, 01:08 AM
I'm an equal opportunity dater :-*

exotisch23
06-04-2006, 01:12 AM
never have, never will. I'm only into white men of scandinavian descent. Not if they're wiggers though, I cannot STAND those kind of guys or guys in general that act like thugs. They're the waste of society. :yuck:

PaigeDWinter
06-04-2006, 01:34 AM
never have, never will. I'm only into white men of scandinavian descent. Not if they're wiggers though, I cannot STAND those kind of guys or guys in general that act like thugs. They're the waste of society. :yuck:

Do they have to have accurate family tree documentation as to being 100% Scandinavian? :O

exotisch23
06-04-2006, 02:11 AM
Do they have to have accurate family tree documentation as to being 100% Scandinavian? :O

No but they have to know that they are. Blonde hair & blue eyes can be a good indication. Yes I know I'm picky. ;D

PaigeDWinter
06-04-2006, 02:33 AM
Ahh. Was just curious. Its so hard anymore to be just one thing and all, yanno? And the blonde hair blue eyes can be so many things. Hell... my mom was blonde hair blue eyes... but she was Italian and black. Go figure. I guess skin tone helps. She had olive skin, as do I... we arent pink like the German/English side of my family LOL.

cinammonkisses
06-04-2006, 09:21 AM
Not if they're wiggers though, I cannot STAND those kind of guys or guys in general that act like thugs.

Hmm I cant' believe you just wrote that.

Tell me...what is a WIGGER?

Beauty's Release
06-04-2006, 10:03 AM
I voted never have. It just works out that way, or has so far.
I looove the celtic look/uber pale. It's almost like a fetish.

So that's who I end up with.

exotisch23
06-04-2006, 06:43 PM
Hmm I cant' believe you just wrote that.

Tell me...what is a WIGGER?


Urban dictionary says:

wigger

A male caucasion, usually born and raised in the suburbs that displays a strong desire to emulate African American Hip Hop culture and style through "Bling" fashion and generally accepted "thug life" guiding principles.

here are the rest..

Vyanka
06-04-2006, 06:50 PM
I think all my relationships have been inter racials. Asians, arabs, italians, greeks ... I don't care about the race just about the wallet LOL }:D

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Analucia
06-04-2006, 08:11 PM
Well I am black and I have dated black men, asian men, latino men, and a man who was all three, basically I likes em all! I really havent got any looks (maybe cuz it's NYC) but I really learn so much from the men I have been involved with, some positive and some negative...

carolina6
06-04-2006, 10:18 PM
I'm white and only dated white boys back in high school (but there was only 1 black guy in my class). Married a white guy, we split up, and then since then it's been all asian all the way. I don't know why, but that's how it is! Maybe black guys will be next, I find a lot of them cute, so there's no reason I wouldn't date them.

sexysweet
06-05-2006, 01:11 AM
Originally posted by Tina:

As a black woman I would say that the ordinary "common" black man with a "sketchy" upbringing is out to be a player as that is all he knows in his environment. He will drive his white womans car, spend her money, and when she is not around be working on hooking up with other girls.

The black guys who are brought up in a loving home with stable middle to upper middle class educated parents, and who have been exposed to integrated or private schools, tend to be respectful guys. You'll rarely see them dressing "gansta", or talking in slang, and these types of guys may date white girls they meet at school since they tend to not live in all black neighborhoods. These guys are good people for the most part and would not have anything to do with a white woman who "wants to be black" and tend to attract white girls who may have never thought about dating a black man before. With a few exceptions I would be hesitant about dealing with black men who aren't brought up in this manner unless they truly want nothing to do with the hood "playa" lifestyle and have ambitions in life.

The black guys from the right upbringing can have a good wholesome relationship with a white woman and as long as the white woman understands and accepts the fact that prejudice is still alive and well and won't let family and outside forces sweat her about why she is with a black man. This can be as good of a relationship/marriage as with a person of the same race if the white girl doesn't let other white peoples reactions get to her.

