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cadencetyme
10-15-2009, 01:10 PM
I'm bi-racial. Black and white. Ive dated white, biracial-black and white, 1 puerto rican bf, and one half black half cuban long term booty call.
I mean...I kinda have to be in an interacial relationship unless I find a dude my exact ethnic mix.
Oh and all the guys I've dealt with have been sexy, educated, and pretty good guys. That's my standard and I've found it amongst all those races. Guess its who you're around/attract.
Ill admit though I did feel really comfortable with the biracial guy. It felt calming to have that in common.
I don't get the poll? Black men aren't the only part of the equation that makes a relationship interacial.
Optimist
10-15-2009, 03:17 PM
I like WASP's.
We just click...
Tried to make it with some Black men in the past...out of curiosity more than anything. I found a few of them to be attractive but they seemed to be more into the Macho Man thing. I'm not into the Gheto style BS or loud Rap Music (although you don't have to be black to do this). Very few of them have an education and even the ones that i met, many of them couldn't loose the Ghetto style....it was almost like their identity "or" who and what they were.
The whole Penis size thing was interesting as i didn't find them to be any bigger or smaller than their counter parts...haha.
Got nothin against them...just prefer educated white males.
Anyway,...that's been "MY" experience.
It sounds like you set yourself up for failure. Instead of picking "ghetto" black guys for an interesting experiment you would have to have picked educated black males to compare them to the educated white males. It's a recipe for failure to pick guys with values you don't like and then expect them to lose those qualities for you. Were you saying that very few of the men you dated were educated or that very few Black men are educated? That wasn't clear from your post.
Perhaps your definition of blackness is actually low class and your definition of whiteness is upper class. That creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. ;)
hot4ablackchick
10-26-2009, 04:33 AM
It sounds like you set yourself up for failure. Instead of picking "ghetto" black guys for an interesting experiment you would have to have picked educated black males to compare them to the educated white males. It's a recipe for failure to pick guys with values you don't like and then expect them to lose those qualities for you. Were you saying that very few of the men you dated were educated or that very few Black men are educated? That wasn't clear from your post.
Perhaps your definition of blackness is actually low class and your definition of whiteness is upper class. That creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. ;)
Yup. This is soooo true. Comparing uneducated ghetto blacks to educated professional white men is comparing apples and oranges. I'm also getting real tired of any insinuations (I don't think I spelled that right) that ghetto = black. I work with some hella bonafied ghetto WHITE people every night. I am black and I am most attracted to white men. I am married to a white man. I would date ANY man of any race as long as he met my very picky criteria, was hott, and treated me like a princess. I've only been with black and white men though. I am most attracted to white men with dark hair the most, then I would say black and indian men, then I would say italian/latino, and least probably asian. I just find that most asian men are too small (bodywise) in stature and I like larger size men, we also don't have too many asians around here but I have found a couple to be attractive. I also prefer darker skinned black guys over light complected ones, but I don't like white men with a dark tan or even a medium tan so go figure. My sexual experience with black men have been far LESS memorable than my experiences with white men and I dated black men exclusively unitl I was 22. The best oral I ever enjoyed was from two of the black men, so it is all relative to the guy NOT the race! I know women who slept with a black man and thought it absolutely sucked. I have a black GF at work who says white men are so much "better" in bed so it all depends on the guys sack skills.
hot4ablackchick
10-26-2009, 04:49 AM
I like WASP's.
We just click...
Tried to make it with some Black men in the past...out of curiosity more than anything. I found a few of them to be attractive but they seemed to be more into the Macho Man thing. I'm not into the Gheto style BS or loud Rap Music
Loud rap music??? Playing music loudly is wrong, playing rap music is wrong, or just the combo of both is wrong??? I only listen to rock and I tend to play it loudly when I do listen to it. I just didn't see how loud rap music came in the mix, and my husband is very very white and listens to rap music (loudly!) on occassion and he is NOT the least bit ghetto. I'm pretty sure the man can't spell ghetto. I didn't think one's choice of music would be the end all be all for a relationship or that 'loud rap music' made you black or ghetto. You may as well of said "I'm not that into grape soda and BBQ chicken."
