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dollylocks
04-17-2005, 11:11 PM
I'm confused again:-\

Heres what happened: I was giving my boyfriend oral sex last night and out of nowhere he grabs my hair and shoves my head down. I gagged and coughed a lot but figured it was an accident, and he just got carried away, so i started at it again. Few more seconds pass by and he did it again! That time after nearly losing my lunch i asked him not to do that. He proceeded to go into this big long rant about how he wants me to deepthroat him and he likes the sound of gagging. I wanted him to be happy so i finished the deed, but then to make matters worse, he finished on my face without warning. I started crying and now I'm mad at him.>:( He apologized, but it still hurt my feelings. Really, he's not a mean guy AT ALL, and he doesnt force me to do things, it's just that I don't understand the obsession.

It seems like a lot of guys like the whole gagging thing. What's the explanation behind the fetish?

Katrine
04-18-2005, 01:23 AM
I just make the gagging noises early on. I've lost my lunch several times on a guy's goodies. They like it, its a control trip fueled by popular trends in porn.........

yoda57us
04-18-2005, 04:05 AM
Sadly, this is not a problem for me....:-\

A_Guy
04-18-2005, 05:20 AM
bleh... don't like it one bit. I'm sorry, just isn't me. My gf has tried to deep throat me before, gagged, and I immediately told her to stop. It just isn't that sexy and the feeling isn't any better, you know? ... although the last part sounds ok - I would give some sort of warning though ;).


Also, I would feel pretty shitty if I made my girl cry because I "got carried away". and it kinda loses its appeal if she asks me to stop. weird...

merely_lurking
04-18-2005, 07:56 AM
I'm not sure, having a woman gag on my dick does not interest me in the slightest. If it bothers you like it seems to, I don't see any reason why you should ever put up with that. If your man gets off on making you uncomfortable and having you suffer, even if it's just a little bit, I can't see how that's a good thing, unless it's a mutual thing that you are both into.

Sh0t
04-18-2005, 09:30 AM
every girl needs a good throat fucking

dollylocks
04-18-2005, 10:56 AM
every girl needs a good throat fucking

What's that? Sounds painful...

Also, he is into the subservient/dominant thing, and so am I sometimes. It's just that this particular incident was without warning.

Do they really like when you get sick on them??:O

southstbabe
04-18-2005, 12:13 PM
I can't imagine that a guy would like it if you got sick on him, but you never know. I can handle a deep throat and my BF loves it, he's very careful not to hurt me or make me gag. He's always asking if I'm doing ok while I'm at it. I love sucking cock and really enjoy going down on him

A_Guy
04-18-2005, 12:41 PM
I love sucking cock and really enjoy going down on him

:lovestruc

lol

polecat
04-18-2005, 01:20 PM
Some guys have realized that for the damaged girls- these kinds of things keep them around longer.

The ones that are the most repulsed by such concepts cognitively but have something broken inside flock to them like flies on shit... and instead of holding it against them, it makes them more interested... aroused. Something we call 'chasing a tingly'...

Bizarre stuff, it is. The one's the most voicing disgust with such male behavior, the more strangely drawn/aroused by it they are, but in secret. Very typical of women that complain of guy XYZ, yet still strangely go to them or are willing to rationalize for them in other ways. At the end of the day, it's bad behavior/sign of low self-esteem.

I hope if this is truly an issue for you, you'll stand up to his trials.

Casual Observer
04-18-2005, 03:04 PM
I'd rather she didn't gag, but perhaps I've just been fortunate enough to know girls that are skilled in throating techniques so that it's never been an issue.

dollylocks
04-18-2005, 06:35 PM
Some guys have realized that for the damaged girls- these kinds of things keep them around longer.

The ones that are the most repulsed by such concepts cognitively but have something broken inside flock to them like flies on shit... and instead of holding it against them, it makes them more interested... aroused. Something we call 'chasing a tingly'...

Bizarre stuff, it is. The one's the most voicing disgust with such male behavior, the more strangely drawn/aroused by it they are, but in secret. Very typical of women that complain of guy XYZ, yet still strangely go to them or are willing to rationalize for them in other ways. At the end of the day, it's bad behavior/sign of low self-esteem.

I hope if this is truly an issue for you, you'll stand up to his trials.

If you're implying that I secretly enjoy his antics, then you're very wrong.

