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asianlady
12-30-2007, 04:19 PM
I have always said I am not into black guys but inspite of that I have had sex with a half dozen or more some were damn nice but its more of a aditude I don't like than colour hate the whole hip hop aditude tend to find that in younger blacks but older blacks are a little more calm and relaxed in my experiance and so sex is better with them
cinammonkisses
12-30-2007, 04:48 PM
flame if you want, but i have a type- 6ft and up, dark hair, light skin, light eyes... i pick those out of a crowd, and i'm not really attracted to anything else. i can theoretically appreciate the beauty of other races but i just dont want to hit that
I agree with Cam, I dont' see why you'd think you'd be flamed. So, you're into dark hair, light skin, and light eyes. Is there a particular racial background that you're into? Cause caucasian men are not the only guys who can have light skin and eyes..just curious.
ahmeerah
12-30-2007, 05:02 PM
I worded that wrong. The only major problem is that I type dramatically since I can't really express myself except through smileys ::). But you're exactly right. The majority of Americans are definitely mixed, and that's what makes this place so awesome. I also agree with your ethnicity v. race concept. There's your physical distinction that makes you the same or different from others, and there's your cultural distinction that makes you the same or different from others. And there are so many shades of gray when it comes to these definitions.
This thread and your post makes me think about a girl I met yesterday. I thought she was maybe Jewish but come to find out she's Argentinian-American. Her family's from Argentina. So - her race is white but I think a lot of people would say she's Latina (not looking at her).
Katrine
12-30-2007, 05:37 PM
The new booty call is mixed Asian (maybe Thai?), Persian, and Russian. He was adopted and grew up here. He looks like he could be any race, its very cool. He's hot too, similar to Brandon Lee or the Rock. Me likey.
saphire123456
12-31-2007, 08:53 AM
I agree with Cam, I dont' see why you'd think you'd be flamed. So, you're into dark hair, light skin, and light eyes. Is there a particular racial background that you're into? Cause caucasian men are not the only guys who can have light skin and eyes..just curious.
i've dated some puerto rican guys when i was younger, but the last 10 years they have been white and/or jewish (which i still consider white)
PrettyCurlieQ
12-31-2007, 09:15 AM
... they have been white and/or jewish (which i still consider white)
That's what I was talking about. Race versus ethnicity. I've got a friend from Brazil who everyone assumes is like Mexican (Latino, I guess?) or even black, and just light-skinned. But he's white. Practically straight from Portugual. And my bf is Muslim by heritage, from Eastern Europe. They don't come whiter than him. But if I just randomly told someone my bf was Muslim, they'd assume he was Arabian or something. It's physical (race) vs. ethnicity.
firekitten19
01-01-2008, 10:00 PM
The new booty call is mixed Asian (maybe Thai?), Persian, and Russian. He was adopted and grew up here. He looks like he could be any race, its very cool. He's hot too, similar to Brandon Lee or the Rock. Me likey.
Bradon Lee looking??? Lucky!!!}:D
maryjade
01-16-2008, 04:07 PM
I've dated mostly white guys, plus a few asians. I think black men are very attractive physically, but I don't like the attitude I usually get from them. I feel too much like a piece of meat or a trophy. I know that's a generalization, but it's the experience I've had personally, and it negates the physical attraction.
Now black women ... that's another matter. Definitely attracted. ;)
zoe jane
02-26-2008, 03:40 PM
i love a beautiful black man! i was married to a pure white man and never again!! ever since our divorce which was 6 years ago i have dated only black men. i am now with a black man and have been with him for 2 years he is a wonderful man and treats me better than any man i have ever encountered. oh yeah im german, italian, and indian.
kandie_kitten
02-26-2008, 08:09 PM
I'm sorry, I got sidetracked by the mention of Brandon Lee.
*dusts out copy of the Crow...*drools*
AppleBottum
03-05-2008, 06:25 PM
I love me some black men. I think a lot of girls are but they are just worried too much about what people will think. Parents and relatives etc..
Zinaida
03-05-2008, 07:06 PM
I messed around with a black bouncer at my old club quite a bit. Good times good times.