EbbySmiles
11-12-2009, 12:38 PM
Why is the assumption that all the women on here are white???? And equal assumption that any women of color would not date outside there race. What is that all about?
erotictonic
11-12-2009, 09:11 PM
Loud rap music??? Playing music loudly is wrong, playing rap music is wrong, or just the combo of both is wrong??? I only listen to rock and I tend to play it loudly when I do listen to it. I just didn't see how loud rap music came in the mix, and my husband is very very white and listens to rap music (loudly!) on occassion and he is NOT the least bit ghetto. I'm pretty sure the man can't spell ghetto. I didn't think one's choice of music would be the end all be all for a relationship or that 'loud rap music' made you black or ghetto. You may as well of said "I'm not that into grape soda and BBQ chicken."
And that would be their right, if they did. I think it's just her choice of dates; they seemed to be the type that was into loud rap music and ghetto speak. That's pretty common these days and I've seen alot of folks into it, white included. Yes, for me, the type of music a person listened to, how loud they listened to it, and how often, could be a deal-breaker. I'm very picky. In fact, I am so picky, that I would not date anyone who listened to rap music loudly, at all lol. So yea.... Playing rap music loudly and excessively (or even at all) would be enough for me to know that me and this person did not have enough in common to have a serious relationship (same with country music, that's a deal-breaker for me). It would interfere with my life enough to be an annoyance, but drinking grape soda and eating barbeque chicken would not create an annoyance for me or interfere with my lifestyle. So no, it's not in the same ballpark for me.
Alot of people do associate the ghetto-speak and rap music with black, even though people of all races are into it. It could be because the majority of rap performers are black (I think), the first rap performers were black, rap music got it's start in the ghettos; black folks pretty much created and defined the movement. Like people generally associate country music/redneck stuff with white people. Doesn't mean all white people are rednecks, or all black people are in ghettos. I don't think she meant to insinuate that.
I love white men,and im black. But I have dated mostly all races execpt for pacific islanders...but I find hawian men to be BEAUTIFUL,their hair is amazing. Like that one guy who has that commercial. He plays football and his hair is really long and curly...he's hot! But all my men in general have to be 6 foot and up or no deal! Currently im obsessed with a white guy who looks like Channing Tatum and play football...I have a fetish for athletes n general! Lol
asianlady
11-14-2009, 02:56 PM
I am not into or against black men have had some clients that were jerks and some that were great and made some video once with a baack guy who was fun and a pretty good performer so depends on the guy for me
SAYURI SAN
11-18-2009, 03:37 PM
I'm through with black guys too many bad experiences .I'm not saying all black men are messed up but I'm tired of just meeting the wrong ones I guess waking up and finding money stolen or them just asking to borrow money just is a big turn off for me. . I'm half asian and black so I dont have that big booty that they like .I currently date an Irish a very successful world renowned tattoo artist and he spoils me rotten and goes out his way to make me happy.I was dating a korean guy before him who was very sweet and nice.I guess black guys arent for me
mvivian
11-21-2009, 05:10 AM
I'm white and most of the buys I dated are white dudes, but I've sampled a wide array.
I dated a guy who was half black/half native american. He was very hot and very sweet, but he had wicked alcohol/substance issues.
One of the hottest guys I dated was an Iranian Jew. He was tall, brunette, blue-green eyes, and a great body. But he also had some wicked alcohol/substance issues & was a few cards short of a deck (because of substance issues I think). He was a total sweetie tho.
Dated a Philippino dude for 2 weeks. He got a little too clingly & stalkerish (called me 7 times in 18 hours!)
Best kinky sex with a bisexual white Irish Catholic boy. All that religion, all that guilt=hot, kinky sex. He was all kinds of nuerotic tho.
I've dated/slept with a ton of nerdy jewish boys (who I think loved the fact that their mother would be so dissappointed to find out that they were seriously dating a shiska. Ha!)
AmberHoney
11-22-2009, 02:32 PM
I love white men,and im black. But I have dated mostly all races execpt for pacific islanders...but I find hawian men to be BEAUTIFUL,their hair is amazing. Like that one guy who has that commercial. He plays football and his hair is really long and curly...he's hot! But all my men in general have to be 6 foot and up or no deal! Currently im obsessed with a white guy who looks like Channing Tatum and play football...I have a fetish for athletes n general! Lol
The Head n Shoulders guy!
