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thepoet
06-18-2005, 02:55 AM
It seens that when women get honest,(does that really happen?) They say most of their orgasms are clitoral not vagibal. and that most of the faked orgasms are during intercourse not cunniligus. Which do women prefer? And if it is cunniligus , why the emphasis on size?

All Good Things
06-18-2005, 09:31 AM
Vagibal orgasms are vastly underappreciated. Only those with a slight plosive speech deficiency can even induce them. Sometimes a head cold works.

Dude. Kinsey and M&J answered those back when Nixon was still president (talk about a guy who desperately needed to get laid). If you want to strike up a conversation with the ladies on the blue side, you are going to have to do a far better job than this.

sander8son
06-18-2005, 11:14 AM
If you want to strike up a conversation with the ladies on the blue side, you are going to have to do a far better job than this.

so the other day i skull fucked this broad while she held a lighter to my balls. the wetness of her mouth on my cock and the searing heat of the flame on my balls was such an incredible sensation, and one i soon wont forget. next time im gonna make her roomate bite my nipples while i cum. has anyone else every tried anything like this?

does something like that spark up a convo TOO, or am i too far fetched?


poet, to answer your question. speaking as a woman; some prefer tongue, some prefer dick. some hate one or the other, some love both. and it can vary depending on the mood of the individual at the time

SportsWriter2
06-18-2005, 11:40 AM
Poet, you can learn from Sandy, the longest-running troll on SCJ and one who understands vagibal orgasms. ::)

sander8son
06-18-2005, 11:58 AM
the only orgasms i know anything about are the ones i give myself with my two hands. :-D

thepoet
06-18-2005, 12:15 PM
Point of order "vaginal" not "vagibal"; which reminds me of vegetable

thepoet
06-18-2005, 12:21 PM
Misspelling aside.what does it take to get an answer. Unfortunately I have not read Kinsey st.al. I thoufgt this forum was more conversational in nature and it was not necessary to reasrch the subject academically before posting. I was told I would be treated this way as a newbie.

thepoet
06-18-2005, 12:23 PM
By the the way Sander8son for the answer. But I would still like other opinions

yoda57us
06-19-2005, 02:59 PM
Misspelling aside.what does it take to get an answer. Unfortunately I have not read Kinsey st.al. I thoufgt this forum was more conversational in nature and it was not necessary to reasrch the subject academically before posting. I was told I would be treated this way as a newbie.

Patience Grasshoper. you've been here since yesterday. Contrary to what you may think, thousands of SCJ members are not cruising the site every second of every day waiting to respond to questions. If we did that, we would simply be accused of having no lives by the newbies that we flame. You asked a fair question, now let it sit for a while and see what people post. Chill.

BTW, If you exhibit this little patience in bed with a woman the answers you get will be irrelevant.

mr_punk
06-20-2005, 01:35 AM
They say most of their orgasms are clitoral not vagibal. and that most of the faked orgasms are during intercourse not cunniligus.uhhhh..women actually have orgasms? also what's a clitoris and cunniligus?

Alexis1313
06-20-2005, 07:30 AM
Clitoral orgasms are the only ones I've ever had. Never been able to cum from intercourse. Gotta have the clit stimulation. And also.....never been able to get off with someone else. The only orgasms I've ever had were while I was playing all by myself.

As far as the whole preoccupation with size goes, I don't understand it myself. Because it seems like a lot of guys and girls that I've known were all about the length of the penis. Like a 12 incher is better than a 7 incher or something. Which (at least IMHO) is totally not true. As a matter of fact if I ever saw a 12" penis I'd run the other way and there'd be no way in hell the guy would get anywhere near me.

On the other hand the width/circumference of the penis is an area where I think that bigger is better. IF I were to ever fuck a man again my ideal penis size would be about 4" long and about 2-2 1/2" in diameter.

SportsWriter2
06-20-2005, 08:16 AM
On the other hand the width/circumference of the penis is an area where I think that bigger is better. IF I were to ever fuck a man again my ideal penis size would be about 4" long and about 2-2 1/2" in diameter.

A 2.5" diameter is about a 7.8" circumference in a world where 6.2" is thick. But hey, that's why they make cone dildos that get wide before they get too deep. :O

Malibu
06-20-2005, 09:26 AM
First of all, the women I know DON'T emphasise size. They emphasise experience, thoughtfulness and patience. If you are this impatient with the women you date the answers you get to your original question will be irrelevant.

