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bluexcan
06-20-2005, 08:18 PM
Ok here's the story. Anyone who has read my reviews at all may know bits and pieces but I don't know. I think I like this dance. You know like "like like" the stupid crush like stuff. I know I know strippers just are out for your money. And thats it, but I guess that doesn't help how you feel.

The story starts about six weeks ago. I've been making reglar tuesday tips to the Sundowner because well just because I've been bored and I figure the girls there would help me get out of my boredom. I figure I've got a little extra cash so what the hell. So every other tuesday I've been making my way up there.

The first Tuesday I go up there. I sit down and this cute brunette (we'll call her "V")sits down to me and we talk for a while she's tells me that she really works in an office and she just does this in her down time. I remember while I was talking to this girl there was this super hot girl on stage who had asked me for a dance before the brunette came over but I politely said "no" (we're going to call this girl "M"). So now I see "M" dancing on stage and she has maybe one of the hottest bodies i've ever seen. She had a body like pornstar Anita Blonde. It was one of those bodies that you look a t and your like "that can't be real". So anyway I continue talking to "V" and we go for a dance. We did three dances and they were actually pretty good. Lots of touching etc, but she's one of those dancers that likes to look at herself in the mirror, which tends to annoy me a bit. So after that I go back and sit down and "M" comes over again. We chat and I go get a dance with her (she was from Romania and has this killer accent). I got one dance and stopped...I mean it was a good dance but it really didn't seem that special. It was funny she asked me if I was tired because I really didn't seem that into it. Which looking back I guess I really wasn't. SO I leave the club and head for home.

Two weeks later I return to the club. I intended on getting a dance from "V" because dammit she was hot! But M came over to me and she actually remembered me! She said she remembered me because she said that when she had given black guys dances they didn't treat her well. She said I was very sweet and thats why she remmebered me. So we sat down and chatted a bit and she said, "do you wantto play with me" I say, "of course". SO i get a couple of dances and stop because actually I came to see V. V comes over to me and says she'll give me a dance that i'll never forget. I was like "hell yeah" but the bad thing was that when V came up to me she acted like she had never seen me before in my life which was weird. So I went and got five dances from her and actually they were memorable....she unbuttoned my shirt there was alot of two way contact and it was a very good time. But at the end of the 5th dance she was like, "that was 7 dances and you owe me $140" I was like "no" and she said "wel i'm not going to argue with you just give me what you owe me" So I gave her $100 + a tip and that was that. That left the worst taste in my mouth. I left the club that day and said to myself "man I'm never going back because that sucked"

So where am I two weeks later? The Sundowner! So I go in this time to see M. I sit down and I don't see her around and I'm like damn I wasted a trip. Then guess who shows up? M. She came right over to me and sat on my lap. We chatted once more again. and she asks me to play again. I go with her. We sit down and the first thing she asks me is when I'm coming back to the club (which I thought was weird) I thought that meant she was in a hurry and weren't going to "play" that long. But we played for six songs. In the middle of the fourth song she told me that her pussy was really wet and she asked me if i wanted to touch. Damn of course I did and I did. She then asked me if I wanted to cum. and guess what I said...well she gave me an over the pants HJ and I came. It was easily the most incredible dance I had ever had. We went back to the floor and I bought her a drink. We talked and talked and talked until I had to leave. I think I could have talked to her forever. I asked her when she was working again and i told her i'd come back and see her next tuesday.

that tuesday is coming up. I'm hooked. but i don't know where I want this to goor if it's even going anywhere. I mean I want her sooo badly. Do I approach her about this? do I tell her this or do I just keep this strictly business? I know business i probaby the best way to keep it but I've been oing to teh club for a long time and I've never had a repor(sp) like this with someone.

I dont even know what I want to get out of this. help !

Katrine
06-20-2005, 10:37 PM
Offer her money for sex. Problem solved.

SportsWriter2
06-21-2005, 12:58 AM
Offer her money for sex. Problem solved.