I'm sure that this isn't politically correct at all...but...
Are a lot of Pacific Islanders mixed with Black?
I know it's a touchy subject for them but I see a lot of Indians, Pakistanis, Cambodians, Polynesians, Hawaiians, etc... that look at LEAST half black.
And I'm confused.
I'm technically Arabic myself... and most Arabs have African blood. Some admit it, some deny it... but I kinda feel like... if it's obvious why deny it?
I'm attracted to... dark skin, strong features - no matter the national origin.
That being said, I find white guys more relatable and just...easier to talk to/be around/deal with.
Maybe that's why I like biracial guys so much. Cuz they have the dark features and stuff I like... but a lot of them were raised in "white american culture" so it's kinda like the best of both worlds?
I dunno.
BTW - the guys name is Troy... and I love his hair dandruff or no dandruff lol.
God I am so gross.
incognito.dancer
11-23-2009, 06:30 PM
I'm white and have also dated my fair share of white, black and asian men. I prefer black men. I honestly could not tell you why. If you line up 10 whites, 10 blacks and 10 asians, 9 out of the 10 blacks will look good (to me) while 1 out of the 10 white and asians will look good. (to me) This is the best way I can describe it.
It's like when a custy prefers a blonde/redhead/brunette/skinny/thick/asian/white/black...whatever girl. We all are drawn to what is visually appealing to our sight sense. And for me, it's black men.
I can also tell you I'm well into my 30's and even though I like to *have sex with/have fun with* black men with dreads and preferablly gold teeth, wearing a wife beater (lol), I *date* on a more serious note, black men who are established and more clean cut. (sorta like when a guy fucks the town slut but goes steady with the good girl) My last BF was black, had incredible swagger, in his 30's and a heart surgeon, current BF owns 2 companies, very succesful, just turned 30 and gawgus!
So I guess my point is yes, I date black men but not all black men are "thugs" as seems to be the collective thought in this thread.
I have dated a white guy before though. I was 17, but hey, we dated. Asian guys I love too. I like the super metro sexual ones with awesome hair dos and skinny jeans!
mediocrity
11-23-2009, 06:38 PM
I'm white and have also dated my fair share of white, black and asian men. I prefer black men. I honestly could not tell you why. If you line up 10 whites, 10 blacks and 10 asians, 9 out of the 10 blacks will look good (to me) while 1 out of the 10 white and asians will look good. (to me) This is the best way I can describe it.
It's like when a custy prefers a blonde/redhead/brunette/skinny/thick/asian/white/black...whatever girl. We all are drawn to what is visually appealing to our sight sense. And for me, it's black men.
I can also tell you I'm well into my 30's and even though I like to *have sex with/have fun with* black men with dreads and preferablly gold teeth, wearing a wife beater (lol), I *date* on a more serious note, black men who are established and more clean cut. (sorta like when a guy fucks the town slut but goes steady with the good girl) My last BF was black, had incredible swagger, in his 30's and a heart surgeon, current BF owns 2 companies, very succesful, just turned 30 and gawgus!
So I guess my point is yes, I date black men but not all black men are "thugs" as seems to be the collective thought in this thread.
I have dated a white guy before though. I was 17, but hey, we dated. Asian guys I love too. I like the super metro sexual ones with awesome hair dos and skinny jeans!
Haha ok. I totally get thi and the sentence that follows, except I prefer hispanic men or white men. I am very alternative loking with crazy hair and tattoos, but I like clean cut looking ones. Its like the crazier I look, I want them to look more conservative. Like if you see the businessman with the punk rock chick, you're kind of like whoa, yeah- that dude's got a wild side.
I've recently been out a few times with a hispanic man who is in advertising, who wears glasses, works out and dresses pretty sharp. We look so mismatched it's sort of a turn on. The guy who recently left me ( :'( ) was very clean cut, nice country boy looking. Funny enough- these types of guys totally dig me, so it works.
luckischalk
11-23-2009, 07:31 PM
I love black men. White penises just are so vainy and unattractive to me.
