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standupguy
07-25-2005, 08:10 PM
I think this all may matter where you dance. In Vegas, LA, San Fran- seems like guys go to these clubs to come. And dancers tell them "I will make you come." Maybe in other parts of the nation- where the dances aren't as crazy contact- it's less likely and more "pathetic."

lenny_nero
07-26-2005, 01:32 PM
I think this all may matter where you dance. In Vegas, LA, San Fran- seems like guys go to these clubs to come.

I really have a tough time believing many guys at all could come that way, without a hand in the pants or something. Most teenagers don't come from dry-humping on the couch...

I'm guessing those guys going to Vegas, LA, San Fran are going to the clubs to come, but I'm also guessing they're getting extras to do it.

Yea
07-26-2005, 04:35 PM
^Your guess is wrong^

I’ve had many guys do this throughout the course of my career and I have NEVER EVER given a HJ or anything of that nature..

Some guys have no control and cum in one freaking song (which truly pisses me of) .. others cant help it after a long session of lap dancing.

It generally doesn’t bother me unless he is gross and does the whole “body shake” thing.. YUK!!!

Besides, as I stated earlier.. I only dance with a towel on the custy's lap to avoid exchange of anything!!!

EffeZX
07-26-2005, 05:32 PM
Always lapdanced in my jean shorts.......and yes it has happened to me.....more times than I care to remember. Only thing this taught me is that there are a lot of people out there with a short "trigger".

sxydancer
07-26-2005, 05:42 PM
This all seems kind of weird to me. Maybe I am just a jaded New Yorker. Of course it happens. I just try not to think about it. And I am sure there are dancers who make it part of the sales pitch.

venusofwillendorf
07-28-2005, 08:24 PM
do guys have an issue with you putting down a towel beforehand? have any gotten pissy or tipped less? how do you carry the towel with you?

cpeters1
07-28-2005, 09:03 PM
Interesting topic as I got a world class grind just the other day. Up to that point the idea of cumming in my pants never occurred to me. But this girl was really good and seemed determined to get me off. After 3 songs I think she was a little disappointed that I did not get off, and she was sweating like crazy, she really worked it. However, thinking about it made it difficult to let go, or make the decision to let go, and then it got too rough, to much grind, so I knew it was not going to happen. It was fun though. I don't think I'd put a condom on ahead of time, that would feel gross, and if I did get off, I'd move her off ASAP. It is gross to come in your pants, as any guy knows when you wake up in the middle of the night after a good dream.

infra-red
07-30-2005, 03:49 AM
I will never understand how a guy can spooge from a lap dance. Its about the least intimate thing you can do. People everywhere, bouncers staring at you, bad music. I just don't get it.

HotDancer76
12-12-2005, 10:09 AM
i hate having guys come in their pants during a dance, it's like have the respect to push me away before doing it. NO, it's not a turn on, it's totally gross that someone can cum after a half of song. I know I'm hot and have good chemistry, but open your mouth and tell someone of the deal, cumming happens it's not a big deal, but hiding it is. I have to change my outfit, panties, and clean up sometimes twice a night. I do think it's pathetic to do it and not tell someone. I do hope I never get any std's from it. I have been asking around to buy plastic lined thongs or a shwamy lined thong. A shwamy is what I used when I was a diver to wipe the water off my skin, it's thick and water does not seep through. Buying these panties or making them will be expensive, any suggestions?

Yekhefah
12-12-2005, 10:28 AM
I had one guy do it, but he was a weird little nerd who had a crush on me and came into the club because that's the only way I would talk to him. He bought one 3-for-1 nude dance and about halfway through the last song, I noticed a sticky spot that wasn't there before. YUCK!!! I just pretended not to notice and quit touching. He never said anything about it; I think he was hoping I wouldn't notice.

Pretty damn gross though.

Cally
12-12-2005, 10:58 AM
I've had a couple of guys do this all I can say is YUCK. One guy tipped me $200 in the champagne room to rub my tits on his crotch... I put my booty towel down and rubbed them lightly on his upper thigh(didnt wanna really touch his crotch) and then he started moaning I was like 'oh god' I moved away and went back to rubbing on his knee hes like 'okay you can stop im done' :O

sander8son
12-12-2005, 11:20 AM
hahah, great thread. i can't count the number of times ive blown it durring a dance. but i live in a high contact area and that was the goal(of me and the dancer) most of the time. i dont know where you all dance, but around here thats not uncommon. i used to wrap it but thats pointless. cuz you have to be aroused to put a condom on and im not gonna do it halfway through a dance(talk about freaking a chick out). so i stopped doing that and just started warning her when i was ready to pop. never had a dancer back away or flip out.

maybe the whole terrified of splooge ordeal is just an SW chicks thing.