CinammonGirl
03-05-2008, 09:20 PM
Since people are talking about hook-ups and messing around, I messed around with a tall black guy in highschool..and damn, I loved it. But mainly because he was hot and I was really attracted to him.
xoxstarlet
03-07-2008, 04:49 PM
Mostly into white guys(something about Irish men drives me wild). I'm not that attracted to blk men. Sometimes I will be attracted to them but then their attitude kills it. They act overly eager around women. Or chase me even when I'm not attracted to them and I make my feelings clear. If they like me they dont stop staring and that just makes me uncomfortable.
ruru123
03-07-2008, 07:39 PM
Mostly into white guys(something about Irish men drives me wild). I'm not that attracted to blk men. Sometimes I will be attracted to them but then their attitude kills it. They act overly eager around women. Or chase me even when I'm not attracted to them and I make my feelings clear. If they like me they dont stop staring and that just makes me uncomfortable.
the way you say "they" is unsettling with me. you can't generalize. i'd say certain type of man is like that, but it has nothing to do with color.
manda_baby
03-07-2008, 07:52 PM
I love men in general...if he happens to be black, but hes what Im looking for, I dont care what race he is. A good man is never a bad color.
If he has a good personality, looks good next to me, and treats me right, he could be purple for all I care....
Zinaida
03-07-2008, 07:59 PM
Purple might turn me off lol!
manda_baby
03-07-2008, 08:27 PM
Lol true, I just wanted to stress the fact that a good man to me is never a bad color...
*~Angel~*
03-28-2009, 10:20 AM
You girls gotta admit, once you've been with a black guy you gotta admit that its hella good. That you in fact LOVED it. I admit I havent been with loads, but dayuuum, still felt nice. But I guess it depends on the guy, find a nice one and you got it made. Same for white guys too, but there is a difference. I like it a bit more on the rough side, and that is what got with a black guy. White guys try to make love more then play it rough, you have to tell them what to do. Black guys just seem to know what makes you hot.
So, in my opinion, black guys rock my socks. But I guess then again it would differ from girl to girl, and prbly on how much you like sex too :P
lilfairyqueen
03-29-2009, 08:37 PM
You girls gotta admit, once you've been with a black guy you gotta admit that its hella good. That you in fact LOVED it. I admit I havent been with loads, but dayuuum, still felt nice. But I guess it depends on the guy, find a nice one and you got it made. Same for white guys too, but there is a difference. I like it a bit more on the rough side, and that is what got with a black guy. White guys try to make love more then play it rough, you have to tell them what to do. Black guys just seem to know what makes you hot.
So, in my opinion, black guys rock my socks. But I guess then again it would differ from girl to girl, and prbly on how much you like sex too :P
I kinda gotta agree with ya girl. First time I was with a black guy I was hooked. Best sex I've ever had was with black men.
inferior wine
04-01-2009, 03:10 PM
I've never had the opportunity.
Victoryx0x0
04-04-2009, 05:31 PM
im greek an italian and my man is black.
my ex's are all different colors of the rainbow i dont care about color more about the insides but my man now is the most beautiful man ever!
SAYURI SAN
04-06-2009, 01:39 AM
I love black men ..i am not attracted to anything else.
she sells sanctuary
04-06-2009, 06:35 AM
You girls gotta admit, once you've been with a black guy you gotta admit that its hella good. That you in fact LOVED it. I admit I havent been with loads, but dayuuum, still felt nice. But I guess it depends on the guy, find a nice one and you got it made. Same for white guys too, but there is a difference. I like it a bit more on the rough side, and that is what got with a black guy. White guys try to make love more then play it rough, you have to tell them what to do. Black guys just seem to know what makes you hot.
So, in my opinion, black guys rock my socks. But I guess then again it would differ from girl to girl, and prbly on how much you like sex too :P
i love sex. a lot.
not into black guys.
for one, they've treated me like crap, like a piece of meat. i've never gotten good head from a black dude. one guy wanted to have black snake moan on in the background (yes really). another guy accused me of being racist anytime he didn't get his way.
ugh.
i've since vowed not to date black guys ever ever ever again. ironically because of the racism accusations.
of course, i tend to like skinny irish drunks, and they've got fucking monster dicks. lol. it's not like i'm missing out on anything.
jgand
04-06-2009, 07:03 AM
People are people and there are good ones and bad ones, i dont care about race & i dont have a particular race that i like to date.
It's whats on the inside that counts, social and economic backgrounds can have an effect also. Ultimately, either you like them or you don't.