I love black men. White penises just are so vainy and unattractive to me.
OMG girl you are crazy! That's hilarious! I always thought white penises look too pink. I don't like pink dicks.
blacbarbie86
11-29-2009, 11:57 AM
ive never dated a white guy but i would if the right one came along...but i must say that i prefer black guys because i am waaaaay more comfortable with them and I feel like black people have a special bond and most of us have the same life experiences.
anacol
11-29-2009, 12:08 PM
I've dated all races of men. I prefer the blue eyed dark haired men. I always has since I was a little girl. It's a turn on for me. I like black men also and spanish and super HOT Italian men. I just love good looking men that naturally smell so good! But my guy I'm dating now is Spanish. :D
Amberz
01-13-2010, 08:35 PM
I love black men. White penises just are so vainy and unattractive to me.
haha so funny! I love black men too but also men of ethnic background.
jaizaine
01-14-2010, 08:47 AM
I like arab men - turkish, lebanese. Unfortunately they tend to treat women like absolute garbage.
In Australia there are not many black (as in african amercian) men. I did meet one years ago from the US. A basketball player who was about 7 foot tall. I ended up sleeping with him. His dick was sooooo long it looked like it belonged to a donkey. It actually scared me. I think he only fit half of it in me. I don't know if it was because of his race or because he was 7 foot tall and just had a huge cock to match.
Mistyleigh
01-14-2010, 09:02 AM
I am mixed with French and Black. I was married to a black man. I dated black men for a while. In the last few years I have found myself much happier dating white men. the most important thing to me is how the man makes me feel; like a woman!!! :).
Kellydancer
01-14-2010, 12:07 PM
I am white (Polish, German, English, French, with possible Hispanic and/or Native American blood), and have dated many races. Having said that, I won't date low class men of any race. I know many great black professional men that I would date in a heartbeat, whereas a guy (black, white whatever) who's ghetto I will not date. By ghetto I mean guys who chose to be such as selling drugs, getting many girls pregnant, etc. I was lucky to grow up in a diverse area and saw good and bad of every race. Most of my serious relationships have been with white males but that wasn't intentional, it just happened. I tend to be attracted to dark haired males who are darker skinned of all races.
My brother married an African American. Even though she's educated (graduated Magna from Northwestern University), nice looking (looks like Oprah) and a perfect choice for him, they had problems with my family. I didn't have a problem but several older family members (my grandma notably) disowned him because of this. It was only several years later when she "forgave" him for marrying out of the race. They now have the most beautiful daughter (my niece) who's the light of the family and I love my niece so much. I love my grandmother, but she's stuck in her ways, and her ways are that you only marry Polish Catholics (she hated my dad at first because he's English-French). She didn't even like the idea of me marrying one of my boyfriends because he was Baptist. I think she's starting to change her mind about only dating Polish Catholics because she hopes the current guy I am interested in becomes my husband (he's Italian Catholic). I know though if I was to marry another African American like my brother, she would hate that and likely still disown me (she begged me not to do what my brother did). I am just glad less and less people think like her.
missjzone
01-25-2010, 10:16 AM
I love black men. White penises just are so vainy and unattractive to me.
lo.. thats funny. Ive always thought black guys penis' look like a turd..
I like me some caucasian men. prefer Mediterranean men for sure..
Xiomara
01-25-2010, 10:42 AM
My first and second guys were white, I was 14 and 15 in an all white town, never noticed black men. At 16 I moved to a mostly black school. Black guys( teased ) me bout my big booty. Then J Lo came around, and I figured out they werent TEASIN my ass. They LOVED my ass. DUH. I Said goodbye to my long shirts and baggy sweats that I tried to hide my ass with and hello to black men. I have two mixed girls. Never went back to another white man. Im just not attracted to them, and especially after I lost my virginity to one and he dumped me the next day.
Now white penises look like new born hamsters. Ew.
africanqueen
01-25-2010, 12:54 PM
Why is the assumption that all the women on here are white???? And equal assumption that any women of color would not date outside there race. What is that all about?