Yekhefah
12-12-2005, 11:43 AM
There is a difference between being "terrified" and being disgusted. Most of us are not in the business because we enjoy having strangers spurt their fluids all over us.

Casual Observer
12-12-2005, 01:11 PM
I will never understand how a guy can spooge from a lap dance.

I share the same sentiment.

Even after SCing for 15 years, I just don't see how it happens, but then again, maybe I just lack the requisite oversensitivity...

Casual Observer
12-12-2005, 01:43 PM
Careful JZ; keep going down that route and we'll have ourselves a sweet Blue Side thread going here. All that's necessary is for Jenny or Ev to jump in and start something...

:D

rain
12-12-2005, 02:19 PM
Do they tell you that they put a condom on? LOL seriously. I don't work in a club where friction isn't an option so a guy coming-er excuse me, splooging LOL would just be completely out of the ordinary. I can tell you however that pregnancy would be nearly impossible (but wouldn't that make a nice made for Lifetime Movie? Lapdance Mother- LMAO). STDs well...maybe but aren't nude contact dances practically unheard of? (unless this is an extras club?)


In rhode island full nude contact lap dances are the norm in the champagne rooms, but it is your choice if you want to get nude or not.

Lyssa Lynn
12-12-2005, 02:24 PM
This is some funny shit!! Cumming in your pants...Whatever! It is what it is. However if this does happen you could show some appreciation $$! }:D I had a customer cum his pants after only 3 songs. I guess he was embarassed, he just stopped, said "close but no cigar", handed me the min. dance fee and shooed me away. :O The guy was wearing light colored pants, his spooge was very visible. :D

kikin
12-12-2005, 07:19 PM
hahah, great thread. i can't count the number of times ive blown it durring a dance.
If you cum in your pants because a girl is grinding on your lap, dude you got issues!

TruePlayer
12-12-2005, 07:42 PM
If she doesn't make you splooge it wasn't a very good dance. Why would anyone buy a dance where this was not the expectation?

doc-catfish
12-12-2005, 08:56 PM
PL? I think the real PLs are the ones who spend money without the expectation of this kind of fun. Just to talk or get teased/blue balled. That is really pathetic, IMO.
Did you make their money? Well, I guess how someone else spends it should be none of your concern then.

Gee, I wondered when Derek was going to pay us a return visit. ::)

TruePlayer
12-12-2005, 09:24 PM
Did you make their money? Well, I guess how someone else spends it should be none of your concern then.

By that reasoning it is impossible to spend ones money in a pathetic manner. I think you can think of counter examples to that on your own.

Thanks for playing, anyway. Have a good night.

threlayer
12-12-2005, 09:30 PM
No, not plenty, not even many, in fact hardly any, but not none. Who knows their motives, maybe more than to just get a regular. TP doesn't know how to play the game offered in clubs.

If he wants it cheap, he should find an appropriate massage parlor.

evan_essence
12-12-2005, 10:40 PM
i used to wrap it but thats pointless. cuz you have to be aroused to put a condom on and im not gonna do it halfway through a dance(talk about freaking a chick out).I'm totally sympathetic. Perhaps these would help. http://tinyurl.com/cazt8 (http://tinyurl.com/cazt8)


Careful JZ; keep going down that route and we'll have ourselves a sweet Blue Side thread going here. All that's necessary is for Jenny or Ev to jump in and start something...:DYou mean like the above comment?

-Ev

Jenny
12-12-2005, 10:52 PM
I'm the only one who really doesn't care? I mean, frankly, even if you are actually sitting on the guy when he does it, the likelihood that you are going to get any one you is slim to none. Most guys have like 2 tablespoons of semen in any given ejaculation (Penthouse letters in which guys spew buckets of cum notwithstanding). That is not likely to seep through layers of clothing. That being said, I don't want to be sitting on a guy if he does it - because, fluids gross me out. Like my sex-worker Achilles heel. It's not likely to show through clothing (go on - ask me how I know). And judging a person's character by how easily they reach orgasm is really unreasonable in my opinion.

dlabtot
12-12-2005, 11:02 PM
And judging a person's character by how easily they reach orgasm is really unreasonable in my opinion.

who said anything about anyone's character? They may be fine upstanding citizens that you could trust with your life. I just happen to think that a guy who cums just because a pretty girl touches him is a sorry excuse for a man - no matter how good his 'character'. Just my humble opinion.

Jenny
12-12-2005, 11:05 PM
Yeah. The "sorry excuse for a man" I think is, intrinsically, judging his character. Hey - I can't stop you from doing it, I just don't think it's nice is all.

dlabtot
12-12-2005, 11:08 PM
^^^ Well, I guess that's one difference between you and me. I'm willing to let you have your say and explain what you think, but you seem to feel it necessary to tell me what I mean even when I've explicitly stated that it is not what I mean.