I would normally agree with Kat here, but this is the Sundowner in Niagara Falls, Ontario. If she doesn't give you head on Tuesday night, go next door to Seductions.

bluexcan
06-21-2005, 05:55 AM
yeah but theres a difference between getting "it" from a girl you "like" and someone you don't . The quality of Seductions is alot worse even though you get more.

katrine has anyone ever paid you for sex? have you taken them up on it?

Jenny
06-21-2005, 07:31 AM
She's a dancer, and she's in Niagara Falls for crying out loud. Guys offer her money of sex all the time. Probably more often than not. She might not do it, but if you are polite about it she's not going to be shocked and appalled. ("What kind of a girl do I look like to you? Oh. Yeah. I forgot about the boots.") She might not want to dance for you anymore unless you are a good customer (as opposed to "a customer"), simply because she might think you are going to be constantly pressuring and/or annoying her about it, and nobody likes to be annoyed. Or she might be like "Finally! I'm sick to death of jerking off guys in clubs, the cheapskates."

I would ask her after you have spent some money, so it is not a situation of "fuck me, or lose me as a customer." Unless you want it to be a situation of "fuck me, or lose me as a customer." But that's really not polite.

evan_essence
06-21-2005, 08:10 AM
katrine has anyone ever paid you for sex? have you taken them up on it?Kat's Attorney: Objection, your honor. What is the relevance here?
Bluexcan: None, your honor. I was merely prying for a cheap thrill.
Judge: Oh, well then, objection overruled.
Kat's Attorney: Your honor!
Judge: I'm willing to allow a little leeway here if we climax quickly, I mean come to the point.

-Ev

bluexcan
06-21-2005, 08:14 AM
sorry i'ma moron for writing that

SportsWriter2
06-21-2005, 08:20 AM
This is the Canadian side of Niagara Falls. Sundowner is next to a BJ club and among massage brothels. You need to hold out longer.

She got you off with an overthepants HJ. Song #7 would have been overthepants sucking and biting. By song #8 you would have been a challenge. If you had held out through the BJ on #9-10, you would have had a ticket to ride OTC.

The girls at Seductions aren't as pretty, but you don't have to prove your comp there. And that's too easy to be fun. :-\

Jenny
06-21-2005, 09:29 AM
Kat's Attorney: Objection, your honor. What is the relevance here?
Bluexcan: None, your honor. I was merely prying for a cheap thrill.
Judge: Oh, well then, objection overruled.
Kat's Attorney: Your honor!
Judge: I'm willing to allow a little leeway here if we climax quickly, I mean come to the point.

-Ev

you know, I did find myself thinking "What a moron for asking that."

And then I thought, well, hey. I could go for a cheap thrill. Especially if someone else does the prying for me.

Kat?
Maybe you could just make something up for us?

bluexcan
06-21-2005, 09:54 AM
even with strippers the chase is fun.

I think the fake or real intrest she has given is also very intriguing (as is the stripper roomate that she has)

I don't even know if I wouldwantto sleep with he but I think I'd like her to say that she would.

Katrine
06-21-2005, 05:06 PM
I don't even know if I wouldwantto sleep with her but I think I'd like her to say that she would.

That's a no brainer. Just ask her "would you ever consider sleeping with me" while you are paying for dances. Unless she is a complete 'tard, she's going to say, "oh yes, but only you, not the other 27 customers who have asked me that tonight!!!!, coo, coo"

Richard_Head
06-21-2005, 07:27 PM
You may as well just come straight out with it and ask her, I don't see much downside there, if she says no you can always just pay for the BJ.

BTW, you may want to use the search function and look up "stripper shit".

bluexcan
06-21-2005, 09:47 PM
well i didn't end up going. but i think she works tommorrow so i'll check her out then.

I think that the thing that draws me into wanting "more" (whatever that is) is the fact that she remembered me. Maybe I'm some kind of sucker ( probably am) but that makes it all the better.

it doesn't seem like i'm pulling teeth with her where as with alot of dancers its going through the motions.. Sure it could be her act but i'll be damed its working on me...and that foreign accent , priceless.

maybe it has somethning with the fact that she cant come to america. She's romanian and has a work visa or something for canada. but she cant travel into america. in fact I dion't know how much anyone knows about the niagara falls clubs but apparently she has to put some time in at cristals to maintain her visa or something but she said she likes working at the 'downer.

who knows, its crazy that someone comes to north america to strip...i'm babbling nite nite!