Why does the poll say interacial relationships and only have the choice of black and white, what about all the other races?! why isn't it titled correctly white women with black men poll?
africanqueen
01-25-2010, 12:59 PM
ive never dated a white guy but i would if the right one came along...but i must say that i prefer black guys because i am waaaaay more comfortable with them and I feel like black people have a special bond and most of us have the same life experiences.
LMAO
Really, do you think a black person in ZImbabwe has the same life experiences as a black person in London?!!!!!!
malayataylor
01-25-2010, 01:14 PM
I am a black nigerian and I don't date black americans. I've dated black americans in the past and quickly realized that I just wasn't into em. I find their character VERY unattractive. The way they walk, talk, ... dress.. makes my skin crawl. I only date either white men or black men from OTHER countries.
Amberz
02-06-2010, 12:15 PM
My first and second guys were white, I was 14 and 15 in an all white town, never noticed black men. At 16 I moved to a mostly black school. Black guys( teased ) me bout my big booty. Then J Lo came around, and I figured out they werent TEASIN my ass. They LOVED my ass. DUH. I Said goodbye to my long shirts and baggy sweats that I tried to hide my ass with and hello to black men. I have two mixed girls. Never went back to another white man. Im just not attracted to them, and especially after I lost my virginity to one and he dumped me the next day.
Now white penises look like new born hamsters. Ew.
I was the same way with the outfits. I started showing off my goods and they started giving me even more attention!
EricaErotica
02-13-2010, 07:37 AM
I am African American/Black. I only have dated outside of my race. My husband is Spanish. I have been with Italian men, English men, Spanish men, Asian men, White American men, and Latino men. I have never been with a black man though.
pussyinboots
02-14-2010, 10:31 AM
I'm married to a white guy but I've dated and slept with Black and Mixed Race men and women.
I have no predjudices at all. I've never had a bad time with girls. However, as far as the guys are concerned - I expect them at least to be clean, intelligent and have decent manners and a modicom of respect.
Unfortunately - a lot of black guys (but not all) let their own side down on the manners and respect part. Generally, those born in Urban areas of the US and the UK - sad to say.
AngelCummings
02-28-2010, 05:47 PM
I'm black but I jave always been attracted to white guys - I have never seen a black guy I was sexually attracted to. Ever. I'm not sure why this is... I looooove guys with dark hair and peircing blue eyes and healthy tan skin, they make me melt!
AngelCummings
02-28-2010, 05:49 PM
I think WASPs are soooo sexy!! Lol
oh, and so are some rocker guys
JessieBoo
08-05-2010, 05:35 PM
err it's like the 21st century. Hopefully people are not getting judged by this stuff anymore! We all bleed red!!
ladyambition
08-07-2010, 01:15 PM
Race is funny. It shouldn't matter the color of someone. I am pretty weird mix myself being chinese and puerto rican. I have dated mostly asians who I found out families can't accept my mix, puerto ricians moms were very golderish, native americans was very boring in conversation. I am pretty light, I get called korean or japanese a lot. I never thought the guy I'm with now of six years has satisfied me in conversation, intelligance and work ethics would be a trini man. Both parents are johova witness and from trinidad but so open and is a great representation of their son. When I was younger I would rule it out but I fell in love with him. I hate people tat think I'm probably act "white" and him too but its nothing like that. We are just us . . Happy ;)
she sells sanctuary
08-08-2010, 01:17 PM
^ i bet white guys swarm around you though. you sound like the dream girl of every guy i ever liked.
Lady Xplicit18
08-10-2010, 04:20 AM
I'm mullato and my boyfriend of over 3 years is Mexican American; the other races I've been with were white and my first ex was Mexican/Viet. I could honestly say that latin guys are the best! Atleast my guy hehe ^_^
ladyambition
08-10-2010, 12:54 PM
^ i bet white guys swarm around you though. you sound like the dream girl of every guy i ever liked.
Thanks my dear, I never found a white guy that can keepb up with conversation with and then it goea to dullsville. I see plenty at work. I try my best not to yawn. Haha. But that goes for any race. Any race has the hotties but if you want me to go out on a date, one as to win me over inconversation and ability to be open minded. They all claim I but only one or two will be true to form.
melb_oz_n00b
01-11-2011, 02:39 AM
I'm anglo Australian, raised in very white (not even many Aboriginals in my hometown) part of country Australia. But I've dated more of other races than my own. There are several reasons.