Unfortunately many white girls get hung up on the confidence and "excitement" that black men exude and live compared with with white men of the same age, and get caught up in a downward spiral in life by hanging with or being involved with black men who have dealt with dysfunctionality all of their lives. Sadly these "wanna be black" types of white girls find the educated black guy from a decent home, who has ambition in life, "square".

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My problem with this whole statement is that there are white girls, who know they are white but none- the- less find them selves attracted to black men.

These same white girls do not try to act black- nor do they pretend to know the culture, food, or racial beliefs of their signficant others back-ground, but because they care about this person they are willing to learn.

Sometimes it is not the "white" girls back ground/family that interferes but the black mans back-ground/ family that disaproves and or interferes and causes friction.

I say this because the first black man I ever dated was great, but he was so worried about what other people said or thought that it strained our relationship.

And I was the one who came from an ignorant family yet he met my mother and brother from another state while he wouldn't take me to meet his family in the same town because he was afraid of their reaction to my being white.

TROU8LE~
06-05-2006, 07:55 AM
Ive dated all types. But Ill have to say, the worst guy I have ever dated was black. He was the one with the worst memories. ..As I think of it, all the black guys I dated were pretty bad. And all my gurls who are black tell me all the time how they will never date a black guy. lol. hmm. But Im dating an awsome asian right now. Hes a very classy doctor, awsome persnality. So..even though Im white, I dont just stick w/ the white guys/gurls.

Vyanka
06-05-2006, 08:25 AM
Ohhh Oh oh! I totally forgot about this one HOT as hell Black Brazilian guy I dated when I was young(eighteen yrs. old). MY GOD he was so hot that when I first layed my eyes on him, my eyes would get watery bc he was that damn fucking hot. Very exotic looking!

He was a model. He had caramel skin, hazel green eyes, and he use to straighten out his hair and tie it into a ponytail. He had juicy lips, just perfect facial features and body. And a perfect sense of style to go with the package.

I have to say this is the best good looking guy i've ever talked to. We didn't date bc I was TOO young and he was almost 30. }:D

On that note, the thing I love about Brazilians, is that they never say(insert discription race here) hot person. They'll say hot person, then describe the person. ;)

cinammonkisses
06-05-2006, 12:06 PM
Urban dictionary says:

wigger

A male caucasion, usually born and raised in the suburbs that displays a strong desire to emulate African American Hip Hop culture and style through "Bling" fashion and generally accepted "thug life" guiding principles.

here are the rest.. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=wiger

Well I dont' care what some "urban" dictionary has to say about that word...WTF you kill me. You're such a bigot and I know you find pride in that. You may as well go walk around with your pointy hat!

oceanside
06-05-2006, 12:28 PM
To me it doen't matter. If I find you attractive, then it's cool.

hot4ablackchick
06-05-2006, 02:33 PM
I like all guys. Every race has its cuties and uglies. Most men are assholes in general IMO. I am currently engaged to a white man, and most women I know are having BF problems, no matter what race the BF is. It is really stupid to think that a man of a certain race will treat you better.

exotisch23
06-05-2006, 03:56 PM
Well I dont' care what some "urban" dictionary has to say about that word...WTF you kill me. You're such a bigot and I know you find pride in that. You may as well go walk around with your pointy hat!

oh yeah I'm a bigot because I don't like white guys that act like thugs. I don't see how that equals bigot at all.

cinammonkisses
06-05-2006, 06:03 PM
Not if they're wiggers though, I cannot STAND those kind of guys or guys in general that act like thugs. They're the waste of society.

You see the key word right there...."OR"


oh yeah I'm a bigot because I don't like white guys that act like thugs. I don't see how that equals bigot at all.