I never really understood the size thing either, but I totally am with the experience, thoughtfulness and patience parts! As far as size is concerned, it's overrated and I think that train of thought (i.e. bigger is better) actually stems from pornos and is more of a male-obsession than a female requirement. If you think about it, a lot of men get their sexual ideas from porn, they all think women dig 12" cocks with 4" girth and like to get rammed up their assholes and vaginas with no lube or foreplay, that we are easily satisfied with 3 minutes of oral sex and cannot wait to get jizzed in the face. Puh-lease.

Alexis1313
06-20-2005, 01:24 PM
SW2, That's a butt plug.

SportsWriter2
06-20-2005, 04:12 PM
SW2, That's a butt plug.

Alexis, you know your toys. They're marketed as butt plugs, but go to ftvgirls.com, click on video samples, then on Mia. She does fingers, compact dildo, big cock dildo, and finally the cone dildo. :O

Same thing at alsscan.com and other porn sites.

Alexis1313
06-20-2005, 04:30 PM
I'm not saying there's any rules against using it as a dildo, I was just pointing out the fact that technically it wasn't. And yes, I DO know my toys. Not only am I an experienced consumer of sex toys, but when I took time off from dancing I spent a good deal of time working as a sales clerk in an adult novelty and video store. LOL. I probably know more about sex toys than any one person ever should.;D

SportsWriter2
06-21-2005, 01:35 AM
I probably know more about sex toys than any one person ever should.;D

You're good. I probably know more about misusing sex toys and hardware store parts than anyone should. :-\

Casual Observer
06-28-2005, 02:45 PM
What is this clitoris of which you speak?

And who is spreading rumors that women have orgasms? I thought that myth was put to rest fifty years ago?

Katrine
06-28-2005, 07:40 PM
I'll take the biggest cock out there! It feels better and fuller during sex.

Most men can't give head to save their lives, I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.

I can have both types of orgasms but internal ones are MUCH more difficult. It hard for a man's penis to be able to properly rub the teeny tiny g-spot in the right way while they are having their fun. They just don't pay attention when the dick is all immersed in happiness.

Thank dog for various vibrators, which can be used during sex. Its efficient and guarantees everyone will get off!

mr_punk
06-29-2005, 10:48 AM
I'll take the biggest cock out there! It feels better and fuller during sex.oh, geez. there's no satisfying a woman....offer them three inches of hard blue steel and they want lexington steel.

I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.how can you not want to lick, slap, bite, finger or give a rimjob to a woman who's bent over with her ass sticking out? then again, i'm an ass man.

showgirlschloe
06-29-2005, 11:19 AM
Well shoot, I guess I'll be the one that brings up orgasms from anal sex. I experience orgasms from everything. I think it really depends on mood with me and not just the action. I've had an orgasm from my nipple being licked. So, everyone woman is different. Some women go their whole lives without having an orgasm which is just sad.

showgirlschloe
06-29-2005, 11:59 AM
thousands of SCJ members are not cruising the site every second of every day waiting to respond to questions. If we did that, we would simply be accused of having no lives

Oh shoot, I'm guilty of this. I guess I don't have a life. I already knew that though.::)

Katrine
06-29-2005, 06:51 PM
oh, geez. there's no satisfying a woman....offer them three inches of hard blue steel and they want lexington steel.

Mmmmmm, Lex......


oh, geez. there's no satisfying a woman....offer them three
how can you not want to lick, slap, bite, finger or give a rimjob to a woman who's bent over with her ass sticking out? then again, i'm an ass man.

Wow, we have somethig in common after all! }:D

yoda57us
06-30-2005, 05:59 AM
Most men can't give head to save their lives, I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.


You mean it normally isn't????:-\

All Good Things
06-30-2005, 10:03 PM
Most men can't give head to save their lives, I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.

Guys who are clueless on head are hopeless on ass, don't you think? Give me an hour to change your mind. I promise to flip you on the third O and finish you off.


I can have both types of orgasms but internal ones are MUCH more difficult. It hard for a man's penis to be able to properly rub the teeny tiny g-spot in the right way while they are having their fun.

Much more difficult, but insanely more intense. But let's give us guys a break. Until the penis becomes sufficiently articulated to pound out a Bach concerto on a grand piano, the angles will be all wrong for the g-spot. Better for us to use our other gifts and articulations and just focus on you. Hmmm, so following a Bach concerto, the g-spot mantra is something like this: Digits, muscles, angles, lifting, twisting, thrusting, pushing, holding, sweating, thrusting, holding, flipping, curling, contracting, pushing, lifting, holding, thrusting, contracting, gushing.

