View Full Version : Kissing Slut... anyone else have this problem?
Vyanka
07-10-2005, 10:54 AM
What exactly was the target problem? Random kissing, kissing behind a husband's back, or kissing during work hours?
Yeah I couldn't get that at first either, lol. I think the target here is about kissing randoms in general, whether it's at work or anywhere else?? Something we can all relate to.
Heaven777
07-10-2005, 12:14 PM
Yeah, the reason I felt the weirdest is because of the randomness of the night. It was like I couldn't stop!
We were the only people in the VIP so nobody saw (any of the times) and our bouncer doesn't care unless I give hime the "get over here and get this creep off me! STAT!" signal.
I'm sure if I told my husband he'd be ok. Grumpy but ok. We have a relatively open relationship. We bring home women for 3somes.
So for me the issue is just that I got caught up in the moment with random custies at work...I feel like I lost my self control that night.
Glad it's not just me though!! Stripper Web is chock FULL of kissing hoochies!!! :)
Katrine
07-10-2005, 01:18 PM
We were the only people in the VIP so nobody saw (any of the times) and our bouncer doesn't care unless I give hime the "get over here and get this creep off me! STAT!" signal.
:)
Gurrr, I know EXACTLY which booth you were in. That was my home at your club when I worked there (I'm 99% sure its the club I'm thinking)
Aaaah, good times, good times, LOL.
Nicolina
07-10-2005, 02:55 PM
I guess I'm just an Old-School 'Ho:
Kissing? Nope
Other stuff? Negotiable....
::) ;)
Heaven, you're relatively new to this business, aren't you? So it's completely understandable that you're still exploring where your personal boundaries are. I'd advise that it's probably best not to make a habit of kissing customers. Pick any or all of these reasons:
(1) It makes other girls mad, and you don't need some bitch with anger management issues waiting for you in the parking lot after work...
(2) Your husband might not like it much--I have a feeling he might consider this to be a lot different than bringing home a girl for some threesome fun.
(3)It might just make you feel a little icky or outta control the next day (it seems to have done so...)
(4) There is always that chance of contracting HSV-1 & other nasty viral bugs.
However, I can guarantee you that you won't be the first or the last stripper to locate her personal boundaries by crossing them. Don't beat yourself up about it. :)
screaminpeachez
07-10-2005, 03:49 PM
If alcohol was involved, (and it hasn't been discussed so I drew my own conclusion) THAT was probably the culprit.
I've had plenty of mornings-after, that I've regretted things I did while under the influence. This sort was behavior is self-destructive based purely on the way I viewed myself after. It becomes a pattern of Guilt and Betrayal.
It might have been a one night thing but, if this happens again, then an inventory of you personal and emotional life is in order.
And with your relationship, (your married right?) you need to confirm how you're feeling. Are you happy? Do you want a commitment?
You are a mature young woman. Now act like it. You've got to own up to who you are.
Make a decision; don't leave yourself out in Limbo too long. It's a scary and destructive place.
I'm not preaching A.A. or Sex-Addicts anonymous at you.
I am simply trying to make you probe into yourself about what is going on.
If you ever want to talk you can PM me.
I hope the best for you.
evelady
08-01-2005, 05:26 PM
in the '70's when i started dancing, i think i was the first dancer in that town to kiss each custy after a stage tip. no tongue, just a full lipsmack. it raked in the dough. then the aids scare came upon us and talk of a saliva test for hiv and i changed the kissing to flashing (wore a skirt or gown). can't judge someone for doing what i did, but now that i'm older i think about where their mouth has been. and now that i'm older, i'm pretty sure i know where it's been!! course over the years i've gone from being the one night stand queen of the western world to thinking these days that men are somehow unclean. i know it sounds mean, but after working around them for over 20 years, i don't like them much any more. so i couldn't kiss one now, much less have sex with another one. they carry really bad diseases, rather like flies. you need flies to get rid of the manure piles but you don't wanna kiss 'em.
kitana
08-02-2005, 05:21 AM
Yeah, I guilty of a few lip-locks in my day too. Usually either liquor or oversexed was the reason.
I don't really see the big deal. I peck quite a few of my regs after a big tip or a few dances.
Everyone else is a kiss on the cheek.
Don't worry about it, it's really not a big deal.