::)

Jenny
12-12-2005, 11:15 PM
Okay. I'm very sorry I censored you. Please explain how calling someone a sorry excuse for a man is not devaluing his character. You're absolutely right - to me it seems so obvious, that it doesn't require further explanation. But. Go on.

velvet
12-12-2005, 11:20 PM
ok guys wandering off topic

dlabtot
12-12-2005, 11:26 PM
Well it's pretty simple. As you stated, whether a person has a normal amount of self-control in regards to reaching orgasm has nothing to do with 'character', it is a different aspect of being. And yeah it's so obvious that it doesn't really require further explanation but since you insisted on one I'll try: I don't care whether my banker cums when he has a lap dance -- I only care about his character and that he will not defraud me or steal my money. I also don't care whether he can change a tire but I would say any guy lacking some disability who can't is a sorry excuse for a man -- even if he has the most upstanding character possible, and can exercise a minimum of sexual self control. There are many other aspects to being a man (or woman), some more important than others.

kikin
12-13-2005, 08:55 AM
^^^Maybe it is a character flaw brought about by a psychophysiological deficiency akin to wetting the bed as an adult.

kitana
12-13-2005, 09:15 AM
Umm, gee, I've stated my opinion repeatedly, I have nothing new to say on the subject that I haven't already said. I think these guys are pathetic; you don't - I think spraying semen on the inside your pants indicates a lack of self-control; apparently you don't.



If comtinual contact through the pants makes them cum, and therefore makes them pathetic, then I shudder to think what I am, lol.

I can cum from just having a good dream w/o any contact at all! As well as cumming from stimulation through my pants as well. (I guess I'm easy in that way, lol ;) )

I know you don't agree, and it IS kinda gross, but it is a natural function, and some guys are just easier to stimulate than others.

dlabtot
12-13-2005, 09:43 AM
^^^ First of all, you aren't a man so the point is moot anyway.

But no, it's not 'being able to cum easily' that is pathetic. It's not being able to exercise self-control and doing it in an inappropriate setting that is pathetic. Perhaps there are clubs where it is considered appropriate -- I certainly would not want to patronize them.

I'd like to hear more from the guys who proudly do splooge in their pants. Why aren't they here defending themselves? I"d guess because most are ashamed to admit it.

kitana
12-13-2005, 09:47 AM
^^^ First of all, you aren't a man so the point is moot anyway.


But I have balls in my pants, so I thought that made me an "honorary" man, lol!

I totally get your point, and I'm just picking on you. After all the time I have been on here, you should know that.

Tigress
12-13-2005, 10:04 AM
It is a very normal thing for a guy to cum during dances. I mean think of some of the men. They have little or no sex life with their wives. So they come in to the club and get dances. Now some of these men haven't been touched other than by themselves in a while. So any rubbing or grinding will bring the inevitable ending. Does it bother me, not at all. I sometimes like it.

kikin
12-13-2005, 10:21 AM
I can cum from just having a good dream w/o any contact at all! As well as cumming from stimulation through my pants as well. (I guess I'm easy in that way, lol ;) )
For a woman to climax so easily doesn't necessarily carry the same stigma nor the same devastating consequence to our society as for a guy. As a matter of fact, I think your female sensitivity would be appreciated and sought after by many guys if for nothing else but as an ego-boosting mechanism for the male machismo. On the other hand, speaking purely anectdotally, the ability of a MAN to withstand mild sexual stimulation through the clothing is a preferred "character" trait in our society. Not to mention it preserses our civilization. Think about a civilization where most of the males are not able to fully consumate sexual union due to premature climaxing into the inside of their pants from cursory grinding of female ass on their lap...such a society would become extinct in relatively short order. Therefore, IMO male oversensitity is a flawed "characater" trait which has far-reaching consequences beyond the mere ego-driven machismo of which most of us guys suffer.

kitana
12-13-2005, 10:31 AM
^^^ Oh I fully understand and agree to an extent.

I just love picking on some of our posters; that's all. It's just all my pent-up sexual frustrations, I guess. And you are right, guys do like girls that can climax easily, and have multiples. It's totally an ego boost.

Oh and I forgot to say it before, welcome to SW. And in case you haven't guessed; yes I am a bitch! ;)

kikin
12-13-2005, 10:33 AM
Oh and I forgot to say it before, welcome to SW. And in case you haven't guessed; yes I am a bitch! ;)
Thanks for the welcome...and yeah I luv bitches...when i push you push right back...

kitana
12-13-2005, 10:38 AM
Thanks for the welcome...and yeah I luv bitches...when i push you push right back...

Good thing too! LOL don't take me seriously most of the time, hell I don't take myself seriously most of the time! (except when Boston or UK play, or when I'm on the golf course.)

Keep that kind of talk up and I'll have to go get the rope and the wips!!!!

BTW, have you ever been tied up in a tortiseshell?