This has gotta beat a simple ass-licking any day. :)

Katrine
06-30-2005, 10:46 PM
3 fingers is perfectly A-ok for me on the G-spot!!!! ;) The best part about sex is the pounding anyway....

kitana
07-28-2005, 05:27 AM
It seens that when women get honest,(does that really happen?) They say most of their orgasms are clitoral not vagibal. and that most of the faked orgasms are during intercourse not cunniligus. Which do women prefer? And if it is cunniligus , why the emphasis on size?

Yes it does happen, I'll be as honest as you want. (Or you can handle.)

Clitoral are awesome, I still prefer internal. Anal is the way best though.

The only person I have ever faked one with was my ex hubby. He was so bad, but I'll give him credit; he tried till I went too. That's why I faked it so much! It was really bad guys, honestly in that case no sex is better than bad sex!

I prefer all three in any order or amount or intensity.

Size is a good thing. Anywhere from 7 1/2 to 9 is perfect and about as big around as a golf ball (held loosely). Anything bigger and it hurts too much in the bad way ;) anything smaller and I don't get the full impalement feeling.

There, simple honest answers.

Anything else you wanna know?

Maybe about anal, or various farm implements? Just ask.

Delany
07-29-2005, 12:57 AM
Well, I knew a guy that thought the clit was the entire vagina, no I am not kidding.

Isn't there a novel where a woman is looking for the ulitmate fuck? I think I have found it, I am keeping him.

I have faked orgasm before but for the most part I think it is counterproductive. Books are probably a lot more informative than porn movies for a man or woman looking to increase their knowledge about sex.

I like vaginal sex with attention paid to the clit simultaneously. ;D I also love oral, but honestly haven't met too many men that are good at it.

raelene.t
05-27-2015, 02:19 AM
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Bahuba
05-27-2015, 07:14 AM
Haha yeah the post above is a troll, but nice thread bump. Science has now proven that all orgasms are clitoral. There are of course some hold outs, but .... Science. There is no alternate orgasm infrastructure, just the one all humans have. If challenged I'll find the link.

azballer
11-26-2016, 03:25 PM
Agreed - and it's not just "either or" - why not it all? Never ignore the clit - while working a regular rhythm penetration, guide her hand to her clit and begin to rub her and your hand over it. Let her teach you what she likes and explore different thing.

I've found spills can come from giving a good pounding to some, others prefer manual stimulation while giving head. An ex used to love it all at night, but insisted a good morning woody pounding every morning before she headed off to work as an attorney. She called it her morning adjustment.

Violethollywood
11-26-2016, 03:41 PM
The only way I can orgasm is via the clit, It's pretty well impossible to orgasm from just pumping your fingers or dick in and out of my vagina. Or any woman's vagina. The grinding of the pelvic mounds from pounding helps with getting off for a female but honestly, most women need foreplay/clitoral stimulation/vibrating bullets etc to get off while having sex. I can count on both hands the amount of times i've actually gotten off during sex . as for masturbating? omg every fucking time haha.

threlayer
01-17-2017, 04:19 PM
I just keep working her clit with my tongue and my lips, as well as sucking gently on her inner lips and gradually she gets so hot that she just has to come. A few can deal with a few more orgasms if I really slow down for a minute or so, as she requests, while very slowly move my tongue around her clit. All subject to feedback from her, either verbally or by her motions. I love it.

Mino44
01-18-2017, 04:11 AM
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WendiStarr
01-18-2017, 04:55 AM
Clitoral orgasms are the best! They are the kind that I had experienced first when I first began playing with myself. I can honestly say that almost every orgasm I've ever had was clitoral. As far as vaginal orgasms go I've only had 2 before. I've heard that g-spot stimulation is supposed to help with vaginal orgasms but I can't stand too much g-spot stimulation. It's too intense for me and quickly becomes painful. As far as size goes I don't get hung up on penis size. I've dated small, I've dated big. If a guy is on the small side, doggystyle can help. I've had too big before too and that's the kind that will cause pain and not in a pleasant way. I'm talking about that sore, crampy, heavy feeling and pressure in your uterus from the guy's manhood that lasts for 3+ days afterwards. It all depends on how you work it. :-P