First up, I simply hang out with more international students now than anyone else. I've been living with 95 % international students in Melbourne and Sydney in the five years since I left home. Many of whom are latino, Asian or African. I think I've met half of Brazil since living in Bondi, lol. I'm more likely to date a non-Anglo simply because I don't hang out with that many.
Also, I admit there's an element of exoticism. As I mentioned, I grew up in a very monocultural area. I always had a crush on the token latino bad boy in TV shows, because I can't say I ever consciously MET a latino until I was 19. I moved to the big cities and just went a bit wild, lol. The cultural voyeurism was quite obvious when I had a fling with an African American DJ from Harlem, who was the complete opposite of Aussie country boys - very confident, ambitious, and flashy. I later realised he was a bit of an ass, but I forgave it a little more than usual just because he was so DIFFERENT and therefore instantly fascinating to me.
I also dated a handful of Brazillians, a Mexican, a Korean, Americans, and a German. Some were short sexual relationships, others were more personality-based. In most cases, I was turned on by how different they were to me. The unknown.
I'm currently in a serious seven-month relationship with a mestizo Colombian who's living in Australia permanently, with view of getting citizenship. It's very stable and domestic - we live like most serious all Aussie couples I know. Probably more boring! He has excellent English, so we rarely have communication issues, and he's so far away from the latino player stereotype it's not funny. (I had to take him to his first strip club - at age 31!)
It's just like dating an Aussie, except I occasionally find myself smiling just at the sound of his accent. Or admiring slant of his strong indigenous nose. Or holding his caramel-coloured hand up against my own pale hand. I love asking about his home city, how he was raised as opposed to my upbringing, Colombian history... I don't think I'll ever get sick of poking fun at his habit of saying 'Oh JEAH/ How are JOU?' I'm the first in my extended family to date anyone more 'other' than an Irish Australian, and they think he's fantastic.
He was very geeky and awkward when we were first friends, except for the first time he touched me before our first kiss. It was so different to the touch of an Australian or an American. It was just as strong and instinctive as that of the playboyish latinos I've been with. I think there's something innate in certain cultures. But perhaps that's just my personal experience.
melb_oz_n00b
01-11-2011, 02:49 AM
I am pretty weird mix myself being chinese and puerto rican. I have dated mostly asians who I found out families can't accept my mix
Being part PR isn't a problem. Not being 'Chinese enough' was more likely. I'm Anglo Aussie and I was close friends with an ABC (Aussie-born Chinese) guy in uni. It was platonic, but I'd innocently sleep in his bed after a party and cuddle a lot, so they assumed we were dating.
His Chinese mother was lovely, but his father gave me the silent treatment. The assumption was that I was some white floozy party girl, even though he snubbed me well before he had the chance to determine whether or not that was true.
My friend later confessed that he was open to dating white or black etc girls, but that he would only get serious with and marry a Chinese or ABC. It made me so angry, because he was otherwise a very intelligent, open-minded, easygoing Aussie guy. But he said it was just the way it was with traditional Chinese families. He said he considered himself very Aussie and liberal, but that his loyalty to his family ran deeper than that.
tempest666
01-11-2011, 09:00 AM
I've been with black guys...they were mostly rocker black guys though. Tattoos, piercings, you name it. :) The relationship just fizzled due to a lot of bullshit. I'm Irish/Hispanic and have mostly dated white guys. I like my pink dick! :D
XxChrissyxX
01-11-2011, 07:06 PM
I've been with black guys, hispanics, white guys, italians..i like to date outside my race..i'm white.
I tend to be a little streaky. Sometimes I'll just be with white guys or hispanics. Last few guys I've been with lately have been black. I try not to stereotype but at least in my experience best sex i've had was from black men!