SportsWriter2
06-22-2005, 03:59 AM
I think that the thing that draws me into wanting "more" (whatever that is) is the fact that she remembered me. Maybe I'm some kind of sucker ( probably am) but that makes it all the better.

it doesn't seem like i'm pulling teeth with her where as with alot of dancers its going through the motions.. Sure it could be her act but i'll be damed its working on me...and that foreign accent , priceless.

You're not alone. The former Canadian immigration minister had a thing for Romanian strippers, too. :-\



How old do you think she really is?

But wait... there's more. Some American male strippers may turn it all around in the courts:

SportsWriter2
06-22-2005, 06:52 AM
maybe it has somethning with the fact that she cant come to america. She's romanian and has a work visa or something for canada. but she cant travel into america.

Tell her about your good life in Buffalo (or maybe Orchard Park). Let her tell you how bad life was in Romania. She'll long to be with you and do anything to marry you. This girl needs a green card even more than you need her cookie.

evan_essence
06-22-2005, 08:14 AM
BTW, you may want to use the search function and look up "stripper shit".Search has been disabled for the time being because of the strain it puts on the site's resources. So he'll just have to get his fill of SS from our posts.

-Ev

bluexcan
06-22-2005, 11:36 AM
why cant it all be as easy as it was today?

M wasn't there but this other girl basically bullied me into a dance and it was awesome. SO stupid conversation just business!

why can't it always just be that easy?

bassackwards
06-22-2005, 12:14 PM
that tuesday is coming up. I'm hooked. but i don't know where I want this to goor if it's even going anywhere. I mean I want her sooo badly. Do I approach her about this? do I tell her this or do I just keep this strictly business? I know business i probaby the best way to keep it but I've been oing to teh club for a long time and I've never had a repor(sp) like this with someone.

I dont even know what I want to get out of this. help !

Know the feeling/:O I would keep it business for now, until you know more (the relationship will progress ITC anyway). Enjoy it, ride things out, and give her an idea how you feel (if she doesn't know already) but be careful not to overdo it. Try to get a better sense of who she is and how she feels about you. No need to be hasty, especially if you're not sure what to do. Ask her about herself without coming across as prying too much. If you give her your number, you might get to talk with her OTC. That can be interesting because you sort of take her beauty out of the equation (but you'll still have to deal with that lucious accent):P

mr_punk
06-23-2005, 08:37 PM
Anyone who has read my reviews at all may know bits and pieces but I don't know. wait, your name is bluexcan? ummmm...nope, doesn't ring a bell. i never heard of you. i suppose i could do a search to find out, but i don't feel like it.

Search has been disabled for the time being because of the strain it puts on the site's resources.damn it! and i was this close to doing a search.

I dont even know what I want to get out of this. help !help is my middle name.

I'm hooked. but i don't know where I want this to goor if it's even going anywhere. I mean I want her sooo badly. Do I approach her about this? do I tell her this or do I just keep this strictly business? I know business i probaby the best way to keep it but I've been oing to teh club for a long time and I've never had a repor(sp) like this with someone."hooked" you say? well, if you really feel that strongly about her. there's no sense in keeping it business. i think you should take the long-term approach and persue a relationship with this woman. a few words of friendly advice. it's important that you be a gentleman and not treat her like a sex object. so, no more HJ or sex of any kind in or out of the club. you don't want ot give her the idea that you're only after sex. it's important to show her your warm, sensitive, feminine side by sharing your feelings with her. so, instead of sex. spend time with her by taking her out for an ice cream soda and hold hands and uhh..oh yeah..talk. women like sensitive men and sharing men. so, if she asks you for stuff like using your credit card to go shopping or to co-sign a loan so her musician ..er...cousin can persue a career in rock music. do it to show her your sincerity and if you follow my instructions to the letter. i think everything will turn out just fine. good luck.:cupid:

bassackwards
06-24-2005, 03:15 PM
Damn :D Nice reality check for both of us mr p. I could just feel the air coming out of my tires:'(