Tigress
12-13-2005, 10:39 AM
Keep that kind of talk up and I'll have to go get the rope and the wips!!!!

BTW, have you ever been tied up in a tortiseshell?

OHH this is getting fun!

kikin
12-13-2005, 10:43 AM
Keep that kind of talk up and I'll have to go get the rope and the wips!!!!
Is that a promise? :P

BTW, have you ever been tied up in a tortiseshell?
I can't recall 8)

kitana
12-13-2005, 10:49 AM
I can't recall 8)

Japanese Bondage, it consists of being tied up in a diamond pattern with or without the knots going from the neck area down in the front through the crotch area and up the back. Variations include the arms being pinned down to the sides, and or the legs suspended at the waist and knees bent in the traditional OB/GYN position.

Lots of fun!!!! }:D ;)

dlabtot
12-13-2005, 10:51 AM
And you are right, guys do like girls that can climax easily, and have multiples.

What do you mean? In my experience all girls are like that... ;)

kitana
12-13-2005, 10:56 AM
What do you mean? In my experience all girls are like that... ;)

Ya braggart!!!!

Lol, maybe you just get easy climax women too!

Honestly though, I didn't used to be that way until I got pierced. And now...well besides the money let's say I have another reason to do lap dances.

sander8son
12-13-2005, 11:04 AM
actually kikin, the ability of a man to cum quick was what allowed for the continued existence of man. if you go back before civilization, a man was most prone to attack when he was having sex. so inorder to pass on his genes he had to finish quick(wether or not the woman finished was irrelivant). if it took everyone an hour, they'd be succeptible to attack by other men/beasts much longer and therefor there'd be more casualties and less chance of survival of the species.

Do i cum quick? not anymore. Did i before i ever got laid. you bet. Now it takes a bit more. But im sure i could still cum from a dance if i had the right dancer. im not talking light touching here. im talking heavy two way contact grinding.

now its changed to, "i can understand the mechanics of how it could happen. but i think its pathetic for a guy to let it happen." well, why is it pathetic to have an orgasm, but not pathetic to be there paying chicks for their company in the first place? if you ask me, just being there is pathetic. atleast a guy who gets release is getting SOMETHING for his money, regardless of where he cums.

is it disgusting? maybe to you. im fairly comfortable with my own body. its MY spunk. its not like i filled my pants with the jizz of four random guys durring a dance. in a club you're surrounded by a bunch of filthy perverts. its the SEX INDUSTRY. having my own cum in my pants, doesn't seem that gross. is it gross when you get a dance and the chicks secretions get on your pants? i mean what the hell girls?!?!? show some controll. nothing is more pathetic than a naturally lubed vag. you're arguing against nature, in an effort to make yourself feel macho for being able to show some control and hold out. why bother? id rather enjoy myself.

also, i dont see a connection between cumming durring a dance and wetting the bed. maybe there is and im an exception.

kikin
12-13-2005, 11:05 AM
Japanese Bondage, it consists of being tied up in a diamond pattern with or without the knots going from the neck area down in the front through the crotch area and up the back. Variations include the arms being pinned down to the sides, and or the legs suspended at the waist and knees bent in the traditional OB/GYN position.
I can't recall doing that :-[

Lots of fun!!!! }:D ;)
If you say so... :)

t45m
12-13-2005, 11:23 AM
I went to a strip club when I was 18 and had this absolutely stunning chick give me a lap dance. She was totally nude and was grinding on me like crazy. I was obviously totally erect and she even positioned my cock so that her snatch would be able to dry-hump it better. Anyways, after two songs and her licking the nape of my neck and moaning in my ear, I could tell that I was about to cum. She could tell too, and instead of stopping or slowing down, she turned it up a notch. She even "milked" it while I was cumming. I enjoyed the hell out of it, but was totally disgusted afterwards because I was all dirty and sticky. I tried to clean up in the bathroom, but just ended up leaving my friends in the club and taking a cab home so I could shower. The dancer seemed very pleased with herself though.

I've been to strip clubs since, but I've never cum again. I've had dances as good or better than that one, but I think that I'm just a lot more sexually experienced now and it takes a lot more to make me cum.

If you're not getting much play, and if you get a stripper that really works you, I can understand why someone would "splooge".

Mallory
12-13-2005, 12:45 PM
ok maybe i work in a dirty club or something , but it has happened to mee several times
thats what the towel is for *tee hee* well Canada is a little more relaxed i guess

kikin
12-13-2005, 01:55 PM
^^^do you have a stack of towels in the back? or do you reuse the same towel on the next suckah? do you handle the towel barehand or with latex gloves?

Yekhefah
12-13-2005, 02:18 PM
I could not imagine working at a club where I had to put a towel on the customer's lap. Yuck. I thought my last club was getting skanky, but thank goodness it never got to that point!