You are a bigot because you cannot stand both "wiggers" or guys who act like thugs... Wigger = Nigger to alot of people in this society and that's exactly what you meant by the comment. I'm not the only person who feels that you are a racist...Psst (between you and me and SW) I've gotten quite a few PM's agreeing with how much of a racist you really are. ;)

Alot of your posts have racial undertones in them. Most recently, the "wigger" comment, the "scandanavian men" comment...not to mention posts you make often in relation to immigration. I could go on and on but I won't..you will just continue to feel the way that you do. I'm done going back and forth on you with this issue. A racist is a racist is a racist...There you have it..now I'm done! :soapbox:

scarlett_vancouver
06-05-2006, 06:49 PM
I don't like thugs either, of any race. :-\ I don't think that makes me racist- I do think it's racist to assume that the word 'thug' describes a particular race!

I'm very often attracted to Indian guys (East Indian), but have never dated and Indian guy seriously. Usually, it seems once we get past the flirty stage, they're not into me. It's culture, to a degree. You won't find to many Hindu-raised Indian guys wanting to date a stripper. Even Christian or 'other' raised Indian guys usually have been brought up with a higher-than-average dose of the madonna/whore thing. Too bad. :(

exotisch23
06-05-2006, 06:52 PM
You see the key word right there...."OR"



You are a bigot because you cannot stand both "wiggers" or guys who act like thugs... Wigger = Nigger to alot of people in this society and that's exactly what you meant by the comment. I'm not the only person who feels that you are a racist...Psst (between you and me and SW) I've gotten quite a few PM's agreeing with how much of a racist you really are. ;)

Alot of your posts have racial undertones in them. Most recently, the "wigger" comment, the "scandanavian men" comment...not to mention posts you make often in relation to immigration. I could go on and on but I won't..you will just continue to feel the way that you do. I'm done going back and forth on you with this issue. A racist is a racist is a racist...There you have it..now I'm done! :soapbox:





You are too funny!! Do you know how many people are against illegal immigration & also how many other girls have PREFERENCES on what type of guys they date? If that makes me racist then yeah I guess I am... LOL.

exotisch23
06-09-2006, 04:50 AM
OK I guess I'm right then.

Bridgette
06-09-2006, 05:15 AM
The wording of the poll choices rubs me wrong. "Been with them before but not a habit" kinda sounds like it could be a bad choice....

I've been with black men. I find them attractive, but my biggest attraction is to dark-haired, brown-skinned men, the latino "look". Hence, most my boyfriends have been latino, big surprise. I don't find fair-skinned, fair- or red-haired men attractive, so I don't date "white" guys.

PaigeDWinter
06-09-2006, 05:50 PM
I guess you could say that any relationship I am in is interacial. I'm mixed, therefor it is. Heh. My boyfriend is mostly white, some Italian... but he's VERY fair skinned and has blonde hair and blue eyes. I prefer Italian and Latino men, as far as color combinations go... semi-dark skin, dark hair... dark eyes... but as you can see, its more than just looks that do it. I found a groovy guy and I plan on keeping him and giving him lots of lil interacial babies. Muhahaa.

Sirona
06-09-2006, 06:16 PM
I was raised by hippies so dating other races/religions was never an issue one way or the other.

I've dated Puerta Ricans, African Americans, American Indians, Bolivians, Koreans, Laotians and had crushes on numerous others. It's about the person not thier race.

Whoever mentioned Gary Dourdan from CSI.... I would so love to drag my tongue all over that man, he's beautiful.

PaigeDWinter
06-09-2006, 06:22 PM
Whoever mentioned Gary Dourdan from CSI.... I would so love to drag my tongue all over that man, he's beautiful.


Oh HELL YES. *swoons*


What a sexy male creature!



http://gfx.filmweb.pl/p/3897/po.76282.jpg

madmaxine
06-09-2006, 07:22 PM
I've been with every race & enjoyed it. It's culture that makes the difference, people!

What's sad is it took me 27 years to think about being with a woman..horrible, huh? ; P

scarlett_vancouver
06-09-2006, 08:02 PM
Warrick from CSI is HOT. Actually, they all are. Wait, not Brass.