So Fine Divyne
01-15-2011, 08:56 PM
I'm like the EEOC everybody gets a chance. If you feel like I discriminated against you, bring it to my attention I might date you later. Right now I'm dating an Arab. Before him was the Mexican. Before him was the black man. Before him was the white guy. Life is too short to be unhappy and I don't know if I will find happiness with a man of my own ethnic background or a different one. I don't understand why some types of people are so narrow minded. I visibly see people get angry when they see us together and all I think is damn I'm glad my parents didn't raise me to be so stupid that other people's personal choices can affect my emotions. It must really suck to be ignorant.
Lollipop Gurl
01-15-2011, 09:09 PM
I went out with this one guy before. Then he asked me if I had been with black guys. I told him yes like it was a stupid question. He didn't wanna go out anymore! I can't believe the closed minded people out there.
I've always got hit on a lot by black men because of my body type. I have a big booty and boobs.
So Fine Divyne
01-16-2011, 09:16 AM
I went out with this one guy before. Then he asked me if I had been with black guys. I told him yes like it was a stupid question. He didn't wanna go out anymore! I can't believe the closed minded people out there.
There is a legion of guys out there that feel once you have been with a black guy you are tainted. Like if you date/sleep with a black guy there will forever be blackness inside you that might taint them as well. Pure idiocy. One guy honestly told me he didn't like to date girls that had been with a lot of black guys, unless she was black, because he felt like he couldn't measure up. He said all the non black girls he knew who dated black guys always bragged on cock size and how good the sex was and he couldn't handle the comparison or competition. I told him it all made sense then. He's like really? I said,"yeah, you have low self esteem and an inferiority complex."
Also, security at my club told this chick from Cinncinatti,"did you really date a black guy?"She says,"yeah." He says,"You used to be so hot. Now you're just gross." Yeah he's a racist if I've ever seen one.
ur1anonlyfantasy
03-23-2011, 03:22 PM
I went out with this one guy before. Then he asked me if I had been with black guys. I told him yes like it was a stupid question. He didn't wanna go out anymore! I can't believe the closed minded people out there.
I've always got hit on a lot by black men because of my body type. I have a big booty and boobs.
omg I've had the same thing happen. They ask if you've been with black guys and when they find out it's like a big deal. Even though they say they aren't racist they still don't like it. I guess they don't have enough confidence and are scared that we will leave them lol.
I've never found myself attracted to black men for some reason. I'm a Spainard and man are those Spanish guys hot. Like holy fuck, getting whiplash in Palma de Mallorca. =)
However, I have dated one guy and he was Korean. My mom was so pissed for a long time and was happy when we broke up, but we have a daughter together. She calls her "chinky-chu" (chink + pikachu I guess). =/ Not cool.
AngelCummings
04-23-2011, 02:24 PM
I've never found myself attracted to black men for some reason. I'm a Spainard and man are those Spanish guys hot. Like holy fuck, getting whiplash in Palma de Mallorca. =)
However, I have dated one guy and he was Korean. My mom was so pissed for a long time and was happy when we broke up, but we have a daughter together. She calls her "chinky-chu" (chink + pikachu I guess). =/ Not cool.
Wow, that's awful! >:( Your mom should be ashamed of herself. Making fun of a poor child, her own flesh and blood. Hatred and prejudice truly defies all logic.
AngelCummings
04-23-2011, 02:31 PM
The guy I'm currently dating is irish/german/french, tall, tan skin, blue eyes, brown hair. It's really funny to me because I'm basically black (although for some reason people are constantly asking me what i am lol. i do have other races mixed in on both sides), anyway... Ever since I grew my hair out long I've been getting asked out by white and asian men non-stop. I've been getting more attention from them then black men! But there aren't a lot of black guys where I live any way. I live in the south, so I was surprised when I moved down here that this was the case bc I thought the majority of people down here were still living in the 18th century ::) But to my surprise it's like the guys down here are completely and utterly oblivious to my race, when they look at me, they just see beautiful :) And I think that's pretty cool. I guess times are changing. Now I have come across the occasional infatuated redneck who has some sort of conflicting, perverted black girl taboo "fetish"but thankfully they've been few and far between.
SessyGoddess
04-24-2011, 10:03 AM
I am white and I prefer black men. Always seemed like white guys were more afraid to approach me or something cause I mostly got attention from black men. They say it's cuz of my booty! lol duh