SerenaSin
04-07-2009, 06:34 AM
I'm Puerto Rican, Italian, Haitian and Irish and my bf is pretty much 'white'. I sometimes forget we're sort of in an "interracial" relationship until I'm reminded of it. haha.
I've only ever dated White and Cuban guys. Then again I am from Miami originally so...
MissIngenue
04-07-2009, 05:25 PM
I'm in an inter-'cultural' relationship. I am plain ol' Australian, whereas my boyfriend is first generation Maltese-English. He is quite exotic looking for being white.
kissesfrombambi
04-07-2009, 06:29 PM
mmm i'm not gonna lie i used to only date white guys (i'm black barbadian) until the first time i dated a black man and omg there is nothing like it... nobody has ever been able to do it as well as they can... not only sex but EVERYTHING... they have a personality that is so aggressive when it needs to be but so sweet omg i cant get enough now lmao
MissLucy
07-28-2009, 07:26 AM
Ive honestly never met a black man that I considered being with. Its not a physical thing so much as a lifestyle thing. Granted I have trouble finding ANYONE who fits into my "type". My area is 98% caucasian, which certainly affects the situation.
thelovelylenee
07-28-2009, 09:40 AM
well im the exact opposite of most of the situations i've read...im black , my entire life i've dated white men....
Prisoner201181
07-29-2009, 08:35 PM
I tend to date white guys, and there is a special affinity for Italians. LOL. I'm part Italian and really like the whole machismo thing, which also makes certain latin cultures attractive to me as well.
Funny though the white guys I date are usually Northern European. I dated a Puerto Rican once, unfortunately that was a horrible experience not bc he was puerto rican (he was also a little bit german) but because he was a complete sociopath.
A good girlfriend of mine (and old my old roomie) only dates Mexicans, she is caucasian, part Italian, part northern european of sorts. Sometimes they don't even speak English! LOL. This definately helped me with my Spanish skills though when we were roomies and her bf was over!
My nicest customer (one of the ones you actually consider dating) was African American. He would always recommend good books to me and he rode BMX bikes. Also when we did dances he'd just get an hour room, for a couple hours and not even make me take off my clothes and we'd just talk about everything from science, to travelling, to what breeds of dogs we liked LOL. He was very classy.
sunnie86
07-29-2009, 08:45 PM
I'm mixed Black and Latino, but never been with a black guy in a serious relationship. In fact the one black guy I did see never went anywhere sexually, the chemistry just wasn't there. Other then that 1 guy who I had 2 dates with, I've only dated white and Latino men. I just don't like the approach I get from most black men.
mediocrity
07-31-2009, 01:06 PM
I love hispanic men, or mixed hispanic. Most beautiful man I ever dated was half german and half puerto rican, and grew up in germany. He had billowing blonde curls, green eyes, and puerto rican skin tone. God he was beautiful. R is puerto rican too, but was born and raised here so speaks no spanish. Gorgeous, gorgeous man- never thought I could bag one as pretty as him!
I wish I could post a picture.
BuxomBeauty
08-01-2009, 11:38 AM
I am white and I like dark men, especially black or Caribbean latin.
EbbySmiles
08-03-2009, 10:23 AM
I have dated and married white men and black men. I dont date men who under educated and blue collar regardless of color. Meaning I dont date the red necks around my current resident. They are very blue collar under educated and shocked I dont find that attractive.
stacey12
09-18-2009, 07:53 PM
i am a british girl but my man is 2nd generation indian born in britain.
p.s sex= amazing ::)
I love hispanic men, or mixed hispanic. Most beautiful man I ever dated was half german and half puerto rican, and grew up in germany. He had billowing blonde curls, green eyes, and puerto rican skin tone. God he was beautiful. R is puerto rican too, but was born and raised here so speaks no spanish. Gorgeous, gorgeous man- never thought I could bag one as pretty as him!
I wish I could post a picture.
I am half Puerto Rican and half German! That's funny! I've always gravitated towards Latin, Italian, or similar cultures family wise. I feel "white" American men often don't share similar family values.
redwinekisses
09-21-2009, 01:15 PM
i'm white (italian and french) and i'm totally an equal opportunity girl. if a guy is cool and sexy and we have good chemistry, who cares what race he is? i think the concept of race is becoming obsolete anyway - especially in nyc, where it's so diverse. my first boyfriend was black, white, and philippino (gorgeous), and i never did understand the hoopla that resulted when my parents found out (they're pretty conservative wasps). someone as mixed as he is would always be in an interracial relationship, so what's the big deal?
