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JoJoX
04-14-2012, 03:57 AM
one lie leads to a billion lies. your husband is a liar. sorry but why is he lying to you over and over? he lied so much that he even forgot his own story! like the girl offering a bj tale- and i guarantee you, he knew that girls name he claimed he forgot.

just because you guys been together for 30 years does not mean you have to lie to yourself about this situation. life is too short to be trying to convince yourself something thats not. you deserve better. he may be a great man and all but no one is perfect and if you guys want to work this out, he needs to be honest. he is totally disrespecting you and he has some nerve to bring you in a club he has history in.

he needs to start telling the truth.

JoJoX
04-14-2012, 03:58 AM
wtf? this thread is almost 7 years old!

wow!!! i just realized that...oops

Dddallas
04-22-2012, 10:21 PM
She's doing her job you have you have no fucking idea what kind of club it is and what is acceptable. Wife- sorry but your husband is a scumbag. He's someone I like to call a regular. Some men go with coworkers once or twice in their lives. That's the only way clubs are acceptable in a heathy marriage. My post won't make many happy but honestly I'm college educated and in a very happy normal marriage for the last 4 years. Sorry about your hubby.

lokikola
04-22-2012, 11:06 PM
He cheated on you. He is suggesting you go to a male strip club so he can relieve his guilt or use it against you down the road. I would leave him mostly because he is still lying to you. He thinks denial, denial, denial = truth. He is right, cause he's got you fooled and making up excuses left and right.

Zofia
04-23-2012, 07:24 PM
As far as I'm concerned, looking is not cheating. Touching, is not cheating. And, if I know he's going to get extras, and I can get them too, it's not cheating. What I don't like is him sneaking around on me.

Z