Every now and then, I do enjoy when he gets rough or something, but with warning and when we are BOTH in the mood.

big_daddy
04-18-2005, 09:09 PM
Gagging rules! You have to learn yours SO's limits before you can start holding her down or throat fucking her. She has to be into it or it's not any fun. Let her do the gagging on her own first and watch how long she can gag and then get into the "gagging". It's a great feeling and it goes over better if you think of her while your doing it and not just jamming your cock down her throat. It can be a very fun time!!! As for the facial , I always ask if it's ok first, it's like almond joy...some times she feels like a (little) nut (juice in the eye) some times she don't!

polecat
04-18-2005, 10:20 PM
Hiyas dolly-
Nothing of the sort implied- just you asked what's the deal behind the behavior (warned once, backed off.. warned twice.. explained he wanted it this way, etc.etc.)- it's a conditioned thing from him.

Now whether you are willing to put up with it, disallow it, get pissed or oddly find it internally "sexy" but verbally repulsive.. nobody's got a clue there, only you. :)

Katrine
04-19-2005, 12:43 AM
Off-topic, but I swallowed an entire load of musician jizz tonight without gagging once. Hooray for me!!!!!

yoda57us
04-19-2005, 03:42 AM
Guitar player or Drummer?

SportsWriter2
04-19-2005, 05:59 AM
Off-topic, but I swallowed an entire load of musician jizz tonight without gagging once. Hooray for me!!!!!

This year's award for Best Off-Topic Comment goes to KAT!!! :P

ATF nurse quote: "Oh my God, I am such a cumaholic." Smart choice, though, because it won't damage your liver.

I know girls who like to choke on it. I know girls who softly suck on the tip and smile. It's all good with me. :)

merely_lurking
04-19-2005, 09:02 AM
Off-topic, but I swallowed an entire load of musician jizz tonight without gagging once. Hooray for me!!!!!
Hooray.... I play a little guitar now and then by the way.... :)

SportsWriter2
04-19-2005, 10:29 AM
Hooray.... I play a little guitar now and then by the way.... :)

I play air guitar. Is that enough to maybe fantasize? :)

Katrine
04-19-2005, 01:53 PM
Guitar player or Drummer?

Singer and guitar player. But his voice isn't all that great. :-\

SportsWriter2
04-19-2005, 02:32 PM
Singer and guitar player. But his voice isn't all that great. :-\
Ooooh, ooooh, let me guess! Willie Nelson

Katrine
04-19-2005, 05:23 PM
Ooooh, ooooh, let me guess! Willie Nelson

Nah, this guy is a loser. :P

yoda57us
04-19-2005, 07:10 PM
Nah, this guy is a loser. :P

So you sucked him dry and gave his life meaning for a few minutes. Kat, you're a giver...;)

Maybe he'll write a song about you....

Sh0t
04-20-2005, 01:26 PM
http://www.bestofhumor.com/funnies2/attentionwhore.jpg

dollylocks
04-20-2005, 01:56 PM
http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/attention.php

http://www.bestofhumor.com/funnies2/attentionwhore.jpg

http://gilbertv.com/coppermine/thumbnails.php?album=64


random image or scathing insult......:O

Sh0t
04-20-2005, 01:59 PM
Some of the first, certainly not the second.

As for the gagging thing, It kinda sounds cool and it is good for power tripping I suppose.
My usual servide provider is too much of a pro to gag unless I catch her by surprise or something, but on newbs, especially if they are young OR old yet virginal, it's kinda nice(or maybe sadist) to enjoy seeing them try something they can't handle.

Heaven777
04-21-2005, 11:56 PM
Well, mine does this and he likes the power trip sure, but I think he likes the fact that his cock feels huge (which it is BTW) I adore cock in my mouth and I give it to him mowever and whenever even if I have to endure the gagging for him...

SportsWriter2
04-22-2005, 04:30 AM
every girl needs a good throat fucking

Go to and meet Felony. She's your kind of girl. :O

dollylocks
04-22-2005, 01:16 PM
Oh I understand what you mean Heaven. His...um...appendage is like geez.

I think he shares your mentality, SportsWriter. He's older and enjoys the same thing you described.

Anywho, we talked it over and we've been trying to work it out together. I explained, in a non-sexual situation, how I'm sure gagging could be an enjoyable experience for both of us if he would warn me ahead of time and not force it on me as it happens. And since we don't have sex...well...intercourse....then I would hate to deprive him of what little he gets from me already!:P
So, I've been trying it and it's actually got a fun kind of SM flare to it.

DrJM
06-08-2005, 02:15 PM
I like it, especially if she just wants it back in after gagging, it is a power trip, and it makes me feel wanted....desired....Its not the gagging per se, but just that she would do it for me, its the thought that counts.....and its sexy in a kind of dirty way....