Rayna Skye
09-25-2009, 05:51 PM
I will date anyone that understands how I feel. So far only fellow black people understand how I feel. I had a white sugar daddy, and cut him lose after two dates, cause he didn't really understand how I felt, and no matter how much money he was spending on me I just couldn't do it. Went out with an arab before 9-11, but again he didn't understand how I felt, and he was like 40 and he smelled like fish (he owned a fish market). That dude was a millionaire and I just couldn't do it.
If someone makes you happy, I say do it, but so far I don't think an interacial thing is gonna make me happy.
Rayna Skye
09-25-2009, 05:53 PM
I have dated and married white men and black men. I dont date men who under educated and blue collar regardless of color. Meaning I dont date the red necks around my current resident. They are very blue collar under educated and shocked I dont find that attractive.
Man I live in the hood. You are preaching to the choir when you say that. I really should move, but I love cheap rent.
Gia2608
09-25-2009, 09:30 PM
I would never not date a person because they were a certain race. A certian culture (like one where women are subservient), yes. I would never get a long with a guy like that.
But since you are trying to gather some info....
I personally LOVE LOVE LOVE latin men and was actually teased about it today. I don't really know why but I have been this way since I was a teenager.
I like WASP's.
We just click...
Tried to make it with some Black men in the past...out of curiosity more than anything. I found a few of them to be attractive but they seemed to be more into the Macho Man thing. I'm not into the Gheto style BS or loud Rap Music (although you don't have to be black to do this). Very few of them have an education and even the ones that i met, many of them couldn't loose the Ghetto style....it was almost like their identity "or" who and what they were.
The whole Penis size thing was interesting as i didn't find them to be any bigger or smaller than their counter parts...haha.
Got nothin against them...just prefer educated white males.
Anyway,...that's been "MY" experience.
Star_bare_elegance
10-06-2009, 08:44 AM
Lol I married a red headed woman recently... I'm a Black woman :-) i'd say im open to anything as well!!!
missy873
10-06-2009, 09:19 AM
I've never been with a black man, but I've been attracted to some. Well, two of my first bf's in grade school were black, but that doesn't really count. I would date anyone as long as I was attracted. I'm definitely more into men of other races/cultures than I am to plain old American white guys. But my dumb ass always ends up being with white guys cuz that's just who I end up meeting I guess. I really need to stop that lol.
goldi
10-06-2009, 09:56 AM
my mom is creole black and my dad is white of some sort... so im mixed but ive always leaned more towards black men but on the lighter side... i tried a white guy but he reminded me too much of my dad- a sorry ass..so i think thats whats made me unattracted to white men...my dad and his absence, his bullshit and his lies.
also, white men seem to just look over me.. well for the most part. some say i have an exotic look.. others just assume im not into them-cuz im not.
Lol I married a red headed woman recently... I'm a Black woman :-) i'd say im open to anything as well!!!
That's awesome!!!
Star_bare_elegance
10-06-2009, 02:17 PM
:cloud9:^^^ Thank you :-) I'm happier than I have ever been :-):cupid::smellie_k
Nuclear Martini
10-12-2009, 04:06 PM
I am 2nd generation American. Half of my family is from South American and the other half is Eastern European Jews so every relationship I have been in has been interacial.
I really like white boys though. I think the town I grew up in had a lot of Irish so those tend to be the hotties for me no matter where I go ;D. Freckles are so sexy to me.
I have dated Latin men too, but the 1 serious relationship I had with a Latin man (Cuban) turned into a disaster. I am way more picky with my latin guys and am only attracted to Latino Nerds (Besides white guys). There is something about a bald latin man in glasses that gets me all hot.
I have never dated a black guy. It just hasn't happened but I would do it with the right guy.
missjzone
10-13-2009, 08:29 PM
ive just never been attracted to anything but, white men. prefer southern euro men mostly.
hoshi_x
10-14-2009, 01:20 AM
I'm a white girl, but i've had one white bf. All the other guys I've dated are asian-american. I like asian guys i guess. I'm not really sexually attracted to anyother race of guys. Maybe because asian guys have a more femme look to them. I dated more girls than guys lol.